LIOs, AIs and Ayn Rand
Posted at May 8, 2007
I’m getting world class at LIOs (Low Investment Openers).
A Wing and I pulled a 2set of 21 year old hotties last sat. night. My Opener? “This song was real popular when I was in High School.” Then, I plowed for 2 minutes. Until said Wing came in and occupied obstacle.
We ended up pulling the 2set to the Pirate Pad. I got mine totally naked (awesome fit 21year old perfect body — Day2 is tonight) but I got LMR and ended up fingering her instead. She tried to give me a handjob but it’s near impossible for me to get off that way.
Here’s one from last night which also went well: “Red shoes. Interesting.”
I’m also getting world class at getting girls to open me off of their AI. I wrote a post about it “Why Old Ladies Love CJ” or something a week or so ago.
And, I’m pleased with the overall increase in Youth and Quality of my last month or so of Gaming. Some time ago, not sure exactly when, I made a decision to upgrade the quality. I recommend quantity for beginners, even intermediates with huge Outer Game SPs, but it’s time for me to focus on hotter specimens.
Finally, here’s an excerpt which I included and discussed in the “How to Get More Newsletter…”
“How do you propose to force your ideas on them?”
“I don’t propose to force or be forced. Those who want me will come to me.”
Then the Dean understood what had puzzled him in Roark’s manner.
“You know,” he said, “you would sound much more convincing if you spoke as if you cared whether I agreed with you or not.”
“That’s true,” said Roark. “I don’t care whether you agree with me or not.” He said it so simply that it did not sound offensive, it sounded like the statement of a fact which he noticed, puzzled, for the first time.
“You don’t care what others think – which might be understandable. But you don’t care even to make them think as you do?”
“No.”
“But that’s…that’s monstrous.”
“Is it? Probably. I couldn’t say.”
(Excerpted from “The Fountainhead” by Ayn Rand, p.26)
~ Captain Jack ~
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Saturday, January 15, 2011
Old ladies love Captain Jack
8 Why Old Ladies Love CJ – Mystery Solved
Posted at April 24, 2007Old ladies love Captain Jack. (And, by old I mean from 35+ year old MILFs to 75 year old shrivel-ovaried grandmas.)
It always bothered me WHY? WHY? Why me? I can be rolling out with a thousand puas and the old ladies open ME…
Is it because I look helpless? Or, easy? Or, nice and harmless?
This has bothered me for a year or more now.
I’m sure I know why now and the answer came from a seemingly unrelated source.
On the flip side of this I wondered, “Why can’t I get hot girls to open me (without absurd/extreme Peacocking)?”
I thought about it for a bit and put it in my mind to become aware of the solution (see: Reticular Activating System).
One night Sinn, Fidelio and I were out and SURE enough a hot girl opened me. Sinn saw it and told me he saw the whole thing.
Apparently she had given an AI to one of us a couple times. When I noticed the AI I acknowledged it, SHE then gave another acknowledgment and we started walking towards each other, then she started talking to me.
That sounded right so I tried it again the next night and got opened by two different sets, one hot and one not.
* Get an AI.
* Acknowledge it (eye contact, a slight smile and a slight turning of the body towards them.)
* When she acknowledges back smile and start walking towards her.
Sounds simple enough right?
I avoided AI’s early in my PU efforts because I’ve seen guys depend on them. Then, when they don’t get them they have trouble approaching or think there is something wrong with their appearance etc and it fucks up their night.
Then, when I was working so hard on Cold Approach I wanted it to be FREEZING cold, meaning no AI’s, no peacocking, no pawns, just me vs. everybody.
So, Saturday night I am chatting with some people and I notice a girl looking at me from a table across the room. I acknowledge, she acknowledges back and as I take the first half step she waves me over (format holds true with positive consequences in 3 out of 3 instances…)
But, she intros me to her friend. She AI’ed me over for her friend. Interesting.
Her friend (HBBlondeTattoo) is hotter, too so this is great!
I ended up pulling her, her friend and another guy back to the Pirate Pad for an After Party.
I got LMR from HBBlondeTattoo so no Lay (yet) but she is a cute little blonde with 3 awesome tattoos.
I’m using Sinn and Future’s
Breakthrough Comfort
with her now to get more practice.
Now, here’s where the Old Ladies come back in. I realized that I had been DIS-Acknowledging (or outright ignoring) AI’s from the hotties and being friendly and acknowledging old ladies AI’s.
So, last night I purposefully disacknowledged two old ladies’ AI’s.
Problem solved AND I’ve got a better grasp on skillfully taking advantage of AI’s from hotties.
~ Captain Jack ~
Posted at April 24, 2007Old ladies love Captain Jack. (And, by old I mean from 35+ year old MILFs to 75 year old shrivel-ovaried grandmas.)
It always bothered me WHY? WHY? Why me? I can be rolling out with a thousand puas and the old ladies open ME…
Is it because I look helpless? Or, easy? Or, nice and harmless?
This has bothered me for a year or more now.
I’m sure I know why now and the answer came from a seemingly unrelated source.
On the flip side of this I wondered, “Why can’t I get hot girls to open me (without absurd/extreme Peacocking)?”
I thought about it for a bit and put it in my mind to become aware of the solution (see: Reticular Activating System).
One night Sinn, Fidelio and I were out and SURE enough a hot girl opened me. Sinn saw it and told me he saw the whole thing.
Apparently she had given an AI to one of us a couple times. When I noticed the AI I acknowledged it, SHE then gave another acknowledgment and we started walking towards each other, then she started talking to me.
That sounded right so I tried it again the next night and got opened by two different sets, one hot and one not.
* Get an AI.
* Acknowledge it (eye contact, a slight smile and a slight turning of the body towards them.)
* When she acknowledges back smile and start walking towards her.
Sounds simple enough right?
I avoided AI’s early in my PU efforts because I’ve seen guys depend on them. Then, when they don’t get them they have trouble approaching or think there is something wrong with their appearance etc and it fucks up their night.
Then, when I was working so hard on Cold Approach I wanted it to be FREEZING cold, meaning no AI’s, no peacocking, no pawns, just me vs. everybody.
So, Saturday night I am chatting with some people and I notice a girl looking at me from a table across the room. I acknowledge, she acknowledges back and as I take the first half step she waves me over (format holds true with positive consequences in 3 out of 3 instances…)
But, she intros me to her friend. She AI’ed me over for her friend. Interesting.
Her friend (HBBlondeTattoo) is hotter, too so this is great!
I ended up pulling her, her friend and another guy back to the Pirate Pad for an After Party.
I got LMR from HBBlondeTattoo so no Lay (yet) but she is a cute little blonde with 3 awesome tattoos.
I’m using Sinn and Future’s
Breakthrough Comfort
with her now to get more practice.
Now, here’s where the Old Ladies come back in. I realized that I had been DIS-Acknowledging (or outright ignoring) AI’s from the hotties and being friendly and acknowledging old ladies AI’s.
So, last night I purposefully disacknowledged two old ladies’ AI’s.
Problem solved AND I’ve got a better grasp on skillfully taking advantage of AI’s from hotties.
~ Captain Jack ~
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Yads observation of his daygame
I observed him and when you model someone you have to read their subcommunication first.
Sinn calls this backwards engineering, he models it and tried to reproduce it by breaking it down.
YAD DOES:
1-he mirrors the girl alot..- deren brown mirrors in his opening daygame example.
automatic Rapport and controling her state.
2-he isnt into the whole bodylanguage of opening or how - he just opens and makes it casual and friendly.
3-he uses sexual frames in between the convo , in daygame he talks about
"how crazy would it be to make out in the middle of the day?" as a challeng to the girl and then prior ending the set after the number close he brigns it in again and escalates.
4- he has her invest in the conversation too, very good very good...he tried to handle timebridge -instadate damage control well by moving forward in the seduction eve though logistics is fucked.
5-he baits responses
6-He does something very intersting CJ talks about this I think, actually Topo talks in inifeld insider how CJ in the middle of the set satrs giving the girl IOIs in terms of sexual state.
I caught YAD doing this by escalting the IOI and him mirroring it and him touching his neck or his hair and the way looking at her...
this was the MINDFUCK of how he does it....knowing this is basically law of state transfer in RSD.
which is you can game daygame or nightgame or anywhere if you know this !!!
Sinn calls this backwards engineering, he models it and tried to reproduce it by breaking it down.
YAD DOES:
1-he mirrors the girl alot..- deren brown mirrors in his opening daygame example.
automatic Rapport and controling her state.
2-he isnt into the whole bodylanguage of opening or how - he just opens and makes it casual and friendly.
3-he uses sexual frames in between the convo , in daygame he talks about
"how crazy would it be to make out in the middle of the day?" as a challeng to the girl and then prior ending the set after the number close he brigns it in again and escalates.
4- he has her invest in the conversation too, very good very good...he tried to handle timebridge -instadate damage control well by moving forward in the seduction eve though logistics is fucked.
5-he baits responses
6-He does something very intersting CJ talks about this I think, actually Topo talks in inifeld insider how CJ in the middle of the set satrs giving the girl IOIs in terms of sexual state.
I caught YAD doing this by escalting the IOI and him mirroring it and him touching his neck or his hair and the way looking at her...
this was the MINDFUCK of how he does it....knowing this is basically law of state transfer in RSD.
which is you can game daygame or nightgame or anywhere if you know this !!!
badboy's 2 advices that make you really good....great tips on game and emotional calibration
is the advice of going out and make her night.....I used this when I got LMR and couldnt close , and used BT spiking to make her feel awesome and happy.. I was happy myself, this is awesome advice.
Neediness energy, forget seduction ...... this is important to project. My first sticking points were seeking rapport who SAFFRON detected. I credit him with this, once m,y subcommunicacion became non needy it created the girl to react to me.
also as a bonus.......
talk about her feelings the way she feels.....
this is crucial and he is vague about it but its the pillar of NLP and her stae and controlling her emotions..
you become the harp player, the pied piper to her emotions...
I use only humour and sexual and confusion with some RSD Routines from TIM and RYAN's verbal attraction..
I avoid talking about low or sad things ..maybe for door pattern but for tother stuff I dont, I disagree with TOPO on this..... I do use CJs heartmelters but only 1, also I dont over qualify, CJ uses 1 or 2 , I used one big one and cosmo routine so no need to talk alot..unless its revvelant to her personality and or conversation to deepend her incvesting or talking....conversational skills itself is included qualifiers.
YAD in his infield video doesnt qualify, saffron qualify as chalengeing after comfort and attraction..to get her chasing him....this i used to do alot. best way ...push pull : )
badboy He uses different emotions...I tried but not had success.
Neediness energy, forget seduction ...... this is important to project. My first sticking points were seeking rapport who SAFFRON detected. I credit him with this, once m,y subcommunicacion became non needy it created the girl to react to me.
also as a bonus.......
talk about her feelings the way she feels.....
this is crucial and he is vague about it but its the pillar of NLP and her stae and controlling her emotions..
you become the harp player, the pied piper to her emotions...
I use only humour and sexual and confusion with some RSD Routines from TIM and RYAN's verbal attraction..
I avoid talking about low or sad things ..maybe for door pattern but for tother stuff I dont, I disagree with TOPO on this..... I do use CJs heartmelters but only 1, also I dont over qualify, CJ uses 1 or 2 , I used one big one and cosmo routine so no need to talk alot..unless its revvelant to her personality and or conversation to deepend her incvesting or talking....conversational skills itself is included qualifiers.
YAD in his infield video doesnt qualify, saffron qualify as chalengeing after comfort and attraction..to get her chasing him....this i used to do alot. best way ...push pull : )
badboy He uses different emotions...I tried but not had success.
Thursday, December 16, 2010
OLD LR post rejection ,pre getting good. 2009
I want to write cause I had an experince.
I got rejected a week later from my birthday when Molly was attracted to me and I was frat boy coming on too strong...that pulled her back.
2nd was the 3am woman, who Franco pointed out good advice..also from Jesse.
But first thing first is that after rejection and already warmup..I mean I was doing improv and I think improv is great, plus I was being more funny.. I used to make girls laugh which is a BT Spike itself.
