Inner game of a PIMP - by player supreme a review of Mickey Royal's book Pimp GAME

Inner Game




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“When you stand alone before a mirror, all whom you do not see are beneath you”



What do these words from Mickey Royals book called “THE PIMP GAME, AN INSTRUCTIONAL MANUEL” mean?



A pimp, mack, player uses the tool of words to entice women into their worlds. Words are forms of communications. So it can be said that pimps are masters of communication. Why? Because pimps do know how to get into the head of their targets, using words.



But what about our own self talk that goes on within our own heads? How are you communicating with you? The level of success your having at any given venue is in direct relation to how well you communicate with your own mind.



In the player world this is called your inner game. But the key to successful inner game falls on how well you communicate to your own subconscious mind. Are you putting in good thoughts and self evaluations or are you putting in garbage?



Way back in time when I took computer programming classes in the dawn of the computer ages, there was a saying (GIGO), which stood for garbage in garbage out.



If your putting in bad thoughts into your own head, words such as; I’m ugly, no women will like me, I am a bad communicator…ect ect… then this is what your going to create in your life. If half the people on these dating forums would just change the way they talk to themselves their outer world will change accordingly.



So in borrowing a lesson from the pimp game. You need to believe in yourself. Your ego must be at a level way above anybody around you. Especially above any women that you are trying to mack on. A women whom I kick it with has an ex-husband.



This guy is a true Mack. He is driving 2 cars. A lexus, and a Misibishi Sports car. Both of which were bought and paid for by various women. He was gotten $50,000.00 from one woman who also had him fawk her daughter. Don’t ask! And various other items. A professional Mack.



She told me that how he does it even though this guy is very ugly ( and he is), he gets the women to believe that HE is actually above them. And that they should be gratefull for him even spending his time with them.



I think those internet operators who are getting their ideas from the pimp game are calling this make yourself the prize.



Remember Morris from the group the Time. Think back to the Prince movie Purple Rain. That is the kind of ego and self love that I’m talking about. Maybe not at that narccisstic extreme, but close to it.



All whom you do not see when you stand alone in front of a mirror are beneath you.



Adapt this as your daily mantra. Live it and believe it. Never put ho’s up on pedestals. They will only shyt on you from above. When you can get them to believe that your something special and they should be glad to even be near you, then you have reached the proper level of self confidence and self communication.







Keep telling yourself that every day until it is firmly gripped into your reality.

Swinggcats emails me about closing the girl right there

You've got a belief problem, my friend.

I think location means a lot. In fact, I live in Hollywood. All I have to do is role out of bed and I'm in the clubs and bars I frequent. This makes a big difference.

But here's where things take a turn for the weird...

Years ago, I started having freaky experiences. Every once in a while when a girl was really into me or ready to go I'd discard location issues and have sex with her right there. I remember the first few times I had sex with a girl in a nightclub bathroom. I thought to myself, "Wow... this girl is really adventurous. I wish all girls were this way."

Then things got freakier and I slept with a girl in the middle of a club.

In recent years, things have changed. This shit happens to me all the time.

Quick story... This past weekend, I was leaving a bar with a friend of mine and I spotted a tall blonde sitting on a parking curb next her BMW. (She had locked the keys in her car.) So I sat down next to her, told her she was cute. She told me that she thought I was cute too. So I hugged her, started making out with her. Then I told her to lean back and I started eating her pussy. Then I told her to stand up and turn around and I started having sex with her from behind. As I was doing her male passersby were cheering me on. It really is that easy.

Yes, it's true, you could potentially get in some trouble for this kinda lewd conduct. But I think the benefits of being daring far out way the consequences.

And calibrate... not every girl is gonna be down for this. But if she's really into you or looking to get laid try. Go for the make out. If she's into that, try to lead her into the bathroom or have sex with her right there. If she already likes you, trying this won't kill the attraction - even if she resists. My point: it never hurts to try and a lot of times it works.

Personal long post quick thoughts prioir exam

Ok I have to post on

Kdawg russian library pickup
and Natural pilates instructor pickup

I also caught up on Code of the NAtural by rob brinded whom I think is good material for bodylanguage aside from listening to music and getting in state by using  Swingcatts beliefs affirmations.

Lloyd' s video girls around the world which gives good IOIs to girls...

I think if you act and believe that you are goodlooking the girl will test this by your congruence and bodylanguage..therefore perceive you as an attractive man.
this triggers her hardwire and bypasses other BS verbal game.

I also enjoy Elicitng IOIs material from Entropy, Badboys material on "You would be lucky to be with me" in your head as you appraoch a girl or talk to her in your subcommunication and eye contact.

I have to practice my old denis rodaman game cause my confidence and my innergame is lacking keeping eye contact..jesse charger pointed out in his blonde post email about guys who restrict their passions...I m guilty of this and this has been a sticking point for me...When I stopped for awhile masturbating and just pushed myself not to ...my sex drive goes up and testaterone goes up that I have the balls to do so..
Im seeing myself attracted to big cuban ass..i saw an older MILF blonde who I wanted to open but it seemed she was into oterh shite* I ws on busy schedule and studying so I said fuck it'

When Im studying bitches can wait.I also had looked into YAD's dayagem.com great vids and great advice on daygame.
Krauser has great vids also but I think he could be better if he used some NLP.

that being said... I found my sticking points and Im enjoying jessse's help.

