It was Saturday, around midnight I was coming from a party and went to local CVS/Walgreens to buy a marker.
I went in and was for a few minutes as I turn at the end of the aisle a girl with her PJ on makes sexual eye contact and I smile and she smiles back.
she was entering the aisle as I was turning so distance between each other was less than 3 feet away from personal space.She hold eye contact as I hold it as well and I smiled back. I at first didnt realize it until seconds later that I should have apparoched.
then as Im fighting with myself to talk with her and what to say or go direct or whatever stupidity that was keeping me.
I went towards the cashier to pay and she is with her cart at the aisle and she is looking at me from a far playing wiht her hair or IOIing.
it was 12:15 am.
I wait abit as Im looking for change or whatever and pay.
I go out and think what to do , and was texting myself as asking myself what to do in midst of uncertainty.
I felt I was now being creepy if I approached her as I'm outside the store, but it was clear at that moment that that type of IOI and sexual energy from her and me towards her at this time of night is looking for company aka sex.
I see her leave in her car and as I at the light she gets next to my car in her car,we get to the light and next to each other in our cars and its obvious that I should do something.
I get a text from a friend out of the blue and tell him whats going on, he LOL'd cause he never had that happen to him.
Anyways,
I didnt open nor approached , I hesitated and didnt know if I was creepying her out.
I know masculinity was what was going to take to make this work and waht she was waiting for.
next she turns and say fuck it,
Then she reepears next to me in her car, I didnt find courage to turn my head or what to do again we are at stop light already blocks away from the store.
then we drive near the motels section of miami and she gets in front of me and turns to right. then as I drive I she she turned and was waiting or had been waiting half a block.
Anywyas I was confused whether she thought I was following her or theres something wrong with my inner game or way of thinking when some girl opens that window to have sex or IOI's without my doing anything.
Afterwards I wanted to beat myself up cause I didnt do anything which was stupid of me cause this never happened to me.
Typical community advice poisons men's minds by saying we have to try hard to get women.When there can be situation where you dont have to do anythign but talk to her and pace and lead to sex.
I think it would have been awful calibration if i NEGGED the woman for looking at me sexually rather than use that energy of sex and escalate.
Still I would like to hear anyone would have done in this situation feel free to comment aby observations
thanks
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>Typical community advice poisons men's minds by saying we have to try hard to get women.When there >can be situation where you dont have to do anythign but talk to her and pace and lead to sex.
Exactly. What happened was a "dead approach invitation." What she was doing was giving you an approach invitation. When a woman gives an approach invitation you have a few seconds to respond. At that point instead of messing with your own brain thinking "what kind of technique" I can use on this girl you simply get rapport and open.
>I think it would have been awful calibration if i NEGGED the woman for looking at me sexually rather >than use that energy of sex and escalate.
Agree. If you neg a woman who is giving you an approach invitation you are doing a miscalibration. She is doing something positive, she is showing interest. Negging her on that is a mistake.
>Still I would like to hear anyone would have done in this situation feel free to comment aby observations
>thanks[/quote]
One can be busy with other stuff and not have the time to react on approach invitations. The best way of dealing with approach invitations is to either respond with rapport under seconds or not respond ad all and forget her. If you do not respond fast on approach invitation you have lost the chance but that does not need to become an obsession!Cheers, Franco
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Well how about just "hi"? Always works for me...
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Originally Posted by Sandee
I hesitated cause the night before I tried taking a girl I met to a Motel here in miami to have sex and she freaked out when I took her there, eventhough minutes before at the beach that night I was fingering and making out with her.
Weird or my miscalibration?
I think that this particular situation was because you pushed to fast, but without possibility of real close... The girl probably knew the sex was coming, but the way you approached the seduction may have been too pushy (not enought pulling).
Also what I'd suggest to you, in general, (and this might contradict a lot of other literature) is when you are under too much pressure, just let the opportunity pass and relax. You are just not ready at this specific time. The best think to do it to start from small talk with somebody with who you can communicate to avoid and to get used to pressure, so later you can do a normal approach.
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I wanted to edit the name of this post to
"FR:missed casual encounter for sex at latenight drugstrore"
I would have said hi,
I know this I fucked up , but I know its on and we are at a drugstore and she is horny...and we are both in cars so I never had this issue.
