I was reading an interesting article on line psychology and I also was watching a commentary by June Barrymore on Turner Classic Movies channel on a movie called the haunting filmed in 1955 I believe. She said something then strike me very interesting. Which is very true in masculine n in ways of seduction and expression of sexual intent" this movie is an example of no special effects and needed in order to scare the audience for the movie watcher this movies scares the audience what this film does compared to the new films of today a new movies off today were they have a lot of optical action Corey and is that the movie makes the audience get scared first in order to scare so they are in space we are already scared Nissan watching the movie now because of the visuals much more of the type of psychological the film is portrayed." well how does this relate to what we want to achieve basically it has to do with emotions itself but is how we don't have to really be gruesome or really be verbally descriptive is in the sexually-explicit way but to be very subtle and in order to elicit the motions that we want I'm like teasing way of very little by little something mark told me in the past was always make her wanted more always make her wanted more like you're not really that much wanting it but you wanna make sure when you do that that she is already on the level where she's already aroused you're feeling emotional investment with she's horny or what is she already put her hard and it doesn't motional decision to do so I'm basically is to elicit certain ways to treat yourself and Mary motions and um so that way now I'm shakin be in the state of mind mostly where she knows that she wants to what she wants to be in order to sleep with you when she reached that point is basically you not take care of her of that I am motion and going straight to closing escalation. The whole concept of the movie scares the audience will not be in Korea gruesome is Mr V phantom the movie has certain scenes to scare a surprise and so it always keeps the audience very intrigued and unexpected ways but its not the actual visual but it's the way it goes around instead of being gory and is more scary we need to me not gory sexual but we need to be more of an enticement of sexuality. Maybe but my best seductions has always been out like a movie a movie then I am creating and I'm the main character and I'm providing her apart and my movie like we're being filmed like all of this is falling into place how it's supposed to be but the PUA part or seduction artist seducer has to be the person that has to lead to where you want indirectly.
Showing posts with label female psycology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label female psycology. Show all posts
Saturday, May 17, 2014
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
discovery what typical south beach girl likes to do.......?
Things that I like to do in Miami Beach
I like to go to the beach, walk on lincoln rd, go to happy hours at the Gables, watch movies, play volleyball, dancing, lounging at segafredo or enso lounge, go to hard rock casino, go to any art festival or the monthly gallery walk in design district and bar hopping at Brickell.
Places that I like to take a date in Miami Beach
vizcaya gardens, gallery walk, red bar, tapas and tintos in espanola way, the grove
Celebrity that I most resemble
Brooke Burke
I like to go to the beach, walk on lincoln rd, go to happy hours at the Gables, watch movies, play volleyball, dancing, lounging at segafredo or enso lounge, go to hard rock casino, go to any art festival or the monthly gallery walk in design district and bar hopping at Brickell.
Places that I like to take a date in Miami Beach
vizcaya gardens, gallery walk, red bar, tapas and tintos in espanola way, the grove
Celebrity that I most resemble
Brooke Burke
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Gangbang cindy at Roosh's site, female psychology
Hi my name is Cindy I have been married for ten years and I am 30 years old.My husband just started whanting to have grils night out and guys night out.Last weekend my and a younger freind went to a party.When we got there there was about 4 grils and 10 guys .After a few drinks there was two young guys about 19 that started talking to me and telling me how cute i was and then some how we end up going up stairs to the bed room and thet started taking turns kissing me at frist I was just playing around and I was not going to do anything but one thing led to anthuor and before I new it one of them pussed me down on the bed pulled his dick out and started rubing it on my face it was atleast 3 inchs longer than my husbands I just started sucking it I was so exsighted that I didnot even fell the secound guy pull of my paints and trought them on the ground.But i did fell him stuff his dick up in me This is the frist time i had evr had one in the mouth and one in the pussy it was great the two off them fucked me for about 30 minutes and i looked up to see 2 more guys standing there so what the fuck I let both of them take a turn at it and let me tell you It made me fill powerful to fuck and suck all the cum out of those four young guys I cannot wait for ladies night out again so to all you wowmen in the world try you a gangbang sometime and men let us all have a ladies night out.
Interesting shite to read here.I certainly learned from this gem. hope you can handle the rawness of this cause its real world, real life.
I personally dreamed of my GF and her being loyal and her being cool and not wanting anything else besides me....
but you have to keep satisfying girls sexually to avoid cheating and other discomfort.
I'm not a threesome guy, I have gotten good with my game when it comes to comfort connection, soul mate game. it combines emotions with sex.its a drug for me and the girl.
so Im still new at experimenting with other than MF sex, I mean threesome sex. My FB has been cool and yet she likes me alot and lets me do anything on her physically.