I felt today a bit obsessed over susan saradon look alike MILF whom was my FB, she sent me emails and it looks like she is candidate for Long Distance FB. I really have to pass this exam and reviewd that I have to study 10-12 hours. SO crackbabys advice is GOOD. the hypnosis Jeff gave me is working for motivation, its going to be good for opening sets, I feel rusty and I feel I can do good.

I also noticed on deren browns daygame, I learned from Jeff about rapport and openning in daygame...
I might use that also, he gave me great routine for Comfort connection, I think in comfort its important to use NLP to deepen the connection and make it mutual male to female and not BFFF.

I also followed female psycology from Vin which is excellent for daygame and Im going to try it on a girl from London :
here is her pic

anyways she sems young and is from london, I have plans to go to brasil in feb march and  start a program this JULY

another thing is  that I have to imporve my skills ,I had a daydream about  HBgymasian and run some californai pimp game.

I have top talk to ELTOPO cause I have to review my stack of reframing beliefs to frame myself and california pimps game.
I think its good stuff to bang hot girls but not sure yet.

I  also liked johnny wolf's DVD on pua cribs so I picked out a car I might buy as a prize for myself I alwys wanted..

its around $6,999

Its classic and looks HOT plus its a convertible.and in black.

So I can do classic look ala Paul Janka or high value look or young hipster look. either way I love this car andIm planning to own one.
This is it!

that being said I plan to move to either downtown apt or south beach. maybe downtown.

so far I have planned to do this residency so lets see how this goes, next steop once I pass is prbably California liscense to practice dentistry. I want to stay in Miami causeI love miami and I dont see myselfin NYC.

I also miss HBrussian, she was hot and sexy and she would escalet on me...she really was in love with me...andI really loved her..i was an asshole cause I cant be needy and communicative with her cause she would get turned off, I rather dissapear and then as high value reapear to join me for a weekend here in Miami, so far things look good.
miami heat has brought great things. in terms of my ideas i want tomarry a school teacher or lan technician or dentist...i have to be high value and lead.

I want my kids to be talented and artistic.
I also ran my DHV storeies I used to  as my painting from hispital and qualifying myself about me being artistic and helping people with their smile.

I also plan to lose weight and get a plastic surgery of my chin.
http://www.ienhance.com/articles/face/male-moguls-its-all-in-the-chin

This will enhance my passive value...I really think that I want a aesthetic dental office in south beach and cater to the high society with my work.
I really feel artistic enought to give thouse services and give my best. also have good looking women working in my office and an artsy black marble floor and white celing

and have an office where I treat regular people in another location.




I also want to travel to FRance, Brasil, London, Italy , to learn art and cosmetic procedures and take courses. I plan on doing a course in UCLA so that will be LA.

I will eb the cosmetic guru of smiles and want to have my own lab person from europe or brasil, make her my wife if she is hot. I really feel that all this is possible if I push myself. HARDER.

I want this and Im actually scared of death of this not coming true so Im going on a strict diet regimen as soon as I finish with exams.

I am planning on my hair grow to style it like this :

i really feel that Gamblers game is quite solid in psycologuy foiundation. We have to MODEL people who are high status, their behaviours and beliefs...I do plan to read more about them in their books and interviews....
I think that I can achieve alot of things...

Entropy is right cause he encouraged to really start my life first and forget about women...this hasnt been easy for me...

AfterI got good Im getting desperate,,,but I would be running on em,pty and to be real, there is no better DHV than to live your life independently...having a career etc etc..

Im not scared anymore...I rad madoff sucide and I think he might have thought he left with money and it would be hard to sue him...now picard is chasing everyone...I applaud picard cause If it were me the victims have pushed Picard to be creative and take action to pursue and sue...even if he had no grounds but it would force an investigation publicy...
Madoof ahd no choice but to either give up and talk or keep holign on...he had money so it wasnt becuse of lack of funds and he was homeless and poor....NO NO NO

it was because his concious....This reminded me of shwashank redemption and the WARDEN,

this is my next step in my chapter on my story to clear my name....
God know only why but Im not giving up...It s not time yet...its like  Count of Monetecristo.
I ahve to build myself up first to then re apear unto them again...
I saw the movie  and I think it was facinating and I relate to it so much...
i dont regreat going through this tough phase cause I learend more about myself than in my whole life....
I elarned to enjoy  having best friends stand beside me, I learned to get good with women, had the best month of my LIFE ! ! !

And now I have to step up...all my friends are wealthy and happy and Im standing behind...alot of things God has showed ,me where I go is that its TIME for me to step up and Pass this test.
i can help my family and start my own LIFE and be a MAN, not a boy anymore.
YEah there are responsabilities  and I have to adapt to society at that point.

Im happy that atleast I can move things forward away from my past, my past of fuckups and naive like montecristo....Now Im so prepared with conviction its like I have verbal skills of persuassion down.

reframing has been the best thing I learned from david barrons work.double bind and  yes ladders with framing and NLP is just deadly...