I'm sure I didnt need to makeout necesarily, but needed to subcommunicate sex is going to happen but not verbalize it and timebridge to share a late night dessert together and BOOM close..
in the past,pregame I pick-up a girl from a pharmacy and she was outside waiting , I offered her a ride cause it was late and bad neighbourhood.
she gave me a hesitant physical shit test and I acted cool.I was casual not wanting anything just chillin', minutes in the car I bought and invited her beer from the store, we cruised around for 20 minutes and I remember I AFC'd and I asked her where you want to go? and she said anywhere,I dont mind...I assumed and took her straight to motel and she fucked me hard and wanted more and more.That was one of the night I will never forget.
I never saw her again cause when a week later passed by , she was with a man.her BF or husband whatever.
I never had a chance to ask her for her phone.
I also had a woman whom I met and she gave me physical shit test before going up to her place,we both didnt have time for a date and just met her, I texted her to meetup and called her, I told her that "its too bad that we wont be able to see each other that we are both busy? " she then went horny sexual on the phone about her wanting to suck my cock...I just responded
"you are something arent you what am I going to do with you ? "
( in a deep sexual tone of voice ) I told her where she lives by and she told me, then I asked her
"how many minutes do you need to get ready?" she said 15, I said cool and hanged up.
I took a shower , I made sure to look sexy, got there called her...she wasnt that cute but she was ready to go by her vibe and on the phone.
she was stalling and I just spoke with a deep voice and noticed her congruence testing me non verbally,physical shit test ,
I just stared at her with eye contact with a sly sexy smile...and she invited me up....I was talking to her for abit about myself and as she opened the door to her appartment she got on her knees and wanted to suck on my dick, I unziped my jeans and she was sucking it like it was delicious candy.
we had sex and I remmember I made her squirt and she wanted anal, iwas partially leading but she was just out of control horny and I LOVED IT! We dirty talked and I aksed her if she wanted to cocks inside her and I used a dildo to DP her while I was inside her...she said it was amazing..
afterwards. I never saw her again.eventhough I exchanged emails her telling that we should do it again sometime...but she was supposed to move to midwest soon so we lost touch.
Last encounters like this when you asked about her afterwards or kindah seeking rapport....it make it look really needy and clingy.
The girl would get turned off I guess, So I dont do that.
Im surprised anyone hasnt posted any comments here,has this not ever happend to anyone? a casual encounter for sex ?
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Sandee, I'm going to answer your first post.
Now that you're thinking about this girl in retrospect, it's obvious she was down for sex and she was giving you lots of huge, blatant IOIs and signals.
And you're kicking yourself that you did nothing to respond, playing it cold instead.
I think you had a mismatch in energies. She was in a very outward state, and you were in a very inward state, inside your head. You probably weren't smiling and thinking about an intellectual task at hand.
It would be like as if you were doing math problems and deep in thought, and then suddenly found yourself teleported into a dance club. You'd be thrown off, and freeze up.
It's best if when you're out you have that "inner smile" and checking out the chicks and horny and ready for anything and everything to go down.
But it's so rare and strange that girl is just ready to fuck like a female dog in heat, that we get lazy about being in an outward state.
So what's my advice to you ultimately in this case? My suggestion is that perhaps the problem occurred BEFORE you ever got to the CVS.
So is there anyway your state and mindset could have been different when you casually go out, so that when this opportunity arises, you're mentally ready to take advantage of it?
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Thursday, December 16, 2010
Having sex with girls outside of your place, Im STUCK! Logistics
Im having this issue.
When its time to close and she seems horny and have sex its usually not at the seduction location.
Than when I am thinking about taking her to a place like to enter the motel, she freaks out and gets major LMR.
I cant take her to my place cause Im temporaily sharing it with someone while school starts again for me to move out on my own.
Also I tried in the car but it isnt comfortable at all.
in the past I never got LMR like this but its predictable a girl would get freaked out when she enters a motel and starts feeling like a slut.
last girls didnt care about motel they were really horny and I just took them.
but Im now finding that a problem when I have made out and touched her sexually and she is turned on and it isnt at the seduction location.
She gets honry or throws sexualinnuendo at me and is horny and cant figure what to do .....and if we driving somewhere and I drive in to motel.
Its kindah funny but frustrating......
I'd like to ask any experienced guys out there who have had to deal with such problem.
once I move out , and get girls to my place would be smoother pickup.
