Mark Manson is a GREAT GUY
I respect him cause he says it like it is,
I really enjoyed fuck yes fuck no post. heres is original LINK http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
this inspired me and made perfect sense when to say NO to a girl eventhough she gave you "a chance"
I think it saves time and makes everything in dating easier and all this nonsense and stupidity from inept women from the girls who are genuine with you then you GAME ON! or
open the door a little to your WORLD to her....
BE FUCK YEAH GUY FOR YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE OTHERS
and you don't have to worry about ANY Girl or getting her to Like you..
modern times has changed and girls are proactive seekers like Cats on prey..they hunt and catch to try to keep..
so girls ARE NINJA with not showing interest in DIRECT WAY.
but
Girls That Do show interest in you means that YOU appreciate HER!
women make effort to buy that shoe...get that LOOK... get fixed UP!
OFCOURSE SHE WILL BE INTERESTED
IF NOT ITS FUCK NO!
PERIOD.
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Monday, January 19, 2015
Wednesday, September 10, 2014
BALANITIS , DIABETES FOR MEN AND CHANGE OF LIFESTYLE in one week gone
THIS FOR MEN ONLY..........
is your penus have a rash crack and hurts doesnt heal?
what can you do? is it local infected and why isnt it healing even if you pour peroxide or drugstore stuff on it??
Then please read..DISCLAIMER
this isnt medical recomendation I am just sharing my experience.
Balanitis is awful
first a girl gave me felatio and used her teeth
then I scratched it more
it got worse
went to Dr said it was thrush or rash fungal
it didnt go away
Then one day went to ER
they did urine test.
They said blood sugar was up and infection
they prescribed antibiotics in one week it went away
in conjunction to stop eating carbohydrates and went full chicken breast and lettuce high protein meals and water..
for local what helped me feel fresh and good to help heal was
chlorexidine 2% with ketaconozol .25% it helped keep it fresh and help heal soft tissues after I took a shower and before I went to sleep
I waited one week before having sex cause this thrush is contagious and I gave it to 2 girls. they took oral antifungals flucozanale or something for 3 days or 6 days.. their gyno gave to them.
I told them I had urinary tract infection due to holding it while long plane ride.
I started to change my diet for good.
I started using condom also cause another girl I fuck has her pussy itchy so I might have also gotten it from that too.
so I spray with that solution chlorexidine 2% with ketaconozol .25%
there is build up around my penus when I eat carbs.
Im trying Alpiste..bought from mexican store $1 a pack 3ounce to try aside of my carb free diet. no silica fibers on it I reviewed it and veified it.
I also will try CATS CLAW herb as capsule 500mg 250 pills for $8 bucks on amazon.
Im taking currently Tribulus testeris with Maca and Tongkat Ali.
Its helped my testareone go up due to the low carbs create estrogen and my previous use of HCG..
I will try this first before restart HCG diet ..
Im working on self discipline and try Victor Pride 30 day bootcamp.
I dont fap yet I have sex once a day with either girls Im seeing
the excersize portion seems abit out of my range but will commit.
I taken interest in Deepak chopras mind body magic mind due to Dr wayne dyer's story on his wife health issues on course program Living Beyond Miracles.
BRaddoks classic writtings helped me to go back to review my "inner game"
I re read Mark entropy's INNER GAME CAN MAKE YOU WORSE article..dam he is good.
I m thinking looking into herbal alternative medicine and maybe learn ayuverda.
to me its a big change yet its lifestyle to get where I want to be healthy
these health issues are product of out of control lifestyle.
Dr Dyer in Living Beyond Miracles really hits home run about our body and mind and soul connection..organs and rocks.I believe there is a God and that herbal remedies can help us cleanse before its too late.
Tyler's owen inner game video non pua related was also good related to being self dependent... He is someone I believe has really made high progress from 2 years ago.
hope this helps.
is your penus have a rash crack and hurts doesnt heal?
what can you do? is it local infected and why isnt it healing even if you pour peroxide or drugstore stuff on it??
Then please read..DISCLAIMER
this isnt medical recomendation I am just sharing my experience.
Balanitis is awful
first a girl gave me felatio and used her teeth
then I scratched it more
it got worse
went to Dr said it was thrush or rash fungal
it didnt go away
Then one day went to ER
they did urine test.
They said blood sugar was up and infection
they prescribed antibiotics in one week it went away
in conjunction to stop eating carbohydrates and went full chicken breast and lettuce high protein meals and water..
for local what helped me feel fresh and good to help heal was
chlorexidine 2% with ketaconozol .25% it helped keep it fresh and help heal soft tissues after I took a shower and before I went to sleep
I waited one week before having sex cause this thrush is contagious and I gave it to 2 girls. they took oral antifungals flucozanale or something for 3 days or 6 days.. their gyno gave to them.
I told them I had urinary tract infection due to holding it while long plane ride.
I started to change my diet for good.
I started using condom also cause another girl I fuck has her pussy itchy so I might have also gotten it from that too.
so I spray with that solution chlorexidine 2% with ketaconozol .25%
there is build up around my penus when I eat carbs.
Im trying Alpiste..bought from mexican store $1 a pack 3ounce to try aside of my carb free diet. no silica fibers on it I reviewed it and veified it.
I also will try CATS CLAW herb as capsule 500mg 250 pills for $8 bucks on amazon.
Im taking currently Tribulus testeris with Maca and Tongkat Ali.
Its helped my testareone go up due to the low carbs create estrogen and my previous use of HCG..
I will try this first before restart HCG diet ..
Im working on self discipline and try Victor Pride 30 day bootcamp.
I dont fap yet I have sex once a day with either girls Im seeing
the excersize portion seems abit out of my range but will commit.
I taken interest in Deepak chopras mind body magic mind due to Dr wayne dyer's story on his wife health issues on course program Living Beyond Miracles.
BRaddoks classic writtings helped me to go back to review my "inner game"
I re read Mark entropy's INNER GAME CAN MAKE YOU WORSE article..dam he is good.
I m thinking looking into herbal alternative medicine and maybe learn ayuverda.
to me its a big change yet its lifestyle to get where I want to be healthy
these health issues are product of out of control lifestyle.
Dr Dyer in Living Beyond Miracles really hits home run about our body and mind and soul connection..organs and rocks.I believe there is a God and that herbal remedies can help us cleanse before its too late.