WE will see how this works out but I had to write all this to stop this from me forgetting.

rape and darkside seduction

Rape & The Dark Side Of Seduction

Imagine a man’s eyeballs catching a glimpse of a gorgeous vixen. Her boobies, butted together and pushed up by an over-the-shoulder-boulder-holder. Each carefully painted foot hooked into a black stiletto.

He can hear the hum of blood chugging into his dong, leaving him with an uncontrollable puberty-erection.

His jagged and stubby fingernails, a keepsake of the fear and nervousness he feels when approaching beautiful babies.

His heart thumping like a mallet struck against a gong.

His skin turns from healthy-tan to the color of regular computer paper.

He careens up to her and babbles something unintelligible.

You know the feeling when your stomach throws back all the food you swallowed and there’s nothing left but it still wants to play catch with the toilet bowl? That’s the look she gives him.

He feels he has crashed head-on into a concrete wall graffitied with the words “I’m not attracted to you, loser.”

A deep misunderstanding about attraction is handcuffing this man from getting the women he deserves…

He thinks attraction is a set of visual qualities that sexually arouse women. Think bulging muscles, chiseled face, and a package so big the mailman would get a hernia delivering it.

Why do so many men fall into this attraction myth?

Because us guys are visually aroused. We see an outline of a breast and our down-below parts stand at full attention.

Are females visually aroused? Can “good looks” turn a woman on? Yes. Absolutely. But visual arousal is only one of many means for pumping a woman’s groin full of lust.

What I’m about to tell you may shock your senses, convince you to question everything you thought you knew about women, or twist your mind into viewing me as the devil himself.

But I promise you this: I’m a good guy. I always leave women better off than when I found them. So bear with me.

What I’m going to share with you is the truth… and your future success with women rides on understanding it.

Rape can sexually arouse well-adjusted women.

But it gets worse…

In some cases, rapists have induced full blown orgasms in their victims.

I’m not talkin’ about a woman being make-believe raped by her boyfriend or husband.

What I have in mind is a male stranger violently raping a woman.

As the great Hunter S. Thompson said in his book Hell’s Angels:

“Women are terrified of rape, but somewhere in the back of every womb there is one rebellious nerve end that tingles with curiosity whenever the word is mentioned.”

You might be wondering, “Why in the world would a woman become aroused by a man forcing her to do something against her will?”

Good question.

One of the issues many rape victims deal with is getting turned on and having orgasms triggered by their perpetrator.

Sometimes these women are married. They love their husbands dearly. They find their perpetrator grotesque and despicable. Nonetheless, he triggers arousal – and sometimes orgasms – inside them. As a result, they feel their bodies have betrayed them.

They have to face up to the truth: Arousal is not a choice. Instead, it’s an unconscious response to a class of stimuli.

Here’s how it works…

The same part of a woman’s brain responsible for fight-or-flight triggers arousal and orgasm.

More often than you might think, this part of the brain cannot distinguish the difference between fear and arousal. (It’s one of many evolutionary quirks our brain is fraught with.)

As a result, the threatening circumstances induce arousal and/or orgasm in her.

Bad guy warning: In no way, shape, or form am I condoning rape. Rape is a despicable act only the most sordid and pathetic men commit. Do it and you risk some very bad things happening to you.

But… this doesn’t take away from the reality that fear can trigger sexual arousal inside women.

I’ve discovered techniques for using fear to induce arousal in women without causing them any harm. In fact, they’ll love you for it.

Plus, fear is one of five primitive emotions that trigger arousal inside women. (More on these five primitive emotions later on.)

But first…

Let’s return to the age old question: What is attraction?

Is it arousal? That’s only part of it.

Specific neurological structures in a woman’s brain either process the arousal or stop it dead in its tracks. These are what I call “brain filters.”

Similar to how a water dam either blocks or allows water to flow through, brain filters either close up and block arousal or open up and allow it to flow through the body. When they’re opened up, they emotionally and rationally justify the arousal in her body, compelling her to act on the arousal in the direction you choose.

One brain filter is Prizability; the other is Comfort.

The Prizability filter opens when she perceives you as having enough value that if you walked away, she’d take it as a loss.

Her comfort filter opens up when she feels comfortable with the idea of having sex with you. Having a connection and a rapport are only a few of the ways to open up this filter.

Just to recap: sexual arousal + opened up Prizability & Comfort filters = attraction.

This whole attraction process happens below her conscious awareness. In other words, it’s not something she has conscious control over.

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And this barely grazes the surface… you’ll also get your hands on dozens of other secrets for bypassing a woman's critical factor and taping into primitive parts of her brain that are responsible for raw sexual arousal.

In addition, you’ll learn step-by-step how to quickly pry open her Prizability & Comfort filters.

Plus, you’ll discover dozens of compliance triggers: Neurological structures in her brain that unconsciously compel her to go along with whatever you want her to do. Master them and you can write your own destiny with women.

In fact, I'm so confident my course is going to transform your dating life style, I'm going to let you test-drive it for 30 days free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends.

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Your Loyal Dating Coach,

Sandros observations- in10nse archives - pimp game ,sexual rapport , and end game

I remembered reading in10nse speed rapport, its kindah weird and too mechanical over explained but its golden...

I recall the audio with j mathews and first minutes of it was pretty solid.

I decided to look it once more....

I happened to look at the archives which is the Masf posts.