So i was pissed and I then called a girl, she was cute her name was I dont know...stripper.
yeah and I called her and then teased her mehow style , "wait are you really coming or are you going to flake on me ? causeif not Im calling someone else, i mean im not sure about you if you are a flaky flake.. : ) and if you are really worth it"
she responded as in her accepting the challenge and she seemed attracted.
at this point i was basically taking her off customer frame and going with break rapport and calibration to get her to qualify herself..
this seems risky but I was on fire...I was warmed up and witty ;)
so she coems in with her freind and I do mehow spin, and assukme rapport, as they come in and then girl leaves, the friend..Im sure they both came to see me...anywyas, she came in and she was on and about .. I was so on that I
sat on my couch at the lounge red velvet..and wanted to have her strip to me , she then said she has never stripped for anyone so I then reverse roles and strip for her as Im provoking her and me being the tease and she says Im the tease here, we almost made out.. but I felt she was attracted...
she told me she was Bi and more LEsbian.. LACEY !!!!!
yeah so then I grab her and pick her up as she was my GF..I assue like we were GF BF sex..
then I offer her a drink she said water, ok then I show her to my bedroom all blue...
nice there we lay on the bed and I start kissing her neck and tits, she is really friendly and I go to eat her pussy good, we go 69...
she then pulls out a condom.. we fuck and I took a pill I think a viagra..
so then I think we fuck twice i came twice..she was wet and really enhoying it...I remember that after sex , like badboy said once, women become more open and receptive...so I then did cosmo routine on her and anchored it by touching her.. we went to lounge and she started asking me if I had a GF and if I was a player..I thnk i told er that i might not seee her again, she got abit sad and then I changed her emotions abit by hugging her.
I think I was practicing push pull and emotions..its like confusing but it works I think rsd ryan said that not sure...irts push pull..emoitonal 101s etc
ButI really liked her.
I remember I got a call from her whenI was over at another place at my friends, also i kindah fucked up causeI invited her to opening of saphires...I never showed up which is terrible... but I got a call and it was saturaday and she said she wanted to see me and not to pay her and she wanted to hang out..I was caught by surpirse and I fucked up by hesitating and telling her why she com eto see me...UGGH!! this is awful what I did I was still pregame gettin good..I sabotaged myself here terribly...
thenI treid to call her and she didnt pickup the phone, I never heard from her again.
she was beautiful.... but I think using NLP when she is invested she will backwards rationalize that she is attracted to me, also the mehow stuff did work for abit, it was a mix of mehow and swinggcat tbh..Improv helped calibrate aLOT!!!
anywas this can be done using challengeing and then NLP post sex to get her to like you.
Patterns work
I got rejected a week later from my birthday when Molly was attracted to me and I was frat boy coming on too strong...that pulled her back.
2nd was the 3am woman, who Franco pointed out good advice..also from Jesse.
But first thing first is that after rejection and already warmup..I mean I was doing improv and I think improv is great, plus I was being more funny.. I used to make girls laugh which is a BT Spike itself.
So i was pissed and I then called a girl, she was cute her name was I dont know...stripper.
yeah and I called her and then teased her mehow style , "wait are you really coming or are you going to flake on me ? causeif not Im calling someone else, i mean im not sure about you if you are a flaky flake.. : ) and if you are really worth it"
she responded as in her accepting the challenge and she seemed attracted.
at this point i was basically taking her off customer frame and going with break rapport and calibration to get her to qualify herself..
this seems risky but I was on fire...I was warmed up and witty ;)
so she coems in with her freind and I do mehow spin, and assukme rapport, as they come in and then girl leaves, the friend..Im sure they both came to see me...anywyas, she came in and she was on and about .. I was so on that I
sat on my couch at the lounge red velvet..and wanted to have her strip to me , she then said she has never stripped for anyone so I then reverse roles and strip for her as Im provoking her and me being the tease and she says Im the tease here, we almost made out.. but I felt she was attracted...
she told me she was Bi and more LEsbian.. LACEY !!!!!
yeah so then I grab her and pick her up as she was my GF..I assue like we were GF BF sex..
then I offer her a drink she said water, ok then I show her to my bedroom all blue...
nice there we lay on the bed and I start kissing her neck and tits, she is really friendly and I go to eat her pussy good, we go 69...
she then pulls out a condom.. we fuck and I took a pill I think a viagra..
so then I think we fuck twice i came twice..she was wet and really enhoying it...I remember that after sex , like badboy said once, women become more open and receptive...so I then did cosmo routine on her and anchored it by touching her.. we went to lounge and she started asking me if I had a GF and if I was a player..I thnk i told er that i might not seee her again, she got abit sad and then I changed her emotions abit by hugging her.
I think I was practicing push pull and emotions..its like confusing but it works I think rsd ryan said that not sure...irts push pull..emoitonal 101s etc
ButI really liked her.
I remember I got a call from her whenI was over at another place at my friends, also i kindah fucked up causeI invited her to opening of saphires...I never showed up which is terrible... but I got a call and it was saturaday and she said she wanted to see me and not to pay her and she wanted to hang out..I was caught by surpirse and I fucked up by hesitating and telling her why she com eto see me...UGGH!! this is awful what I did I was still pregame gettin good..I sabotaged myself here terribly...
thenI treid to call her and she didnt pickup the phone, I never heard from her again.
she was beautiful.... but I think using NLP when she is invested she will backwards rationalize that she is attracted to me, also the mehow stuff did work for abit, it was a mix of mehow and swinggcat tbh..Improv helped calibrate aLOT!!!
anywas this can be done using challengeing and then NLP post sex to get her to like you.
Patterns work
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Gun to the Head: Charred Remains Checklist-SNL CJ's LIST
Posted at April 24, 2009
After charring your doubters with the flamethrower you’ll probably want to get some fresh air and reflect.
What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same Night Lay?
Well, now it’s time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to the fire. This is the time to be honest and real about your effort level and whether or not you have your shit together.
“When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance
is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates.” – Thomas Monson
Use a checklist to help you measure your work rate.
1. How many sets did I open? (If it’s less than 3 per hour then you MUST increase your work rate)
2. Of those sets, how many did I open with the INTENTION of taking it as far as I could?
3. When something didn’t go as I planned, did I take it the wrong way?
4. Did I latch on to conversational threads that didn’t serve me?
5. Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?
6. Of the TimeBridge’s I attempted, how many times did I meekly put it out there instead of really making an effort to pull her out of the current time/place and into the future with me?
7. Did I make it clear to her friends who I was gaming?
8. Did I tell them I liked her and thought she was cool?
9. Did I ever get out of my head and attempt a REAL connection with the woman in front of me?
10. Did I set sexual frames and show that I valued her sexuality as well as my own?
11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?
12. Did I tell her I liked her (lips/hair/certain mannerism/smell)? Did I tell her I thought she was sexy?
13. How many times did I attempt the Bounce?
14. Did I attempt a kiss close?
15. Did she give me any openings (conversationally) that I missed? Like a compliment? Or, a hint that she was open for something happening?
16. Did I miss her qualifying herself before I even tried to qualify her?
17. Did I “drunk-n-lonely” text about 10 minutes after close?
What is measured improves.
Captain Jack
After charring your doubters with the flamethrower you’ll probably want to get some fresh air and reflect.
What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same Night Lay?
Well, now it’s time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to the fire. This is the time to be honest and real about your effort level and whether or not you have your shit together.
“When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance
is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates.” – Thomas Monson
Use a checklist to help you measure your work rate.
1. How many sets did I open? (If it’s less than 3 per hour then you MUST increase your work rate)
2. Of those sets, how many did I open with the INTENTION of taking it as far as I could?
3. When something didn’t go as I planned, did I take it the wrong way?
4. Did I latch on to conversational threads that didn’t serve me?
5. Did I leave before attempting a TimeBridge?
6. Of the TimeBridge’s I attempted, how many times did I meekly put it out there instead of really making an effort to pull her out of the current time/place and into the future with me?
7. Did I make it clear to her friends who I was gaming?
8. Did I tell them I liked her and thought she was cool?
9. Did I ever get out of my head and attempt a REAL connection with the woman in front of me?
10. Did I set sexual frames and show that I valued her sexuality as well as my own?
11. Did I show her I was interested in making something happen very soon?
12. Did I tell her I liked her (lips/hair/certain mannerism/smell)? Did I tell her I thought she was sexy?
13. How many times did I attempt the Bounce?
14. Did I attempt a kiss close?
15. Did she give me any openings (conversationally) that I missed? Like a compliment? Or, a hint that she was open for something happening?
16. Did I miss her qualifying herself before I even tried to qualify her?
17. Did I “drunk-n-lonely” text about 10 minutes after close?
What is measured improves.
Captain Jack
Attract Women: Gun to the Head Gaming by CJ
Posted at April 22, 2009 Hola Numbnuts…
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesn’t even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, “Is this the guy?” The other looks at a photograph and says, “He’s not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I’d say it is him.”
One of them says, “Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or we’re going to shoot you in the face.”
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Here’s what I’d do…
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol’ mouth movin’ a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is “How’s it going?”
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after I’ve TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.
Imagine this… you have plans to go bowling tonight. It’s Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: “What’s going on man?”
You: “Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.”
Buddy: “Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit… maybe share our feelings and shit?”
You: “Umm… Well… I always bowl on Tuesdays… kinda my normal thing and uh…”
But, what if Buddy called you up and said, “Dude… These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah, blah…”
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridge’s set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute prior to close.
11. If she doesn’t take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, “It’s just right down the street.” (I’ve used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, “Hey sexy” – just in case this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the face.
13. As she’s driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. “Turn here.” “Go left.” when you get to your place say, “Park here.” I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.
14. “Come in and get some water before you head back.”
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is… while she’s in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like “Wedding Crashers” or, “South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers” because it is sexual in nature and hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, “And… try not to think about me constantly” as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic way.
Captain Jack
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesn’t even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, “Is this the guy?” The other looks at a photograph and says, “He’s not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I’d say it is him.”
One of them says, “Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or we’re going to shoot you in the face.”
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Here’s what I’d do…
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol’ mouth movin’ a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is “How’s it going?”
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after I’ve TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.
Imagine this… you have plans to go bowling tonight. It’s Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: “What’s going on man?”
You: “Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.”
Buddy: “Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit… maybe share our feelings and shit?”
You: “Umm… Well… I always bowl on Tuesdays… kinda my normal thing and uh…”
But, what if Buddy called you up and said, “Dude… These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah, blah…”
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridge’s set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute prior to close.
11. If she doesn’t take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, “It’s just right down the street.” (I’ve used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, “Hey sexy” – just in case this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the face.
13. As she’s driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. “Turn here.” “Go left.” when you get to your place say, “Park here.” I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.
14. “Come in and get some water before you head back.”
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is… while she’s in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like “Wedding Crashers” or, “South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers” because it is sexual in nature and hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, “And… try not to think about me constantly” as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic way.
Captain Jack
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
swingers made me think of threesome game
I m looking into sex game,
I hate ebook or being to logical, yet simple and easy works for me, then leave it up to me to be creative :)
so I saw swinger by nina hartley.
her female psycology comes from experience her vids are better than any stupid e book.
I actually used her howe to make love to a woman first 10 minutes as a sexual frames alal topo redstack.
seriosuly she knows her stuff.
but her she has great examples how to fell comfortabl and how to escalate her comfort threshold to new things in sex.
for me its awesome cause its like whole new area and being a PUA is more like I can dominate this area too.
guys are stale in terms of just squirting, the excitement comes from the emotions of sex and unexpecteness and making it a movie for her as she were reading a erotic novel.
thats the type of experience you shoul;d be giving to her.
What guy is going to give her that????
very few.
9 1/2 weeks pushes it too much but its a great example, he should have built comfort , remeber in relationships the cycle is comfort and sexualness.
this is to be kept in constant spiking of the whole process.
DONT BE BUTTON PUSHING
but know what to do when time comes and make things happen....
you lead
you take initiative (thanks alley cat)
so as with greeeneys I plan on taking my sexual comfort thresshold to the next level with her....
like MRM says in situations where youve never done it act like youve been there and done it, adapt to the scenario. to avoid feeling insecure and in your head.
act as you go yet TAKE CALCULATED RISKS
thershold comfort to move further, reach levels , higher levels = excitement attraction.
even addiction.
use that analogy and read in10nse article as franco also comments.
swinggcatt might have some stuff but his push pull works well and for closing.
its basically arousing her and you pulliong back arousaing her and you pulling backl to make her confuse and hornty and wanting you to want it bad.
you escalate from there to avoid keeping it stale or you overgaming or buyers remorse.
I see that is difference of rapid closes, seeing when girls are that ready to fuck you lead.
Swingers vid taught me how far Im from being in game.
knowing this dynamic helps me analyze a structure of basis of how emoitons and sex can crete arrousal to a point of intensity.....even addiction of pleasure.
Im going to ask franco on that WWHD?
I hate ebook or being to logical, yet simple and easy works for me, then leave it up to me to be creative :)
so I saw swinger by nina hartley.
her female psycology comes from experience her vids are better than any stupid e book.