Im encountering this issues cause in the past if I let it pass and leave it for a date, her attraction dissapates and i dont hear from girls...So I decided once its on and they get all sexual then I should go for the Fast seduction.
any insight would help thanks.-
PS: I'm probably not keeping her sexually aroused on the drive to the motel.
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The only perfect solution to this is to get your own place.
One solution: you pull her into your car and just finger her or do oral sex. And then the NEXT time you meet up with her, pull her to a cheap motel. She'll be cool with it by then. It does add extra steps.
Or just don't tell her where you're going, just say "Let's Go". When you get to the motel, tell her that you LIVE in the motel temporarily because you're moving just to get her inside the door. That's just BS to turn off her objections. She'll see once you get inside that you're not living there, but at least you're inside.
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I noiced doc holliday uses the bathrroom and I treid that and it doesnt work at times, most consistent is your place ala janka.
Adam lyons posted a video and he mentioned changin plans and watching a movie pull....
but only time I had work is when girl was already attracted...I remeber HB susan saradon FB, who told me she wanted to go somewhere with me provate, we did it in a hotel. also the black girl in DR , I picked her up due to safety and I dorve around abit and bought her beer we talk for 15 minutes and drove to motel and she fucked me.
so these scenarios are possible...just have to lead and pump her state.
LA Tripp pointed out :
Good. I know society would have you think escalation is creepy, but it's only creepy if you do it in a creepy way. Escalation is normal and life won't progress without it ;)
i think alot of sticking points in my head would clear out once I move the fuck out.
Yes, moving out will help a lot, this is true. However, you still have to take responsibility and personal power over your life. And that starts within your own head. Who leads your life? Who makes your decisions for what directions you will go? Who decides what you wear, what you watch, what you listen to, where you go, what you eat, who your friends are, what you will do with your life? The answer to all of those questions SHOULD be YOU.
Also, I know you said about logistics in closing doesnt matter. Which is true based on arrousing the girl and pulling back.
Nope, based on arrousing, spiking her BT. Pulling back is just to calibrate and raise the BT more.
I just fucking wonder I am going to have to experiment closing women to the motel , i might have to frame it as "an adventure we both want" and spiking her BT by usisng positive framing how spontaneous and adventurous we can both be.
Yes, it ALL depends on the frame which YOU set with the girl.
CJ says :
. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
comments :
TheWolfHowls - pay attention. This is exactly how I feel about the whole logistic deal, as you know. Like I said before, if you keep thinking in this logistic frame of mind, you are most likely creating barriers that didn't exist in the first place.
As for the rest of the post, it's not that I really disagree with what he is saying, but I hate the way it is presented. But you all already knew that
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Its just to much stuff to remember, these logistics only cloud the mind with unnecessary do do!
What most guys dont realize is its really simple! There is no need to over complicate things, with step by step scenario guides..
Wow.. This post was a total head fuck.. I need a glass of water
When its time to close and she seems horny and have sex its usually not at the seduction location.
Than when I am thinking about taking her to a place like to enter the motel, she freaks out and gets major LMR.
I cant take her to my place cause Im temporaily sharing it with someone while school starts again for me to move out on my own.
Also I tried in the car but it isnt comfortable at all.
in the past I never got LMR like this but its predictable a girl would get freaked out when she enters a motel and starts feeling like a slut.
last girls didnt care about motel they were really horny and I just took them.
but Im now finding that a problem when I have made out and touched her sexually and she is turned on and it isnt at the seduction location.
She gets honry or throws sexualinnuendo at me and is horny and cant figure what to do .....and if we driving somewhere and I drive in to motel.
Its kindah funny but frustrating......
I'd like to ask any experienced guys out there who have had to deal with such problem.
once I move out , and get girls to my place would be smoother pickup.
Im encountering this issues cause in the past if I let it pass and leave it for a date, her attraction dissapates and i dont hear from girls...So I decided once its on and they get all sexual then I should go for the Fast seduction.
any insight would help thanks.-
PS: I'm probably not keeping her sexually aroused on the drive to the motel.
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The only perfect solution to this is to get your own place.
One solution: you pull her into your car and just finger her or do oral sex. And then the NEXT time you meet up with her, pull her to a cheap motel. She'll be cool with it by then. It does add extra steps.
Or just don't tell her where you're going, just say "Let's Go". When you get to the motel, tell her that you LIVE in the motel temporarily because you're moving just to get her inside the door. That's just BS to turn off her objections. She'll see once you get inside that you're not living there, but at least you're inside.