As I was reading that and the intro...all unedited and uncensored...

It was clear this guy has solid game and does similar in SS patterns and seduction.

he doesnt have a model for it and follows both SS and MM.
MM or M3 model is a logistical map for me and emotional guide of my game . how dynamic in the stages you must change her emotional responses to get momentum and her backwards rationalizing that she likes you.

Enough'


So why I beleive him?
Cause Swinggcats best friend

Swinggcat to me is the best darn malicious guy there is in terms of dating and seduction.

MAster of Push pull...

I related to his style.

Push pull are elements in closing and microlooping.

So I definately recommend anyone checking him out.

Swinggcatt recommends or mentions...I definately check it out.


What most impressed me as I breifly looked at his stuff was .....

at the time he read pimp game.....




In10nse worte a great book review and shared with everyone....he tried to internalize the concepts.....

I remembered I wanted to interview an actual pimp to model his beleifs with women.

not only can you do that by reading a book made by a pimp, in10nse get in to the book that he tries to share it with his peers.

the guy has a good heart and the drive. I like that alot and relate to him.

i think that affected his strategy of game.....in10nse awesomely worte a forbidden october man sequence which was simplified by JK Ellis even anchors.

in10nse does great job with combining SRT - sexual rapport modelling.

so he is master of comfort and closing---he combines powerful and psycological approach with NLP, persuasion, all combined.

not to be only read but to be used.

ofcourse he asks FRanco for adivce with relationships...

Nice! :)

PS : I remembered adrian wanting to comoone the 2 : SS and MM
in10nse GAME combined both.

***** Five stars must read, plus REAL WORLD SEDUCTION, PAUL JANKA, FRANCO,TD's Secret SOciety and BT SPIKING posts.Lovedrops' theory on social game.BAD BOY's Ebook.

swingers made me think of threesome game

I m looking into sex game,
I hate ebook or being to logical, yet simple and easy works for me, then leave it up to me to be creative :)

so I saw swinger by nina hartley.

her female psycology comes from experience her vids are better than any stupid e book.

I actually used her howe to make love to a woman first 10 minutes as a sexual frames alal topo redstack.

seriosuly she knows her stuff.

but her she has great examples how to fell comfortabl and how to escalate her comfort threshold to new things in sex.

for me its awesome cause its like whole new area and being a PUA is more like I can dominate this area too.

guys are stale in terms of just squirting, the excitement comes from the emotions of sex and unexpecteness and making it a movie for her as she were reading a erotic novel.

thats the type of experience you shoul;d be giving to her.

What guy is going to give her that????

very few.

9 1/2 weeks pushes it too much but its a great example, he should have built comfort , remeber in relationships the cycle is comfort and sexualness.
this is to be kept in constant spiking of the whole process.

DONT BE BUTTON PUSHING

but know what to do when time comes and make things happen....

you lead

you take initiative (thanks alley cat)

so as with greeeneys I plan on taking my sexual comfort thresshold to the next level with her....

like MRM says in situations where youve never done it act like youve been there and done it, adapt to the scenario. to avoid feeling insecure and in your head.

act as you go yet TAKE CALCULATED RISKS

thershold comfort to move further, reach levels , higher levels = excitement attraction.

even addiction.

use that analogy and read in10nse article as franco also comments.

swinggcatt might have some stuff but his push pull works well and for closing.

its basically arousing her and you pulliong back arousaing her and you pulling backl to make her confuse and hornty and wanting you to want it bad.

you escalate from there to avoid keeping it stale or you overgaming or buyers remorse.

I see that is difference of rapid closes, seeing when girls are that ready to fuck you lead.


Swingers vid taught me how far Im from being in game.

knowing this dynamic helps me analyze a structure of basis of how emoitons and sex can crete arrousal to a point of intensity.....even addiction of pleasure.

Im going to ask franco on that WWHD?

LR russian review close

on thursday, I had a date..I met her online we talk on the phone and set up a date.and at the end had her in the apt...got LMR and I would arouse her and take it away up to the point of me taking my pants off and then me getting up and stoping and she then said that No Dont stop .. I want you to FUCK ME again. I found out she was into S&M...I dont know about you guys but I like Deep comfort game...they emotionally invest and its like a chemistry..she compliments me alot and she texts like she was my GF.

I want to say that I havent closed legitmately by game its my first time...but I reverse the frame got her physiclaly aroused and Id stop before she did..It took me an hour.. Im not sure if its a long time.

Last night I had a date with a woman...russian for me .. a perfect 10

very cold and doesnt even smile and bitchy i ended up leading and teasing her..I noticed with these women (Im latin so Im more touchy feely)
She isnt used to touchy feely anyways we met in the street I bounced to another place and she objected at first and I tease her for being lame
she vented about her problems and i used compasion and understanding while doing touching she opened up and we kissed like 2 times... ran deep comfort with teasing and she laughed alot
( I REDUCED THE AMOUNT OF ESCALATION AS PER D BOY AND THE GUYS )
she knew she was HOT she told me and I used DHVstripper EX credit mystery that beauty is common...then transitioned to what you got going more then your looks?

