Mark Manson is a GREAT GUY
I respect him cause he says it like it is,
I really enjoyed fuck yes fuck no post. heres is original LINK http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
this inspired me and made perfect sense when to say NO to a girl eventhough she gave you "a chance"
I think it saves time and makes everything in dating easier and all this nonsense and stupidity from inept women from the girls who are genuine with you then you GAME ON! or
open the door a little to your WORLD to her....
BE FUCK YEAH GUY FOR YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE OTHERS
and you don't have to worry about ANY Girl or getting her to Like you..
modern times has changed and girls are proactive seekers like Cats on prey..they hunt and catch to try to keep..
so girls ARE NINJA with not showing interest in DIRECT WAY.
but
Girls That Do show interest in you means that YOU appreciate HER!
women make effort to buy that shoe...get that LOOK... get fixed UP!
OFCOURSE SHE WILL BE INTERESTED
IF NOT ITS FUCK NO!
PERIOD.
Showing posts with label screening. Show all posts
Showing posts with label screening. Show all posts
Monday, January 19, 2015
Friday, August 19, 2011
Representational systems (NLP) sent to me by Franco
Representational systems (also known as sensory modalities and abbreviated to VAKOG or known as the 4-tuple) is a neuro-linguistic programming model that examines how the human mind processes information. It states that for practical purposes, information is (or can be treated as if) processed through the senses. Thus people say one talks to oneself (the auditory sense) even if no words are emitted, one makes pictures in one's head when thinking or dreaming (the visual sense), and one considers feelings in the body and emotions (known as the kinesthetic sense).
NLP holds it as crucial in human cognitive processing to recognize that the subjective character of experience is strongly tied into, and influenced by, how memories and perceptions are processed within each sensory representation in the mind. It considers that expressions such as "It's all misty" or "I can't get a grip on it", can often be precise literal unconscious descriptions from within those sensory systems, communicating unconsciously where the mind perceives a problem in handling some mental event.
Within NLP, the various senses in their role as information processors, are known as representation systems, or sensory modalities. The model itself is known as the VAKOG model (from the initial letters of the sensory-specific modalities: visual, auditory, kinesthetic, olfactory, gustatory). Since taste and smell are so closely connected, sometimes as a 4-tuple, meaning its 4 way sensory-based description. A submodality is a structural element of a sensory impression, such as its perceived location, distance, size, or other quality.
Representational systems and submodalities are seen in NLP as offering a valuable therapeutic insight (or metaphor) and potential working methods, into how the human mind internally organizes and subjectively attaches meaning to events.
NLP holds it as crucial in human cognitive processing to recognize that the subjective character of experience is strongly tied into, and influenced by, how memories and perceptions are processed within each sensory representation in the mind. It considers that expressions such as "It's all misty" or "I can't get a grip on it", can often be precise literal unconscious descriptions from within those sensory systems, communicating unconsciously where the mind perceives a problem in handling some mental event.
Within NLP, the various senses in their role as information processors, are known as representation systems, or sensory modalities. The model itself is known as the VAKOG model (from the initial letters of the sensory-specific modalities: visual, auditory, kinesthetic, olfactory, gustatory). Since taste and smell are so closely connected, sometimes as a 4-tuple, meaning its 4 way sensory-based description. A submodality is a structural element of a sensory impression, such as its perceived location, distance, size, or other quality.
Representational systems and submodalities are seen in NLP as offering a valuable therapeutic insight (or metaphor) and potential working methods, into how the human mind internally organizes and subjectively attaches meaning to events.
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Screening by Franco Seduction
Screen Women Everywhere
by Franco on January 8, 2011
Screen women while you meet them
Well let´s assume that you are at the stage of being able to approach women everywhere and are enjoying the wonderful feeling of abundance which comes with good skills in meeting women.
Already at this stage it is very important for you to learn the art of screening women.
Why is that?
Because now that you are operating from a frame of abundance you will not have the time for every girl.
Another good reason is that when you screen women that has you come out automatically as the prize in the relationship with them and it increases your appeal a lot when women "sense" – and believe me they will ! – that you do not have time for everyone.Another good reason is that when you screen women that has you come out automatically as the prize in the relationship with them and it increases your appeal a lot when women "sense" – and believe me they will ! – that you do not have time for everyone.
Another important reason for screening women is: you do not get into trouble as you will learn to look more and more for better women not only basing your screening on nice rears and tits but especially on their personality features and especially on how they treat you.
So here are a few tips about something you can do from the beginning in order to improve your screening skills.
Your worst enemy in matters of screening women is: your own testosterone.
Your tremendous masculine sexual desire also impairs your judgment in matters of screening women and for that reason it is important to learn to control it while meeting women.
Of course the best way of controlling your masculine sexual desire is to be all the time sexually satisfied and that is why being an expert in seduction gives you so many advantages in matters of female relationships.
Male testosterone gives to a man an extreme urge to discharge sexually with a good looking woman.
This happens very often at the expenses of screening the woman. This is because male sexuality is visual: the vision of a beautiful rear or nice tits, beautiful mouth, teeth can trigger such a sexual drive in you that you forget other important issues.
In a word male evolutionary screening is not made to screen for the quality of her personality.
It is made to screen for physical qualities related with the skill of bear children. A man is in fact potentially in the condition of fathering many, many children with different women.
This is something you need to remember before you approach women.
There are some microseconds before the approach starts you can use for this.
Guys who still have problem approaching definitely cannot do this.
When you have reached the stage when approaching a woman will feel about the same like eating an ice cream before you approach her give yourself a short break, user your peripheral vision if needed and observe her with attention.
There are more and more studies about the role of intuition in the brain. They all say that if your intuition tells you something in most of the cases it is right.
Anyway to give you a guideline I list here a few things you need to observe.
Male pre-approach pre-screening = PP is something you do both with your intelligence and your guts just before you approach her. It will spare you lots of problems and have you invest your energy into the right women (right for you).
This list is subjective and reflects by own screening criteria. I am using it as an example.
If you like women who smoke 30 cigarettes in a day, spit on the ground and are so drunk that can barely walk just go for it. The idea is that you can screen a woman rapidly to decide will you approach her or the next woman depending on your gut feelings and a quick observation of her.
Remember: your gut feelings cannot fool you.
This list of course is based on my preferences but you can do your own list.
So some guidelines are:
- Does she dress well: this can be many things for example does her way of dressing express niceness, femininity or on the contrary a masculine attitude, does her way of dressing express a poor care of herself or does her way of dressing express conservativeness or a fight against the authority, is she dressed to express her political opinions and if so which are they and so on.
- The expression of her face is extremely important: is the expression of her face serious, meditative or does express anger, depression? If there is depression on her face avoid her like the plague, it means trouble! Does she smile and laugh a lot, is she relaxed and so on. For example I never approach women with a depressed facial expression, I just go for the next smiling girl!
- How she carries herself: position of her body, body movements: women are very expressive and they give messages about themselves by the way they carry themselves. For example a stiff and tough way of walking or sitting may express either a masculine attitude or depression or stress.
- Shoes: they tell a lot of a woman. If she chooses feminine shoes she may be of the passive, receptive, feminine type, if she has commando boots maybe she is aggressive, masculine. Some women choose shoes to express having an intellectual nature, some other choose them to express their free minded attitude, others choose them to express conservativeness, others do not choose them at all thus expressing their chaotic nature or at worst total naiveness and low level attitude.