---------------------------------------------------------------
I noiced doc holliday uses the bathrroom and I treid that and it doesnt work at times, most consistent is your place ala janka.
Adam lyons posted a video and he mentioned changin plans and watching a movie pull....
but only time I had work is when girl was already attracted...I remeber HB susan saradon FB, who told me she wanted to go somewhere with me provate, we did it in a hotel. also the black girl in DR , I picked her up due to safety and I dorve around abit and bought her beer we talk for 15 minutes and drove to motel and she fucked me.
so these scenarios are possible...just have to lead and pump her state.
LA Tripp pointed out :
Good. I know society would have you think escalation is creepy, but it's only creepy if you do it in a creepy way. Escalation is normal and life won't progress without it ;)
i think alot of sticking points in my head would clear out once I move the fuck out.
Yes, moving out will help a lot, this is true. However, you still have to take responsibility and personal power over your life. And that starts within your own head. Who leads your life? Who makes your decisions for what directions you will go? Who decides what you wear, what you watch, what you listen to, where you go, what you eat, who your friends are, what you will do with your life? The answer to all of those questions SHOULD be YOU.
Also, I know you said about logistics in closing doesnt matter. Which is true based on arrousing the girl and pulling back.
Nope, based on arrousing, spiking her BT. Pulling back is just to calibrate and raise the BT more.
I just fucking wonder I am going to have to experiment closing women to the motel , i might have to frame it as "an adventure we both want" and spiking her BT by usisng positive framing how spontaneous and adventurous we can both be.
Yes, it ALL depends on the frame which YOU set with the girl.
CJ says :
. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
comments :
TheWolfHowls - pay attention. This is exactly how I feel about the whole logistic deal, as you know. Like I said before, if you keep thinking in this logistic frame of mind, you are most likely creating barriers that didn't exist in the first place.
As for the rest of the post, it's not that I really disagree with what he is saying, but I hate the way it is presented. But you all already knew that
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Its just to much stuff to remember, these logistics only cloud the mind with unnecessary do do!
What most guys dont realize is its really simple! There is no need to over complicate things, with step by step scenario guides..
Wow.. This post was a total head fuck.. I need a glass of water
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Personal long post quick thoughts prioir exam
Ok I have to post on
Kdawg russian library pickup
and Natural pilates instructor pickup
I also caught up on Code of the NAtural by rob brinded whom I think is good material for bodylanguage aside from listening to music and getting in state by using Swingcatts beliefs affirmations.
Lloyd' s video girls around the world which gives good IOIs to girls...
I think if you act and believe that you are goodlooking the girl will test this by your congruence and bodylanguage..therefore perceive you as an attractive man.
this triggers her hardwire and bypasses other BS verbal game.
I also enjoy Elicitng IOIs material from Entropy, Badboys material on "You would be lucky to be with me" in your head as you appraoch a girl or talk to her in your subcommunication and eye contact.
I have to practice my old denis rodaman game cause my confidence and my innergame is lacking keeping eye contact..jesse charger pointed out in his blonde post email about guys who restrict their passions...I m guilty of this and this has been a sticking point for me...When I stopped for awhile masturbating and just pushed myself not to ...my sex drive goes up and testaterone goes up that I have the balls to do so..
Im seeing myself attracted to big cuban ass..i saw an older MILF blonde who I wanted to open but it seemed she was into oterh shite* I ws on busy schedule and studying so I said fuck it'
When Im studying bitches can wait.I also had looked into YAD's dayagem.com great vids and great advice on daygame.
Krauser has great vids also but I think he could be better if he used some NLP.
that being said... I found my sticking points and Im enjoying jessse's help.
I felt today a bit obsessed over susan saradon look alike MILF whom was my FB, she sent me emails and it looks like she is candidate for Long Distance FB. I really have to pass this exam and reviewd that I have to study 10-12 hours. SO crackbabys advice is GOOD. the hypnosis Jeff gave me is working for motivation, its going to be good for opening sets, I feel rusty and I feel I can do good.
I also noticed on deren browns daygame, I learned from Jeff about rapport and openning in daygame...
I might use that also, he gave me great routine for Comfort connection, I think in comfort its important to use NLP to deepen the connection and make it mutual male to female and not BFFF.