Her eyes opened after that..she loosend up more.
she drank more

started spanking me and we were in the street like 2 crazy people..i gave her a nickname silly bunny and she called me "jellybean" LOL

(Im FAT GUY LOL)

I bounced her to my place made her buy dessert (investment to go my place)
told her we were going to eat dessert I was going to kick her out after and i had to get up early

I would make out got her on the bed she had a G string and she ended up giving me a backrub after I took off my shirt... her BT was going up and she was getting LMR..i back off and eat dessert and go back at it.she got up and wanted to leave and was standing by the door... I then froze her out by saying ok but im going to the bathroom.

she then was sitting watching tv in the lounge then she stood up by the door

ran natural woman pattern and made out very intense...she moaned

she wanted to leave as soon as I would go more intense arrousal

we left

I acted uneedy and in the cab to her train station..she kissed my hands and my arms she kept caressing them and I had her head against my lap...she said she likes looking at me.

we got out of the cab and I picked her up thus spiking emotions she felt like a gigling little girl

she said she felt wondeful and kept kissing me.. i left on a high note.

she called me later to make sure I was ok and she got home.
I just was cool...not needy nor too mushy just cool "alright babe talk to you later sweet dreams"

today she called me but I breifly spoke and I noticed that on the phone since she is russian ...she doesnt get english jokes. she gets them when I tease her in person but over the phone she sounds plain without any emotion.
I just said something funny and said I was going to work and talk to you later.

I closed the other woman and i didnt close this one...

she is calling me like crazy wanting to talk to her

what you guys think?

I think Im improving from the past mistakes..thank to the guys here and my new roomie who banged 3 new girls last week.

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Originally Posted by LastMan
I don't see a problem here?

Oh wait yes I do, you're looking for problems and submitting everything you do to a group of inexperienced internet wannabes for validation. You need to be able to do this on your own terms. It's your enjoyment of life, it's not for anyone else to judge you by.

Having said that I'm sure D-Boy will be along later with the blow by blow analysis of events.

Well I didnt really meant it like validation...
I have been danging in frustration like a lost in the dark..then its just starting to click. I have no idea how this is happening to me I think I just connect with them so deep but its so boderline BFF and yet I think its weird that they call me...I would be so frustrated should i call her or what she meant by this or that for such a long time ,,,

you know the real guys and the awesome lady posters here that are helping me....

I just think its awesome.

A critique of what i did would be ok but like I said I worte it to have you guys hear what you have to say cause Its a mindfuck thing for me...

thanks for your honest thought but not validation and if it looks like it is then I guess its a compliment that i did it right...

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I going to throw this out there since i nver really understood the theory or any success with SS stuff...It comes off creepy at first...

I use it in the middle of conversation as a question and then I go into it .. it makes it more natural than creepy.

I studied persuasion by david barron which is nlp and hypnosis in persuasion so I do it based on persuassion and not on just rely on the pattterns to work...

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hey guys i just noticed i didnt post a follow up to this...

at the end wher she got LMR for whatever reason, i didnt maek it a big deal so I acted cool cause I didnt care... but I kept sexual arousal by eye contact and bodylanguage and in the cab she lay her head on my lap as I caressed her....this was something that was unreal of this HOT russian chick....

I Sound so LSE God I hate myself .lol.

anyways after writting this last post,

LR: Russian licked me up and down

she called me up to meet up for the weekend, I said cool. next day she calls me and says she wants to see me tonight... weird

My roomate had left to hawai and I was by myself trying to set up these dates and hang out at night going to strip clubs since I was getting pretty descent with strip club game, that day i had a cute girl from OKC , sit with me for 30 minutes, she lost alot of money talking to me as I ran my confident self to turbo without getting a boner.lol

so I met up with russian at times square and was nervous...I xcalled my best friend sicne he fucked a girl once he arrived in hawaii , he met online. the guy is fucking awesome I tell you, no pu lines nothing, pure suave and yet gentle.....serious SICK game.

It was fuckign raining so I couldnt take her back to the place we went on the first date???

so my friend calmed me down after so much panicking,

met the russian and she had high heels and kept touching me hardcore.....I was just nervous and she noticed whats worng?

I said oh the weather sucks cause its raining I ususally go to a cool spot etc...we went to times square and it was stale and she started getting bored...I suggested that I rather make it a rainy movie night and get food there at the apt.

So had changed the light bulb to blue so the apt was kicking ass!

anyways...I wasnt needy and she was kindah leading the convo...I was plain nervous and try to run rapport excersize of relating to what she said like improv class...she was so fucking pretty...and I kissed her here and there like 2 times and we get to the crib, cool.

So I call mexican and had wine ready, there ewasnt antyhign good on TV...so it was getting boring abit but then I get food and lead convo sit confortable like Im with a good friend, my state changes and I feel COOL, CHILL...I serve wine and tease her a bit...

no nlp patterns no routines, pure improv and funny...

I do run sexual eye contact and pull back, very subtle....

this is were I started being aware that at this point of comfort and kissing , thats were sexual escalation goes on slow motion....

I applied the stop you are turning me on ,, what are yo doing to me , kiss her and pull back..

(I was using the frame of she wants to win me over, and she is turning me on)

making her want it more, in a way I could have caveman but I didnt want to risk it, I was taking calculating risks and like bradp I was making her sexual attraction" simmmer".

apparently I kissed her passsionately and push back, then convo aloof, then kiss her and tits, pull back then she gets tipsy and I get hot,
I run good girl face bad girl manerisms routine....and she lifts m y shirt and spills her wine on my chest and licks it from my belly to my neck...