I actually used her howe to make love to a woman first 10 minutes as a sexual frames alal topo redstack.
seriosuly she knows her stuff.
but her she has great examples how to fell comfortabl and how to escalate her comfort threshold to new things in sex.
for me its awesome cause its like whole new area and being a PUA is more like I can dominate this area too.
guys are stale in terms of just squirting, the excitement comes from the emotions of sex and unexpecteness and making it a movie for her as she were reading a erotic novel.
thats the type of experience you shoul;d be giving to her.
What guy is going to give her that????
very few.
9 1/2 weeks pushes it too much but its a great example, he should have built comfort , remeber in relationships the cycle is comfort and sexualness.
this is to be kept in constant spiking of the whole process.
DONT BE BUTTON PUSHING
but know what to do when time comes and make things happen....
you lead
you take initiative (thanks alley cat)
so as with greeeneys I plan on taking my sexual comfort thresshold to the next level with her....
like MRM says in situations where youve never done it act like youve been there and done it, adapt to the scenario. to avoid feeling insecure and in your head.
act as you go yet TAKE CALCULATED RISKS
thershold comfort to move further, reach levels , higher levels = excitement attraction.
even addiction.
use that analogy and read in10nse article as franco also comments.
swinggcatt might have some stuff but his push pull works well and for closing.
its basically arousing her and you pulliong back arousaing her and you pulling backl to make her confuse and hornty and wanting you to want it bad.
you escalate from there to avoid keeping it stale or you overgaming or buyers remorse.
I see that is difference of rapid closes, seeing when girls are that ready to fuck you lead.
Swingers vid taught me how far Im from being in game.
knowing this dynamic helps me analyze a structure of basis of how emoitons and sex can crete arrousal to a point of intensity.....even addiction of pleasure.
Im going to ask franco on that WWHD?
Monday, April 26, 2010
Sexualizing Your Game: How To’s and Same Night Lay Guidelines
Sexualizing Your Game: How To’s
Posted at May 22, 2007
Ok, early in my PU career a few things happened that required me to focus on SNL’s. One was that my car blew up on my first f-close out of bootcamp.
The second was, even when I had access to a car, I could get girls numbers and even timebridge’s but I could FEEL on the day2’s that there was no sexual energy so they would drag out to day3’s, day4’s. Naturally, I said “Fuck that shit!”
And, put on my scientist hat to design in-field experiments to 1) Get same night sex because I didn’t know when I’d have access to a car or 2) Make Day2’s little more than coming to my place for sex
Then, I read “My Secret Garden” and “Way of the Superior Man” and both of them rocked my world. Those are must reads for every PUA.
So, how do you get sexual in the sarge? There’s a direct way (which Sinn has been using for a few weeks now and I’m sure he’ll post about it) and then there’s an Indirect way which relies on outside framing ideas and presuppositions (from the Milton Model created by Bandler).
Here’s my normal way of doing it:
Opener…
DHV Spike Stories…
BUT, my DHV spike stories contain references to a past girlfriend who was a dancer. The presups are that 1) she’s hot 2) she can have any guy but she wants me and 3) she’s a very sexual person
At this point, if we’re still talking I do “sleepy eyes” ala ijjjjjji and make my movements slow and deliberate with LOTS of eye contact and shoulder and lower back kino.
At the first opportunity (mini-isolation or full) I run my version of Strawberry Fields. I’m not saying she’s a sexual being. It’s the test!
When I give her the results I often whisper them into her ear with my hand on her lowerback. Then, I push her away.
If this goes well I start bouncing between my comfort stack and more sexual presupps. Usually by this time you can start saying more direct sexual talk (“If your friends weren’t here I’d spank you for being such a bad girl.”)
I think of this as an interlacing spiral moving upwards to sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort, Sex. In lock-step.
I try to get “Rings on Fingers” in after one comfort routine. “Rings on Fingers” does 3 things:
1) It tells her she is sexually aggressive when she sees someone she’s attracted to…
2) It tells her your are NOT judgmental
3) It says that BOTH of you are good at keeping secrets
The change in her demeanor is visible. If you’ve ever done it you’ll know what I’m talking about. The best way I can describe it is “She softens and then glows.”
Now, if I haven’t gotten the Same Night Lay Logistics info by this time then I make sure to do it now. (look for “Same Night Lay” guidelines to find out those questions)
Next, I’ll start laying down my Identity Stack which includes my Cosmo Routine I based off of Bandler’s SRT. I’ve shared this in my eCoaching program. It MIGHT be on the Lounge as well.
Statements like “I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now” work well at this point. Kiss tests like going cheek-to-cheek to tell her something can often lead to what appears to be a spontaneous kiss, too.
One way to know if you’re out of lock-step in terms of sexual escalation and comfort is if she says things like, “Don’t you want to know anything about me?” or “I hardly know you.” – throttle back and run some more comfort.
The rest of the logistical info can be found here.
~ Captain Jack ~
Same Night Lay Guidelines
Posted at February 14, 2007 Hola PUAs,
As promised, my insights on SNL’s.
The first major attitude shift is this: Women don’t go to clubs/bars only to listen to music, drink or talk to friends. They can do all of those at home or at a friends house. They go because they want/need sex and they want to be picked up.
Debriefing shows they would have sex the same night more often were the feelings there. Your job, fellow pirate, is to create the feelings, create the opportunity and do so in a manner that seems so natural and easy that it seems like it all just fell into place.
Sinn referred to this when he said, “Captain Jack Method: Hang out till sex happens.”
First I want to tell you that there IS a difference between Same-Night-Lays (SNL) and One Night Stands (ONS).
ONS skips comfort which usually results in buyer’s remorse. For all the 4-5 hours of precious time you invested you get one lay. Even worse, if you mismanage the escalation and trigger asd/lmr that you can’t get through, you’ll get zero lays.
I’ve never had any problems seeing/dating a girl who I laid the same night because I qualify and build comfort.
I’ll take this from the top…
You need to get there early (in Tejas, that means no later than 10:00) because some of your sets will fail the SNL screening statements (more on that later) and you’ll need to close out with a TimeBridge, stay the obligatory 5-10 minutes to solidify and move on.
You should focus on mixed sets. This may seem counter-intuitive but experience has shown me this is true. Here’s why: In all girl sets they often pile into one car. But, in mixed sets you have a greater chance of girls taking their own car and/or meeting the group later.
Do a little thought experiment: How many times have you witnessed a girl walking into the bar alone…she’s looking for someone…she finds them and before you know it she is seated with a 4-5 mixed set.
You open the group in the standard way, do all the normal things you’d do until you hit the “How do you guys know each other?” waypoint. If she’s not there with someone, then isolate (or atleast get mini-isolation.)
Now that you are in isolation it’s time to start with the sexual framing. I use my version of Strawberry fields and “Rings on Fingers” to frame things sexually and I start seeding the TB.
It is supremely important that you don’t convey any “judgmentalism” regarding sex, sexual preferences or lifestyles in any way, shape or form.
You also don’t want to place too much importance on sex by talking about it or calling it a “special thing between two people” or any silly shit like that. The underlying attitude is sex is normal, healthy, fun and about to happen soon.
At the begining of C1 I start to screen for logistics issues…I listen for answers to these questions or ask them outright.
* Who did she ride with. (Best answer is, of course, alone in her car.)
* What time does she need to get up in the morning. (Best answer, later the better.)
(These things just make it easier. The better you get the more willing girls are to ignore things like riding home with guys she just met or getting up early. I know it’s hard to believe but experience proves it true.)
If the vibe is sexual and I feel like there are no obvious excuses for her not to come home with me (have to work early is the main one) I’ll stay around. If not, then I’m looking for a new set. This needs to be run super-tight. I’m talking 20 minutes in you’re making this decision because you need to be solidly in comfort by 12:30 (for venues that close at 2:00). This 1.5 hours is the MAIN (but not only) factor which distinguishes this from ONS (the other being non-sexual qualification and peer befriending.) I call 12:30 to 2:00 “Putting my time in…”
Always TimeBridge, it makes the SNL easier because it lessens asd and lmr.
As it gets closer to closing time 1:20-1:30 I start saying things like, “I don’t want the night to end, I’m really enjoying myself.”
If she agrees or says nothing you can say, “Let’s hang out at my place. I have xyz alcoholic drinks and we can watch that show I was telling you about.”
Or, you can say, “I’m kinda hungry.”
You’re saying this to see what kind of reaction you get. She may go ahead and propose eating somewhere. (Though, I’ve stopped doing this almost a year ago because I lost a few “sure” lays as the sexual tension lessened, the tiredness set in and the alcohol (and fun mode) wore off.)
The after hours club is also a good proposal. I’ve used this one quite a few times. It’s perfect because you have to swing past your place to get alcohol before heading out. And, oh by the way, the club doesn’t even open til 3am so we got 45 minutes to burn. Let’s see, how are we gonna kill 45 minutes? I know, we’ll have sex! Ha ha.
But, one of my favorite tactics (if she drove) is to get her to give me a ride home. Then, while in the parking lot you can say “Come in for a bit. You can use the restroom and have some water before you head home.” Then, grab her keys, turn off the car and get out.
(What’s that? Do I hear you worrying about your car? Don’t worry about it dude, you’re going to get laid! Have a friend take you back to your car if need be. Or, better yet, have the girl do it that night.)
Logistics separate the men from the boys (or the mPUAs)
The best mental image I can give you here is “Baby Steps.”
I rarely tell them where/how far away I live. Some of the places I go to are a good 35-40 minutes away. Sinn and I have pulled 2 or 3 times SNL’s from those locations so he can attest to my skill in that area.
Fidelio, KinoMaster, and Tribulus have all witnessed with their own eyes me doing this, multiple times, as well.
The goal is to get her to the seduction location and make it look like it sorta just happened. This is why the “gimme a ride home” and the “after hours venue, oh wait, gotta go home and get alcohol” tactics work so well.
Hopefully, you started a good kino progression early in the sarge. Because once she’s in your place it’s time to amp it up a little bit.
Hot/cold is the order of the day. Make out, pull back, continue with your comfort material. Tease her mercilessly.
Have your LMR skills honed because you’ll almost surely have to use them.
The good news is: If you don’t get the lay, the day2 is almost assuredly going to be her coming straight over to have sex with you and that’s my kinda date.
~ Captain Jack ~
Posted at May 22, 2007
Ok, early in my PU career a few things happened that required me to focus on SNL’s. One was that my car blew up on my first f-close out of bootcamp.
The second was, even when I had access to a car, I could get girls numbers and even timebridge’s but I could FEEL on the day2’s that there was no sexual energy so they would drag out to day3’s, day4’s. Naturally, I said “Fuck that shit!”
And, put on my scientist hat to design in-field experiments to 1) Get same night sex because I didn’t know when I’d have access to a car or 2) Make Day2’s little more than coming to my place for sex
Then, I read “My Secret Garden” and “Way of the Superior Man” and both of them rocked my world. Those are must reads for every PUA.
So, how do you get sexual in the sarge? There’s a direct way (which Sinn has been using for a few weeks now and I’m sure he’ll post about it) and then there’s an Indirect way which relies on outside framing ideas and presuppositions (from the Milton Model created by Bandler).
Here’s my normal way of doing it:
Opener…
DHV Spike Stories…
BUT, my DHV spike stories contain references to a past girlfriend who was a dancer. The presups are that 1) she’s hot 2) she can have any guy but she wants me and 3) she’s a very sexual person
At this point, if we’re still talking I do “sleepy eyes” ala ijjjjjji and make my movements slow and deliberate with LOTS of eye contact and shoulder and lower back kino.
At the first opportunity (mini-isolation or full) I run my version of Strawberry Fields. I’m not saying she’s a sexual being. It’s the test!
When I give her the results I often whisper them into her ear with my hand on her lowerback. Then, I push her away.
If this goes well I start bouncing between my comfort stack and more sexual presupps. Usually by this time you can start saying more direct sexual talk (“If your friends weren’t here I’d spank you for being such a bad girl.”)
I think of this as an interlacing spiral moving upwards to sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort, Sex. In lock-step.
I try to get “Rings on Fingers” in after one comfort routine. “Rings on Fingers” does 3 things:
1) It tells her she is sexually aggressive when she sees someone she’s attracted to…
2) It tells her your are NOT judgmental
3) It says that BOTH of you are good at keeping secrets
The change in her demeanor is visible. If you’ve ever done it you’ll know what I’m talking about. The best way I can describe it is “She softens and then glows.”