Tyler's owen inner game video non pua related was also good related to being self dependent... He is someone I believe has really made high progress from 2 years ago.
hope this helps.
Thursday, May 22, 2014
Update back in the game..neediness and calibration.. 2solid dates this week.
tonight is Wednesday I have one girl which I started texting last night and tonight when in too deep reported comfort as mark manson with the say. I am a true believer of mark. On attractions active and half passive it's balance in between them exhibits calibration. On rejections you get a sense of neediness and even despearation as my female friend Monique says its a void that you feel but it's actually a void that you want and you can only get spiritual and not necessarily from a woman. Its true... So what I did is I actually fast for a whole day I'm not really sure the background of fasting but its pretty much it's you and survival mode and clears your mind to focus on what it is important for you. I meant really did it because I felt that I needed to clear my mind and needed a little bit of putting myself back into the diet which I'm doing so it actually worked in my favor because all the sudden things started becoming clear and I said he thinking and survival morning thinking about myself first or having a passion and what really matters to me Stephen Nash talks a lot about this and not a lot of people get it because they think it is very super ficial are abstract but when you really really put this into practice it's a very powerful because it actually build your character your identity in life. What I am so good after a fast is I and when you're needing to stay like franco says you never text to go out don't communicate with anyone woman. A clear mind really sets I really calm tone in your life and say OK now I'm back and really sets you be really nice calibration. Of course have you done it before this is like not going to the gym and then you're going to the gym again and kind of mentally prepare yourself there for so you can do is take things to get you where you need to be. Make Molly said once the will must be stronger than the skinny think fasting and meditating a really really do step your calibration. I was somewhat depressed on Tuesday and down and today I have to the three girls that I'm talking to you right now one of them is going to meet him tomorrow and the other one is pretty much whenever I feel like it. I have 3 in one site and 2 on other.I'm balancing rapport first humour then push pull or releases..this I learned from sinn Jon Lee..excellent excellent... Breakthrough comfort which future teaches..I basically in past ad swingcatts prizing once my Intuition knows its solid rapport w consistency and commitment. I'm a student of theory of pimp game and so I once establish trust rapport genuinely... I establish my role as an authority figure in her life. For some its natural and for some its a way demonstrate express masculinity. That Never changes...... I cool thing is to fuck a girl and then text all of the prospects...you always have go be hungry for the hunt of new prospects...with calibration from fasting ..and your persuasive verbal skill..you can seduce without being harsh...if you Dont fuck and your mind is cluttered w problem..then you come off weird needy lonely desperate and worse clueless.I read about an author guru on self help which he fasts once a week. Think this balances life ambitions and survival with good emotional self control... Its taken me longer to recover calibration...but 2 days of plain hi openers or immediately opening after she notices you leads to extreme fast solid attraction cause you are congruent in her way of her wanting you yet you opening her desires creating that fantasy for her a reality. Her imagination will take her. And game new ones...I use NLP 10% in my text and in person to reinforce her attraction interest into me...once you for that you can always bait her.
Saturday, May 17, 2014
Psychology and emotions she needs to make herself want to fall in love first before you can conquer
I was reading an interesting article on line psychology and I also was watching a commentary by June Barrymore on Turner Classic Movies channel on a movie called the haunting filmed in 1955 I believe. She said something then strike me very interesting. Which is very true in masculine n in ways of seduction and expression of sexual intent" this movie is an example of no special effects and needed in order to scare the audience for the movie watcher this movies scares the audience what this film does compared to the new films of today a new movies off today were they have a lot of optical action Corey and is that the movie makes the audience get scared first in order to scare so they are in space we are already scared Nissan watching the movie now because of the visuals much more of the type of psychological the film is portrayed." well how does this relate to what we want to achieve basically it has to do with emotions itself but is how we don't have to really be gruesome or really be verbally descriptive is in the sexually-explicit way but to be very subtle and in order to elicit the motions that we want I'm like teasing way of very little by little something mark told me in the past was always make her wanted more always make her wanted more like you're not really that much wanting it but you wanna make sure when you do that that she is already on the level where she's already aroused you're feeling emotional investment with she's horny or what is she already put her hard and it doesn't motional decision to do so I'm basically is to elicit certain ways to treat yourself and Mary motions and um so that way now I'm shakin be in the state of mind mostly where she knows that she wants to what she wants to be in order to sleep with you when she reached that point is basically you not take care of her of that I am motion and going straight to closing escalation. The whole concept of the movie scares the audience will not be in Korea gruesome is Mr V phantom the movie has certain scenes to scare a surprise and so it always keeps the audience very intrigued and unexpected ways but its not the actual visual but it's the way it goes around instead of being gory and is more scary we need to me not gory sexual but we need to be more of an enticement of sexuality. Maybe but my best seductions has always been out like a movie a movie then I am creating and I'm the main character and I'm providing her apart and my movie like we're being filmed like all of this is falling into place how it's supposed to be but the PUA part or seduction artist seducer has to be the person that has to lead to where you want indirectly.
Sunday, April 24, 2011
The Real Post About Hot Girls by mark entropy
The Real Post About Hot Girls
In case you are somehow unaware, my post the other day was, in fact, completely satirical. All of it was satirical. It was not partially true. It was only true in that if you did the exact opposite of everything listed there, you’d probably do pretty well. If you read any of it and thought, “That’s actually kind of true,” then you need to seriously re-evaluate where you’re at and what some of your beliefs are. Because you’re not getting anywhere near one of these girls any time soon.
It was not a joke either. Satire, by definition, is when you mock something in such a way to actually show the truth behind it more clearly. When it comes to getting the ultra hot girls, a lot of guys have some bizarre beliefs and perceptions, and that post was a way of amplifying those perceptions to hopefully show you how ridiculous they are.
But still, it’s one of the most common questions: how do I get the super hot girls? The models. The dancers. The actresses.
Believe it or not this is actually a pretty heavy inner game topic, but I’m going to forgo it for now. I actually plan on addressing this subject more thoroughly in my upcoming book, not just because most guys want to be able to get hotter women, but because it’s actually an exemplary situation to demonstrate a lot of points I want to make in the book.