- Signs of self-destructiveness on her body: like for example cutting herself, cigarette burns and any other symbol like this – is a sure indicator of a woman with a personality disorder. If you like tigers and a life without sleep just go for it. Experience in the field has taught me that signs of self-destructiveness in her outlook indicate a self-destructive personality in 95% of the cases.
When you walk on the streets and you are meeting women let your subconscious guide you.
For example "depressed face" hmm.. next girll! "happy smile" hmm.. approach! "happy smile + cuts on her wrist" next girl!
This is a kind of semiconscious fast pre-screening you can apply to your pick-ups as a tool to improve the quality of the women you have around.
Franco
by Franco on January 8, 2011
Screen women while you meet them
Well let´s assume that you are at the stage of being able to approach women everywhere and are enjoying the wonderful feeling of abundance which comes with good skills in meeting women.
Already at this stage it is very important for you to learn the art of screening women.
Why is that?
Because now that you are operating from a frame of abundance you will not have the time for every girl.
Another good reason is that when you screen women that has you come out automatically as the prize in the relationship with them and it increases your appeal a lot when women "sense" – and believe me they will ! – that you do not have time for everyone.Another good reason is that when you screen women that has you come out automatically as the prize in the relationship with them and it increases your appeal a lot when women "sense" – and believe me they will ! – that you do not have time for everyone.
Another important reason for screening women is: you do not get into trouble as you will learn to look more and more for better women not only basing your screening on nice rears and tits but especially on their personality features and especially on how they treat you.
So here are a few tips about something you can do from the beginning in order to improve your screening skills.
Your worst enemy in matters of screening women is: your own testosterone.
Your tremendous masculine sexual desire also impairs your judgment in matters of screening women and for that reason it is important to learn to control it while meeting women.
Of course the best way of controlling your masculine sexual desire is to be all the time sexually satisfied and that is why being an expert in seduction gives you so many advantages in matters of female relationships.
Male testosterone gives to a man an extreme urge to discharge sexually with a good looking woman.
This happens very often at the expenses of screening the woman. This is because male sexuality is visual: the vision of a beautiful rear or nice tits, beautiful mouth, teeth can trigger such a sexual drive in you that you forget other important issues.
In a word male evolutionary screening is not made to screen for the quality of her personality.
It is made to screen for physical qualities related with the skill of bear children. A man is in fact potentially in the condition of fathering many, many children with different women.
This is something you need to remember before you approach women.
There are some microseconds before the approach starts you can use for this.
Guys who still have problem approaching definitely cannot do this.
When you have reached the stage when approaching a woman will feel about the same like eating an ice cream before you approach her give yourself a short break, user your peripheral vision if needed and observe her with attention.
There are more and more studies about the role of intuition in the brain. They all say that if your intuition tells you something in most of the cases it is right.
Anyway to give you a guideline I list here a few things you need to observe.
Male pre-approach pre-screening = PP is something you do both with your intelligence and your guts just before you approach her. It will spare you lots of problems and have you invest your energy into the right women (right for you).
This list is subjective and reflects by own screening criteria. I am using it as an example.
If you like women who smoke 30 cigarettes in a day, spit on the ground and are so drunk that can barely walk just go for it. The idea is that you can screen a woman rapidly to decide will you approach her or the next woman depending on your gut feelings and a quick observation of her.
Remember: your gut feelings cannot fool you.
This list of course is based on my preferences but you can do your own list.
So some guidelines are:
- Does she dress well: this can be many things for example does her way of dressing express niceness, femininity or on the contrary a masculine attitude, does her way of dressing express a poor care of herself or does her way of dressing express conservativeness or a fight against the authority, is she dressed to express her political opinions and if so which are they and so on.
- The expression of her face is extremely important: is the expression of her face serious, meditative or does express anger, depression? If there is depression on her face avoid her like the plague, it means trouble! Does she smile and laugh a lot, is she relaxed and so on. For example I never approach women with a depressed facial expression, I just go for the next smiling girl!
- How she carries herself: position of her body, body movements: women are very expressive and they give messages about themselves by the way they carry themselves. For example a stiff and tough way of walking or sitting may express either a masculine attitude or depression or stress.
- Shoes: they tell a lot of a woman. If she chooses feminine shoes she may be of the passive, receptive, feminine type, if she has commando boots maybe she is aggressive, masculine. Some women choose shoes to express having an intellectual nature, some other choose them to express their free minded attitude, others choose them to express conservativeness, others do not choose them at all thus expressing their chaotic nature or at worst total naiveness and low level attitude.
- Signs of self-destructiveness on her body: like for example cutting herself, cigarette burns and any other symbol like this – is a sure indicator of a woman with a personality disorder. If you like tigers and a life without sleep just go for it. Experience in the field has taught me that signs of self-destructiveness in her outlook indicate a self-destructive personality in 95% of the cases.
When you walk on the streets and you are meeting women let your subconscious guide you.
For example "depressed face" hmm.. next girll! "happy smile" hmm.. approach! "happy smile + cuts on her wrist" next girl!
This is a kind of semiconscious fast pre-screening you can apply to your pick-ups as a tool to improve the quality of the women you have around.
Franco
Monday, November 8, 2010
'When To Start Qualifying and Screening a Woman'
So how do you know when you’ve built enough social value for yourself, that you can start screening the girl you like?
Easy. Once she starts giving you green lights.
Some examples of green lights are, making eye contact with you, laughing at what you say, positioning herself close to you, casually touching you, trying to get your attention, smiling, stroking herself, or asking you questions.
Once you have two or three or four green lights from a girl, start screening her.
That could simply mean she’s turned to face you, listening to you, is making eye contact with you and smiling.
Think of screening another way; now is the time to go DIRECT. You now have social value to the girl. You know she likes you because she’s giving you green lights. Now you can stop building social value and directly “move in for the kill” so to speak.
Imagine this. You casually open a group of beautiful women with an interesting opinion opener that teases their curiosity and hooks them in. You build value to all the girls in the group by leading and controlling the girls through your stories, body language, games, and so on. At the same time, you value zing the hottest girl. The hot girl of the group starts to give you green lights.
But now that you have social value, now that you’re a 9 or a 10 like she is, when you express direct interest in her, she’s responsive and excited to your advances. AND her friends won’t try to stop you or give her silent messages of disapproval with their eyes because they like you just as much as she does.
You are now a 9 or 10 engaging a 9 or a 10. And 9s and 10s sleep with other 9s and 10s.
In other words, only AFTER you’ve built value up for yourself with her and her friends and only AFTER she’s given you green light signals do you become “direct” with her and screen her. You only show direct interest in her AFTER she’s shown direct interest in you.
Following that formula YOU CAN NEVER BE REJECTED!
And in the rare case you misread the situation and she doesn’t respond to your screening, just pretend like you didn’t hear her answer. Pretend like nothing happened. Just back off the screening and continue to build more social value for yourself. Then, once you have more value in her eyes, screen her again.
~ Jesse
Easy. Once she starts giving you green lights.
Some examples of green lights are, making eye contact with you, laughing at what you say, positioning herself close to you, casually touching you, trying to get your attention, smiling, stroking herself, or asking you questions.