I also followed female psycology from Vin which is excellent for daygame and Im going to try it on a girl from London :
here is her pic
anyways she sems young and is from london, I have plans to go to brasil in feb march and start a program this JULY
another thing is that I have to imporve my skills ,I had a daydream about HBgymasian and run some californai pimp game.
I have top talk to ELTOPO cause I have to review my stack of reframing beliefs to frame myself and california pimps game.
I think its good stuff to bang hot girls but not sure yet.
I also liked johnny wolf's DVD on pua cribs so I picked out a car I might buy as a prize for myself I alwys wanted..
So I can do classic look ala Paul Janka or high value look or young hipster look. either way I love this car andIm planning to own one.
This is it!
that being said I plan to move to either downtown apt or south beach. maybe downtown.
so far I have planned to do this residency so lets see how this goes, next steop once I pass is prbably California liscense to practice dentistry. I want to stay in Miami causeI love miami and I dont see myselfin NYC.
I also miss HBrussian, she was hot and sexy and she would escalet on me...she really was in love with me...andI really loved her..i was an asshole cause I cant be needy and communicative with her cause she would get turned off, I rather dissapear and then as high value reapear to join me for a weekend here in Miami, so far things look good.
miami heat has brought great things. in terms of my ideas i want tomarry a school teacher or lan technician or dentist...i have to be high value and lead.
I want my kids to be talented and artistic.
I also ran my DHV storeies I used to as my painting from hispital and qualifying myself about me being artistic and helping people with their smile.
I also plan to lose weight and get a plastic surgery of my chin.
http://www.ienhance.com/articles/face/male-moguls-its-all-in-the-chin
This will enhance my passive value...I really think that I want a aesthetic dental office in south beach and cater to the high society with my work.
I really feel artistic enought to give thouse services and give my best. also have good looking women working in my office and an artsy black marble floor and white celing
and have an office where I treat regular people in another location.
I also want to travel to FRance, Brasil, London, Italy , to learn art and cosmetic procedures and take courses. I plan on doing a course in UCLA so that will be LA.
I will eb the cosmetic guru of smiles and want to have my own lab person from europe or brasil, make her my wife if she is hot. I really feel that all this is possible if I push myself. HARDER.
I want this and Im actually scared of death of this not coming true so Im going on a strict diet regimen as soon as I finish with exams.
I am planning on my hair grow to style it like this :
i really feel that Gamblers game is quite solid in psycologuy foiundation. We have to MODEL people who are high status, their behaviours and beliefs...I do plan to read more about them in their books and interviews....
I think that I can achieve alot of things...
Entropy is right cause he encouraged to really start my life first and forget about women...this hasnt been easy for me...
AfterI got good Im getting desperate,,,but I would be running on em,pty and to be real, there is no better DHV than to live your life independently...having a career etc etc..
Im not scared anymore...I rad madoff sucide and I think he might have thought he left with money and it would be hard to sue him...now picard is chasing everyone...I applaud picard cause If it were me the victims have pushed Picard to be creative and take action to pursue and sue...even if he had no grounds but it would force an investigation publicy...
Madoof ahd no choice but to either give up and talk or keep holign on...he had money so it wasnt becuse of lack of funds and he was homeless and poor....NO NO NO
it was because his concious....This reminded me of shwashank redemption and the WARDEN,
this is my next step in my chapter on my story to clear my name....
God know only why but Im not giving up...It s not time yet...its like Count of Monetecristo.
I ahve to build myself up first to then re apear unto them again...
I saw the movie and I think it was facinating and I relate to it so much...
i dont regreat going through this tough phase cause I learend more about myself than in my whole life....
I elarned to enjoy having best friends stand beside me, I learned to get good with women, had the best month of my LIFE ! ! !
And now I have to step up...all my friends are wealthy and happy and Im standing behind...alot of things God has showed ,me where I go is that its TIME for me to step up and Pass this test.
i can help my family and start my own LIFE and be a MAN, not a boy anymore.
YEah there are responsabilities and I have to adapt to society at that point.
Im happy that atleast I can move things forward away from my past, my past of fuckups and naive like montecristo....Now Im so prepared with conviction its like I have verbal skills of persuassion down.
reframing has been the best thing I learned from david barrons work.double bind and yes ladders with framing and NLP is just deadly...
WE will see how this works out but I had to write all this to stop this from me forgetting.