But for now, here is the abridged version. To every guy who has ever wondered how to date models, dancers, actresses, or supposed “high status” girls, read on… It’s actually quite simple.
Step 1: Stop caring how hot they are. This is pretty much 80% of it right here, by itself. This sounds totally counter-intuitive at first, but it’s true. Very, very beautiful women are treated differently their entire lives by men. These men project their fears and fantasies onto these women, and when they approach them, they’re doing it for their own self esteem and validation, not because they actually care what the girl is like or interested in. Do not be this guy. The fact that you have even asked this question means you are guilty of this. I was guilty of this too.
The first step to doing this is to ditch the 1-10 scale. Again, I was guilty of this for a long time, but the ratings scale is toxic in so many ways, the worst of which is that it subtly stereotypes behavior based upon appearance. So the fact that you even recognize in your mind that approaching a “10″ to be different than a “7″ is immediately going to affect your behavior towards her. And she’s going to sense this. And not only is she going to sense it, she’s going to know because 98% of men approach her with the idea that they have to treat her differently.
When you approach, she’s just another girl. You really have to stop caring. I used to get so obsessed about finding “high quality” girls, and I just let it go a little more than a year ago. It’s no coincidence that I pick up the hottest girls of my life now with the less effort than ever before.
Step 2: You have to have your shit together. If there is one thing that’s true about ultra-hot girls, it’s that they have about twice the selection as your normal pretty girl. They meet rich guys all the time. They meet musicians and actors and DJ’s and guys with big muscles and nice cars. It’s not that you need any of this stuff (although it helps), but you cannot have a glaring hole in your lifestyle. You need to have your shit together.
FYI: Going out five nights a week and having social proof in a cheesy night club does not qualify as “having your shit together.”
A nice job you like, a nice place you like, nice friends you like, cool hobbies you like, good health and good shape, and generally a well-adjusted and confident person. Picking up most girls, you can get away without one or a few of that list. Ultra hot girls, you need to have them all handled. You need to be a complete package.
Look at it from her perspective. The first way she screens men is by confidence and charm. Let’s say she meets 20 men one week and 3 of them are confident and charming and she likes being around them. The first one is VERY good-looking but also unemployed and living with a family friend. He has no car. The second has his life together and is pretty wealthy but is overweight and dresses poorly. The third guy has his life together and is in great shape and takes care of himself.
All else being equal, she’s going to go with the third. It’s not that looks are ALL that matter, but when she has so many options, she has no reason to ever settle. That’s why you need to be the complete package. You don’t have to look like Brad Pitt, or be a millionaire, or be a world-class athlete or something. You just need to have your shit together. You really can’t have a major hole in your lifestyle.
Step 3: Stop buying into this “high value” nonsense. A hotter girl will not necessarily make you happier than a less hot girl. Any sort of drive or need to fuck hotter girls for the sake of fucking hotter girls and not for the sake of seeking joy, love and connection is a purely selfish endeavor. There is nothing “high value” about a really hot girl, it’s just that guys project their insecurities onto these women and think there’s something valuable about them. If you ask the women themselves, they have no perception of this “value” or “status” in which you speak of. None at all. These are just merit badges in your head, constructed as a sad way to validate yourself.
I’ve been with five models (two runway), a cheerleader and a successful stage actress. I’ve been on dates with girls who have been approached 3-5 times WHILE ON THE DATE with me. I’ve dated a girl who dated an NBA basketball player before me. I never, ever, ever, EVER heard one of them speak of men in terms of status or not being cool enough or not being rich enough or good-looking enough to hang out with them. In fact, I never heard any of them say anything derogatory about men hitting on them EXCEPT for the man’s lack of confidence, lack of respect or lack of authenticity around her.
A typical complaint from a normal girl: “He’s really nice, why doesn’t he ask me out on a date more often?”
A typical complaint from a very hot girl: “Ugh, that club-owner keeps flashing his watch as if I give a shit.”
People really don’t get it, these girls don’t have it that great. Imagine wanting to date a really great guy, someone who actually cares about you, and literally every single guy you meet starts acting like a total idiot trying to impress you or manipulate you into bed. Meanwhile, your friends who aren’t as pretty as you seem to keep meeting really nice normal guys who actually care about them. It’s actually very frustrating. Imagine having EVERYONE evaluate you for how pretty you are and not your personality or what you say. You’d actually be pretty insecure about what people thought of you.
Step 4: Spend Less Time in Night Clubs. Most of the hottest girls don’t enjoy going to night clubs often. They get harassed and a lot of unwanted attention. The hot girls you see at clubs are usually made up: fake tans, fake tits, fake hair, tons of make up. If you saw them on the street, you’d be half as impressed.
The best way to meet the hottest girls is day game. Social circle as well if you can get networked with them. Obviously, they’re hard to find and you rarely see them. Unless you live in a large international city such as New York City, LA, Miami, London or Paris, there’s a very good chance that you will go weeks or months between sightings.
Guys always assume, the hotter the girl, the harder she is to get. I suppose on a purely supply/demand level, that’s true. There are fewer hot girls and more guys trying to get them. But they’re really no different. The only thing that’s different is that unlike an average pretty girl who only has 50% of guys she meets put her on a pedestal, the super hot girl has 98% of men she meets put her on a pedestal, so she’s going to see through your bullshit immediately.
And in case you didn’t catch it: The rating scale is a pedestal. The concept of “high value” is a pedestal. Coming up with special openers is a pedestal. The theory behind negging is a pedestal. Believing you have to treat her differently in any way is a pedestal.
Cut all of that shit out. Get your life together. Stop caring about looks so much. Treat her like you’d treat anybody else. Stop approaching her to prove something to yourself. Stop treating her like a trophy or an achievement or a merit badge… and just talk to her. Just the fact that you talk to her like a normal human being to will immediately differentiate you from 98% of the other guys she meets.
In case you are somehow unaware, my post the other day was, in fact, completely satirical. All of it was satirical. It was not partially true. It was only true in that if you did the exact opposite of everything listed there, you’d probably do pretty well. If you read any of it and thought, “That’s actually kind of true,” then you need to seriously re-evaluate where you’re at and what some of your beliefs are. Because you’re not getting anywhere near one of these girls any time soon.