I also suggest that same emotions as suggested by Tyler Durden's PU diagram on emotional states, also
applies to sex in the Sex God Method explains.
rough/soft/ emotional -romantic/hardcore sex.
would like your comments on this statement by this Girl "Cindy".
BEST material to learn seduction comes from women's experience and not what she logically says what attracts her.
-S
Interesting shite to read here.I certainly learned from this gem. hope you can handle the rawness of this cause its real world, real life.
I personally dreamed of my GF and her being loyal and her being cool and not wanting anything else besides me....
but you have to keep satisfying girls sexually to avoid cheating and other discomfort.
I'm not a threesome guy, I have gotten good with my game when it comes to comfort connection, soul mate game. it combines emotions with sex.its a drug for me and the girl.
so Im still new at experimenting with other than MF sex, I mean threesome sex. My FB has been cool and yet she likes me alot and lets me do anything on her physically.
I also suggest that same emotions as suggested by Tyler Durden's PU diagram on emotional states, also
applies to sex in the Sex God Method explains.
rough/soft/ emotional -romantic/hardcore sex.
would like your comments on this statement by this Girl "Cindy".
BEST material to learn seduction comes from women's experience and not what she logically says what attracts her.
-S
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Why she makes out with you at the CLUB and then drops you by Franco
Club game is a totally different perspective.
All what is true in other types of games becomes wilder and pretty much different in club game.
Guys project their horniness into the girls and believe that the girls will behave like guys; try to get laid as their main goal.
Well that is true: women like sex as much as guys and want to get laid as much as the guys do.
Anyway, there are some very important differences between guys and girls in matters of priorities in the sexual area.
If you have been making out with a girl in the club and then wondering why she suddenly left without having sex with you well the reason is exactly in those differences between girls and boys in matters of priorities.
Guys are very much puzzled and irritated when she makes out with them and then leaves.
They do not understand the meaning of this apparently “illogical” behavior.
Well there is a very important logic in this kind of female behavior: a female´s main sexual goal is not to get laid.
A female´s main sexual goal is to get social power by building as many social links as possible and then controlling them at need.
This is the main sexual end goal of the woman.
Only after she has done that she can get to her second priority: getting laid.
Having sex is her second end goal after she is sure that she has succeeded in building as many social links as possible.
A female labeled as a “slut” by other women is a rare woman who does not follow this law: first the screening, then the sex.
A big part of this behavior is to have as many males as possible get into the sub-servient attitude towards her so that she can gain social power over them.
When you wonder why she makes out with you and then leaves you are missing to detect an important law of evolution at work: she is screening men in the same way she does in other venues it´s only that she does it with much faster and much tougher means.
This touching you, making out with you has a totally different meaning in the club compared to the meaning it would have if it would happen on the streets or – maybe – while you watch a movie with her in a movie theater.
In those cases touching you, making out with you would be a strong indicator of her wanting sex with you especially if there are no other girls around and you are not in a social group.
In those situations she would have no competition as there are no other girls around. You would have no competition around as well: there would be no other guys around.
In the club the situation is totally different she knows very well that there is strong female competition. She also knows that the guys are dying of the desire of having sex with the girls as soon as possible.
So she needs to hook guys who try to seduce her very fast in order to win female competition and have as many males as possible investing their energy into her before she can start screening them.
50 years ago the hook would have been uncovering little bit her leg or holding eye contact little bit longer with some guy.
Nowadays such nice hooks would not work anymore as the clubs and the cities are otherwise full of girls who are having free minded sex with the guys left and right.
No guy pays anymore so much attention to a naked ass or a girl holding eye contact longer with him.
Also, there are so many nice guys around that many guys really do not have the courage to approach on the streets and go to clubs with the hope of getting laid.
In the club environment her main goal is to firstly gain social power by multiplying her social links and the number of guys who supplicate to her.
She does that to have the time to continue her screening and win her female competition.
Without the hook she would have nothing to screen for. There is always the “slut” next to her who has the guys get laid “for free.”
Actually one single “slut” is a really dangerous competition for the average girls. She is little bit like a guy: she can give sexual satisfaction and get laid with many, many guys during a week.
It really puts in danger other women by keeping them from getting out of the guys more than the sex.
So what she does?
She uses a stronger hook: heavy make out with you just to drop you when you escalate to have her into sex.
By making out with you she gains a huge advantage on the other girls: she has you hooked so that you forget the other girls and invest your energy mainly into her.
You focus your attention on her and get betaised while she makes out with you and at the same time controls her own horniness by drinking alcohol and by chatting with the other girls in the bathroom.