Now, if I haven’t gotten the Same Night Lay Logistics info by this time then I make sure to do it now. (look for “Same Night Lay” guidelines to find out those questions)
Next, I’ll start laying down my Identity Stack which includes my Cosmo Routine I based off of Bandler’s SRT. I’ve shared this in my eCoaching program. It MIGHT be on the Lounge as well.
Statements like “I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now” work well at this point. Kiss tests like going cheek-to-cheek to tell her something can often lead to what appears to be a spontaneous kiss, too.
One way to know if you’re out of lock-step in terms of sexual escalation and comfort is if she says things like, “Don’t you want to know anything about me?” or “I hardly know you.” – throttle back and run some more comfort.
The rest of the logistical info can be found here.
~ Captain Jack ~
Same Night Lay Guidelines
Posted at February 14, 2007 Hola PUAs,
As promised, my insights on SNL’s.
The first major attitude shift is this: Women don’t go to clubs/bars only to listen to music, drink or talk to friends. They can do all of those at home or at a friends house. They go because they want/need sex and they want to be picked up.
Debriefing shows they would have sex the same night more often were the feelings there. Your job, fellow pirate, is to create the feelings, create the opportunity and do so in a manner that seems so natural and easy that it seems like it all just fell into place.
Sinn referred to this when he said, “Captain Jack Method: Hang out till sex happens.”
First I want to tell you that there IS a difference between Same-Night-Lays (SNL) and One Night Stands (ONS).
ONS skips comfort which usually results in buyer’s remorse. For all the 4-5 hours of precious time you invested you get one lay. Even worse, if you mismanage the escalation and trigger asd/lmr that you can’t get through, you’ll get zero lays.
I’ve never had any problems seeing/dating a girl who I laid the same night because I qualify and build comfort.
I’ll take this from the top…
You need to get there early (in Tejas, that means no later than 10:00) because some of your sets will fail the SNL screening statements (more on that later) and you’ll need to close out with a TimeBridge, stay the obligatory 5-10 minutes to solidify and move on.
You should focus on mixed sets. This may seem counter-intuitive but experience has shown me this is true. Here’s why: In all girl sets they often pile into one car. But, in mixed sets you have a greater chance of girls taking their own car and/or meeting the group later.
Do a little thought experiment: How many times have you witnessed a girl walking into the bar alone…she’s looking for someone…she finds them and before you know it she is seated with a 4-5 mixed set.
You open the group in the standard way, do all the normal things you’d do until you hit the “How do you guys know each other?” waypoint. If she’s not there with someone, then isolate (or atleast get mini-isolation.)
Now that you are in isolation it’s time to start with the sexual framing. I use my version of Strawberry fields and “Rings on Fingers” to frame things sexually and I start seeding the TB.
It is supremely important that you don’t convey any “judgmentalism” regarding sex, sexual preferences or lifestyles in any way, shape or form.
You also don’t want to place too much importance on sex by talking about it or calling it a “special thing between two people” or any silly shit like that. The underlying attitude is sex is normal, healthy, fun and about to happen soon.
At the begining of C1 I start to screen for logistics issues…I listen for answers to these questions or ask them outright.
* Who did she ride with. (Best answer is, of course, alone in her car.)
* What time does she need to get up in the morning. (Best answer, later the better.)
(These things just make it easier. The better you get the more willing girls are to ignore things like riding home with guys she just met or getting up early. I know it’s hard to believe but experience proves it true.)
If the vibe is sexual and I feel like there are no obvious excuses for her not to come home with me (have to work early is the main one) I’ll stay around. If not, then I’m looking for a new set. This needs to be run super-tight. I’m talking 20 minutes in you’re making this decision because you need to be solidly in comfort by 12:30 (for venues that close at 2:00). This 1.5 hours is the MAIN (but not only) factor which distinguishes this from ONS (the other being non-sexual qualification and peer befriending.) I call 12:30 to 2:00 “Putting my time in…”
Always TimeBridge, it makes the SNL easier because it lessens asd and lmr.
As it gets closer to closing time 1:20-1:30 I start saying things like, “I don’t want the night to end, I’m really enjoying myself.”
If she agrees or says nothing you can say, “Let’s hang out at my place. I have xyz alcoholic drinks and we can watch that show I was telling you about.”
Or, you can say, “I’m kinda hungry.”
You’re saying this to see what kind of reaction you get. She may go ahead and propose eating somewhere. (Though, I’ve stopped doing this almost a year ago because I lost a few “sure” lays as the sexual tension lessened, the tiredness set in and the alcohol (and fun mode) wore off.)
The after hours club is also a good proposal. I’ve used this one quite a few times. It’s perfect because you have to swing past your place to get alcohol before heading out. And, oh by the way, the club doesn’t even open til 3am so we got 45 minutes to burn. Let’s see, how are we gonna kill 45 minutes? I know, we’ll have sex! Ha ha.
But, one of my favorite tactics (if she drove) is to get her to give me a ride home. Then, while in the parking lot you can say “Come in for a bit. You can use the restroom and have some water before you head home.” Then, grab her keys, turn off the car and get out.
(What’s that? Do I hear you worrying about your car? Don’t worry about it dude, you’re going to get laid! Have a friend take you back to your car if need be. Or, better yet, have the girl do it that night.)
Logistics separate the men from the boys (or the mPUAs)
The best mental image I can give you here is “Baby Steps.”
I rarely tell them where/how far away I live. Some of the places I go to are a good 35-40 minutes away. Sinn and I have pulled 2 or 3 times SNL’s from those locations so he can attest to my skill in that area.
Fidelio, KinoMaster, and Tribulus have all witnessed with their own eyes me doing this, multiple times, as well.
The goal is to get her to the seduction location and make it look like it sorta just happened. This is why the “gimme a ride home” and the “after hours venue, oh wait, gotta go home and get alcohol” tactics work so well.
Hopefully, you started a good kino progression early in the sarge. Because once she’s in your place it’s time to amp it up a little bit.
Hot/cold is the order of the day. Make out, pull back, continue with your comfort material. Tease her mercilessly.
Have your LMR skills honed because you’ll almost surely have to use them.
The good news is: If you don’t get the lay, the day2 is almost assuredly going to be her coming straight over to have sex with you and that’s my kinda date.
~ Captain Jack ~
Thursday, April 15, 2010
before PU game its head game FIRST
Mindset is important, its to get you motivated and concentrated on your work.
social interactions is important as well.
whatever is in your head can make it or break it, in life and with girls.
My friend said "turn shit into fertilizer"
"turn negativity OFF it doesnt take you anywhere"
Plus the concept of the power of engaement and time management and being proactive , closer mentality which is MOVING THINGS FORWARD!!!!!!
GEtting your goals, being active and hungry for success to live comfortably and enjoy life.
its like excersize to get in shape, takes sacrifice dedication to get there.
right tools right knowledge you can,
My trainer said "its all about consistency and persistant" "sticking to what works"
"nutrition is key" Tom vennuto is the BIBLE of INNERGAME
If you use it for pickup its effective, reading ti wont make you skinny but doing excersizes and nutrition how the concept is and applying it to a habit,
right now Im doing AIKIDO DIET.
Almost like atkins
all protein, actually alot of protein intake with suplements
and on days I train I eat carbs example:
one wheat bread, half a cup of oatmeal and half a tuna can size of yam.
NO RICE NO PASTA< NO BEANS< NO RED MEAT, NO FRUITS.
so game IS like a muscle like entropy says...
freakin ENTROPY :)
Guys get too wrapped up in learning game and get weird, gain knowledge and cant approach for shit.
So Im going to relax with the reading.
I remember I look into coaching and reading once I knew and looked up the topic what I was failing..
I went to strip club and stoof there got IOIs seem real but did takeaway,not too easy or eager cute girl.... as soon as I got JK Ellis and Lew Payne's book on Stripper Secrets read first page saw diagram and I actually sat right places!!!:)
So my intuition is correct!!! Im a natural :)
SO I have to stop overeactign and overanalyzing myself, thats keep me back.
the fuck up and learn method as a I go since I know women and have experience rather than read on it and stay stuck.
so like Franco says, limit you mind BOX not put too much information....do more than read.
So BADBOY IS right about weird guys in coomunity and I was one hell of weird guy,
Allycat helped me become normal and contrl myself, I actually modelled myself afer him.
So being normal is better than being weird or scripted
from normal its easy to be cool, not try hard cool.
Topo demonstrates its about subcommunications of how you potray your attractive qualities.
lets not go into too much detail on that.LOL. he over does it.
I follow SAFFRON's walk , thought and competitveness. his bodylanguage has helped me.
"I SAFFRON ,THE SEX GOD" "you can call me MASTER" :)
SAFFRON!!!!
that being said....
anyways here is what I sent CJ,
Thanks for introducing me to sedona method,
I read the book and did excersizes but now is when Im starting to be more aware of the whole concept and
Im trying to use it as a leverage to get me away from emotional cloud and being focus on my goal or even in PU , on just being proactive moving things forward.
In the begining ,I'd get relaxed and control my emotions. and positive thoughts stayed, but I realized later that i was indeed feeling happy but I wasnt proactive.or taking action after it.
I noticed NOW since Ive been under alot of stress trying to apply to finish school.. etc aka problem solving or sticking points
the power Im getting is when I breath like deep breaths and clear my head ,
then I tell myself or talk myself about the feelings or emotions aka RUN sedona method
and feel honest about myself without being low self esteem about it,( you know bro? )
then after that I ask myself "what do I need to do to solve this problem?" or "How do I solve it to make it work for me "
I then drink water or sit down an relax and i start getting ideas on how to improve of angles of problem solving.
in my case , papaerwork or ways to get back into school and finish.
anyways, whated to share if you kindah understand what I mean :)
but now thinking this might help in the area of mindset (innergame) when doing sticking point analysis for pu.
just a thought,
Cool :)
-S-
social interactions is important as well.
whatever is in your head can make it or break it, in life and with girls.
My friend said "turn shit into fertilizer"
"turn negativity OFF it doesnt take you anywhere"
Plus the concept of the power of engaement and time management and being proactive , closer mentality which is MOVING THINGS FORWARD!!!!!!
GEtting your goals, being active and hungry for success to live comfortably and enjoy life.
its like excersize to get in shape, takes sacrifice dedication to get there.
right tools right knowledge you can,
My trainer said "its all about consistency and persistant" "sticking to what works"
"nutrition is key" Tom vennuto is the BIBLE of INNERGAME
If you use it for pickup its effective, reading ti wont make you skinny but doing excersizes and nutrition how the concept is and applying it to a habit,
right now Im doing AIKIDO DIET.
Almost like atkins
all protein, actually alot of protein intake with suplements
and on days I train I eat carbs example:
one wheat bread, half a cup of oatmeal and half a tuna can size of yam.
NO RICE NO PASTA< NO BEANS< NO RED MEAT, NO FRUITS.
so game IS like a muscle like entropy says...
freakin ENTROPY :)
Guys get too wrapped up in learning game and get weird, gain knowledge and cant approach for shit.
So Im going to relax with the reading.
I remember I look into coaching and reading once I knew and looked up the topic what I was failing..
I went to strip club and stoof there got IOIs seem real but did takeaway,not too easy or eager cute girl.... as soon as I got JK Ellis and Lew Payne's book on Stripper Secrets read first page saw diagram and I actually sat right places!!!:)
So my intuition is correct!!! Im a natural :)
SO I have to stop overeactign and overanalyzing myself, thats keep me back.
the fuck up and learn method as a I go since I know women and have experience rather than read on it and stay stuck.
so like Franco says, limit you mind BOX not put too much information....do more than read.
So BADBOY IS right about weird guys in coomunity and I was one hell of weird guy,
Allycat helped me become normal and contrl myself, I actually modelled myself afer him.
So being normal is better than being weird or scripted
from normal its easy to be cool, not try hard cool.
Topo demonstrates its about subcommunications of how you potray your attractive qualities.
lets not go into too much detail on that.LOL. he over does it.
I follow SAFFRON's walk , thought and competitveness. his bodylanguage has helped me.
"I SAFFRON ,THE SEX GOD" "you can call me MASTER" :)
SAFFRON!!!!
that being said....
anyways here is what I sent CJ,
Thanks for introducing me to sedona method,
I read the book and did excersizes but now is when Im starting to be more aware of the whole concept and
Im trying to use it as a leverage to get me away from emotional cloud and being focus on my goal or even in PU , on just being proactive moving things forward.
In the begining ,I'd get relaxed and control my emotions. and positive thoughts stayed, but I realized later that i was indeed feeling happy but I wasnt proactive.or taking action after it.