It was not a joke either. Satire, by definition, is when you mock something in such a way to actually show the truth behind it more clearly. When it comes to getting the ultra hot girls, a lot of guys have some bizarre beliefs and perceptions, and that post was a way of amplifying those perceptions to hopefully show you how ridiculous they are.
But still, it’s one of the most common questions: how do I get the super hot girls? The models. The dancers. The actresses.
Believe it or not this is actually a pretty heavy inner game topic, but I’m going to forgo it for now. I actually plan on addressing this subject more thoroughly in my upcoming book, not just because most guys want to be able to get hotter women, but because it’s actually an exemplary situation to demonstrate a lot of points I want to make in the book.
But for now, here is the abridged version. To every guy who has ever wondered how to date models, dancers, actresses, or supposed “high status” girls, read on… It’s actually quite simple.
Step 1: Stop caring how hot they are. This is pretty much 80% of it right here, by itself. This sounds totally counter-intuitive at first, but it’s true. Very, very beautiful women are treated differently their entire lives by men. These men project their fears and fantasies onto these women, and when they approach them, they’re doing it for their own self esteem and validation, not because they actually care what the girl is like or interested in. Do not be this guy. The fact that you have even asked this question means you are guilty of this. I was guilty of this too.
The first step to doing this is to ditch the 1-10 scale. Again, I was guilty of this for a long time, but the ratings scale is toxic in so many ways, the worst of which is that it subtly stereotypes behavior based upon appearance. So the fact that you even recognize in your mind that approaching a “10″ to be different than a “7″ is immediately going to affect your behavior towards her. And she’s going to sense this. And not only is she going to sense it, she’s going to know because 98% of men approach her with the idea that they have to treat her differently.
When you approach, she’s just another girl. You really have to stop caring. I used to get so obsessed about finding “high quality” girls, and I just let it go a little more than a year ago. It’s no coincidence that I pick up the hottest girls of my life now with the less effort than ever before.
Step 2: You have to have your shit together. If there is one thing that’s true about ultra-hot girls, it’s that they have about twice the selection as your normal pretty girl. They meet rich guys all the time. They meet musicians and actors and DJ’s and guys with big muscles and nice cars. It’s not that you need any of this stuff (although it helps), but you cannot have a glaring hole in your lifestyle. You need to have your shit together.
FYI: Going out five nights a week and having social proof in a cheesy night club does not qualify as “having your shit together.”
A nice job you like, a nice place you like, nice friends you like, cool hobbies you like, good health and good shape, and generally a well-adjusted and confident person. Picking up most girls, you can get away without one or a few of that list. Ultra hot girls, you need to have them all handled. You need to be a complete package.
Look at it from her perspective. The first way she screens men is by confidence and charm. Let’s say she meets 20 men one week and 3 of them are confident and charming and she likes being around them. The first one is VERY good-looking but also unemployed and living with a family friend. He has no car. The second has his life together and is pretty wealthy but is overweight and dresses poorly. The third guy has his life together and is in great shape and takes care of himself.
All else being equal, she’s going to go with the third. It’s not that looks are ALL that matter, but when she has so many options, she has no reason to ever settle. That’s why you need to be the complete package. You don’t have to look like Brad Pitt, or be a millionaire, or be a world-class athlete or something. You just need to have your shit together. You really can’t have a major hole in your lifestyle.
Step 3: Stop buying into this “high value” nonsense. A hotter girl will not necessarily make you happier than a less hot girl. Any sort of drive or need to fuck hotter girls for the sake of fucking hotter girls and not for the sake of seeking joy, love and connection is a purely selfish endeavor. There is nothing “high value” about a really hot girl, it’s just that guys project their insecurities onto these women and think there’s something valuable about them. If you ask the women themselves, they have no perception of this “value” or “status” in which you speak of. None at all. These are just merit badges in your head, constructed as a sad way to validate yourself.
I’ve been with five models (two runway), a cheerleader and a successful stage actress. I’ve been on dates with girls who have been approached 3-5 times WHILE ON THE DATE with me. I’ve dated a girl who dated an NBA basketball player before me. I never, ever, ever, EVER heard one of them speak of men in terms of status or not being cool enough or not being rich enough or good-looking enough to hang out with them. In fact, I never heard any of them say anything derogatory about men hitting on them EXCEPT for the man’s lack of confidence, lack of respect or lack of authenticity around her.
A typical complaint from a normal girl: “He’s really nice, why doesn’t he ask me out on a date more often?”
A typical complaint from a very hot girl: “Ugh, that club-owner keeps flashing his watch as if I give a shit.”
People really don’t get it, these girls don’t have it that great. Imagine wanting to date a really great guy, someone who actually cares about you, and literally every single guy you meet starts acting like a total idiot trying to impress you or manipulate you into bed. Meanwhile, your friends who aren’t as pretty as you seem to keep meeting really nice normal guys who actually care about them. It’s actually very frustrating. Imagine having EVERYONE evaluate you for how pretty you are and not your personality or what you say. You’d actually be pretty insecure about what people thought of you.
Step 4: Spend Less Time in Night Clubs. Most of the hottest girls don’t enjoy going to night clubs often. They get harassed and a lot of unwanted attention. The hot girls you see at clubs are usually made up: fake tans, fake tits, fake hair, tons of make up. If you saw them on the street, you’d be half as impressed.
The best way to meet the hottest girls is day game. Social circle as well if you can get networked with them. Obviously, they’re hard to find and you rarely see them. Unless you live in a large international city such as New York City, LA, Miami, London or Paris, there’s a very good chance that you will go weeks or months between sightings.
Guys always assume, the hotter the girl, the harder she is to get. I suppose on a purely supply/demand level, that’s true. There are fewer hot girls and more guys trying to get them. But they’re really no different. The only thing that’s different is that unlike an average pretty girl who only has 50% of guys she meets put her on a pedestal, the super hot girl has 98% of men she meets put her on a pedestal, so she’s going to see through your bullshit immediately.
And in case you didn’t catch it: The rating scale is a pedestal. The concept of “high value” is a pedestal. Coming up with special openers is a pedestal. The theory behind negging is a pedestal. Believing you have to treat her differently in any way is a pedestal.
Cut all of that shit out. Get your life together. Stop caring about looks so much. Treat her like you’d treat anybody else. Stop approaching her to prove something to yourself. Stop treating her like a trophy or an achievement or a merit badge… and just talk to her. Just the fact that you talk to her like a normal human being to will immediately differentiate you from 98% of the other guys she meets.