Once you have two or three or four green lights from a girl, start screening her.
That could simply mean she’s turned to face you, listening to you, is making eye contact with you and smiling.
Think of screening another way; now is the time to go DIRECT. You now have social value to the girl. You know she likes you because she’s giving you green lights. Now you can stop building social value and directly “move in for the kill” so to speak.
Imagine this. You casually open a group of beautiful women with an interesting opinion opener that teases their curiosity and hooks them in. You build value to all the girls in the group by leading and controlling the girls through your stories, body language, games, and so on. At the same time, you value zing the hottest girl. The hot girl of the group starts to give you green lights.
But now that you have social value, now that you’re a 9 or a 10 like she is, when you express direct interest in her, she’s responsive and excited to your advances. AND her friends won’t try to stop you or give her silent messages of disapproval with their eyes because they like you just as much as she does.
You are now a 9 or 10 engaging a 9 or a 10. And 9s and 10s sleep with other 9s and 10s.
In other words, only AFTER you’ve built value up for yourself with her and her friends and only AFTER she’s given you green light signals do you become “direct” with her and screen her. You only show direct interest in her AFTER she’s shown direct interest in you.
Following that formula YOU CAN NEVER BE REJECTED!
And in the rare case you misread the situation and she doesn’t respond to your screening, just pretend like you didn’t hear her answer. Pretend like nothing happened. Just back off the screening and continue to build more social value for yourself. Then, once you have more value in her eyes, screen her again.
~ Jesse
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
how to calibrate sexual escalation on the girl
I think the tittle is abit misleading but in reality it has to do with your style of game.
I have friends and Ive started with learning and we still have different game,shows you that you have to be yourself to make game work. i know it sounds like shit but lets get back to topic.
I have closed different types of girls and until you have a setback or achallenge you wont realize how valuable it is to know how to go sexual.
there are great posts and books to show you this...
Id say you have to figure it out based on yours style of game, your plan to have her with her if its a date and what type fo girl she is, how her state is at that moment.
All what I just mentioned equal to success my friends.
to calibrate it is to know when an how to do it.
here is what tripp says:
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-Well, logistics aren't key, but sexual tension is. Logistics play a bigger role the lower her BT is.
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Im having this issue.
When its time to close and have sex when I am about to enter the motel, she freaks out and gets major LMR.
I cant take her to my place cause Im temporaily sharing it with someone while school starts again for me to move the fuck out on my own.
Also I tried in the car but it isnt comfortable at all.
in the past I never got LMR like this but its predictable a girl would get freaked out when she enters a motel and starts feeling like a slut.
last girls didnt care about motel they were really horny and I just took them.
but Im now finding that a problem when I have made out and touched her sexually and she is turned on and then we driving somewhere and I drive in to motel.
Its kindah funny but fucking frustrating......
I'd like to ask any experienced guys out there who have had to deal with such problem.
once I move the fuck out , and get girls to my place would be smoother pickup.
any insight would help thanks.-
PS:
I'm probably not keeping her sexually aroused on the drive to the motel.
L.A. Tripp
Admin
Number of posts: 4531
Age: 37
Location: Evansville, IN
Points: 1442
Reputation: 12
Registration date: 2008-03-14
Subject: Re: CLOSING outside of your place, I have a problem Mon Aug 30, 2010 12:15 pm
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-Is it just this one girl that has given you this problem, or is it multiple girls?
You say last girls didn't care and you just took them.
Also, is it uncomfortable for YOU to take them in your truck? Or for them?
_________________
http://tripp-author.weebly.com for my new book!
http://latripp.blogspot.com/
www.latripp.weebly.com
Alpha: "Come here, now."
AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?"
You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
Make her qualify herself to YOU.
Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her!
sandros
AFC
Number of posts: 26
Age: 32
Location: miami
Points: 36
Reputation: 0
Registration date: 2009-11-23
Subject: Re: CLOSING outside of your place, I have a problem Tue Aug 31, 2010 1:38 am
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L.A. Tripp wrote:
Is it just this one girl that has given you this problem, or is it multiple girls?
Only her . I think its ASD, I have some fault caus eI might have not calibrated the escalation by arousing her enough and after the long date I took her to motel and she was hesitant and talking nonsense how she takes a while to trust somoene to get intimate and seriosuly taking all into logic.
i think that when it came time for me to get off the car and get the room , gave her a chance for her ASD to hit turbo.- I have to see if the car pull could work with someother women. in the past it was easy to use plausible deniability to pull a girl to yourplace and in 20 minutes she was naked having sex. Now its like Logistics plus Momentum of sexual tension are KEY in any Pull.
You say last girls didn't care and you just took them.
before Game I do recall picking up a girl walking in a bad neighbourhood and getting her to my car and after 10 minutes or so of talking casually , no deep comfort just superficial stuff, no bt spiking either.. i suggest to go somewhere private and we went to a motel and she was horny about it....dropped her off and we never talked again...when I stopped by weeks later I saw her with a man and she saw my car and she smiled at me infront of him but nothing happened, I left it at that.
Also, is it uncomfortable for YOU to take them in your truck? Or for them?
well its kindah for me... I think i could get a BJ...I mean it could work, never tried it...it could escalate into then transitioning to motel after car.
sexual technique of whatever isnt really car possible, I think its because I was in dominican republic once and the girl I was with had her pants down and sucking my dick in a dark alley and the cops showed up.....anywyas I had to pay the cops money..only in a 3rd world country and the girl was pissed at me, I dont know dude. It be fucked up if that happend to me here in the US.
L.A. Tripp
Admin
Number of posts: 4531
Age: 37
Location: Evansville, IN
Points: 1442
Reputation: 12
Registration date: 2008-03-14
Subject: Re: CLOSING outside of your place, I have a problem Tue Aug 31, 2010 5:58 am
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-Well, logistics aren't key, but sexual tension is. Logistics play a bigger role the lower her BT is.
Since it's just this one girl, don't sweat it. Just friend zone her, hang out with her, see who she knows, etc.
The whole cop thing, lol, damn. Well, I've had a security guard catch me, but that's because he was seriously watching me, TRYING to catch me. But again, that's in your head and you're ALLOWING IT to fuck with your mind. So, once again, YOU have to exert control over that and stop letting it mess with you.
_________________
http://tripp-author.weebly.com for my new book!
http://latripp.blogspot.com/
www.latripp.weebly.com
Alpha: "Come here, now."
AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?"
You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
Make her qualify herself to YOU.
Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her!
I have friends and Ive started with learning and we still have different game,shows you that you have to be yourself to make game work. i know it sounds like shit but lets get back to topic.
I have closed different types of girls and until you have a setback or achallenge you wont realize how valuable it is to know how to go sexual.
there are great posts and books to show you this...
Id say you have to figure it out based on yours style of game, your plan to have her with her if its a date and what type fo girl she is, how her state is at that moment.
All what I just mentioned equal to success my friends.
to calibrate it is to know when an how to do it.
here is what tripp says:
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
+
----
-Well, logistics aren't key, but sexual tension is. Logistics play a bigger role the lower her BT is.
--------------------------------------------------------------------
Im having this issue.
When its time to close and have sex when I am about to enter the motel, she freaks out and gets major LMR.