Kdawg russian library pickup
and Natural pilates instructor pickup
I also caught up on Code of the NAtural by rob brinded whom I think is good material for bodylanguage aside from listening to music and getting in state by using Swingcatts beliefs affirmations.
Lloyd' s video girls around the world which gives good IOIs to girls...
I think if you act and believe that you are goodlooking the girl will test this by your congruence and bodylanguage..therefore perceive you as an attractive man.
this triggers her hardwire and bypasses other BS verbal game.
I also enjoy Elicitng IOIs material from Entropy, Badboys material on "You would be lucky to be with me" in your head as you appraoch a girl or talk to her in your subcommunication and eye contact.
I have to practice my old denis rodaman game cause my confidence and my innergame is lacking keeping eye contact..jesse charger pointed out in his blonde post email about guys who restrict their passions...I m guilty of this and this has been a sticking point for me...When I stopped for awhile masturbating and just pushed myself not to ...my sex drive goes up and testaterone goes up that I have the balls to do so..
Im seeing myself attracted to big cuban ass..i saw an older MILF blonde who I wanted to open but it seemed she was into oterh shite* I ws on busy schedule and studying so I said fuck it'
When Im studying bitches can wait.I also had looked into YAD's dayagem.com great vids and great advice on daygame.
Krauser has great vids also but I think he could be better if he used some NLP.
that being said... I found my sticking points and Im enjoying jessse's help.
I felt today a bit obsessed over susan saradon look alike MILF whom was my FB, she sent me emails and it looks like she is candidate for Long Distance FB. I really have to pass this exam and reviewd that I have to study 10-12 hours. SO crackbabys advice is GOOD. the hypnosis Jeff gave me is working for motivation, its going to be good for opening sets, I feel rusty and I feel I can do good.
I also noticed on deren browns daygame, I learned from Jeff about rapport and openning in daygame...
I might use that also, he gave me great routine for Comfort connection, I think in comfort its important to use NLP to deepen the connection and make it mutual male to female and not BFFF.
I also followed female psycology from Vin which is excellent for daygame and Im going to try it on a girl from London :
here is her pic
anyways she sems young and is from london, I have plans to go to brasil in feb march and start a program this JULY
I have top talk to ELTOPO cause I have to review my stack of reframing beliefs to frame myself and california pimps game.
I think its good stuff to bang hot girls but not sure yet.
I also liked johnny wolf's DVD on pua cribs so I picked out a car I might buy as a prize for myself I alwys wanted..
its around $6,999
Its classic and looks HOT plus its a convertible.and in black.So I can do classic look ala Paul Janka or high value look or young hipster look. either way I love this car andIm planning to own one.
This is it!
that being said I plan to move to either downtown apt or south beach. maybe downtown.
so far I have planned to do this residency so lets see how this goes, next steop once I pass is prbably California liscense to practice dentistry. I want to stay in Miami causeI love miami and I dont see myselfin NYC.
I also miss HBrussian, she was hot and sexy and she would escalet on me...she really was in love with me...andI really loved her..i was an asshole cause I cant be needy and communicative with her cause she would get turned off, I rather dissapear and then as high value reapear to join me for a weekend here in Miami, so far things look good.
miami heat has brought great things. in terms of my ideas i want tomarry a school teacher or lan technician or dentist...i have to be high value and lead.
I want my kids to be talented and artistic.
I also ran my DHV storeies I used to as my painting from hispital and qualifying myself about me being artistic and helping people with their smile.
I also plan to lose weight and get a plastic surgery of my chin.
http://www.ienhance.com/articles/face/male-moguls-its-all-in-the-chin
This will enhance my passive value...I really think that I want a aesthetic dental office in south beach and cater to the high society with my work.
I really feel artistic enought to give thouse services and give my best. also have good looking women working in my office and an artsy black marble floor and white celing
and have an office where I treat regular people in another location.
I also want to travel to FRance, Brasil, London, Italy , to learn art and cosmetic procedures and take courses. I plan on doing a course in UCLA so that will be LA.
I will eb the cosmetic guru of smiles and want to have my own lab person from europe or brasil, make her my wife if she is hot. I really feel that all this is possible if I push myself. HARDER.
I want this and Im actually scared of death of this not coming true so Im going on a strict diet regimen as soon as I finish with exams.
I am planning on my hair grow to style it like this :
I think that I can achieve alot of things...
Entropy is right cause he encouraged to really start my life first and forget about women...this hasnt been easy for me...