Friday, February 11, 2011
Emotional manipulation:eliciting emotions behaviour management audio
its 3sections on emotional manipulation 1 edition.
very raw but precise material
Practical FRAME CONTROL to lead
alot has to do with bt spiking and compliance
subcommunications
2 levels of leadership compliance
1)Art of distration, compliance more important than her objections,her actions speak louder than words , trust her actions and emotional behaviour than her shit test and ASD logistal brain.
Talk to the emotional brain not to the logical brain,
only talk to logical brain to SEXUALLY FRAME to validate herself and her actions of compliance.
frame control her disqualfiers with USE of social pressure.INDIRECT
treat her lika little girl who is objecting to getting medicine,
either way you have to find a way to make sure she gets it. its your responsibility to do so.More compliant the better and smoother the pickup.
2)underlying leading towards the logistical and progressive emotional rhythm and GOAL OUTCOME of the INTENT of the seduction.
THIS IS NEVER DISCUSSED LOGICALLY AND OPENLY TO THE WOMAN.EVER!
you make the women feel like a little girl giggle giggle happy to reinforce
she feels good about you.
here is the basis of behaviour management :
Behavior Management
Children are often very nervous or scared when experiencing something new. Our goal as trained pediatric dentists is to make your child’s visit to the dentist as comfortable as possible. We start with “baby steps” to help your child learn how to overcome any fears of going to the dentist. Most children begin to understand after their first visit, that brushing and counting their teeth was easy and that they have overcome their fears of the dentist. Some children need a little more help to overcome their fear of the dentist.
We use many scientifically proven techniques to help children overcome their fears. These include, tell-show-do, positive reinforcement, and distraction techniques. Most children respond well to these techniques. Some children are unable to cooperate after using these techniques and may need pharmacological behavior management such as nitrous oxide, sedation, and general anesthesia. The options that will be appropriate for your child will be explained by your pediatric dentist during your office visit. If you ever have questions about the techniques or why they were chosen for your child, please ask your pediatric dentist.
Tell-Show-Do
This communication technique involves verbal explanations of the dental procedures in phrases appropriate to the developmental level of the patient (tell), demonstrations for the patient so they can see, hear, smell, and touch aspects of the procedure in nonthreatening setting (show), followed by completion of the procedure (do). The goal of tell-show-do is to teach the patient important aspects of the dental visit, familiarize the patient with the dental setting, and to help improve the patient’s response to dental procedures.
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Nonverbal Communication
Nonverbal Communication is the reinforcement and guidance of behavior through appropriate contact, posture, facial expression, and body language. The goals of nonverbal communication are to enhance the effectiveness of other behavior management techniques, and to gain (or maintain) the patient’s attention and compliance.
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Positive Reinforcement
Positive feedback (reinforcement) is an effective technique to reward desired behaviors and thus, strengthen the recurrence of those behaviors. Positive feedback can be given through voice modulation, facial expressions, verbal praise, and appropriate physical demonstrations of affection by all members of the dental team. The goal of positive reinforcement is to reinforce positive behavior at your child’s dental visit.
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Distraction
Distraction is a technique which diverts the patient’s attention from what may be perceived as an unpleasant procedure. The goals of distraction are to decrease the child’s perception of an unpleasant situation and to avert negative or avoidance behaviors.
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Common Pediatric Behavior
Management Techniques
n Modeling: The pedo patient views another pedo patient who is cooperative, and
is used as a “model.”
n Tell/Show/Do: The dentist tells the patient what will happen (“I will look at your
teeth with my mirror”), then show the patient the mirror, then does the procedure
(looking at the teeth). Tell/Show/Do is not useful for injections, extractions, etc.
n Wording Choices: Using simple, pleasant words for actions and i nstruments can
help. The acid etch “taste like lemon juice,” the cotton roll c an be a “tooth
pillow,” the handpiece can be a “water sprayer.” Even the injec tions can be a
“mosquito bite.” These language choices can reduce fear and anxiety.
n Voice Control: The use of a loud authoritarian voice tone is useful for limitsetting
and for stopping dangerous behavior.
n HOME(Hand over Mouth Exercise): May return the patient to a cal mer state. The
hand is placed over the mouth, and the patient is told in a ster n voice, that the
hand will be removed when the undesirable behavior stops.
this is intersting cause you control the seduction,you enjoy and have control.
Mark posted this on emotional manipulation
“Pick Up as an Emotional Process.”
it's BRAND NEW material I've never revealed before.
Basically the idea is that everything we do in pick up is designed
to elicit the proper emotional responses from the woman and
ourselves. All tactics, and techniques are designed for this purpose.
Whatever you do and say is only as useful as the emotion it elicits.
From this starting point, I hope to draft out a new way of practicing
seduction.
so the audio is 3 mp3s
great to review.
I will have to read GUT IMPACT JD FUENTES
and RJS flash cards seem really good material.
Badboy mission on changing emotions.
very raw but precise material
Practical FRAME CONTROL to lead
alot has to do with bt spiking and compliance
subcommunications
2 levels of leadership compliance
1)Art of distration, compliance more important than her objections,her actions speak louder than words , trust her actions and emotional behaviour than her shit test and ASD logistal brain.
Talk to the emotional brain not to the logical brain,
only talk to logical brain to SEXUALLY FRAME to validate herself and her actions of compliance.
frame control her disqualfiers with USE of social pressure.INDIRECT
treat her lika little girl who is objecting to getting medicine,
either way you have to find a way to make sure she gets it. its your responsibility to do so.More compliant the better and smoother the pickup.
2)underlying leading towards the logistical and progressive emotional rhythm and GOAL OUTCOME of the INTENT of the seduction.
THIS IS NEVER DISCUSSED LOGICALLY AND OPENLY TO THE WOMAN.EVER!
you make the women feel like a little girl giggle giggle happy to reinforce
she feels good about you.
here is the basis of behaviour management :
Behavior Management
Children are often very nervous or scared when experiencing something new. Our goal as trained pediatric dentists is to make your child’s visit to the dentist as comfortable as possible. We start with “baby steps” to help your child learn how to overcome any fears of going to the dentist. Most children begin to understand after their first visit, that brushing and counting their teeth was easy and that they have overcome their fears of the dentist. Some children need a little more help to overcome their fear of the dentist.