OMFg......WTF is going on here.....


I then told her lets go see the view in my room, I had a beautifl view of the city upper east side of manhattan....my rooomie paid 4,000 per month for that apt we were at 14th floor.
go to my room as I hold her hand to lead her, she just smiling no resistance to her touch,
I have her take of her shoes off to enter my room
(lovedrops says when a girl takes of her shoes at your place, she feels comfortable taking her clothes off)

I sit on the bed staring at the view, in the first date we didnt spend alot of time in the room cause she get LMR and get up, so this was SOLID so far...

ran a story howi love looking at the city its like a interactive art , a picture frame, I enjoy looking and always dreamed of, (passionate dhv)

I sit at a position to kindah get her on top of me to kiss me....
Im leading by subtle positioning like "locking in" on the bed...like she is trying to win me over.... (reverse role frame)

i get her to kiss me no resistace and I start escalating neck nibble ear, soft warm blow at nape of neck, my tender touch of my fingers through her body ass and now tits....its slowly building and I sense she is going to resist or stop me, I beat her to it and STOP first.

(RJ talks about always beating the women to her objections, always object before she does)

So she then says:

"I want to take a shower with you first and I want you to fuck me in my ass"

on the inside I wanted to say HEY!!! like a high school kid, but on the outside just looked at her with sexual eye contact like badboy does, and said confiodently

"Id love to"

she goes in shower as Im getting my towel, I dim the bathroom lights, thank god, cause it makes it romantic, (yes, Im romantic guy )

so I bring her a towel and then we get inside and see her body...

and taste her in the shower , we dont fuck but I like to sexually tease her and foreplay....I learned to make girls really want it and prolong the process so its simmers her wanting it, inside.

after that I think I had some self defeating thoughts in my head , but I pop a Vigra, first impressions are important and do count.lol.

we had sex as I looked at the girl across the street masturbating,
seeing the girl masturbate every night for atleast 2-3 times made my night awesome and fresh cause I never again thought as women were cool and sexual like me...I didnt have to read books or go to a seminar for it...I was fucking living it.

I was happy in this week it was my 2nd girl, and my roomate was ahead with 3 new girls this week, not counting his FB GF or the girl he fucked in hawaii.

I check my text and he sent me "be patient, everything is Cool"

shit that was definately the advice I needed...

as I was fuckign this russian chick I ate the pussy so good....
and I came....

we talked abit after , I remebered I SOI too much and she pulled back and se said look, i dont want this just to be abot sex, or use me as a sex object...

I processed that subtle cue as
"I want to keep fucking you dont make me feel cheap"

she went in detail about her ex BF an older wealthy man who said her pussy was ugly and she smelled bad.

I sincerely loved her body, and loved her smell with my smell, the smell of sex was like a fucking pheremone to me and I gaveher awesome compliments and gave her subtle that
"I understand,I wouldnt want you just for sex, I really enjoy being with you too"

we went again for sex, and sucked my dick so good looking at me with thouse beautiful green eyes and her accent as I made her choke on my cock.

and she told me to fuck her in the ass.

i went for it and afterwards she told me I was too rough on her ass,

"just be gentle and slow".... says to me as she is tired.
I told her I have to get up early, she said

"OK, im going to sleep but I want you to fuck me whenever you want as Im sleeping, Id like that."

I remeber fucking her 2 times again and woke her up early walk ed her to the trian station and she bought me a strbucks coffee, I dont drink coffe but fuck it these girls like me soo much they buy me stuff.

Only thing I have to look over is that I think I did that thing daiv shade demo'd on that clifflist convention dvd of using nlp to get her to touch herself as she is right there, by telling her "so did you touch yourself thinking about me"...somethinglike that...

seriously thats how it went down.

I left NYC that month and we had sex a couple of times, she got depressed and disaaponted. I lied to her didnt tell her I was leaving cuase I was losing the other girls to fuck cause I was being honest with them and they were getting buyers remorse until I fucked 2 more new bitches I had run solid one hour phone game on both of them same day,same still of game, deep cpmfrt and at end were takeaways....when they come see me...one gave me a hard time and almost dismissed her which I ened up fucking her anyways, she had a BF and the other girlwas cool and honest...as soon as I saw her in person again at corner from my apt I walked her to it as Im going to change and we are going out, which I ened fucking her within 15 minutes but got BUYERS REmorse cause afer sex kicked her out, l jenkins says to avoid Buyers Remorse you have to talk and cuddle for 15 mintues after sex, not needy but chill and relaxed happy you enojoyed time together.


thank you guys here

Secret Psychology Behind Playing Hard-To-Get With Women

Secret Psychology Behind Playing Hard-To-Get With Women

Note: Inside you’ll learn attraction secrets I’ve kept under wraps ‘til now. In my honest opinion, these skills are what separate a Jedi master at attracting women from average guys. So read this letter very carefully.


We’ve all seen it before, my friend…


A silver-tongued Casanova firing sound bite after sound bite at a shining example of female perfection. Each sound bite carefully crafted to induce cough-up-a-lung laughs.