I noticed NOW since Ive been under alot of stress trying to apply to finish school.. etc aka problem solving or sticking points
the power Im getting is when I breath like deep breaths and clear my head ,
then I tell myself or talk myself about the feelings or emotions aka RUN sedona method
and feel honest about myself without being low self esteem about it,( you know bro? )
then after that I ask myself "what do I need to do to solve this problem?" or "How do I solve it to make it work for me "
I then drink water or sit down an relax and i start getting ideas on how to improve of angles of problem solving.
in my case , papaerwork or ways to get back into school and finish.
anyways, whated to share if you kindah understand what I mean :)
but now thinking this might help in the area of mindset (innergame) when doing sticking point analysis for pu.
just a thought,
Cool :)
-S-
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Perfect Sexual Framing by BB
Perfect Sexual Framing...
by
Big business LS instructor
On our last bootcamp together Future and I talked a bit about some of the drawbacks of learning game, and one of them is that you can never really turn it off, especially while you are watching a movie or TV show. Every character gets critiqued and every interaction gets corrected. Romance gets thrown through the game lens and rarely passes the BS test. It becomes clear to you in every romantic comedy or teen drama how fictional each interaction really is, and how popular media has helped to skew our perception of what it is that attracts the opposite sex.
Bottom line: most dating/pick up/seduction/attraction material that you find in movies or television is complete bullshit. With a few notable exceptions, they are all simply wish fulfillment on the part of the writers.
Now, I just saw the movie "Youth in Revolt" starring Michael Cera and liked it a lot. I had a few problems with it (I'm a huge film snob) but overall I give it a hearty thumbs up. There was one scene, though, that was notable and made me laugh out loud NOT because it was particularly funny or ridiculous, but because it was so spot on.
I'll spare you the details of the scene, and hit you with a few sample pieces of dialog... (I'm paraphrasing, so forgive me)
Quote:
Why don't you pull down the covers and show me what you've got going on down there?
Quote:
I want to put my head between your legs and wear you like a crown.
and my personal favorite...
Quote:
I want to take off your clothes and tickle your bellybutton...from the inside.
These lines are gangster. They are the final stage of sexual framing: talking about what want to do and are planning to do to someone. They are visual. They are evocative. They are dominant.
They are sexy.
(To be clear, I am NOT recommending that you use these lines at the beginning of your interactions with women. As I mentioned...these are the FINAL stage of sexual framing, not to mention that this movie has been seen by millions, so the exact lines' effectiveness is surely going to be soured.)
Let's take a look at some of the things our hero is accomplishing above.
Quote:
Why don't you pull down the covers and show me what you've got going on down there?
Here we start leading the sexual vibe. He lets her know his intentions as well as his position in this interaction: the leader. He issues the commands, all while adopting a playful vibe (one of the tools I strongly encourage is using humor when starting your sexual framing. It softens your initial sexual advances, bookends the ideas in positive emotions, and a host of other awesome sub communications. It is the reason why I credit humor with all of my early same night lays).
Quote:
I want to put my head between your legs and wear you like a crown.
If a woman said something like this to you what would go through your mind? You'd imagine her down there doing wonderful things to your privates. Well, women do the same thing, gentlemen. By using visual imagery like this you are letting their imaginations do some of the foreplay for you, and in their mind you know exactly where and how to touch them.
I read an awesome article in the NY Times a year ago which made some incredibly astute observations about women's sexuality, and one of them that stuck with me was that a good portion of women's sexuality is about BEING desired; knowing that they are INSPIRING an uncontrollable desire in men. To that end, when your statements are about what women MAKE you WANT to do to them (as above) it can be incredibly effective.
And lastly...my favorite...
Quote:
I want to take off your clothes and tickle your bellybutton...from the inside.
Here we have one statement that accomplishes everything already mentioned and more. Dominant, visual, and it is a "want" statement (as above). It is doing one other awesome thing, though; something I talk at length on in my humor seminar...
It sets up an expectation then subverts it. When you hear "tickle your bellybutton" what do you think of? Something cute and innocent, no doubt. When he adds the button of "from the inside" at the end it changes the entire tone of the sentence. It suddenly becomes dirty, funny, spontaneous, and last but certainly not least it becomes unique. It takes the listener of an emotional ride from fuzzy bunnies to x rated.
My hat is off to you, writers of this scene. Finally, someone got it right.
Who wants to change their abilities with women and dating FOREVER?
"His game is built on comedy...and let me tell you- the dude is funny. Funny and QUICK man...Great insight on improvising routines and very clever SUPER EASY to implement techniques for deflecting shit tests and ensuring you never run out of things to say in set. At this point I'd gotten my moneys worth."
by
Big business LS instructor
On our last bootcamp together Future and I talked a bit about some of the drawbacks of learning game, and one of them is that you can never really turn it off, especially while you are watching a movie or TV show. Every character gets critiqued and every interaction gets corrected. Romance gets thrown through the game lens and rarely passes the BS test. It becomes clear to you in every romantic comedy or teen drama how fictional each interaction really is, and how popular media has helped to skew our perception of what it is that attracts the opposite sex.
Bottom line: most dating/pick up/seduction/attraction material that you find in movies or television is complete bullshit. With a few notable exceptions, they are all simply wish fulfillment on the part of the writers.
Now, I just saw the movie "Youth in Revolt" starring Michael Cera and liked it a lot. I had a few problems with it (I'm a huge film snob) but overall I give it a hearty thumbs up. There was one scene, though, that was notable and made me laugh out loud NOT because it was particularly funny or ridiculous, but because it was so spot on.
I'll spare you the details of the scene, and hit you with a few sample pieces of dialog... (I'm paraphrasing, so forgive me)
Quote:
Why don't you pull down the covers and show me what you've got going on down there?
Quote:
I want to put my head between your legs and wear you like a crown.
and my personal favorite...
Quote:
I want to take off your clothes and tickle your bellybutton...from the inside.
These lines are gangster. They are the final stage of sexual framing: talking about what want to do and are planning to do to someone. They are visual. They are evocative. They are dominant.
They are sexy.
(To be clear, I am NOT recommending that you use these lines at the beginning of your interactions with women. As I mentioned...these are the FINAL stage of sexual framing, not to mention that this movie has been seen by millions, so the exact lines' effectiveness is surely going to be soured.)
Let's take a look at some of the things our hero is accomplishing above.
Quote:
Why don't you pull down the covers and show me what you've got going on down there?
Here we start leading the sexual vibe. He lets her know his intentions as well as his position in this interaction: the leader. He issues the commands, all while adopting a playful vibe (one of the tools I strongly encourage is using humor when starting your sexual framing. It softens your initial sexual advances, bookends the ideas in positive emotions, and a host of other awesome sub communications. It is the reason why I credit humor with all of my early same night lays).
Quote:
I want to put my head between your legs and wear you like a crown.
If a woman said something like this to you what would go through your mind? You'd imagine her down there doing wonderful things to your privates. Well, women do the same thing, gentlemen. By using visual imagery like this you are letting their imaginations do some of the foreplay for you, and in their mind you know exactly where and how to touch them.
I read an awesome article in the NY Times a year ago which made some incredibly astute observations about women's sexuality, and one of them that stuck with me was that a good portion of women's sexuality is about BEING desired; knowing that they are INSPIRING an uncontrollable desire in men. To that end, when your statements are about what women MAKE you WANT to do to them (as above) it can be incredibly effective.
And lastly...my favorite...
Quote:
I want to take off your clothes and tickle your bellybutton...from the inside.
Here we have one statement that accomplishes everything already mentioned and more. Dominant, visual, and it is a "want" statement (as above). It is doing one other awesome thing, though; something I talk at length on in my humor seminar...
It sets up an expectation then subverts it. When you hear "tickle your bellybutton" what do you think of? Something cute and innocent, no doubt. When he adds the button of "from the inside" at the end it changes the entire tone of the sentence. It suddenly becomes dirty, funny, spontaneous, and last but certainly not least it becomes unique. It takes the listener of an emotional ride from fuzzy bunnies to x rated.
My hat is off to you, writers of this scene. Finally, someone got it right.
Who wants to change their abilities with women and dating FOREVER?
"His game is built on comedy...and let me tell you- the dude is funny. Funny and QUICK man...Great insight on improvising routines and very clever SUPER EASY to implement techniques for deflecting shit tests and ensuring you never run out of things to say in set. At this point I'd gotten my moneys worth."
Saturday, February 28, 2009
FR:Level change in game and sticking points.looking to do a 30 day challenge
FR :Went out with a cool wing... he is a VA insructor....
but alot of this I noticed from him and need to model him.
GIRLS LIKE GUYS WITH " A D D" don' t be logical
Play the badboy by dominance and leading and breaking rapport
and compassionate nice guy by hugging her and smiling at her..compiments on her personality
Hey I had to write this up eventhough I have challenges aside from this skillset
-issues at school
-friendships lost
-Financial and Future matters
Today,
DAYGAME subway
NIGHTCLUB GAME upscale
STRIPPER GAME at 2 places
I did day game in subway ... situational opener obsevation then Comfort+coldread +Qualification
(rinse and repeat and throw in a tease and light kino)
If she is nice and creaive person qualifier I run the Love Poem pattern then elicit value by qualifying afterwards reward...
Direct on NYC Subway is too creepy dont do it.... only if she AI and you want to
My bday is coming up .. and My confidence level went up...but I have somewhere a bit of sticking points:
-Dance Floor GAME is a PLUS in NYC - a mistake in it you get blown out
-Lack of Leading the intraction -they get bored and I have to put more fun or be more funny and playful
-I had 2 girls hardcore qualifiying and interested but didnt get anywhere
-I had to run it and LEAD
-Too dependent at waiting for signs
-Not escalating
-Cant come up with a creative complement instead of "cool and awesome" sounds too vague
-Dont look up and stop talking or act distracted you are shooting yourself either you talk and lead or Qualify
----
MICROCALIBRATION ( must read review fom Sinn's notes)
In convo when to tease when to neg
when to go kino and energy of opener I either tooo high
different ways to reward to her instead of just a "nice"
Different of Giving Value and being easy: Give value is lightly use, calibrate with takeways then end it with a smile.
Practice giving her Male Stripper role play.
then ask : "Im going to this after party afterwards, what are you doing later?"
CALIBRATE in TEXT GAME :If she doesn't repond you TEXT: FLAKE
Dont over pursue her and take 20 minutes to repond dont over respond too quickly and too eager.
that kills attraction and she knows that you are into her...GAME OVER
Notice your bodylanguage ticks when you are under social pressure or see a beautiful woman....
Strippers are FEMALE MASTER GAMERS!
Use Mystery's I had past GF....Go make money and come back.
Practice you being a tease....
Ask her when on a week day where she goes on a day off to get a drink
PURSUE or CHASE : DO NOTHING just have FUN and Qualify
anyone can number close but number close has strength when you do it SOLID
if not dont worry or ovrthink women give ou their number to anyone
What you do for a living? --NOthing
have her ask you and get her o ask you and response more playful and interact
WRITE IT UP ?!!!!!! BITCH!!!!!!
KNOW HOW TO TIP the difference of being cheap and being taken advantage
Tip and invest:
if waitress complains of the tip ask her to give it back...
Strippers dont date customers unless you run jealousy and dont so her too much interst and treat her like a bud and not like cusomer yet you tip the dancers on the stage but not the girls wanting to give you a dance...
OBSERVATION : HE gets her invested by being friendly then funny then serious for a second then smile and tease....
Dont run sexual stuff on convo..hat will get her into worker mode.
social anxiety excersizes , tone th convesation, facial expression correction on mirror, conversation excersizes, BHRR compliment and back it woth Confidence!
GET A FUCKIN COOL LIGHTER !
KNOW HOW TO GET NUMBER CLOSE have a card and know how o ninja number close
Know
-----
THINGS TO TAKE AWAY FROM STRIPPER GAME:
Too much comfort too early
remove the "what makes you unique ,different or special" in qualification
travel questions or where in the world
dont talk about money
STOP going very personal withtout small hoops qualification its
COMFORT
ELIMINATE Response likeevery other boring guy
AVOID connection patterns they avoid feeling and seem aware of NLPor hypnosis
YES: GO EXTREMELY PLAYFUL TEASE LIGHTLY WITH KINO
BE DESCISSIVE
COMPLEMENT on herPERSONALITY and challenge her ala Sinn Hired Gun game
B-H-R-R is very Effective
Buy the manager a Drink
know how to respond to her stack and microcalibration:
I f she is direct you say : " Not right now but YES! maybe Later" : )
BE Happy and playful :
Add a funny calibrator into COSMO routine so her BT is up before eliciting and its more compliant
USE sinn 's Cold reads
Review ELTOPO POST ON Stripper game
Write up a Stack
-------------------
Showed me he was talking and texting w a major PUA well known guy....
we went to a fancy place all in suits and ties except us.... be social guy with the people that work there talk about their night ...
know another bar nearby if you isolate...