Yes, alcohol is very often used by girls in order to control horniness: alcohol rises endorphins and dopamine the hormones of the pleasure and can help a girl getting out of club while being terribly horny without having sex with a single guy!
For this reason I never sarge a girl who is heavily drunk. It becomes to easy for her to control her own horniness.
Same goes about talking a lot. A female Californian psychiatrist has demonstrated that females get from talking the same pleasure they get from orgasms.
Girls use chatting with other girls as a way to control their own emotions. The girlfriend who is her “cock block” has the same meaning: she is helping the target to control her own emotions when she is close to get horny.
The bathroom is in clubs for females the “female horniness control room.”
Have you ever been in clubs in a situation where she makes out with you and then says: “I go to pee” and when she comes back she has changed and begins to find all the kind of excuses to drop you?
Well if you have been there you know what I am talking about. She is doing that to control her own horniness in order to have the time to evaluate you and plan the evaluation of the other guys in the club.
Evaluating guys, screening them is dictated by the deep instincts of evolution: they tell her to screen for the stronger male and at the same time for a male who can be manipulated into investing his energy into her.
She does that under her instinct of protecting herself and the offspring which would potentially derive from your sexual contact with her
I can hear you: you object that modern girls do not need men to take care of the offspring and that they can live on social security.
That is true and the need to hook you for sex and then drop you to repeat the cycle with other males only demonstrates how much they are under the influence of those instinct in spite of not needing them anymore.
Screening is vital for a female survival. Making out with you and then dropping you gives her the time to screen males and build social links.
It´s an instinct: it protects her and her potential offspring and it is compelling to her.
Now that I have shared with you this we can approach the topic of what you need to do in practice in the club to have success.
These are these main strategies
- If your style is to go heavily sexual and escalate on any girl then what you have to do is to escalate fare more than what she does. This is an important calibration: you need to understand quickly how much is for her “too much” and push her over that border. For example if she touches your hand then you go more sexual than her and touch her ass. If she kisses you then you go more sexual than her and put your hand into her jeans. This will have her discover her cards very fast and if she was trying to hook you in order to build social links and have you supplicate then this will either force her to submit to you sexually or she will blow herself out so that you can go on chatting with other girls. In this particular situation if she says: “I go to the bathroom” or gives any kind of explanations simply go to chat to the next girl in front of her eyes and forget her instantly because she does that in order to control herself. Same thing if she stops you when you escalate more.
- Another way of gaming girls in the club is blocking them in their need of building social links and having you supplicate. In this other way you only give “minor sexual clues” but push her away regularly any time she is close to making out with you. For example you might smile and wink at her but when she comes closer you move your body language away from her. Maybe you neg her. Maybe you tease and do some push-pull. In this other way of gaming girls in clubs you do two things 1. Push her away when she tries to hook you sexually 2. Tend to have her into isolation. Isolation in this case is not a dark side of the club. If you make out with her in a dark side of the club you are basically doing her game. Your goal is to have her get out of the club alone with you and then you start the escalation when the two of you are alone.
- Gaming the group is another way. For example this is a wonderful way if you go clubbing with your best friends. You need to get the charge over the smaller groups which form themselves automatically in the realm of the chaotic situation in the club itself. People of 3-4 or more get together for example close to the bar and you game the group by being “cool” to all the members and totally ignore the girl you want. When she sees that you are the coolest in the group – the leader of the group – you are basically sexually pre-selected and when you push her away she will wonder “who is this guy who is not being an idiot like all the other guys and all the people like him? I want to find out.”
- Using a Pivot. If you have a good female friend who knows that you are a playboy and is complacent towards your adventures go clubbing with her. If you do MLTRs (Multiple Long-Term Relationships) then the girls you are in a relationship usually know about your playboy hobby: go clubbing with her but make sure that she can control her own jealousy. Doing the club game with a Pivot is one of the most powerful ways for having success. In a way you are pre-selected and game the girls while having the Pivot with you being your “girlfriend.” The instinct of the competition will force the target to invest attention in you as it is in women hard wired to want men who are wanted by other women.
- Wingman: if you are with your wingman for all the time of your club gaming have fun with him. While you have fun with him never, never show that your attention is more invested into the girls compared to the attention you give to your wingman. Use peripheral vision to spot your targets. You need to look like two quality guys who are having fun and totally detached from the surroundings. While you have fun with the wing do small approaches by turning your neck on one side but never, never face the girl. If you get compliance than you can face her. Anytime she is resisting you ditch her and pay more attention to your wing.
In order to apply properly the above methods you need to have a broad knowledge of how the mechanisms of evolution affect female sexual desire and that you can find in my Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Playboys.