We use many scientifically proven techniques to help children overcome their fears. These include, tell-show-do, positive reinforcement, and distraction techniques. Most children respond well to these techniques. Some children are unable to cooperate after using these techniques and may need pharmacological behavior management such as nitrous oxide, sedation, and general anesthesia. The options that will be appropriate for your child will be explained by your pediatric dentist during your office visit. If you ever have questions about the techniques or why they were chosen for your child, please ask your pediatric dentist.
Tell-Show-Do
This communication technique involves verbal explanations of the dental procedures in phrases appropriate to the developmental level of the patient (tell), demonstrations for the patient so they can see, hear, smell, and touch aspects of the procedure in nonthreatening setting (show), followed by completion of the procedure (do). The goal of tell-show-do is to teach the patient important aspects of the dental visit, familiarize the patient with the dental setting, and to help improve the patient’s response to dental procedures.
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Nonverbal Communication
Nonverbal Communication is the reinforcement and guidance of behavior through appropriate contact, posture, facial expression, and body language. The goals of nonverbal communication are to enhance the effectiveness of other behavior management techniques, and to gain (or maintain) the patient’s attention and compliance.
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Positive Reinforcement
Positive feedback (reinforcement) is an effective technique to reward desired behaviors and thus, strengthen the recurrence of those behaviors. Positive feedback can be given through voice modulation, facial expressions, verbal praise, and appropriate physical demonstrations of affection by all members of the dental team. The goal of positive reinforcement is to reinforce positive behavior at your child’s dental visit.
Back to Top
Distraction
Distraction is a technique which diverts the patient’s attention from what may be perceived as an unpleasant procedure. The goals of distraction are to decrease the child’s perception of an unpleasant situation and to avert negative or avoidance behaviors.
Back to Top
Common Pediatric Behavior
Management Techniques
n Modeling: The pedo patient views another pedo patient who is cooperative, and
is used as a “model.”
n Tell/Show/Do: The dentist tells the patient what will happen (“I will look at your
teeth with my mirror”), then show the patient the mirror, then does the procedure
(looking at the teeth). Tell/Show/Do is not useful for injections, extractions, etc.
n Wording Choices: Using simple, pleasant words for actions and i nstruments can
help. The acid etch “taste like lemon juice,” the cotton roll c an be a “tooth
pillow,” the handpiece can be a “water sprayer.” Even the injec tions can be a
“mosquito bite.” These language choices can reduce fear and anxiety.
n Voice Control: The use of a loud authoritarian voice tone is useful for limitsetting
and for stopping dangerous behavior.
n HOME(Hand over Mouth Exercise): May return the patient to a cal mer state. The
hand is placed over the mouth, and the patient is told in a ster n voice, that the
hand will be removed when the undesirable behavior stops.
this is intersting cause you control the seduction,you enjoy and have control.
Mark posted this on emotional manipulation
“Pick Up as an Emotional Process.”
it's BRAND NEW material I've never revealed before.
Basically the idea is that everything we do in pick up is designed
to elicit the proper emotional responses from the woman and
ourselves. All tactics, and techniques are designed for this purpose.
Whatever you do and say is only as useful as the emotion it elicits.
From this starting point, I hope to draft out a new way of practicing
seduction.
so the audio is 3 mp3s
great to review.
I will have to read GUT IMPACT JD FUENTES
and RJS flash cards seem really good material.
Badboy mission on changing emotions.
Thursday, February 3, 2011
g3 program table of contents
get a girl friend program
G3 ProgramIntroduction
1. Social Activity and Lifestyle
2. Your Image and Avatar
3. Meeting and Approaching Women
4. Conversations I – Building Rapport
5. Conversations II – Making Connections
6. Sexual Intent
7. Attraction I – Passive Attraction
8. Attraction II – Active Attraction
9. Phone Calls and Texting
10. Dates
11. Physicality and Sex
12. Relationship Basics
Conclusion
Bonus Material
ATTENTION: Steps will now open up EVERY SEVEN DAYS. So you begin with access to the Intro and Step 1, seven days later, Step 2 opens up, seven days later, Step 3, and so on... If you would like to skip ahead to a later step, please email me and I will move you ahead. Thanks.
Welcome to the Get a Girlfriend, Guaranteed Program. The program that's guaranteed to permanently improve your love-life and get you a girlfriend. You've embarked on a journey that's going to reinvent your social abilities and mindsets towards women.
Bookmark this page!
Going through the program is simple: you begin with the Introduction, watching the Program Overview Video below and then proceeding sequentially through each step and article through the program.
Each step is broken into three sections: Reading, Bonuses, and Exercises. For each step, start by doing the reading. Taking notes is recommended. Bonus material is optional and often not necessary, but can be very helpful. Finally, once you've read and understood all of the material of a specific step, complete each of the exercises listed.
If you have trouble with the exercises, go back and review the reading again. If you finish the exercises but felt they were difficult and that you didn't completely "get it," then don't be afraid to go back and do them again.
This program works for guys who take their time and are thorough with it. The more you rush through the material and the more you skip over, the less you're going to get out of it. You get out the effort that you put in. Take your time. Review the readings. Comment on the posts. Do all of the exercises, and do them well. The results are guaranteed.
The 12-Step-Program tab gives a brief overview of the entire program along with a downloadable PDF for the exercises. Also, it's recommended that you read through the Frequently Asked Questions to be prepared for whatever issues may arise.
Tips to Help with Your Success:
- Take your time. Do not rush through the program. You will get out of the program the time and effort you put into it.
- Take notes. Review past material. The content of the G3 Program builds on itself, so material early in the program remains relevant late in the program.
- Read and post comments. Join discussions. Ask questions and answer questions. The more involved you get the more you'll internalize the information.
- If you get frustrated or stuck, take some time off, re-read the introductory articles and perhaps redo any exercises that have been giving you trouble previously.
- If you stay stuck for a longer period of time, feel free to contact us for an email consultation.