When she had an olive I oped my mouth and she didnt comply and I should have said " Greedy Bitch"
Don't over do the goofball and or dork use lightly ............once and dont repeat it comes too insulting...
calibrate her emotions in the interaction.
I WILL WRITE MORE AND ORGANIZE MY THOUGHTS I LEARNED ALOT...
The persuassion book and audiobook on the TOP RIGHT OF THE BLOG is soo money in seduction and easily related to everyday things we observe in our everyday life yet we are unaware of it... AKA elusive obvious ?
PRACTICAL STUFF WITHOUT THEORY THAT WORKS..... Im starting to apply itonmy personality and mindframe in desciscions in set. SALESMAN theory to get people to like you without being dancing monkey.
being appraochable and confident.
I will consider recording my sets and doing a 30 day daygame night game stripper game rotation challenge
is based on Brad's RSD way of how her got good super fast...
NEW YORK is definte playground for this....
but alot of this I noticed from him and need to model him.
GIRLS LIKE GUYS WITH " A D D" don' t be logical
Play the badboy by dominance and leading and breaking rapport
and compassionate nice guy by hugging her and smiling at her..compiments on her personality
Hey I had to write this up eventhough I have challenges aside from this skillset
-issues at school
-friendships lost
-Financial and Future matters
Today,
DAYGAME subway
NIGHTCLUB GAME upscale
STRIPPER GAME at 2 places
I did day game in subway ... situational opener obsevation then Comfort+coldread +Qualification
(rinse and repeat and throw in a tease and light kino)
If she is nice and creaive person qualifier I run the Love Poem pattern then elicit value by qualifying afterwards reward...
Direct on NYC Subway is too creepy dont do it.... only if she AI and you want to
My bday is coming up .. and My confidence level went up...but I have somewhere a bit of sticking points:
-Dance Floor GAME is a PLUS in NYC - a mistake in it you get blown out
-Lack of Leading the intraction -they get bored and I have to put more fun or be more funny and playful
-I had 2 girls hardcore qualifiying and interested but didnt get anywhere
-I had to run it and LEAD
-Too dependent at waiting for signs
-Not escalating
-Cant come up with a creative complement instead of "cool and awesome" sounds too vague
-Dont look up and stop talking or act distracted you are shooting yourself either you talk and lead or Qualify
----
MICROCALIBRATION ( must read review fom Sinn's notes)
In convo when to tease when to neg
when to go kino and energy of opener I either tooo high
different ways to reward to her instead of just a "nice"
Different of Giving Value and being easy: Give value is lightly use, calibrate with takeways then end it with a smile.
Practice giving her Male Stripper role play.
then ask : "Im going to this after party afterwards, what are you doing later?"
CALIBRATE in TEXT GAME :If she doesn't repond you TEXT: FLAKE
Dont over pursue her and take 20 minutes to repond dont over respond too quickly and too eager.
that kills attraction and she knows that you are into her...GAME OVER
Notice your bodylanguage ticks when you are under social pressure or see a beautiful woman....
Strippers are FEMALE MASTER GAMERS!
Use Mystery's I had past GF....Go make money and come back.
Practice you being a tease....
Ask her when on a week day where she goes on a day off to get a drink
PURSUE or CHASE : DO NOTHING just have FUN and Qualify
anyone can number close but number close has strength when you do it SOLID
if not dont worry or ovrthink women give ou their number to anyone
What you do for a living? --NOthing
have her ask you and get her o ask you and response more playful and interact
WRITE IT UP ?!!!!!! BITCH!!!!!!
KNOW HOW TO TIP the difference of being cheap and being taken advantage
Tip and invest:
if waitress complains of the tip ask her to give it back...
Strippers dont date customers unless you run jealousy and dont so her too much interst and treat her like a bud and not like cusomer yet you tip the dancers on the stage but not the girls wanting to give you a dance...
OBSERVATION : HE gets her invested by being friendly then funny then serious for a second then smile and tease....
Dont run sexual stuff on convo..hat will get her into worker mode.
social anxiety excersizes , tone th convesation, facial expression correction on mirror, conversation excersizes, BHRR compliment and back it woth Confidence!
GET A FUCKIN COOL LIGHTER !
KNOW HOW TO GET NUMBER CLOSE have a card and know how o ninja number close
Know
-----
THINGS TO TAKE AWAY FROM STRIPPER GAME:
Too much comfort too early
remove the "what makes you unique ,different or special" in qualification
travel questions or where in the world
dont talk about money
STOP going very personal withtout small hoops qualification its
COMFORT
ELIMINATE Response likeevery other boring guy
AVOID connection patterns they avoid feeling and seem aware of NLPor hypnosis
YES: GO EXTREMELY PLAYFUL TEASE LIGHTLY WITH KINO
BE DESCISSIVE
COMPLEMENT on herPERSONALITY and challenge her ala Sinn Hired Gun game
B-H-R-R is very Effective
Buy the manager a Drink
know how to respond to her stack and microcalibration:
I f she is direct you say : " Not right now but YES! maybe Later" : )
BE Happy and playful :
Add a funny calibrator into COSMO routine so her BT is up before eliciting and its more compliant
USE sinn 's Cold reads
Review ELTOPO POST ON Stripper game
Write up a Stack
-------------------
Showed me he was talking and texting w a major PUA well known guy....
we went to a fancy place all in suits and ties except us.... be social guy with the people that work there talk about their night ...
know another bar nearby if you isolate...
When she had an olive I oped my mouth and she didnt comply and I should have said " Greedy Bitch"
Don't over do the goofball and or dork use lightly ............once and dont repeat it comes too insulting...
calibrate her emotions in the interaction.
I WILL WRITE MORE AND ORGANIZE MY THOUGHTS I LEARNED ALOT...
The persuassion book and audiobook on the TOP RIGHT OF THE BLOG is soo money in seduction and easily related to everyday things we observe in our everyday life yet we are unaware of it... AKA elusive obvious ?
PRACTICAL STUFF WITHOUT THEORY THAT WORKS..... Im starting to apply itonmy personality and mindframe in desciscions in set. SALESMAN theory to get people to like you without being dancing monkey.
being appraochable and confident.
I will consider recording my sets and doing a 30 day daygame night game stripper game rotation challenge
is based on Brad's RSD way of how her got good super fast...
NEW YORK is definte playground for this....
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Funny shit to read on ONS :The Power of prop and sex talk
Hey Guys!
Im sharing something cool that I use when Im traveling,
I take this book with me. and use it as a prop.
Usually most girls will end up busting my chops on it and say crazy shit and if they felt offended I'd say crazy Sexual shit as if they were quotes from the book just for shits and giggles LMAO.
Most importantly it shows Im open minded , non judgemental and I dont take sex as a big deal.
These are important elements to game..Im not a guru or master PUA .
Im a normal guy who is really pushing myself to practice and use my own ideas creating whaatever is in my surrounding.
One of my biggest influence is Captain Jack,
not only for Game but what he went through similar sitaution and his charisma of being honest and in peace with himself as a person.
When I was going out in the beginning I ended up meeting alot of girls from out of town and I would set the stupid number and she would be leaving the next day..I total DUMBASS
I then tried to search online...that is where I found out about him.
When my BEST friend a natural we went out for the first time as friends after I got divorced and he got a one night stand it blew me away how she pulled him..... but I was like Im not goodlooking, and was stuck in my head.... eversince we became good friends and has been there in my good and bad times...
I kindah of fucked up on friendship cause he kept telling me to game his ex and within 15 minutes of meeeting her I was making out and we were talking dirty to me...but that post is for someother time...
Check it! Im not getting paid for it but its worth a good read and good laugh while being opened and getting into sex talk fast..
Im sharing something cool that I use when Im traveling,
I take this book with me. and use it as a prop.
Usually most girls will end up busting my chops on it and say crazy shit and if they felt offended I'd say crazy Sexual shit as if they were quotes from the book just for shits and giggles LMAO.
Most importantly it shows Im open minded , non judgemental and I dont take sex as a big deal.
These are important elements to game..Im not a guru or master PUA .
Im a normal guy who is really pushing myself to practice and use my own ideas creating whaatever is in my surrounding.
One of my biggest influence is Captain Jack,
not only for Game but what he went through similar sitaution and his charisma of being honest and in peace with himself as a person.
When I was going out in the beginning I ended up meeting alot of girls from out of town and I would set the stupid number and she would be leaving the next day..I total DUMBASS
I then tried to search online...that is where I found out about him.
When my BEST friend a natural we went out for the first time as friends after I got divorced and he got a one night stand it blew me away how she pulled him..... but I was like Im not goodlooking, and was stuck in my head.... eversince we became good friends and has been there in my good and bad times...
I kindah of fucked up on friendship cause he kept telling me to game his ex and within 15 minutes of meeeting her I was making out and we were talking dirty to me...but that post is for someother time...
So I found this book at LGA and was like ok this is fun experiement, I read the whole bookwhen I was going home for the holidays and women would notice me more and talk to me and It was like they appraoch me or sit next to me and I practice my verbal game....
overall I recommend reading this book..it may or may not be true but it will give you an insider view on how some women view this and how they view guys for a ONS ....
Its alot of fluff and FUN this actually did help me to be more understanding of some topics...
plus there are tips inside... but dont expect alot until you read it 2nd time.
Check it! Im not getting paid for it but its worth a good read and good laugh while being opened and getting into sex talk fast..
I find Chealsea Handler a sexy and Funny babe!
"Oooh.... I like her "-steve buschemi drunk in the wedding singer.
at 0:47
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhYzEu-OJDo&feature=related
LMAO!
over n out
sandros
NOTE: The purpose of this was to keep track on my progress.I will start posting FR and LR
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
AHA! Missed 2 SNL's chances but work on sticking points
I was in Philly , got texted by Northern Nights he is cool cat with alot of knowledge in business and game..dude has a sick identity in nyc and is always surrounded with models and naked models LOL!
When I looked over CJ's stuff I found sticking point analysis, I didnt get it but now going for the close seeing a consistent mistake of trying too hard to close...
My state was pumped and was up to go to phillly for a conference, I was talkative and warmed up....
when we got to philly I opene a woman there standing,
I hardy think of openers anymore cause
WHY OVERTHINK IT IF YOU WILL THROW IT AWAY!
I have an intuition now what to say based on going out and being talkative state....
plus if you overthink you will get stuck and not appraoch...same thing with opener.
So thats solved whether daygame or nightgame it just needs to hook and start something going ... SIMPLE!
In that morning, I got number closed by her and maybe I wont see her again who knows she was going out of town and I was going into town...ok.
So I was starting my day and usually it takes me 3 approaches to get in state, I go indirect genuinely then transition with usual game no interest whatsover....
after that Its easy to go direct but thats for another post.....
IM A WARM UP TYPE OF GUY
(check my dennis rodman warm up game when theres period of not going out and to get started in right mindframe, its cheating.)
So I couldnt close and lost 2 chances :
1- Didnt re-open on time and her BT was up another guy wihtout game and who didnt close her challenged her for a shot in the bar and he isolated her but didnt escalate just by her complying to isolate with him and using the excuse of the shot fter her BT was up was an easy and slick close....
when this happens and I see this, I get upset at myself cause I had this happen to me in Boston and the girl was all over me and some chode made out with her...entropy was telling me HEY GO RE OPEN and I didnt, I paid a price....
Next day she showed up and they were talking a bit but she of showed disinterest in him.
HAHA... I could have closed but here's my next lesson.
I was time constraint andI should have re opened with a question where to go out and build comfort and attraction with future projections then take her... spike her BT and escalate.
DUDE she was ready to go boy she just need more comfort and escalation...
2-there was another one I saw gaming a chode, she was qualifying herself and was doing over the top IOI's her game is super tight..he still didnt make a move nor was aware of wat she was doing...NEVER HELP A CHODE! It was pianfiul to watch andits my falu to be in specttor mode but I learn how behavior works when woman act like hunters and some are shy.....
I laughed and she noticed I knew what she was doing...she tried to number close him and he didnt make a move.CHODE!!!!
anyways... She was horny as hell since she was attracted to the guy, and her BT was up and she kept talking about hooking up and shit so I saw her in the hotel and she was with friends..so I taked to her exchanged numbers and she went up to watch "the bachelor"
ok, I text her 30 minutes later with "hey what are you up to now? " which is against community advice....