All what is true in other types of games becomes wilder and pretty much different in club game.
Guys project their horniness into the girls and believe that the girls will behave like guys; try to get laid as their main goal.
Well that is true: women like sex as much as guys and want to get laid as much as the guys do.
Anyway, there are some very important differences between guys and girls in matters of priorities in the sexual area.
If you have been making out with a girl in the club and then wondering why she suddenly left without having sex with you well the reason is exactly in those differences between girls and boys in matters of priorities.
Guys are very much puzzled and irritated when she makes out with them and then leaves.
They do not understand the meaning of this apparently “illogical” behavior.
Well there is a very important logic in this kind of female behavior: a female´s main sexual goal is not to get laid.
A female´s main sexual goal is to get social power by building as many social links as possible and then controlling them at need.
This is the main sexual end goal of the woman.
Only after she has done that she can get to her second priority: getting laid.
Having sex is her second end goal after she is sure that she has succeeded in building as many social links as possible.
A female labeled as a “slut” by other women is a rare woman who does not follow this law: first the screening, then the sex.
A big part of this behavior is to have as many males as possible get into the sub-servient attitude towards her so that she can gain social power over them.
When you wonder why she makes out with you and then leaves you are missing to detect an important law of evolution at work: she is screening men in the same way she does in other venues it´s only that she does it with much faster and much tougher means.
This touching you, making out with you has a totally different meaning in the club compared to the meaning it would have if it would happen on the streets or – maybe – while you watch a movie with her in a movie theater.
In those cases touching you, making out with you would be a strong indicator of her wanting sex with you especially if there are no other girls around and you are not in a social group.
In those situations she would have no competition as there are no other girls around. You would have no competition around as well: there would be no other guys around.
In the club the situation is totally different she knows very well that there is strong female competition. She also knows that the guys are dying of the desire of having sex with the girls as soon as possible.
So she needs to hook guys who try to seduce her very fast in order to win female competition and have as many males as possible investing their energy into her before she can start screening them.
50 years ago the hook would have been uncovering little bit her leg or holding eye contact little bit longer with some guy.
Nowadays such nice hooks would not work anymore as the clubs and the cities are otherwise full of girls who are having free minded sex with the guys left and right.
No guy pays anymore so much attention to a naked ass or a girl holding eye contact longer with him.
Also, there are so many nice guys around that many guys really do not have the courage to approach on the streets and go to clubs with the hope of getting laid.
In the club environment her main goal is to firstly gain social power by multiplying her social links and the number of guys who supplicate to her.
She does that to have the time to continue her screening and win her female competition.
Without the hook she would have nothing to screen for. There is always the “slut” next to her who has the guys get laid “for free.”
Actually one single “slut” is a really dangerous competition for the average girls. She is little bit like a guy: she can give sexual satisfaction and get laid with many, many guys during a week.
It really puts in danger other women by keeping them from getting out of the guys more than the sex.
So what she does?
She uses a stronger hook: heavy make out with you just to drop you when you escalate to have her into sex.
By making out with you she gains a huge advantage on the other girls: she has you hooked so that you forget the other girls and invest your energy mainly into her.
You focus your attention on her and get betaised while she makes out with you and at the same time controls her own horniness by drinking alcohol and by chatting with the other girls in the bathroom.
Yes, alcohol is very often used by girls in order to control horniness: alcohol rises endorphins and dopamine the hormones of the pleasure and can help a girl getting out of club while being terribly horny without having sex with a single guy!
For this reason I never sarge a girl who is heavily drunk. It becomes to easy for her to control her own horniness.
Same goes about talking a lot. A female Californian psychiatrist has demonstrated that females get from talking the same pleasure they get from orgasms.
Girls use chatting with other girls as a way to control their own emotions. The girlfriend who is her “cock block” has the same meaning: she is helping the target to control her own emotions when she is close to get horny.
The bathroom is in clubs for females the “female horniness control room.”
Have you ever been in clubs in a situation where she makes out with you and then says: “I go to pee” and when she comes back she has changed and begins to find all the kind of excuses to drop you?
Well if you have been there you know what I am talking about. She is doing that to control her own horniness in order to have the time to evaluate you and plan the evaluation of the other guys in the club.
Evaluating guys, screening them is dictated by the deep instincts of evolution: they tell her to screen for the stronger male and at the same time for a male who can be manipulated into investing his energy into her.
She does that under her instinct of protecting herself and the offspring which would potentially derive from your sexual contact with her
I can hear you: you object that modern girls do not need men to take care of the offspring and that they can live on social security.