Between the sound bites, he intersperses games and magic tricks tailor-made to suck her into his world by the eyeballs.


To the untrained eye, his game is on steroids: her generously sized melons jiggle with laughter, her heart-shaped lips form into a fuck-me pout, and her Lolita-esque eyes hold onto every word he utters.


But a few minutes later things start to stray off course…


Giggles turn to silence and intrigue turns to boredom. In her eyeballs, two try-hard dancing monkeys reflected off him. His I’m-compensating-for-my-small-penis stench so foul she can feel it singe off the fine hairs inside her nose.


Her smile folds into the same grimace women make when a man unexpectedly sneaks his pecker into their poop chute.


So what went wrong?


If you’ve had some success in the single scene trenches you probably know exactly why things took a turn for the tragic.


Sprinkling your female interactions with interesting gambits, funny stories, jokes, and even magic tricks can pique women’s interest. Get your big toe in the door.


But…


Bombarding a woman with entertainment without a letup reeks of a need for approval and attention.


Plus, it does nothing to fill her groin with lust.


So what puts the jumbo in a woman’s mojo?


If you wanna move a female’s intrigue from her eyeballs to her vajayjay, you’ve gotta play hard-to-get. Not playing hard-to-get is like trying to drive a car without an engine.


Important: If you’ve ever struggled to play hard-to-get, it’s imperative that you pay close attention to what I’m about to tell you…


A cancerous belief causes most men to make at least one of three mistakes when playing hard-to-get (and there’s a good chance this belief is stifling your potential success with women).


Before I divulge this belief to you, I wanna say a few words about these three mistakes.


Mistake # 1: Indifference Taken To The Extreme


Bars across the world abound with men oozing indifference. When in a social environment, they stand with their head tall, chin up, chest out, and lips contorted into a regal smirk.


But… instead of taking the initiative and approaching women, they passively stand there and think to themselves: I’m the Prize, therefore, women will approach me.


They believe that putting themselves out there will sink their status from a noble prince to a groveling peasant.


While their ego may swell to the size of a hot air balloon, their down-below parts are destined for a lonely existence. Unless you happen to have rock star fame or sport model good looks, an I’m the Prize aura alone isn’t gonna compel droves of women to jump your bones.


Mistake # 2: Trying To Get A Reaction Out Of A Woman


Oh boy. This brings me back to when I was first learning this stuff.


Years ago I believed, as long as my back faced the woman I was trying attract, I was playing hard-to-get.

Within a few minutes of meeting a woman, my torso revolved 180 degrees so my back faced her, my neck cranked my head towards her, and, like a puppy dog, my eyeballs eagerly awaited her reaction.


Did this work?


Sometimes.


But there was a problem: my body language telegraphed my throbbing desire to get a reaction out of women.


In women’s eyes, I wasn’t any less needy than a dancing monkey entertaining them into the wee hours of the morning.


Mistake # 3: Piquing A Woman’s Interest & Then Walking Away & Desperately Awaiting Her To Reengage Him


You may be guilty of this one.


As for myself: if mistake # 3 were a sin, I’d have sinned more times than an Italian mob boss.


Here’s how mistake # 3 usually plays out…


A guy makes a funny comment. The woman laughs and he walks away. Then he spends the rest of his night keeping his fingers crossed that she’s coming back.


His chances?


Unless he’s really skilled, a whisker shy of 0, my friend.


If you're guilty of any of these mistakes, go here.

How To Play Hard-To-Get


The first step is having Prizability – or value – in the eyes of a woman.


You don’t need to rope twenty gold chains around your neck, purchase a private jet, or levitate her martini.


In fact, less is more. A small chuckle. A dab of curiosity. A tiny whatever that glues her attention to you for a moment and makes her think “that’s funny” or “that’s interesting.”


When she bites the bait, you’ll feel the pressure to keep her on the hook. Resist the temptation to say something that holds her interest. This is where most men blow it. (More on this is a second.)


Instead, create a negative space.


Great artists and musicians know the importance of using negative space.


In Don Mackay’s Spaces Between Moth the negative spaces between the moth reveal faces and arms… and vice versa.




The jazz musician Miles Davis was a master at using negative space. The pregnant pauses scattered throughout his trumpet playing are almost hypnotic.


Hypnotists use negative space by pausing between their clauses to put their subjects into a progressively deeper trance.


Using negative space on women cranks up the sexual tension and pulls them into your reality.


Alas, using negative space frightens most men more than spiders frighten little girls.


This is probably because us guys are scared to death of a pregnant pause or an awkward silence. We worry that if we don’t fill in every last smidgen of emptiness, women will stop liking us.


This fear of using negative space stems from the same cancerous belief that causes men to make the three hard-to-get mistakes. (We’ll get to that in a second.)


To create negative space with a woman, you don’t need to memorize any fancy lines. You don’t need to walk away from her. In fact, your feet shouldn’t move an inch.


All that’s required is this…


Once a woman sticks her canines into the proverbial bait, create a negative space by keeping your mouth zippered shut and moving your focus of attention away from her and onto something else.


If, for example, there’s a person wearing a funny hat, two meatheads clamoring at one another, or a sexy vixen picking her nose, plaster your eyeballs on the freak show of your choice.