She responded: "Im in my room watching the bachelor"
I said:" Lets watch a movie after : ) "
she said: "Im, in my pj s already"
I said: " haha...(her name) in pjs...that I have to see " little ambiguity
she said : "well sometother time"
I said:"when is it gonna happen?.....u know what I mean"
I KIND OF FUCKED UP HERE BUT I RAN THE RISK VS TEXT THREAD TO NOWHERE
she said: "Oh I m going to go to sleep, sorry"
I said:"OK, anyways? we will be discrete"
I threw this out there cause I didnt have time to build comfort with frames and threw this out as damage control and break the sexual tension since she wasnt complying.... its common sense to step back cause if I dont it will seen too pushy...
I broke it like its not a big deal and that its mixed understanding w ambuguity...
She was tipsy and I was tipsy.....haha!
its the Jack Nicholson hotel game Paul Janka mentioned it to me LOL!!!!
then AWAKEN my day game wing reminded me that ....
JACK is famous and that Im not....... LMAO
then he said :
"You should have run comfort stupid, why are you soo fucking horny motherfucker !"
I should have taken more time to build comfort and attraction.
comfort for compliance w frames qualification and then build attraction in this case...
but hey it was a trip and I learned to be more subtle...
BE MORE SUBTLE that you intend to have sex with her....plausible deniability
conceal your intentions..... but I learned that I caould have done different and given anohter situation i can do better and review game plan....
YAY! PROGRESSS!!!!
ALWAYS BE CLOSING BUT DONT CLOSE TOO FAST OR TOO SOON BE AWARE OF HER EMOTIONAL LEVEL !
peac out--------------->
When I looked over CJ's stuff I found sticking point analysis, I didnt get it but now going for the close seeing a consistent mistake of trying too hard to close...
My state was pumped and was up to go to phillly for a conference, I was talkative and warmed up....
when we got to philly I opene a woman there standing,
I hardy think of openers anymore cause
WHY OVERTHINK IT IF YOU WILL THROW IT AWAY!
I have an intuition now what to say based on going out and being talkative state....
plus if you overthink you will get stuck and not appraoch...same thing with opener.
So thats solved whether daygame or nightgame it just needs to hook and start something going ... SIMPLE!
In that morning, I got number closed by her and maybe I wont see her again who knows she was going out of town and I was going into town...ok.
So I was starting my day and usually it takes me 3 approaches to get in state, I go indirect genuinely then transition with usual game no interest whatsover....
after that Its easy to go direct but thats for another post.....
IM A WARM UP TYPE OF GUY
(check my dennis rodman warm up game when theres period of not going out and to get started in right mindframe, its cheating.)
So I couldnt close and lost 2 chances :
1- Didnt re-open on time and her BT was up another guy wihtout game and who didnt close her challenged her for a shot in the bar and he isolated her but didnt escalate just by her complying to isolate with him and using the excuse of the shot fter her BT was up was an easy and slick close....
when this happens and I see this, I get upset at myself cause I had this happen to me in Boston and the girl was all over me and some chode made out with her...entropy was telling me HEY GO RE OPEN and I didnt, I paid a price....
Next day she showed up and they were talking a bit but she of showed disinterest in him.
HAHA... I could have closed but here's my next lesson.
I was time constraint andI should have re opened with a question where to go out and build comfort and attraction with future projections then take her... spike her BT and escalate.
DUDE she was ready to go boy she just need more comfort and escalation...
2-there was another one I saw gaming a chode, she was qualifying herself and was doing over the top IOI's her game is super tight..he still didnt make a move nor was aware of wat she was doing...NEVER HELP A CHODE! It was pianfiul to watch andits my falu to be in specttor mode but I learn how behavior works when woman act like hunters and some are shy.....
I laughed and she noticed I knew what she was doing...she tried to number close him and he didnt make a move.CHODE!!!!
anyways... She was horny as hell since she was attracted to the guy, and her BT was up and she kept talking about hooking up and shit so I saw her in the hotel and she was with friends..so I taked to her exchanged numbers and she went up to watch "the bachelor"
ok, I text her 30 minutes later with "hey what are you up to now? " which is against community advice....
She responded: "Im in my room watching the bachelor"
I said:" Lets watch a movie after : ) "
she said: "Im, in my pj s already"
I said: " haha...(her name) in pjs...that I have to see " little ambiguity
she said : "well sometother time"
I said:"when is it gonna happen?.....u know what I mean"
I KIND OF FUCKED UP HERE BUT I RAN THE RISK VS TEXT THREAD TO NOWHERE
she said: "Oh I m going to go to sleep, sorry"
I said:"OK, anyways? we will be discrete"
I threw this out there cause I didnt have time to build comfort with frames and threw this out as damage control and break the sexual tension since she wasnt complying.... its common sense to step back cause if I dont it will seen too pushy...
I broke it like its not a big deal and that its mixed understanding w ambuguity...
She was tipsy and I was tipsy.....haha!
its the Jack Nicholson hotel game Paul Janka mentioned it to me LOL!!!!
then AWAKEN my day game wing reminded me that ....
JACK is famous and that Im not....... LMAO
then he said :
"You should have run comfort stupid, why are you soo fucking horny motherfucker !"
I should have taken more time to build comfort and attraction.
comfort for compliance w frames qualification and then build attraction in this case...
but hey it was a trip and I learned to be more subtle...
BE MORE SUBTLE that you intend to have sex with her....plausible deniability
conceal your intentions..... but I learned that I caould have done different and given anohter situation i can do better and review game plan....
YAY! PROGRESSS!!!!
ALWAYS BE CLOSING BUT DONT CLOSE TOO FAST OR TOO SOON BE AWARE OF HER EMOTIONAL LEVEL !
peac out--------------->
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Structure of my Game plan in terms of SNL sticking points
OK, Ive been out practicing,
I kind of suck on dates but thats in the works...
I have prepared my structured for my date or D2's :
which includes sharing a "chick crack pinkberry" near my apt.
I role the idea of male female polarity roles, I feel that solidifys thats it isnt LJBF type of thing.
I want to push myself to limits out of comfort zone in terms of:
-Logistics-ask questions
-Frame Control while in set or prevent losing the set
-Damage control and plowing
Closing was a huge problem...
Im sexual person and known infield as aggresive Im not shy about my sexuality and like to be dominant...its just who I am. I get dirty talked by the girl in the venue...I try to go for the PULL!
but by reviewing notes and talking to my instructors that know me and seen me infield...
I was missing an important piece...
THIS IS WHAT I WOULD DO REGULARLY IN SNL VENUES:
1) frame ladder for a makeout make a male female dynamic to create the moment-
2)I go for a makeout , get it and try to pull after wards ASAP,
3)I would escalate aggressive and physically arouse her IN THE VENUE...
4)I didnt isolate properly, seeded the bounce and couldnt handle damage control or contingencies within 20 minute mark.
5)I would tell her let's get out of here or go xyz place ... she say yes but wouldnt comply to actually go.
6) I would see her surrounde by chodes trying to pull her, and I would get into spectator mode seeing her get pull by a chode, actually I ve seen girls pull drunk guys...
I dont know how you guys have experienced seeing that or it isnt a big deal
but after SNL course I started seeing this happend everytime I go to my SNL venues....
I dont have a wing so I solo sarge...I feel like early version of CJ like how he described how he couldnt get a wing but ...He got Better learning by himself.
Im following that concept....
7)I wouldnt open properly in that scenario where the girl is hittin on guys..I would be scared to come off too eager or needy...
8) I cant talk or keep convo for more than 30 minutes, I get her aroused or I get blown out.
9)Im abit too rough when its pull time, I have to finnese it....like CJ ,Sinn and others do,
to make her feel like she is in control eventhough Im escalating...
Being sexual dominant is something I let my inner man come out, or my sexual aggresor.
Always Be Closing !
RESULT :
I would get LMR up the ass!
Wouldnt want to bounce she knew we were going to have sex she was afriad look like a SLUT...
I freeze out for a while then re initate to bounce...I lose her ..
"buyers remorse" next day ..no date, no response
NEW PLAN:
my next step is teasing the girl, give mixed signals whether she has me or not ...sexually tease her.
-Tease for a kiss then do takeaways.... give her a little and take it away...
I got physical shit test by a girlwhen I went out with Saffron I opened group set and she lost interest because I didnt make out with her she then was gaming bartender...
she was a swedish girl in town for a couple of days.
-once I got her turned on I have to s l o w d o w n..... make her want it.
-know how to manage AMOGs and orbiters....I get AMOG alot due to my weight issues some drunk guy always come in and try to make fun of me in front of the girl...I ignore
-plausible deniability: Review this and read LR's
-qualify more and frame her
-Girl being gamed by chodes- I tried this once when the girl was geting ready to leave with a goodlooking chode and I went direct on her, did kino routine qualified her and she kept askign me who I was where did I come from and if I came regularly... I FUCKIN froze, the guy got jealous and she was by herself I gamed other women to create more attraction jealously plotline and the chode kept chasing throughtout the venue as "the guy hitin on all the girls"...
Other stuff to improve overall:
BE more funny ...
Correct deeper voice and talk slower...
Im going to Philly for 2 days and will go to SNL places there.. : )
Wednesday will work whole day in brooklyn then go to SNL venue afterwards
Thursday school ,gym, dance class, martial arts--maybe set a date from online game or Day game w a personal trainer lady I met : ) ...I need more pics for online game!
or College bar night game..hmmm I havent done that in awhile.
Friday -weekend : PRACTICE !
things do tend to change but we will see....
any suggestions?
sandro
note: I will try to post my 1 st SDL at the same day almost had a SNL , my "mojo" was on point...
SDL I had 2 weeks ago 15 minutes meeting her , texting her calling her right after 2 minutes of talking about meet up for a drink, then takeaway of being busy...eliciting for phone sex and meeting now.
I'm terrible at explaining and did alot of bodylanguage since I knew she was horny on the phone. I dont talk alot...Its a bit explicit..haha..Doc holliday read it and called me a sick fuck..the things I can do with a dildo.....she contacted me later that she liked it and wanted to see me soon...
This without being needy....
I kind of suck on dates but thats in the works...
I have prepared my structured for my date or D2's :
which includes sharing a "chick crack pinkberry" near my apt.
I role the idea of male female polarity roles, I feel that solidifys thats it isnt LJBF type of thing.
I want to push myself to limits out of comfort zone in terms of:
-Logistics-ask questions
-Frame Control while in set or prevent losing the set
-Damage control and plowing
Closing was a huge problem...
Im sexual person and known infield as aggresive Im not shy about my sexuality and like to be dominant...its just who I am. I get dirty talked by the girl in the venue...I try to go for the PULL!
but by reviewing notes and talking to my instructors that know me and seen me infield...
I was missing an important piece...
THIS IS WHAT I WOULD DO REGULARLY IN SNL VENUES:
1) frame ladder for a makeout make a male female dynamic to create the moment-
2)I go for a makeout , get it and try to pull after wards ASAP,
3)I would escalate aggressive and physically arouse her IN THE VENUE...
4)I didnt isolate properly, seeded the bounce and couldnt handle damage control or contingencies within 20 minute mark.
5)I would tell her let's get out of here or go xyz place ... she say yes but wouldnt comply to actually go.
6) I would see her surrounde by chodes trying to pull her, and I would get into spectator mode seeing her get pull by a chode, actually I ve seen girls pull drunk guys...
I dont know how you guys have experienced seeing that or it isnt a big deal
but after SNL course I started seeing this happend everytime I go to my SNL venues....
I dont have a wing so I solo sarge...I feel like early version of CJ like how he described how he couldnt get a wing but ...He got Better learning by himself.
Im following that concept....
7)I wouldnt open properly in that scenario where the girl is hittin on guys..I would be scared to come off too eager or needy...
8) I cant talk or keep convo for more than 30 minutes, I get her aroused or I get blown out.
9)Im abit too rough when its pull time, I have to finnese it....like CJ ,Sinn and others do,
to make her feel like she is in control eventhough Im escalating...
Being sexual dominant is something I let my inner man come out, or my sexual aggresor.
Always Be Closing !
RESULT :
I would get LMR up the ass!
Wouldnt want to bounce she knew we were going to have sex she was afriad look like a SLUT...
I freeze out for a while then re initate to bounce...I lose her ..
"buyers remorse" next day ..no date, no response
NEW PLAN:
my next step is teasing the girl, give mixed signals whether she has me or not ...sexually tease her.
-Tease for a kiss then do takeaways.... give her a little and take it away...