That is true and the need to hook you for sex and then drop you to repeat the cycle with other males only demonstrates how much they are under the influence of those instinct in spite of not needing them anymore.
Screening is vital for a female survival. Making out with you and then dropping you gives her the time to screen males and build social links.
It´s an instinct: it protects her and her potential offspring and it is compelling to her.
Now that I have shared with you this we can approach the topic of what you need to do in practice in the club to have success.
These are these main strategies
- If your style is to go heavily sexual and escalate on any girl then what you have to do is to escalate fare more than what she does. This is an important calibration: you need to understand quickly how much is for her “too much” and push her over that border. For example if she touches your hand then you go more sexual than her and touch her ass. If she kisses you then you go more sexual than her and put your hand into her jeans. This will have her discover her cards very fast and if she was trying to hook you in order to build social links and have you supplicate then this will either force her to submit to you sexually or she will blow herself out so that you can go on chatting with other girls. In this particular situation if she says: “I go to the bathroom” or gives any kind of explanations simply go to chat to the next girl in front of her eyes and forget her instantly because she does that in order to control herself. Same thing if she stops you when you escalate more.
- Another way of gaming girls in the club is blocking them in their need of building social links and having you supplicate. In this other way you only give “minor sexual clues” but push her away regularly any time she is close to making out with you. For example you might smile and wink at her but when she comes closer you move your body language away from her. Maybe you neg her. Maybe you tease and do some push-pull. In this other way of gaming girls in clubs you do two things 1. Push her away when she tries to hook you sexually 2. Tend to have her into isolation. Isolation in this case is not a dark side of the club. If you make out with her in a dark side of the club you are basically doing her game. Your goal is to have her get out of the club alone with you and then you start the escalation when the two of you are alone.
- Gaming the group is another way. For example this is a wonderful way if you go clubbing with your best friends. You need to get the charge over the smaller groups which form themselves automatically in the realm of the chaotic situation in the club itself. People of 3-4 or more get together for example close to the bar and you game the group by being “cool” to all the members and totally ignore the girl you want. When she sees that you are the coolest in the group – the leader of the group – you are basically sexually pre-selected and when you push her away she will wonder “who is this guy who is not being an idiot like all the other guys and all the people like him? I want to find out.”
- Using a Pivot. If you have a good female friend who knows that you are a playboy and is complacent towards your adventures go clubbing with her. If you do MLTRs (Multiple Long-Term Relationships) then the girls you are in a relationship usually know about your playboy hobby: go clubbing with her but make sure that she can control her own jealousy. Doing the club game with a Pivot is one of the most powerful ways for having success. In a way you are pre-selected and game the girls while having the Pivot with you being your “girlfriend.” The instinct of the competition will force the target to invest attention in you as it is in women hard wired to want men who are wanted by other women.
- Wingman: if you are with your wingman for all the time of your club gaming have fun with him. While you have fun with him never, never show that your attention is more invested into the girls compared to the attention you give to your wingman. Use peripheral vision to spot your targets. You need to look like two quality guys who are having fun and totally detached from the surroundings. While you have fun with the wing do small approaches by turning your neck on one side but never, never face the girl. If you get compliance than you can face her. Anytime she is resisting you ditch her and pay more attention to your wing.
In order to apply properly the above methods you need to have a broad knowledge of how the mechanisms of evolution affect female sexual desire and that you can find in my Manual of Seduction for Husbands, Single Men and Playboys.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Model experiment--Mickey rourke in 91/2 weeks
I seen comments on youtube on scenes with mickey rourke and it shows how you should be with a woman after youve slept with them.
HERE ARE WOMEN COMMENTS:
Mickey Rourke was damn sexy in this film.
obsessed with this movie too will always be :D
very freudian scene
he's perfect lover in this movie
There is a man, I'm in love with... this is my fantasy about me and him.... It will never end... in my fantasy...
thats my man XD
rock it saint catherine!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (women commenting about sex at a church roof top)
me encanta muchisimo esta pelicula no hay naada igual.... 3 weeks ago
the guy is similar to entropy.
I want to model him.
also great movies on female psycology and one night stand is kim cattral movie
live nude girls
great stuff.
HERE ARE WOMEN COMMENTS:
Mickey Rourke was damn sexy in this film.
obsessed with this movie too will always be :D
very freudian scene
he's perfect lover in this movie
There is a man, I'm in love with... this is my fantasy about me and him.... It will never end... in my fantasy...
thats my man XD
rock it saint catherine!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (women commenting about sex at a church roof top)
me encanta muchisimo esta pelicula no hay naada igual.... 3 weeks ago
the guy is similar to entropy.