I cant take her to my place cause Im temporaily sharing it with someone while school starts again for me to move the fuck out on my own.
Also I tried in the car but it isnt comfortable at all.
in the past I never got LMR like this but its predictable a girl would get freaked out when she enters a motel and starts feeling like a slut.
last girls didnt care about motel they were really horny and I just took them.
but Im now finding that a problem when I have made out and touched her sexually and she is turned on and then we driving somewhere and I drive in to motel.
Its kindah funny but fucking frustrating......
I'd like to ask any experienced guys out there who have had to deal with such problem.
once I move the fuck out , and get girls to my place would be smoother pickup.
any insight would help thanks.-
PS:
I'm probably not keeping her sexually aroused on the drive to the motel.
L.A. Tripp
Admin
Number of posts: 4531
Age: 37
Location: Evansville, IN
Points: 1442
Reputation: 12
Registration date: 2008-03-14
Subject: Re: CLOSING outside of your place, I have a problem Mon Aug 30, 2010 12:15 pm
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+
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-Is it just this one girl that has given you this problem, or is it multiple girls?
You say last girls didn't care and you just took them.
Also, is it uncomfortable for YOU to take them in your truck? Or for them?
_________________
http://tripp-author.weebly.com for my new book!
http://latripp.blogspot.com/
www.latripp.weebly.com
Alpha: "Come here, now."
AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?"
You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
Make her qualify herself to YOU.
Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her!
sandros
AFC
Number of posts: 26
Age: 32
Location: miami
Points: 36
Reputation: 0
Registration date: 2009-11-23
Subject: Re: CLOSING outside of your place, I have a problem Tue Aug 31, 2010 1:38 am
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L.A. Tripp wrote:
Is it just this one girl that has given you this problem, or is it multiple girls?
Only her . I think its ASD, I have some fault caus eI might have not calibrated the escalation by arousing her enough and after the long date I took her to motel and she was hesitant and talking nonsense how she takes a while to trust somoene to get intimate and seriosuly taking all into logic.
i think that when it came time for me to get off the car and get the room , gave her a chance for her ASD to hit turbo.- I have to see if the car pull could work with someother women. in the past it was easy to use plausible deniability to pull a girl to yourplace and in 20 minutes she was naked having sex. Now its like Logistics plus Momentum of sexual tension are KEY in any Pull.
You say last girls didn't care and you just took them.
before Game I do recall picking up a girl walking in a bad neighbourhood and getting her to my car and after 10 minutes or so of talking casually , no deep comfort just superficial stuff, no bt spiking either.. i suggest to go somewhere private and we went to a motel and she was horny about it....dropped her off and we never talked again...when I stopped by weeks later I saw her with a man and she saw my car and she smiled at me infront of him but nothing happened, I left it at that.
Also, is it uncomfortable for YOU to take them in your truck? Or for them?
well its kindah for me... I think i could get a BJ...I mean it could work, never tried it...it could escalate into then transitioning to motel after car.
sexual technique of whatever isnt really car possible, I think its because I was in dominican republic once and the girl I was with had her pants down and sucking my dick in a dark alley and the cops showed up.....anywyas I had to pay the cops money..only in a 3rd world country and the girl was pissed at me, I dont know dude. It be fucked up if that happend to me here in the US.
L.A. Tripp
Admin
Number of posts: 4531
Age: 37
Location: Evansville, IN
Points: 1442
Reputation: 12
Registration date: 2008-03-14
Subject: Re: CLOSING outside of your place, I have a problem Tue Aug 31, 2010 5:58 am
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+
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-Well, logistics aren't key, but sexual tension is. Logistics play a bigger role the lower her BT is.
Since it's just this one girl, don't sweat it. Just friend zone her, hang out with her, see who she knows, etc.
The whole cop thing, lol, damn. Well, I've had a security guard catch me, but that's because he was seriously watching me, TRYING to catch me. But again, that's in your head and you're ALLOWING IT to fuck with your mind. So, once again, YOU have to exert control over that and stop letting it mess with you.
_________________
http://tripp-author.weebly.com for my new book!
http://latripp.blogspot.com/
www.latripp.weebly.com
Alpha: "Come here, now."
AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?"
You have one shot, and it's in the first 3 seconds.
Make her qualify herself to YOU.
Don't back down from the girl. CHALLENGE her!
Monday, June 14, 2010
Night Game Model — Part 1
Over the months, I’ve consistently gotten requests to devise a “Night Game Model” similar to the Day Game Model here on this site. Guys have loved that model because it’s simple, concise, flexible and easy to implement. So everyone’s been wondering if there’s a possible way to implement something similar to night game.
Here’s my attempt to do so. Same deal: I have no idea how long this series will go, but I’m going to go until I get all pertinent information out, nothing more, nothing less.
This is how 90% of my sets in night game go, and all of the mental processes that I go through with each set. Just like the day game model, following this at this point has become redundant, I don’t even really think about it anymore.
Notes About Night Game
Before we begin, some things should be noted about night game:
- Night game is very random. Aside from logistics, crazy shit is happening at night: people are drunk, fights break out, everyone is with a lot of friends, people come and go, places get crowded, etc.
This has two effects on how we approach night game: one is we have to be far more flexible than day game, the other is that we have to be prepared to do more. Put succinctly, night game has a wider range of results (anything from a ONS to a girlfriend to a fist in your face), and therefore it has a wider range of skills and variables. Whereas day game, you really only need to be able to fluff, build some comfort and get a number, the skills required at night run the gamut.
- Night game venues vary widely in difficulty and type. Popular dance clubs, high-end clubs, dive bars, gay bars, strip clubs, lounge, hotel bars, college bars, etc., etc. — all of these environments operate slightly differently and therefore you’ll have to learn how to calibrate to your environment.
In general, the more energetic the environment (crazy lights, loud music, dancing, alcohol), the more energetic you need to be. The more laid back the environment, the more laid back you need to be. Also, play to your audience. You should act differently in a college bar as you do at an upscale night club. (This topic is a whole article unto itself).
- You have to deal with competition in night game. If you open a woman at the grocery store, chances are slim some other guy is going to walk by and try to fuck you up. But at night, you’ll get guys doing just that quite often.
Once again, this has two obvious effects: one is that you have to be prepared to deal with other guys, and two women are going to be a lot more jaded and have their guard up at night.
Pre-Screening
Now that we have that out of the way, you’re in a venue, there are tons of people there, what are you doing next?
Pre-screening sets is an important step that almost nobody talks about (because it goes completely against the classic three-second rule). When I get to a venue, I like to take a lap around the venue and check out what’s going on, what kind of people are there, how many hot girls are there, what the logistical situation is like and if there are any “easy pickens” to start out with.
You do this by looking at two things when you walk around: people’s logistics and people’s body languages, or what I like to call, “What’s their story?”
1) Logistics is easy. Hot girl with three guys = poor logistics. Three hot girls by themselves at the bar laughing a lot = good logistics. Large groups sitting down = hard set. Two girls dancing with each other having a good time = easy set.
2) “What’s their story?” takes a lot more skill. You need to be able to read body language and read people well (which is a vastly underrated skill). For instance, if I spot a three-set, two girls and a guy, watching them for 10 seconds can reveal a lot about them. Are either the girls “with” him? Are they blowing him off? Does he look chodey? Do they look like they’re having fun, or are they there because they feel like they have to?