G3 ProgramIntroduction
1. Social Activity and Lifestyle
2. Your Image and Avatar
3. Meeting and Approaching Women
4. Conversations I – Building Rapport
5. Conversations II – Making Connections
6. Sexual Intent
7. Attraction I – Passive Attraction
8. Attraction II – Active Attraction
9. Phone Calls and Texting
10. Dates
11. Physicality and Sex
12. Relationship Basics
Conclusion
Bonus Material
ATTENTION: Steps will now open up EVERY SEVEN DAYS. So you begin with access to the Intro and Step 1, seven days later, Step 2 opens up, seven days later, Step 3, and so on... If you would like to skip ahead to a later step, please email me and I will move you ahead. Thanks.
Welcome to the Get a Girlfriend, Guaranteed Program. The program that's guaranteed to permanently improve your love-life and get you a girlfriend. You've embarked on a journey that's going to reinvent your social abilities and mindsets towards women.
Bookmark this page!
Going through the program is simple: you begin with the Introduction, watching the Program Overview Video below and then proceeding sequentially through each step and article through the program.
Each step is broken into three sections: Reading, Bonuses, and Exercises. For each step, start by doing the reading. Taking notes is recommended. Bonus material is optional and often not necessary, but can be very helpful. Finally, once you've read and understood all of the material of a specific step, complete each of the exercises listed.
If you have trouble with the exercises, go back and review the reading again. If you finish the exercises but felt they were difficult and that you didn't completely "get it," then don't be afraid to go back and do them again.
This program works for guys who take their time and are thorough with it. The more you rush through the material and the more you skip over, the less you're going to get out of it. You get out the effort that you put in. Take your time. Review the readings. Comment on the posts. Do all of the exercises, and do them well. The results are guaranteed.
The 12-Step-Program tab gives a brief overview of the entire program along with a downloadable PDF for the exercises. Also, it's recommended that you read through the Frequently Asked Questions to be prepared for whatever issues may arise.
Tips to Help with Your Success:
- Take your time. Do not rush through the program. You will get out of the program the time and effort you put into it.
- Take notes. Review past material. The content of the G3 Program builds on itself, so material early in the program remains relevant late in the program.
- Read and post comments. Join discussions. Ask questions and answer questions. The more involved you get the more you'll internalize the information.
- If you get frustrated or stuck, take some time off, re-read the introductory articles and perhaps redo any exercises that have been giving you trouble previously.
- If you stay stuck for a longer period of time, feel free to contact us for an email consultation.
Makr's take on how to handle logistics and SNL logistics definition
So how to handle logistics?
Logistics will always:
A) Be completely random and situational
B) Be extremely random
C) Did I mention that they’re random and sometimes there’s nothing you can do?
As a result, you have to just follow a handful of guidelines and then hope for the best.
1) Gather all relevant info when you’re talking to her. This includes: where she lives, where you live, how she got there, how she’s getting home, how you got there, if she’s sharing a ride, with who, who is she with, how does she know them, when is she going home, can you get her home in the morning, when does she have to be home in the morning, etc., etc.
2) If you just met her that night, then let HER win her friends over, not you. What will typically happen when a woman decides to go home with you is her girlfriends will try to stop her or talk her out of it. The younger the girl you’re picking up, the more likely this will be. Let HER do the talking… just trust you’ve seduced her well enough to withstand the oncoming storm. Stand back and be friendly. When it comes to taking a girl home, nothing you say, no matter how charming or cool is going to make you look genuine, “No, really, I just want to show her this cool YouTube video, I promise.” You’ll look like the horny bastard you are. If she’s not willing to appease her friends for you, then you haven’t gamed her well enough.
3) Make decisions and move swiftly. Don’t waffle. Don’t ask her what she wants to do. Gather the pertinent information and make an educated decision. I.e., She came with two friends, one of which is her roommate. She lives 30 minutes away. Have her give her roommate her keys and take her home with you. Tell her what you’re going to do and then do it. If you think the only shot you have is at a bathroom pull or to the car, then do it. Just grab her and go. Make her stop you. Make her say no. If you’re on a date, tell her you want to show her something and just bring her to your place. See if she stops you. Often she won’t.
4) Be flexible. Shit happens in bars and clubs. I’ve had pulls get screwed up because the girl started puking, because her brother suddenly showed up, because her friend started spontaneously crying, because her bridesmaids pulled her away, because her ex-boyfriend punched me in the face, because SHE started spontaneously crying, because she lost her keys and got locked out of her apartment, because the cab took us to the wrong hotel, etc., etc., etc. EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED AND ADAPT.
5) Get lucky. Again, shit happens. Deal with it. Sometimes there’s literally nothing you can do.
Step 11 Exercises
Purpose: To be able to make moves and get physical with women at will.
Comments: Yet another step where you need to grab your balls. This step can be practiced anywhere, but youʼll have to spend at least a few hours with a woman to get as far as necessary, so dates are ideal. Extra time is given in the later steps, as youʼre going to need to use everything youʼve learned so far.
What You Need: New women to meet, some courage
Recommended Time for Completion: Within a month
Exercise 1
1.1 Successfully do all five of the actions on this list. It doesnʼt count unless you do it and get a GOOD reaction.
- Twirl a girl in the first 30 seconds of meeting her. (Take her hand, raise it above both of your heads and tell her to spin.)
- Keep your hand on a girl’s back for at least one minute.
- Physically pull a girl away from her friends on the approach (at least one meter)
- Hug a girl within 30 seconds of cold approaching her. This must be a random girl who has no idea who you are.
- Put your arm around a girl and leave it there for at least 30 seconds. Do this within the first 10 minutes of knowing her.
Exercise 2
2.1 Going for kisses. Go for a kiss with at least five different women. If you get rejected, you get one point per woman. If you kiss her, you get two points. Once you reach 10 points, move on.
Exercise 3
3.1 Bring a girl home who youʼve been kissing. This can be the same night, same day or from a date. Escalate as far as possible.
Please post any significant realizations, experiences or problems below.
CHALLENGES:
Challenge 1: Smack or grab a girl’s ass that you just met without her getting mad.
Challenge 2: Kiss a woman within 5 minutes of knowing her.
Challenge 3: Bring a girl home within an hour of meeting her.
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Same night lays (also sometimes referred to as single night lays) are when a PUA is able to fclose a woman on the same day that he meets her. This happens most often in sexually charged “meat market” environments such as night clubs and bars, where the girls are looking to hookup, although it is possible to get SNLs during day game as well.