I want to model him.
also great movies on female psycology and one night stand is kim cattral movie
live nude girls
great stuff.
swingers made me think of threesome game
I m looking into sex game,
I hate ebook or being to logical, yet simple and easy works for me, then leave it up to me to be creative :)
so I saw swinger by nina hartley.
her female psycology comes from experience her vids are better than any stupid e book.
I actually used her howe to make love to a woman first 10 minutes as a sexual frames alal topo redstack.
seriosuly she knows her stuff.
but her she has great examples how to fell comfortabl and how to escalate her comfort threshold to new things in sex.
for me its awesome cause its like whole new area and being a PUA is more like I can dominate this area too.
guys are stale in terms of just squirting, the excitement comes from the emotions of sex and unexpecteness and making it a movie for her as she were reading a erotic novel.
thats the type of experience you shoul;d be giving to her.
What guy is going to give her that????
very few.
9 1/2 weeks pushes it too much but its a great example, he should have built comfort , remeber in relationships the cycle is comfort and sexualness.
this is to be kept in constant spiking of the whole process.
DONT BE BUTTON PUSHING
but know what to do when time comes and make things happen....
you lead
you take initiative (thanks alley cat)
so as with greeeneys I plan on taking my sexual comfort thresshold to the next level with her....
like MRM says in situations where youve never done it act like youve been there and done it, adapt to the scenario. to avoid feeling insecure and in your head.
act as you go yet TAKE CALCULATED RISKS
thershold comfort to move further, reach levels , higher levels = excitement attraction.
even addiction.
use that analogy and read in10nse article as franco also comments.
swinggcatt might have some stuff but his push pull works well and for closing.
its basically arousing her and you pulliong back arousaing her and you pulling backl to make her confuse and hornty and wanting you to want it bad.
you escalate from there to avoid keeping it stale or you overgaming or buyers remorse.
I see that is difference of rapid closes, seeing when girls are that ready to fuck you lead.
Swingers vid taught me how far Im from being in game.
knowing this dynamic helps me analyze a structure of basis of how emoitons and sex can crete arrousal to a point of intensity.....even addiction of pleasure.
Im going to ask franco on that WWHD?
I hate ebook or being to logical, yet simple and easy works for me, then leave it up to me to be creative :)
so I saw swinger by nina hartley.
her female psycology comes from experience her vids are better than any stupid e book.
I actually used her howe to make love to a woman first 10 minutes as a sexual frames alal topo redstack.
seriosuly she knows her stuff.
but her she has great examples how to fell comfortabl and how to escalate her comfort threshold to new things in sex.
for me its awesome cause its like whole new area and being a PUA is more like I can dominate this area too.
guys are stale in terms of just squirting, the excitement comes from the emotions of sex and unexpecteness and making it a movie for her as she were reading a erotic novel.
thats the type of experience you shoul;d be giving to her.
What guy is going to give her that????
very few.
9 1/2 weeks pushes it too much but its a great example, he should have built comfort , remeber in relationships the cycle is comfort and sexualness.
this is to be kept in constant spiking of the whole process.
DONT BE BUTTON PUSHING
but know what to do when time comes and make things happen....
you lead
you take initiative (thanks alley cat)
so as with greeeneys I plan on taking my sexual comfort thresshold to the next level with her....
like MRM says in situations where youve never done it act like youve been there and done it, adapt to the scenario. to avoid feeling insecure and in your head.
act as you go yet TAKE CALCULATED RISKS
thershold comfort to move further, reach levels , higher levels = excitement attraction.
even addiction.
use that analogy and read in10nse article as franco also comments.
swinggcatt might have some stuff but his push pull works well and for closing.
its basically arousing her and you pulliong back arousaing her and you pulling backl to make her confuse and hornty and wanting you to want it bad.
you escalate from there to avoid keeping it stale or you overgaming or buyers remorse.
I see that is difference of rapid closes, seeing when girls are that ready to fuck you lead.
Swingers vid taught me how far Im from being in game.
knowing this dynamic helps me analyze a structure of basis of how emoitons and sex can crete arrousal to a point of intensity.....even addiction of pleasure.
Im going to ask franco on that WWHD?
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
inner game positivity and female psycology of negihbor classic "bait and switch"
Dear Guys,
So its Wednesday and yes, its that part of the week where I observe things. Good and Bad.
I hope you can make of good use of the content here.
Positivity in innergame and your behaviour
We all know how an Alpha man should behave ,should live and how seduction is important.
Its ironic but I really like reading the original venusian arts handbook cause Mystery does explain
the essentials of Life, like the food chain of life.