If you do this right, her heart will thud and throb and yearn for more time with you… her bra will jut out a few extra inches to compete for your attention… her voice will fight to reengage you... and if she fails, like a bratty child, her needy hand might grab or punch your arm.


Let’s break down what’s going on inside that little noggin of hers.


First…


By you creating a negative space, it gives her time to reflect on your value.


Have you ever had someone barrage you with stories, jokes, and their latest list of accomplishments?

Maybe bits and pieces of what they said perked up your ears and pulled your eyeballs a few millimeters out of their sockets.

But probably, all you remember is how try-hard they were.


On the flipside, if a person says something interesting and then shuts up, they’ve given you the negative space to contemplate how intriguing they are.


Second…


You’re utilizing a principle hypnotists call fractionation.

Hypnotists use fractionation by taking their subjects in and out of hypnotic states. Every successive time they put their subjects back into a hypnotic state, the subject goes exponentially deeper into trance.


Similarly, if you say something funny to a woman, withdraw your attention from her by putting it onto something else, and then say something much less funny, she’ll laugh three times as hard.


Third…


By averting your attention away from her, she feels that she’s losing your interest.


This is confusing yet sexually titillating for her. For her entire adult life, whenever she shows interest in a man, he takes the opportunity by the boobies and works like mule to win her over.


But you’ve inverted her reality: while you’ve piqued her interest, she feels that she's failed to pique yours.


This whole experience builds sexual tension in her by creating tension loops. These tension loops emotionally drive her to seduce you.


When tension is sparked in a person, the mind seeks for release of that tension. Good movies keep us on the edge of our seat by exploiting this principle. The movie begins by introducing conflict or drama. This sparks tension in us. Our mind seeks release of this tension by some kind of resolution to the conflict or drama.


Using negative space creates two types of tension loops.


The first one is a need for your validation.


You’ve piqued her interest, giving her time to reflect on your value, and demonstrated your lack of interest in her. This sparks sexual tension by creating a need for your attention and approval. The only way she can release this tension is by proactively working for your attention.


The second one is a need to get back the good feelings you took away from her.


Putting her in a positive emotional state and then taking it away sparks sexual tension by creating a need to get those good feelings back. The only way she can discharge this tension is to step up to the plate and engage you in conversation.


Big warning: Earlier I mentioned a cancerous belief that cripples your chances at making this work. That’s the belief that your value is below the women you desire.


If this diabolical thought virus infects your brain, you must supersede it with the belief that you’re the Prize.


You cannot fake believing you’re the Prize. If you still believe women possess a higher value than you, you’ll unconsciously communicate it to them in your body language and tone of voice. Without even knowing it, you’ll commit at least one of the three mistakes to playing hard-to-get.


You may think you have the I’m the Prize belief harnessed to your brain.


But I gotta be honest with you...


Buckets full of men think they possess the I’m the Prize belief. As they jabber on about their female conquests, I’m-the-Prize confidence exudes out of every pore.


But as soon as they’re plunged into interacting with an attractive woman, a paralyzing fear moves through their body and they think: Oh no… the woman’s value is higher than mine.


The trick to figuring out if you’re the proud owner of the I’m the Prize belief is paying attention to what you think, feel, and do when you’re interacting with women.


What should I do if I don’t have the I’m the Prize belief?


Good question.


Before you go out to meet women, I want you to rehearse the following affirmations.


1). I’m the Prize.


2). Women are trying to win me over


3). They want me so bad they are trying to get me to sleep with them.


4). I’ll only sleep with them if they live up to my standards and expectations.


You don’t need to bellow so loud your neighbors can hear you. (Do that and they may have the authorities lock you up in a padded room.) Saying them in your head will suffice. Say each one ten times.


Next, find a quiet place and close your eyes. Imagine the kind of woman you’d like to attract. Imagine her thinking you’re a Prize she wants to win over. Visualize her trying to get you to sleep with her. Think of all things she’d be thinking, feeling, and doing.


These exercises tattoo the belief I'm the Prize into your subconscious mind.


The more you rehearse and practice these exercises before you go out, the stronger your I’m the Prize belief becomes.


Combining a strong belief that you’re the Prize with the use of negative space has an almost magical affect on women: they’ll feel magnetically drawn to seduce you.


But.. I’ve gotta come clean with you about something…


If you cannot fearlessly approach women, naturally vibe with them, and hold their attention, using negative space is just gonna give them an opening to slink away from you.


Maybe you’ve tried using pickup lines, routines, or stories other natural ladies men use to approach and vibe with women.

Maybe they worked a little bit but something still was missing.


If so, I hear ya man.


I’ve been through the same thing. The problem is, there’s so much more involved in approaching and vibing with women than memorizing a line.


In fact, for years I thought being able to vibe with women was just something you’re born with.

If a guy is not naturally extraverted, charismatic, and good looking, he's shit out of luck, I believed.


Unfortunately, I wasn’t alone in believing this. Most men do.


However… This is such a crock of you know what that it makes me seethe with anger.


After close to a decade hanging around ladies men, I discovered the underlying cognitive and behavioral processes naturals go through to vibe with women.

The reason these guys haven’t taught these processes is that they aren’t even conscious of using them.


Unlike these guys, I wasn’t naturally good with women – I had to work at it.


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