Figuring this shit out beforehand can be absolutely huge if you open them and cold-read them (more on that later). For instance, if I observe a set for 15 seconds and then walk up and one minute into the interaction say, “you guys seem like you’ve been friends forever but don’t get to see each other often,” it’s not a shot in the dark. I’m saying it because they seem to really like each other but also seem a bit nervous/awkward around one another (you know that awkwardness you get when you hang out with an old friend you haven’t seen in years? Yeah… that). Anyway, you hit that nail on the head and bam, your value is through the roof.
More on cold-reading later.
Basically, what I do is after I check the specs for all of these things in each group of people, I make some decisions: which girls do I want to talk to? Which sets would be easy? Which would be hard? Which people seem interesting to me? Which women seem like they’d naturally be into me? I take all of these factors into account and then prioritize the sets I want to open. Generally, I’ll start with whichever set has the combination of best logistics/hottest girls/most inviting vibe and go down the list.
Quick note: to everyone who says, “But isn’t walking around a bar looking at everybody make you seem like an AFC? Shouldn’t you get into set right away so that EVERYONE knows you’re such a social, cool, alpha, pimpdaddy?”
I’ve never bought into this. Why? Because people really don’t give a shit, especially girls. Think back to the last night you were out and talking to a bunch of people — I mean, the last time you had a really great time with some friends (or in set) for a good hour or two. How many people do you notice walking around by themselves? If you even noticed any, did you care? Did you make a mental note: “OMG, that guy’s by himself, what a fuck chode!”
No, you probably assumed he was walking to the bathroom/bar/door or looking for someone.
No one cares. As long as you don’t sit there and stare like a goddamn creeper, it doesn’t matter.
I’ll be back with part two in a couple days going over opening, transitions, cold-reads and continuing to screen.
Here’s my attempt to do so. Same deal: I have no idea how long this series will go, but I’m going to go until I get all pertinent information out, nothing more, nothing less.
This is how 90% of my sets in night game go, and all of the mental processes that I go through with each set. Just like the day game model, following this at this point has become redundant, I don’t even really think about it anymore.
Notes About Night Game
Before we begin, some things should be noted about night game:
- Night game is very random. Aside from logistics, crazy shit is happening at night: people are drunk, fights break out, everyone is with a lot of friends, people come and go, places get crowded, etc.
This has two effects on how we approach night game: one is we have to be far more flexible than day game, the other is that we have to be prepared to do more. Put succinctly, night game has a wider range of results (anything from a ONS to a girlfriend to a fist in your face), and therefore it has a wider range of skills and variables. Whereas day game, you really only need to be able to fluff, build some comfort and get a number, the skills required at night run the gamut.
- Night game venues vary widely in difficulty and type. Popular dance clubs, high-end clubs, dive bars, gay bars, strip clubs, lounge, hotel bars, college bars, etc., etc. — all of these environments operate slightly differently and therefore you’ll have to learn how to calibrate to your environment.
In general, the more energetic the environment (crazy lights, loud music, dancing, alcohol), the more energetic you need to be. The more laid back the environment, the more laid back you need to be. Also, play to your audience. You should act differently in a college bar as you do at an upscale night club. (This topic is a whole article unto itself).
- You have to deal with competition in night game. If you open a woman at the grocery store, chances are slim some other guy is going to walk by and try to fuck you up. But at night, you’ll get guys doing just that quite often.
Once again, this has two obvious effects: one is that you have to be prepared to deal with other guys, and two women are going to be a lot more jaded and have their guard up at night.
Pre-Screening
Now that we have that out of the way, you’re in a venue, there are tons of people there, what are you doing next?
Pre-screening sets is an important step that almost nobody talks about (because it goes completely against the classic three-second rule). When I get to a venue, I like to take a lap around the venue and check out what’s going on, what kind of people are there, how many hot girls are there, what the logistical situation is like and if there are any “easy pickens” to start out with.
You do this by looking at two things when you walk around: people’s logistics and people’s body languages, or what I like to call, “What’s their story?”
1) Logistics is easy. Hot girl with three guys = poor logistics. Three hot girls by themselves at the bar laughing a lot = good logistics. Large groups sitting down = hard set. Two girls dancing with each other having a good time = easy set.
2) “What’s their story?” takes a lot more skill. You need to be able to read body language and read people well (which is a vastly underrated skill). For instance, if I spot a three-set, two girls and a guy, watching them for 10 seconds can reveal a lot about them. Are either the girls “with” him? Are they blowing him off? Does he look chodey? Do they look like they’re having fun, or are they there because they feel like they have to?
Figuring this shit out beforehand can be absolutely huge if you open them and cold-read them (more on that later). For instance, if I observe a set for 15 seconds and then walk up and one minute into the interaction say, “you guys seem like you’ve been friends forever but don’t get to see each other often,” it’s not a shot in the dark. I’m saying it because they seem to really like each other but also seem a bit nervous/awkward around one another (you know that awkwardness you get when you hang out with an old friend you haven’t seen in years? Yeah… that). Anyway, you hit that nail on the head and bam, your value is through the roof.
More on cold-reading later.
Basically, what I do is after I check the specs for all of these things in each group of people, I make some decisions: which girls do I want to talk to? Which sets would be easy? Which would be hard? Which people seem interesting to me? Which women seem like they’d naturally be into me? I take all of these factors into account and then prioritize the sets I want to open. Generally, I’ll start with whichever set has the combination of best logistics/hottest girls/most inviting vibe and go down the list.
Quick note: to everyone who says, “But isn’t walking around a bar looking at everybody make you seem like an AFC? Shouldn’t you get into set right away so that EVERYONE knows you’re such a social, cool, alpha, pimpdaddy?”
I’ve never bought into this. Why? Because people really don’t give a shit, especially girls. Think back to the last night you were out and talking to a bunch of people — I mean, the last time you had a really great time with some friends (or in set) for a good hour or two. How many people do you notice walking around by themselves? If you even noticed any, did you care? Did you make a mental note: “OMG, that guy’s by himself, what a fuck chode!”
No, you probably assumed he was walking to the bathroom/bar/door or looking for someone.
No one cares. As long as you don’t sit there and stare like a goddamn creeper, it doesn’t matter.
I’ll be back with part two in a couple days going over opening, transitions, cold-reads and continuing to screen.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
FR: validation seeking woman gave me AA day game
VALIDATION with women
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I usually dont really see these things but today, as I was parking my car a HOT girl dressed really trendy, I mean stright 9 on looks scale.
as I was parking she was at ATM machine and when she was done she was still like standing there and looking around but in a way like to cathc my eye or seek attention , validation. Not attraction.
Why cause I caught her looking as I parked my car and it was a look on her face bodylanguage was like if she wanted to ask me something or wanted something from me.
Thats how I perceived it.
I have that awareness sensitivity thing..anyways
I could have gone and talked to her but it would validate her and give her what she wanted, easily.
as soon as I would open my mouth to appraoch or show interest I sensed as soon as she would get that then it would be game over.
So I can cold appraoch
I know how to turn them into warm appraoches
but this here is different in terms of surprisng the girl and you enmtering in her world.
here she wants validation that she gets guys attention and feeds her energy to feel good of that from the start...therefore she wont feel attracted to you.