If you look at it closely, Mystery wasnt really wanting guys to model him or imitate him until he really got
bigger and commercial then he actually focused more on his gimmicks and routines , except his magic.
In reality, the guy developed his own charisma and in reality he transformed into a automatic natural.
Guys make the mistake of trying to think the secret to game is routines. Routines are good but
its part of the recipe. The recipe of your personality, our being as a man.
When you reach to a point with success with women, you feel like dropping routines like an eempty can of soda in the street.
Why?
cause you know how to make things work and the rhythm that seduction goes.
and lets not get technical about it, you know there are alot of ways to skin a cat. but the way you feel comfortable and confident eventhough
delusional at times work,cause you trust yourself.
So start trusting yourself in all your areas in LIFE, when things go bad dont panic or get down.
it's true what they say about people, they're the types that when ship is sinking , they either give it their best shot to keep alive or they play the violin as they sink themselves down.
(the scene in the movie titanic was creepy) Essentially it wont go to that extreme, only if you let yourself.
So practice not giving yourself chance to rest in your negativity, you will be glad you did.
Female Psycology observation of the week
My neighbour is a late 30's early 40's cuban woman, lady doctor from cuba kindah sexy and moved in Id say in Dec or Nov 09.
she spend weekends alone and seemed bitchy eventhough she see me , she never said Hi.
I observed her at times and not in a stalker creepy way.Remember girls are horny as fuck, looking who want to take care of business.
So lately Id noticed in Feb she spent valentines by herself...Hmmm..then she started having some dude over her house but not letting him sleep over, I guess FB. then last
weekend there was a wedding in the neighbour backyard,she was getting married.
Not only that, she seems dominant, she gets the guy to do shit and even left him locked him without a ride at her place as she left on a sunday morning and came back like 2-3pm.
the guy was desperate and I guess felt locked in like a jail cell. The guy is late 30's like 35 ,He looks like Jose Alfonso Almora w his glases, short guy.
You can sense he is a good guy.
Now she has him driving her around and he lives in with her. The guy ahs a face of someone who works at a hotel helping with luggage and living off the tips.
BREAKDOWN
her biological clock was ticking, social pressure from family and friends, hispanic so its even worse pressure.
She has HSE yet doesnt want to be alone, wants sex and security but at her age very difficult.
finds a guy,not perfect, doesnt really have his life together and follows instructions.
Perfect fit,he will be there, he will help me and cater to me, and I wont be by myself.And he doesnt complain.
I trained him well,I should wait for him to wake up and find out Im using him, so I m going to fuck him good and
get him into me and then make him feel guilty ,ask him if he loves me or using my body,
then ask him to marry me when I plan a perfect night together at my place and cook him dinner
and make him feel special, yep!
I got him,We are finally married!!!
"HEY! get me this!" , I finally have a guy for good not alone and NOW I can do whatever I want cause Im the boss.
He is so gulible and easy. at least I'm not alone.
even if I do find someone better and wealthy, then I can always drop him.
I wont give him a chance to drop me cause I will have the upperhand and I will tell him he never did anything for me and my future and he was holding me back. Making him feel sorry for himself and guilty will work, definately.
"Good Boy" :)
I know its long but can we share any thoughts.
So its Wednesday and yes, its that part of the week where I observe things. Good and Bad.
I hope you can make of good use of the content here.
Positivity in innergame and your behaviour
We all know how an Alpha man should behave ,should live and how seduction is important.
Its ironic but I really like reading the original venusian arts handbook cause Mystery does explain
the essentials of Life, like the food chain of life.
If you look at it closely, Mystery wasnt really wanting guys to model him or imitate him until he really got
bigger and commercial then he actually focused more on his gimmicks and routines , except his magic.
In reality, the guy developed his own charisma and in reality he transformed into a automatic natural.
Guys make the mistake of trying to think the secret to game is routines. Routines are good but
its part of the recipe. The recipe of your personality, our being as a man.
When you reach to a point with success with women, you feel like dropping routines like an eempty can of soda in the street.
Why?
cause you know how to make things work and the rhythm that seduction goes.
and lets not get technical about it, you know there are alot of ways to skin a cat. but the way you feel comfortable and confident eventhough
delusional at times work,cause you trust yourself.
So start trusting yourself in all your areas in LIFE, when things go bad dont panic or get down.
it's true what they say about people, they're the types that when ship is sinking , they either give it their best shot to keep alive or they play the violin as they sink themselves down.
(the scene in the movie titanic was creepy) Essentially it wont go to that extreme, only if you let yourself.
So practice not giving yourself chance to rest in your negativity, you will be glad you did.