AfterI got good Im getting desperate,,,but I would be running on em,pty and to be real, there is no better DHV than to live your life independently...having a career etc etc..
Im not scared anymore...I rad madoff sucide and I think he might have thought he left with money and it would be hard to sue him...now picard is chasing everyone...I applaud picard cause If it were me the victims have pushed Picard to be creative and take action to pursue and sue...even if he had no grounds but it would force an investigation publicy...
Madoof ahd no choice but to either give up and talk or keep holign on...he had money so it wasnt becuse of lack of funds and he was homeless and poor....NO NO NO
it was because his concious....This reminded me of shwashank redemption and the WARDEN,
this is my next step in my chapter on my story to clear my name....
God know only why but Im not giving up...It s not time yet...its like Count of Monetecristo.
I ahve to build myself up first to then re apear unto them again...
I saw the movie and I think it was facinating and I relate to it so much...
i dont regreat going through this tough phase cause I learend more about myself than in my whole life....
I elarned to enjoy having best friends stand beside me, I learned to get good with women, had the best month of my LIFE ! ! !
And now I have to step up...all my friends are wealthy and happy and Im standing behind...alot of things God has showed ,me where I go is that its TIME for me to step up and Pass this test.
i can help my family and start my own LIFE and be a MAN, not a boy anymore.
YEah there are responsabilities and I have to adapt to society at that point.
Im happy that atleast I can move things forward away from my past, my past of fuckups and naive like montecristo....Now Im so prepared with conviction its like I have verbal skills of persuassion down.
reframing has been the best thing I learned from david barrons work.double bind and yes ladders with framing and NLP is just deadly...
WE will see how this works out but I had to write all this to stop this from me forgetting.
Saturday, December 4, 2010
day game : where to go and new ideas opening
I did daygame yeasterday , and I havent been really happy at first with typical latin women around my way ,
anyways I had been juicing raw fruits and needed some fresh fruits and ingredients.
So I decided to go were to "whole foods".
I would usually take a subway where I used to live,
but here Im driving on a car.
As I was getting there in my car ( which is near a college campus), its was around lunch time. I saw this scenario:
I was in my car and saw all these girls, they were all hot they were not together and not in group
( I had heard PAUL JANKA previously about avoiding to talk to girls that are in groups in the day,which is practial advice. I have opened 2 girl groups before but its work well if the girl was already checking you out cause the friends wont rush her away from you, they will be cool that you are hitting on her and isolating her for number exchange etc)
Paul Janka also says about when you see alot of girls like this ,you have to choose one.
you cant open girls infront of the other , this is too avoid being seen as seeking rapport/bum asking for money type of negative cognotation and being classified as such to avoid her
"what does he want from me ?" "he wants something, Im not intereasted" "mr. sleaze ball creepy man" etc.etc.
So Im am in my car and I never read about opening from your car or as you are in your car:
few ideas poped in my head.
1# - SPEAK LOUD AND CLEAR
NOT TO DO:
Dont Open from your car if she isnt expecting you to open her or you are in an area the is solitude, she might react as you are a stalker type.you could open asking directions but its really har dot transtition into converstation cause she will walk after her giving you an answer or ignore you.
You can DO:
If she looks at you and you make a eye contact and you slow down and she tried looking at you as she is walking then you can open from your car indirect and subcommunicate you are intersted..... and you can transition on getting off your car to number close.
Also if its a place of solitude and you see this:
another idea, is you see her and turn around park infront and near and then approach her with indirect bodylanguage...
I know it sounds too much investment but you would have to go Direct here as she is on about her day going home after class and after lunch...
"hey I couldnt help noticing you as I drove by right now and I was going to kick myself If I didnt come and talk to you .... there is eomthing about how you carry yourself and I wanted to meet you" "Im _______"
or any suggestions that you would open with.... thank you.
Girls that are in a hurry is go direct, girls that are shopping go fun roleplay , and then transition to instadate or number close.
Its easier said than done,
trust me I havent read anything on car pickup, cause its actually looks like stalker child molester CREEPY!!!
But surprisingling I got opened in a car by another person in a car asking me directions.... that also is good if you catch a girl smiling at you as she is in her car and you then opening her as you are in your car and she is in your car..."do you happened to have some grey pupon? " and have her laugh.
I have had some women smile at me and I just stood there in seemingly bliss of not knowing what to do next.