Like a cusotmer paying a stripper for a dance,he gives the girl money she gets what she wants.
and by me giving her direct attention she gets the validation that she wants.
Please can you share any thoughts or how you change that when you sense that type of girl...cause I know there is a way of turning it around but I wanted to hear from you guys.
nuff said.
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Today, 12:23 PM #2
Himmler
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Have you considered the possibility that she was abit attracted to you and want you to make the first move, then have you fuck her brains out?
For all you know, you could have missed out on some 9 pussy. You should have said something, whats the worst that could happen? Nothing. If she was validation seeking, she would have got it and thats it, no skin of your back. If there was something more to that, well then you missed out on a chance.
I mean she could have tried stringing you along later, but Im sure you would have been able to spot that and cut the shit right there.
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shadow said:
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I have to agree with Himmler. Furthermore you think way too much. You should have just said hi and went from there.
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#4
LastMan
Quote:
Originally Posted by Himmler
For all you know, you could have missed out on some 9 pussy.
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I usually dont really see these things but today, as I was parking my car a HOT girl dressed really trendy, I mean stright 9 on looks scale.
as I was parking she was at ATM machine and when she was done she was still like standing there and looking around but in a way like to cathc my eye or seek attention , validation. Not attraction.
Why cause I caught her looking as I parked my car and it was a look on her face bodylanguage was like if she wanted to ask me something or wanted something from me.
Thats how I perceived it.
I have that awareness sensitivity thing..anyways
I could have gone and talked to her but it would validate her and give her what she wanted, easily.
as soon as I would open my mouth to appraoch or show interest I sensed as soon as she would get that then it would be game over.
So I can cold appraoch
I know how to turn them into warm appraoches
but this here is different in terms of surprisng the girl and you enmtering in her world.
here she wants validation that she gets guys attention and feeds her energy to feel good of that from the start...therefore she wont feel attracted to you.
Like a cusotmer paying a stripper for a dance,he gives the girl money she gets what she wants.
and by me giving her direct attention she gets the validation that she wants.
Please can you share any thoughts or how you change that when you sense that type of girl...cause I know there is a way of turning it around but I wanted to hear from you guys.
nuff said.
__________________
Today, 12:23 PM #2
Himmler
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Have you considered the possibility that she was abit attracted to you and want you to make the first move, then have you fuck her brains out?
For all you know, you could have missed out on some 9 pussy. You should have said something, whats the worst that could happen? Nothing. If she was validation seeking, she would have got it and thats it, no skin of your back. If there was something more to that, well then you missed out on a chance.
I mean she could have tried stringing you along later, but Im sure you would have been able to spot that and cut the shit right there.
__________________
shadow said:
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I have to agree with Himmler. Furthermore you think way too much. You should have just said hi and went from there.
__________________
#4
LastMan
Quote:
Originally Posted by Himmler
For all you know, you could have missed out on some 9 pussy.
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Screening her in or out for LTRs
Early frame. Screening her in or out for LTRs
by
francopua
RULE: watch carefully at the frame she comes from on the first interaction with
you.
RULEeople usually repeat their behavioral patterns and if learn something
they do it slowly and they need a motivation for it.
RULE:She is a woman and with her first frame she is going to tell you what shit
she WILL put on you regardless of how you will feel about it.
So be a wise man and don't waste your quality time!
HB:"bla,bla,bla" > talks only about herself and her needs. Not a word about you
and your needs. On EV comes out she put all the people of her past to do things
for her and never showed any empathy and thankfulness for it, only contempt.
Diagnosis: very narcissistic chick.
Treatment: No LTR. If good sex and good looking but selfish behavior on
repeated interaction only FB. Maybe MLTR as Secondary if she is able to fulfill
some needs of yours other than sex with training.
HB:"My former boyfriend broke my arm. The boyfriend before sent me to the
Hospital with my teeth broken"
Diagnosis: she will try everything she can to have you do the same. She does
not get horny if a guy does not beat or mistreat her. She is frigid if you are
nice to her.
Treatment: prompt NEXT before or after sex. If you want LTR with her you are
either a sadist or a suicidal AFC. She is not even good as FB. Maybe Pivot if
someone else beats her other than one of your friends?
HB: (calls you and interacts with you very often when drunk or under the effect
of drugs)
Diagnosis: she is an addict and a borderline. Be a man: don't deny the TRUTH.
(I read here how many guys fail to detect this!)
Treatment: fuck her with the whole body condom if you like her once or twice
and then NEXT HER. A HB is not worth losing your regular night sleep.
HB: (on first meeting) "Hmm.. I am sure you have a big cock.. please let me
suck it.."
Diagnosis: she is either a hard core freak or a cock teaser. You can do a
differential diagnosis like this:
Franco:"Really?" (open his trousers wherever he is) "Caress it now.." (grabs
her hand and puts it on his dick no matter is the waiter close to the table.)
If she gets horny and wants to isolation fuck her. She is a freak. Never an
exclusive LTR with this chick! She would repeat herself with all the guys of
the neighborhood. Good only as FB if she is a pain in the ass. Must qualify for
Secondary and qualify a lot for Primary.
Diagnosis II: If she reacts with a disgusted non verbal when you put her hand
on your dick NEXT HER. She is a cock teaser, maybe a man's hater. Not even good
as FB.
HB: "I feel that a man and a woman should be able to relate to each other on
the intellectual level, be able to share ideas about art, literature, music "
(depressed non verbal, something "bad" like being dumped by guys all the time,
or losing her job all the time and/or being a successful career woman with a
lot of responsibility comes out when you EV). She does not react with clear
signs of raising of BT to your good attraction game in spite of giving you
IOIs.
Diagnosis: she is a LD chick of the depressed type, maybe LSE.
Treatment: NEXT HER. What she will do next is to keep you speeches to explain
why she does not enjoy sex and why you are a pig and sex addict. Not even good
as pivot. She would make all the chicks you PU to get depression even before
you open your mouth.
HB:"I like you, I feel we are special.. BUT for me freedom and independence
are very important. " with OR without signs of raising of the BT. Do not even
think of a LTR with her! This is the kind of chick who has sex with you with
the purpose of getting you involved into the teenage game:"Why do you want
always me to pee in restaurant's bathrooms? Don't YOU respect my freedom? Bla,
bla,bla.." If she is very HD and is able of following your rules maybe she is
good as Secondary in MLTRs, otherwise only as FB. If she is LD train her to
become more HD on sunday evenings after you have fucked 2-3 chicks and been out
sarging.. just to relax.
HB:"Why your friend/you looks/look at me like that? Am I dressed well?.. " (or
whatever LSE shit like this).
Diagnosis: test her back by telling her like an AFC "No Darling.. I feel you
look great!". If her reaction is paranoid and dramatic "No, I don't believe
you.. You KNOW I look like shit tonight!" and she seems to be for real about
this then you have a LSE case in your hands.
Treatment: do not EVEN THINK of a LTR with her. This chick would make of your
life a hell. She be even good as Primary if she is not depressed and very HD
and you really are a sadist and like to walk all the time with a whip in your
hands but remember that this chick will try to put a knife in your back sooner
and/or later on have you to abuse her.. so maybe better as Secondary or even
better as FB after all.