Female Psycology observation of the week
My neighbour is a late 30's early 40's cuban woman, lady doctor from cuba kindah sexy and moved in Id say in Dec or Nov 09.
she spend weekends alone and seemed bitchy eventhough she see me , she never said Hi.
I observed her at times and not in a stalker creepy way.Remember girls are horny as fuck, looking who want to take care of business.
So lately Id noticed in Feb she spent valentines by herself...Hmmm..then she started having some dude over her house but not letting him sleep over, I guess FB. then last
weekend there was a wedding in the neighbour backyard,she was getting married.
Not only that, she seems dominant, she gets the guy to do shit and even left him locked him without a ride at her place as she left on a sunday morning and came back like 2-3pm.
the guy was desperate and I guess felt locked in like a jail cell. The guy is late 30's like 35 ,He looks like Jose Alfonso Almora w his glases, short guy.
You can sense he is a good guy.
Now she has him driving her around and he lives in with her. The guy ahs a face of someone who works at a hotel helping with luggage and living off the tips.
BREAKDOWN
her biological clock was ticking, social pressure from family and friends, hispanic so its even worse pressure.
She has HSE yet doesnt want to be alone, wants sex and security but at her age very difficult.
finds a guy,not perfect, doesnt really have his life together and follows instructions.
Perfect fit,he will be there, he will help me and cater to me, and I wont be by myself.And he doesnt complain.
I trained him well,I should wait for him to wake up and find out Im using him, so I m going to fuck him good and
get him into me and then make him feel guilty ,ask him if he loves me or using my body,
then ask him to marry me when I plan a perfect night together at my place and cook him dinner
and make him feel special, yep!
I got him,We are finally married!!!
"HEY! get me this!" , I finally have a guy for good not alone and NOW I can do whatever I want cause Im the boss.
He is so gulible and easy. at least I'm not alone.
even if I do find someone better and wealthy, then I can always drop him.
I wont give him a chance to drop me cause I will have the upperhand and I will tell him he never did anything for me and my future and he was holding me back. Making him feel sorry for himself and guilty will work, definately.
"Good Boy" :)
I know its long but can we share any thoughts.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
creating your relationship using framing
I based my comfort game based on vin di carlo's female psycology
there was a clue at the end where the girl had a BF in which she was cheating on and explained the type of guy she wouldnt cheat on him.
You have to set the stage FIRST
Intention maping being consitent the way you describe the woman.
EXCERSIZE
1.you write and describe the type of woman (blonde, red hair )
2.what emotional charasteristics (caring,etc)
depends what you want her for that determines the charateristic of a girl
( type of relationship )
most women are a blank slate , you decide how they should respond to you.
IMPRINTING PERIODS
you set the frame for future interactions
when you are in qualification stage or talk in relationships or set in precedence
(if you want a LTR) Intelligent,Independent non clingy, supportive.
you pick 3 themes that are important to you and relationship !
IMPRINTING
you repeat 3 periods:
1- 1st date talk about acceptable and non acceptable behaviour in past relationships
(you screening)
2- Qualifiyiing her -its cool you have serious conversation
"Hey I just noticed you are caring person and supportive, do you consider person?"
then you say I noticed or "I can tell you are supportive person"
3- After sex! (theres work to be done, other guys go to sleep)
You say after sex cuddling
"Its really cool you turn out to be so supportive i can tell from our energy "
Shows congruence and shows her role to make you happy.
I will read more into frames and will look into this more...
there was a clue at the end where the girl had a BF in which she was cheating on and explained the type of guy she wouldnt cheat on him.
You have to set the stage FIRST
Intention maping being consitent the way you describe the woman.
EXCERSIZE
1.you write and describe the type of woman (blonde, red hair )
2.what emotional charasteristics (caring,etc)
depends what you want her for that determines the charateristic of a girl
( type of relationship )
most women are a blank slate , you decide how they should respond to you.
IMPRINTING PERIODS
you set the frame for future interactions
when you are in qualification stage or talk in relationships or set in precedence
(if you want a LTR) Intelligent,Independent non clingy, supportive.
you pick 3 themes that are important to you and relationship !
IMPRINTING
you repeat 3 periods:
1- 1st date talk about acceptable and non acceptable behaviour in past relationships
(you screening)
2- Qualifiyiing her -its cool you have serious conversation
"Hey I just noticed you are caring person and supportive, do you consider person?"
then you say I noticed or "I can tell you are supportive person"
3- After sex! (theres work to be done, other guys go to sleep)
You say after sex cuddling
"Its really cool you turn out to be so supportive i can tell from our energy "
Shows congruence and shows her role to make you happy.
I will read more into frames and will look into this more...
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