I got physical shit test by a girlwhen I went out with Saffron I opened group set and she lost interest because I didnt make out with her she then was gaming bartender...
she was a swedish girl in town for a couple of days.
-once I got her turned on I have to s l o w d o w n..... make her want it.
-know how to manage AMOGs and orbiters....I get AMOG alot due to my weight issues some drunk guy always come in and try to make fun of me in front of the girl...I ignore
-plausible deniability: Review this and read LR's
-qualify more and frame her
-Girl being gamed by chodes- I tried this once when the girl was geting ready to leave with a goodlooking chode and I went direct on her, did kino routine qualified her and she kept askign me who I was where did I come from and if I came regularly... I FUCKIN froze, the guy got jealous and she was by herself I gamed other women to create more attraction jealously plotline and the chode kept chasing throughtout the venue as "the guy hitin on all the girls"...
Other stuff to improve overall:
BE more funny ...
Correct deeper voice and talk slower...
Im going to Philly for 2 days and will go to SNL places there.. : )
Wednesday will work whole day in brooklyn then go to SNL venue afterwards
Thursday school ,gym, dance class, martial arts--maybe set a date from online game or Day game w a personal trainer lady I met : ) ...I need more pics for online game!
or College bar night game..hmmm I havent done that in awhile.
Friday -weekend : PRACTICE !
things do tend to change but we will see....
any suggestions?
sandro
note: I will try to post my 1 st SDL at the same day almost had a SNL , my "mojo" was on point...
SDL I had 2 weeks ago 15 minutes meeting her , texting her calling her right after 2 minutes of talking about meet up for a drink, then takeaway of being busy...eliciting for phone sex and meeting now.
I'm terrible at explaining and did alot of bodylanguage since I knew she was horny on the phone. I dont talk alot...Its a bit explicit..haha..Doc holliday read it and called me a sick fuck..the things I can do with a dildo.....she contacted me later that she liked it and wanted to see me soon...
This without being needy....
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Recreating yourself in "Creative" ways
Like many guys in this I started off ,
where Ive been a KJ learning techniques ..but with absolutely nothing to back it up.
So its about learning and putting it infield... where it belongs in practice.
I read BadBoy's post on Getting Priorities Straight
http://www.theattractionforums.com/discussion/40454-get-your-priorities-straight-today.html
We should be doing things for us, empower ourselves,guys like David D said:
"Always be evolving"
"Work on yourself and not on women".
Are my focus to be empowered ? Or only "score"?I think it should be all but also be someone I always wanted to be.
Natural Tim mentions being "Creative" and example of it on how he views his world of coolness.
All of these are examples on how you can work on yourself , your life and making something cool out of it , interesting.
I was looking at my DHV props , one of them is a painting I made when I was in the hospital since I didn't have my ipod there, I put it as my background on my phone.
I illustrated how music sounds to me when I close my eyes-as I'm inclined musically and artistically inspired by it.
I ask the girl what she thinks it meant : asking her opinion and her interpretation on it as a qualifier not as a rapport seeking question of approval. I then transition to a story either how I had my drums set when I was a kid and till this day I love drums and rock n roll. Or number close since the phone is already out. sneaky huh?
Its so cool that DHVing is mostly show a sneak peek about yourself in short time span therefore demonstrating Natural attractive qualities as mentioned by Sinn.
Its you, who you are...its just how to properly do it with out bragging.
I liked how El Topo gave an example of something from my real life and turned it into an arsenal...this guy has talent, its sick dude seriously.He is one of the MOST creative person I've ever met. Remember the quote :
It is your work in life that is the ultimate seduction.- Pablo Picasso
What El Topo teaches ,is making Your Life, a tool for seduction.
How fuckin powerful is that? wow!!!
So since Im a resident student with nothing really to show I decided to write up a list things and work on them...
I wanted to do in my fun time developing my persona, my strength, my character.
I'm actually not the best looking, in lean shape or wealthy...so creating something is very challenging.
I read once in Johnny Wolf's blog about how they have most challenging group of guys to teach at their bootcamps ....hats off to them cause I saw myself as one of those guys not long ago...with almost nothing for the instructors to work with.
So I'm working on myself : )
Ive met several women , but my preference is :
white women, big tits,either blonde or red hair with freckles ...or...
thick asian girls w booty LOL.
We'll really Im just a horny motherfucker ha!
My best friend is 6ft tall green eyes muscular build, we did residency together and cool fkin guy. He is into Latin women ....I guess that's why we get along so well.
( Im not talking about a former PU 101 instructor w golden looks.LOL)
I remember first time we went out, he got a ONS.
This is before I knew anything about anything (seduction community) back in Nov. 07.
Girls were wanting to play darts with us we were the party, then other girls were coming on to us too SOCIAL PROOF and another girl that went to the bathroom was jealous -
JEALOUSY PLOT
( so many girls I lost count).
I kept pulling him to help me talk with one with friends and the jealous lone wolf girl told him
"let's go now or never", she took him home.
I was alone like chode.I then tried to keep talking with a chode mistake of asking
"hey where you from?"
she said "Africa "lol.
she wasn't obviously from there and left.
I've seen several shit like that were girls are pulling guys,guys are hovering around them like when the female dog is in heat and the group of dogs are behind her.
I was soo frustrated I wrote a FR on it, someone then recommend reading an article and
that's when my reality blew when I saw girls being this aggressive and read TD's secret society.
I plan to avoid being the chump chode hoovering and go for it...
You know how Captain Jack mentions "Be your own guru."
From being shy awkward guy , to then being super social after getting my first ever make out in a club in mehow's bootcamp ...
I want to leverage my stereotype to build my game around me.
In other words work with what I have and build it from there.
Sinn's Game Doctrine blew me away cause we have been all guilty of experimenting all types of stuff and stay stagnant.
This is like Micheal Jordan telling you how to become
"AiR Jordan".
Entropy's Personalizing Pickup or "personalized" game which he posted in his blog is great how to apply PU into you who you are,
you should check it out btw ... no wonder he is the one of the BEST PUA's in Boston....
He is tied with Doc Holliday! HaHa!
I've dropped from using some canned online stuff cause I felt I came off incongruent and too friendly on what I wanted to present myself as...sexual and dominant man.
Going back into what Sinn explains in his youtube vids,
I started reading Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden.
I was looking for it on audiobook to listen and didn't find it,(?) but I figured if they were to do it ,
it'd be like Verbal intercourse and by listening it would get them all wet ...imagine that.
I'm also looking into reading Latin Lovers female fantasies to set a strong sexual identity :
http://www.diesel-ebooks.com/cgi-bin/item/parent-9781426813313/Latin-Lovers-Bundle-eBook.html
Its something I will put myself in,being that guy,who I am .... sexworthy man.
This will build into my frame,mindset and non verbals into one strong identity I want to see myself as....
In the works are:
I'm searching for a new apt , schedule my classes dance, martial arts within university.
comedy stuff is off schedule so thats in the works...
Working on my voice with the excersizes and working out at the gym.
I was thinking in the subway about going back to playing drums or involved in music while
listening to Velvet revolver's Slither, one of favs songs ... at the strip club too.
but seriously after seeing a picture my mom found when I was 7 with my Muppets Animal drum set and my sister singing....wait! that's another prop .lol
Sounds like alot of stuff and no time for PU right?
Well I remembered what CJ said once about that...
sandro
where Ive been a KJ learning techniques ..but with absolutely nothing to back it up.
So its about learning and putting it infield... where it belongs in practice.
I read BadBoy's post on Getting Priorities Straight
http://www.theattractionforums.com/discussion/40454-get-your-priorities-straight-today.html
We should be doing things for us, empower ourselves,guys like David D said:
"Always be evolving"
"Work on yourself and not on women".
Are my focus to be empowered ? Or only "score"?I think it should be all but also be someone I always wanted to be.
Natural Tim mentions being "Creative" and example of it on how he views his world of coolness.
All of these are examples on how you can work on yourself , your life and making something cool out of it , interesting.
I was looking at my DHV props , one of them is a painting I made when I was in the hospital since I didn't have my ipod there, I put it as my background on my phone.
I illustrated how music sounds to me when I close my eyes-as I'm inclined musically and artistically inspired by it.
I ask the girl what she thinks it meant : asking her opinion and her interpretation on it as a qualifier not as a rapport seeking question of approval. I then transition to a story either how I had my drums set when I was a kid and till this day I love drums and rock n roll. Or number close since the phone is already out. sneaky huh?
Its so cool that DHVing is mostly show a sneak peek about yourself in short time span therefore demonstrating Natural attractive qualities as mentioned by Sinn.
Its you, who you are...its just how to properly do it with out bragging.
I liked how El Topo gave an example of something from my real life and turned it into an arsenal...this guy has talent, its sick dude seriously.He is one of the MOST creative person I've ever met. Remember the quote :
It is your work in life that is the ultimate seduction.- Pablo Picasso
What El Topo teaches ,is making Your Life, a tool for seduction.
How fuckin powerful is that? wow!!!
So since Im a resident student with nothing really to show I decided to write up a list things and work on them...
I wanted to do in my fun time developing my persona, my strength, my character.
I'm actually not the best looking, in lean shape or wealthy...so creating something is very challenging.
I read once in Johnny Wolf's blog about how they have most challenging group of guys to teach at their bootcamps ....hats off to them cause I saw myself as one of those guys not long ago...with almost nothing for the instructors to work with.
So I'm working on myself : )
Ive met several women , but my preference is :
white women, big tits,either blonde or red hair with freckles ...or...
thick asian girls w booty LOL.
We'll really Im just a horny motherfucker ha!
My best friend is 6ft tall green eyes muscular build, we did residency together and cool fkin guy. He is into Latin women ....I guess that's why we get along so well.
( Im not talking about a former PU 101 instructor w golden looks.LOL)
I remember first time we went out, he got a ONS.
This is before I knew anything about anything (seduction community) back in Nov. 07.
Girls were wanting to play darts with us we were the party, then other girls were coming on to us too SOCIAL PROOF and another girl that went to the bathroom was jealous -
JEALOUSY PLOT
( so many girls I lost count).
I kept pulling him to help me talk with one with friends and the jealous lone wolf girl told him
"let's go now or never", she took him home.
I was alone like chode.I then tried to keep talking with a chode mistake of asking
"hey where you from?"
she said "Africa "lol.
she wasn't obviously from there and left.
I've seen several shit like that were girls are pulling guys,guys are hovering around them like when the female dog is in heat and the group of dogs are behind her.
I was soo frustrated I wrote a FR on it, someone then recommend reading an article and
that's when my reality blew when I saw girls being this aggressive and read TD's secret society.
I plan to avoid being the chump chode hoovering and go for it...
You know how Captain Jack mentions "Be your own guru."
From being shy awkward guy , to then being super social after getting my first ever make out in a club in mehow's bootcamp ...
I want to leverage my stereotype to build my game around me.
In other words work with what I have and build it from there.
Sinn's Game Doctrine blew me away cause we have been all guilty of experimenting all types of stuff and stay stagnant.
This is like Micheal Jordan telling you how to become
"AiR Jordan".
Entropy's Personalizing Pickup or "personalized" game which he posted in his blog is great how to apply PU into you who you are,
you should check it out btw ... no wonder he is the one of the BEST PUA's in Boston....
He is tied with Doc Holliday! HaHa!
I've dropped from using some canned online stuff cause I felt I came off incongruent and too friendly on what I wanted to present myself as...sexual and dominant man.
Going back into what Sinn explains in his youtube vids,
I started reading Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden.
I was looking for it on audiobook to listen and didn't find it,(?) but I figured if they were to do it ,
it'd be like Verbal intercourse and by listening it would get them all wet ...imagine that.
I'm also looking into reading Latin Lovers female fantasies to set a strong sexual identity :
http://www.diesel-ebooks.com/cgi-bin/item/parent-9781426813313/Latin-Lovers-Bundle-eBook.html
Its something I will put myself in,being that guy,who I am .... sexworthy man.
This will build into my frame,mindset and non verbals into one strong identity I want to see myself as....
In the works are:
I'm searching for a new apt , schedule my classes dance, martial arts within university.
comedy stuff is off schedule so thats in the works...
Working on my voice with the excersizes and working out at the gym.
I was thinking in the subway about going back to playing drums or involved in music while
listening to Velvet revolver's Slither, one of favs songs ... at the strip club too.
but seriously after seeing a picture my mom found when I was 7 with my Muppets Animal drum set and my sister singing....wait! that's another prop .lol
Sounds like alot of stuff and no time for PU right?
Well I remembered what CJ said once about that...
sandro
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