HB:"I like men who know what they want and make me feel myself a woman"
Diagnosis: she is a very dominant chick. A feminine, submissive chick would
never verbalize this. Very important to quickly detect is she HSE or LSE and/or
HD/LD.
Treatment: if you enjoy like me submitting dominant women with the side rule
that she has to be very HSE/HD and totally loyal to me then go for it, even
marry her
( my wife is like this.) but if you are a lazy guy and you don't like the
thrill of a very active sexual and adventurous life and want to really relax in
a LTR next her. She would be trouble for you if you want a really relaxed
lifestyle from a LTR.
If she is LD she is probably after your money or some other kind of gain,
probably next will try to manipulate you on something. Watch your back!
Especially watch for possible Ho behavior. If you like a risky life marry
her.. Some LD guys like Ho wives who are LD and love to make children with
them. These kind of chicks anyway can easily cheat on you.
If she is LSE treatment like above. Do not even THINK of a LTR with her!
HB:"I cut myself sometimes.." and/or: "Life is meaningless" and/or "I was dying
once for overdose.. you know.. I wanted to know how it feels.."
Diagnosis: borderline chick psycho.
Treatment: ultrafast NEXT. Don't look back.
HB:"All the men are X" there, where X = negative frame. ( you sense there is no
humor in her non verbal when she says that )
Diagnosis: man's hater. Maybe traumatic situations in her past with men
(honestly, who cares?)
Treatment: if HD and you like her maybe good as FB (with great reserve!). No
LTR, no MLTR. No Pivot.
HB:"I have had two long-term relationships/two marriages. I am very busy with
work. I was not sure about us.. maybe we did not have enough time for our
relationship.." with a story of continuous, endless "dating"..
Diagnosis: she is an "Eternally Single Lady" with some kind of more or less
serious psychopathology.
Treatment: NO LTR, even if they threaten you with a M16. She is unable to
commit to anything. Examine her: if she is not giving you the shit:"We cannot
have/Why we have sex if there are no REAL feelings involved" she may be good
FB/MLTR.
If she gives you THAT schizophrenic shit about being and NOT being in a
relationship AT THE SAME TIME while being LD and using the sex as a
manipulation mean or withdrawing it NEXT HER!
No one can take THAT if not drunk.. LOL.
HB:"So tell me.. is it the Company where you work big? .. " or "I like good
restaurants, clothes, houses".. or "Which kind of car you have?" or "HOW do you
live?" (waiting for you to tell the square meters of your house and your
income ) or "I have the problem X, I need your help" sub-communicating you will
get her pussy as reward for helping her.
Diagnosis: she is a Ho.
Treatment: pimp her. Put her to do things for you. She will love you for it!
You can have a real LTR with a woman like this only if she has "some principle"
and is able to be "exclusive and loyal", you have the balls like steel, you
like the thrill of a constant challenge and your are not afraid to get old and
die - with this kind of woman "exclusive" and "loyal" means in in fact in
womanese "I am your woman, my Godfather for AS LONG as you are THE BOSS and
make me those little presents and fuck me like the little bitch I am all the
time giving me wonderful, huge orgasms! ".
I like women like these! It is so arousing to have great sex with them and
train them to become devoted Geishas!
If you are the kind of guy who trembles at the idea that one day she could earn
more than you well.. then don't even think of a LTR with her. She would have on
you the same effect of a Cobra..
She HAS to be HD for you to consider giving her your time.
If she is a Ho and is LD next her or make of her your FB/MLTR. As LTR/Wife that
would be like to sleep with a snake. Truly AVOID Hoes who are also LD!
About Ho's self-esteem: I cannot be objective about their self-esteem. I like
these women too much. They are FUN for guys who know how to deal with them.
I have know also Hoes with a great self-esteem.
If she does not agree to be in the submissive role with you and you sure that
your balls are like steel then NEXT her. There are also feminist Hoes or Hoes
who hate men and they are DANGEROUS to your health.
HB:"So How was your last weekend? I Hope you found those shoes you were looking
for. Are your relatives well?" ( you sense she REALLY cares for how YOU feel!)
Diagnosis: after screening out the LSE chicks of the depressed/martyr-type -
they are VERY DANGEROUS to your HEALTH and can be mistaken for Good Girls! -
you can be sure that she is a Good Girl if she goes on really caring for you
and your needs, supporting you, being loyal to you and giving you good sex and
taking it from you.
Yes guys, Good Girls do exist! You want to be the father of her children and
her husband!
Treatment: if you use her only for sex you REALLY are an hell of a Bad
Guy...and I, Franco will tell you the day of the Final Judgement how you will
pay for it!
In the meantime: have fun! - Until you can..because if you have no respect for
this kind of girl then you really are an asshole. If you want to have fun do it
with freaks but do not harm a Good Girl!
But are you able to recognize her when you meet this rare girl? I hope so.
If you want a LTR/Marriage go for it! She is GOLD.
Keep her out of Secret Society! And yourself.. Good Girls are the most
exquisite pray for heartless Players.. Including myself..
I could have made this post much longer.. There are so many interesting cases.
So guys, tell me more feminine "early frames" coming to your mind.
Guys, watch carefully her EARLY FRAME! You save money, time and health!
by
francopua
RULE: watch carefully at the frame she comes from on the first interaction with
you.
RULEeople usually repeat their behavioral patterns and if learn something
they do it slowly and they need a motivation for it.
RULE:She is a woman and with her first frame she is going to tell you what shit
she WILL put on you regardless of how you will feel about it.
So be a wise man and don't waste your quality time!
HB:"bla,bla,bla" > talks only about herself and her needs. Not a word about you
and your needs. On EV comes out she put all the people of her past to do things
for her and never showed any empathy and thankfulness for it, only contempt.
Diagnosis: very narcissistic chick.
Treatment: No LTR. If good sex and good looking but selfish behavior on
repeated interaction only FB. Maybe MLTR as Secondary if she is able to fulfill
some needs of yours other than sex with training.
HB:"My former boyfriend broke my arm. The boyfriend before sent me to the
Hospital with my teeth broken"
Diagnosis: she will try everything she can to have you do the same. She does
not get horny if a guy does not beat or mistreat her. She is frigid if you are
nice to her.
Treatment: prompt NEXT before or after sex. If you want LTR with her you are
either a sadist or a suicidal AFC. She is not even good as FB. Maybe Pivot if
someone else beats her other than one of your friends?
HB: (calls you and interacts with you very often when drunk or under the effect
of drugs)
Diagnosis: she is an addict and a borderline. Be a man: don't deny the TRUTH.
(I read here how many guys fail to detect this!)
Treatment: fuck her with the whole body condom if you like her once or twice
and then NEXT HER. A HB is not worth losing your regular night sleep.
HB: (on first meeting) "Hmm.. I am sure you have a big cock.. please let me
suck it.."
Diagnosis: she is either a hard core freak or a cock teaser. You can do a
differential diagnosis like this:
Franco:"Really?" (open his trousers wherever he is) "Caress it now.." (grabs
her hand and puts it on his dick no matter is the waiter close to the table.)
If she gets horny and wants to isolation fuck her. She is a freak. Never an
exclusive LTR with this chick! She would repeat herself with all the guys of
the neighborhood. Good only as FB if she is a pain in the ass. Must qualify for
Secondary and qualify a lot for Primary.