So I advocate taking some action.
REality is I couldnt help myself to apply seduction to "everywhere you go", rather than to just stick to typical bars, clubs...that is what adapting seduction to your lifestyle rather than trying to change yourself for women. That is one way of seeing things, ofcourse if you are going out and partying go these places at night. Keep in mind always keep improving for the BEST.
Any comments or suggestions greatly appreciate it thanks
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Opening girls out of your car is a real crap shoot. The girl can't really even see your physical body, or body language... so she's got even less to go on to size you up. Also, you it's very difficult to make a connection of a stationary object from a moving car, and very hard to make a physical connection.
You're really better to park real fast, and then run up to the girls instead. That's what I've done quite a few times.
Sometimes you can't always park, so you could just open from the car... but don't expect consistent results.
I've actually never opened a girl while I was driving, I've always made an effort to actually get out of the car instead when it was possible. Otherwise, I just drove on.
anyways I had been juicing raw fruits and needed some fresh fruits and ingredients.
So I decided to go were to "whole foods".
I would usually take a subway where I used to live,
but here Im driving on a car.
As I was getting there in my car ( which is near a college campus), its was around lunch time. I saw this scenario:
I was in my car and saw all these girls, they were all hot they were not together and not in group
( I had heard PAUL JANKA previously about avoiding to talk to girls that are in groups in the day,which is practial advice. I have opened 2 girl groups before but its work well if the girl was already checking you out cause the friends wont rush her away from you, they will be cool that you are hitting on her and isolating her for number exchange etc)
Paul Janka also says about when you see alot of girls like this ,you have to choose one.
you cant open girls infront of the other , this is too avoid being seen as seeking rapport/bum asking for money type of negative cognotation and being classified as such to avoid her
"what does he want from me ?" "he wants something, Im not intereasted" "mr. sleaze ball creepy man" etc.etc.
So Im am in my car and I never read about opening from your car or as you are in your car:
few ideas poped in my head.
1# - SPEAK LOUD AND CLEAR
NOT TO DO:
Dont Open from your car if she isnt expecting you to open her or you are in an area the is solitude, she might react as you are a stalker type.you could open asking directions but its really har dot transtition into converstation cause she will walk after her giving you an answer or ignore you.
You can DO:
If she looks at you and you make a eye contact and you slow down and she tried looking at you as she is walking then you can open from your car indirect and subcommunicate you are intersted..... and you can transition on getting off your car to number close.
Also if its a place of solitude and you see this:
another idea, is you see her and turn around park infront and near and then approach her with indirect bodylanguage...
I know it sounds too much investment but you would have to go Direct here as she is on about her day going home after class and after lunch...
"hey I couldnt help noticing you as I drove by right now and I was going to kick myself If I didnt come and talk to you .... there is eomthing about how you carry yourself and I wanted to meet you" "Im _______"
or any suggestions that you would open with.... thank you.
Girls that are in a hurry is go direct, girls that are shopping go fun roleplay , and then transition to instadate or number close.
Its easier said than done,
trust me I havent read anything on car pickup, cause its actually looks like stalker child molester CREEPY!!!
But surprisingling I got opened in a car by another person in a car asking me directions.... that also is good if you catch a girl smiling at you as she is in her car and you then opening her as you are in your car and she is in your car..."do you happened to have some grey pupon? " and have her laugh.
I have had some women smile at me and I just stood there in seemingly bliss of not knowing what to do next.
So I advocate taking some action.
REality is I couldnt help myself to apply seduction to "everywhere you go", rather than to just stick to typical bars, clubs...that is what adapting seduction to your lifestyle rather than trying to change yourself for women. That is one way of seeing things, ofcourse if you are going out and partying go these places at night. Keep in mind always keep improving for the BEST.
Any comments or suggestions greatly appreciate it thanks
-------------------------
Opening girls out of your car is a real crap shoot. The girl can't really even see your physical body, or body language... so she's got even less to go on to size you up. Also, you it's very difficult to make a connection of a stationary object from a moving car, and very hard to make a physical connection.
You're really better to park real fast, and then run up to the girls instead. That's what I've done quite a few times.
Sometimes you can't always park, so you could just open from the car... but don't expect consistent results.
I've actually never opened a girl while I was driving, I've always made an effort to actually get out of the car instead when it was possible. Otherwise, I just drove on.
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