Diagnosis II: If she reacts with a disgusted non verbal when you put her hand
on your dick NEXT HER. She is a cock teaser, maybe a man's hater. Not even good
as FB.
HB: "I feel that a man and a woman should be able to relate to each other on
the intellectual level, be able to share ideas about art, literature, music "
(depressed non verbal, something "bad" like being dumped by guys all the time,
or losing her job all the time and/or being a successful career woman with a
lot of responsibility comes out when you EV). She does not react with clear
signs of raising of BT to your good attraction game in spite of giving you
IOIs.
Diagnosis: she is a LD chick of the depressed type, maybe LSE.
Treatment: NEXT HER. What she will do next is to keep you speeches to explain
why she does not enjoy sex and why you are a pig and sex addict. Not even good
as pivot. She would make all the chicks you PU to get depression even before
you open your mouth.
HB:"I like you, I feel we are special.. BUT for me freedom and independence
are very important. " with OR without signs of raising of the BT. Do not even
think of a LTR with her! This is the kind of chick who has sex with you with
the purpose of getting you involved into the teenage game:"Why do you want
always me to pee in restaurant's bathrooms? Don't YOU respect my freedom? Bla,
bla,bla.." If she is very HD and is able of following your rules maybe she is
good as Secondary in MLTRs, otherwise only as FB. If she is LD train her to
become more HD on sunday evenings after you have fucked 2-3 chicks and been out
sarging.. just to relax.
HB:"Why your friend/you looks/look at me like that? Am I dressed well?.. " (or
whatever LSE shit like this).
Diagnosis: test her back by telling her like an AFC "No Darling.. I feel you
look great!". If her reaction is paranoid and dramatic "No, I don't believe
you.. You KNOW I look like shit tonight!" and she seems to be for real about
this then you have a LSE case in your hands.
Treatment: do not EVEN THINK of a LTR with her. This chick would make of your
life a hell. She be even good as Primary if she is not depressed and very HD
and you really are a sadist and like to walk all the time with a whip in your
hands but remember that this chick will try to put a knife in your back sooner
and/or later on have you to abuse her.. so maybe better as Secondary or even
better as FB after all.
HB:"I like men who know what they want and make me feel myself a woman"
Diagnosis: she is a very dominant chick. A feminine, submissive chick would
never verbalize this. Very important to quickly detect is she HSE or LSE and/or
HD/LD.
Treatment: if you enjoy like me submitting dominant women with the side rule
that she has to be very HSE/HD and totally loyal to me then go for it, even
marry her
( my wife is like this.) but if you are a lazy guy and you don't like the
thrill of a very active sexual and adventurous life and want to really relax in
a LTR next her. She would be trouble for you if you want a really relaxed
lifestyle from a LTR.
If she is LD she is probably after your money or some other kind of gain,
probably next will try to manipulate you on something. Watch your back!
Especially watch for possible Ho behavior. If you like a risky life marry
her.. Some LD guys like Ho wives who are LD and love to make children with
them. These kind of chicks anyway can easily cheat on you.
If she is LSE treatment like above. Do not even THINK of a LTR with her!
HB:"I cut myself sometimes.." and/or: "Life is meaningless" and/or "I was dying
once for overdose.. you know.. I wanted to know how it feels.."
Diagnosis: borderline chick psycho.
Treatment: ultrafast NEXT. Don't look back.
HB:"All the men are X" there, where X = negative frame. ( you sense there is no
humor in her non verbal when she says that )
Diagnosis: man's hater. Maybe traumatic situations in her past with men
(honestly, who cares?)
Treatment: if HD and you like her maybe good as FB (with great reserve!). No
LTR, no MLTR. No Pivot.
HB:"I have had two long-term relationships/two marriages. I am very busy with
work. I was not sure about us.. maybe we did not have enough time for our
relationship.." with a story of continuous, endless "dating"..
Diagnosis: she is an "Eternally Single Lady" with some kind of more or less
serious psychopathology.
Treatment: NO LTR, even if they threaten you with a M16. She is unable to
commit to anything. Examine her: if she is not giving you the shit:"We cannot
have/Why we have sex if there are no REAL feelings involved" she may be good
FB/MLTR.
If she gives you THAT schizophrenic shit about being and NOT being in a
relationship AT THE SAME TIME while being LD and using the sex as a
manipulation mean or withdrawing it NEXT HER!
No one can take THAT if not drunk.. LOL.
HB:"So tell me.. is it the Company where you work big? .. " or "I like good
restaurants, clothes, houses".. or "Which kind of car you have?" or "HOW do you
live?" (waiting for you to tell the square meters of your house and your
income ) or "I have the problem X, I need your help" sub-communicating you will
get her pussy as reward for helping her.
Diagnosis: she is a Ho.
Treatment: pimp her. Put her to do things for you. She will love you for it!
You can have a real LTR with a woman like this only if she has "some principle"
and is able to be "exclusive and loyal", you have the balls like steel, you
like the thrill of a constant challenge and your are not afraid to get old and
die - with this kind of woman "exclusive" and "loyal" means in in fact in
womanese "I am your woman, my Godfather for AS LONG as you are THE BOSS and
make me those little presents and fuck me like the little bitch I am all the
time giving me wonderful, huge orgasms! ".
I like women like these! It is so arousing to have great sex with them and
train them to become devoted Geishas!
If you are the kind of guy who trembles at the idea that one day she could earn
more than you well.. then don't even think of a LTR with her. She would have on
you the same effect of a Cobra..
She HAS to be HD for you to consider giving her your time.
If she is a Ho and is LD next her or make of her your FB/MLTR. As LTR/Wife that
would be like to sleep with a snake. Truly AVOID Hoes who are also LD!
About Ho's self-esteem: I cannot be objective about their self-esteem. I like
these women too much. They are FUN for guys who know how to deal with them.
I have know also Hoes with a great self-esteem.
If she does not agree to be in the submissive role with you and you sure that
your balls are like steel then NEXT her. There are also feminist Hoes or Hoes
who hate men and they are DANGEROUS to your health.
HB:"So How was your last weekend? I Hope you found those shoes you were looking
for. Are your relatives well?" ( you sense she REALLY cares for how YOU feel!)
Diagnosis: after screening out the LSE chicks of the depressed/martyr-type -
they are VERY DANGEROUS to your HEALTH and can be mistaken for Good Girls! -
you can be sure that she is a Good Girl if she goes on really caring for you
and your needs, supporting you, being loyal to you and giving you good sex and
taking it from you.
Yes guys, Good Girls do exist! You want to be the father of her children and
her husband!
Treatment: if you use her only for sex you REALLY are an hell of a Bad
Guy...and I, Franco will tell you the day of the Final Judgement how you will
pay for it!
In the meantime: have fun! - Until you can..because if you have no respect for
this kind of girl then you really are an asshole. If you want to have fun do it
with freaks but do not harm a Good Girl!
But are you able to recognize her when you meet this rare girl? I hope so.
If you want a LTR/Marriage go for it! She is GOLD.
Keep her out of Secret Society! And yourself.. Good Girls are the most
exquisite pray for heartless Players.. Including myself..
I could have made this post much longer.. There are so many interesting cases.
So guys, tell me more feminine "early frames" coming to your mind.
Guys, watch carefully her EARLY FRAME! You save money, time and health!
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