Same night lays differ from one night stands, in that SNLs lead to further relationships beyond just one night of sex (whether it be FB or LTR), whereas ONSs are usually just a one time thing. Often, the difference between an ONS and an SNL, is building enough rapport so that the woman does not suffer from any buyer’s remorse. If a woman does not regret her decision to sleep with the PUA, it leaves open the opportunity for future sex.
Like ONSs, it is important for same night lays to determine the woman’s logistics. Figuring out such information such as whether she came alone or with friends, whether she has to work tomorrow, etc. are important for an SNL to go smoothly. Usually, a woman who is looking to hookup will have better logistics, and women will even ignore poor logistics if they feel attracted enough.
Another important thing to remember for SNLs is to have a strong sexual frame, and also be completely non-judgemental of the woman when it comes to her sexuality. This will help the woman sexually open up to the PUA, and keep from triggering ASD later on.
Captain Jack: Gun to the Head Gaming
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesn’t even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, “Is this the guy?” The other looks at a photograph and says, “He’s not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I’d say it is him.”
One of them says, “Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or we’re going to shoot you in the face.”
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Here’s what I’d do…
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol’ mouth movin’ a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is “How’s it going?”
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after I’ve TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.
Imagine this… you have plans to go bowling tonight. It’s Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: “What’s going on man?”
You: “Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.”
Buddy: “Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit… maybe share our feelings and shit?”
You: “Umm… Well… I always bowl on Tuesdays… kinda my normal thing and uh…”
But, what if Buddy called you up and said, “Dude… These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah, blah…”
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridge’s set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute prior to close.
11. If she doesn’t take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, “It’s just right down the street.” (I’ve used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, “Hey sexy” – just in case this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the face.
13. As she’s driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. “Turn here.” “Go left.” when you get to your place say, “Park here.” I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.
14. “Come in and get some water before you head back.”
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is… while she’s in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like “Wedding Crashers” or, “South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers” because it is sexual in nature and hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, “And… try not to think about me constantly” as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic way.
Captain Jack
Logistics will always:
A) Be completely random and situational
B) Be extremely random
C) Did I mention that they’re random and sometimes there’s nothing you can do?
As a result, you have to just follow a handful of guidelines and then hope for the best.
1) Gather all relevant info when you’re talking to her. This includes: where she lives, where you live, how she got there, how she’s getting home, how you got there, if she’s sharing a ride, with who, who is she with, how does she know them, when is she going home, can you get her home in the morning, when does she have to be home in the morning, etc., etc.
2) If you just met her that night, then let HER win her friends over, not you. What will typically happen when a woman decides to go home with you is her girlfriends will try to stop her or talk her out of it. The younger the girl you’re picking up, the more likely this will be. Let HER do the talking… just trust you’ve seduced her well enough to withstand the oncoming storm. Stand back and be friendly. When it comes to taking a girl home, nothing you say, no matter how charming or cool is going to make you look genuine, “No, really, I just want to show her this cool YouTube video, I promise.” You’ll look like the horny bastard you are. If she’s not willing to appease her friends for you, then you haven’t gamed her well enough.
3) Make decisions and move swiftly. Don’t waffle. Don’t ask her what she wants to do. Gather the pertinent information and make an educated decision. I.e., She came with two friends, one of which is her roommate. She lives 30 minutes away. Have her give her roommate her keys and take her home with you. Tell her what you’re going to do and then do it. If you think the only shot you have is at a bathroom pull or to the car, then do it. Just grab her and go. Make her stop you. Make her say no. If you’re on a date, tell her you want to show her something and just bring her to your place. See if she stops you. Often she won’t.
4) Be flexible. Shit happens in bars and clubs. I’ve had pulls get screwed up because the girl started puking, because her brother suddenly showed up, because her friend started spontaneously crying, because her bridesmaids pulled her away, because her ex-boyfriend punched me in the face, because SHE started spontaneously crying, because she lost her keys and got locked out of her apartment, because the cab took us to the wrong hotel, etc., etc., etc. EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED AND ADAPT.
5) Get lucky. Again, shit happens. Deal with it. Sometimes there’s literally nothing you can do.
Step 11 Exercises
Purpose: To be able to make moves and get physical with women at will.
Comments: Yet another step where you need to grab your balls. This step can be practiced anywhere, but youʼll have to spend at least a few hours with a woman to get as far as necessary, so dates are ideal. Extra time is given in the later steps, as youʼre going to need to use everything youʼve learned so far.
What You Need: New women to meet, some courage
Recommended Time for Completion: Within a month
Exercise 1
1.1 Successfully do all five of the actions on this list. It doesnʼt count unless you do it and get a GOOD reaction.
- Twirl a girl in the first 30 seconds of meeting her. (Take her hand, raise it above both of your heads and tell her to spin.)
- Keep your hand on a girl’s back for at least one minute.
- Physically pull a girl away from her friends on the approach (at least one meter)
- Hug a girl within 30 seconds of cold approaching her. This must be a random girl who has no idea who you are.
- Put your arm around a girl and leave it there for at least 30 seconds. Do this within the first 10 minutes of knowing her.
Exercise 2
2.1 Going for kisses. Go for a kiss with at least five different women. If you get rejected, you get one point per woman. If you kiss her, you get two points. Once you reach 10 points, move on.
Exercise 3
3.1 Bring a girl home who youʼve been kissing. This can be the same night, same day or from a date. Escalate as far as possible.
Please post any significant realizations, experiences or problems below.
CHALLENGES:
Challenge 1: Smack or grab a girl’s ass that you just met without her getting mad.
Challenge 2: Kiss a woman within 5 minutes of knowing her.
Challenge 3: Bring a girl home within an hour of meeting her.
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Same night lays (also sometimes referred to as single night lays) are when a PUA is able to fclose a woman on the same day that he meets her. This happens most often in sexually charged “meat market” environments such as night clubs and bars, where the girls are looking to hookup, although it is possible to get SNLs during day game as well.
Same night lays differ from one night stands, in that SNLs lead to further relationships beyond just one night of sex (whether it be FB or LTR), whereas ONSs are usually just a one time thing. Often, the difference between an ONS and an SNL, is building enough rapport so that the woman does not suffer from any buyer’s remorse. If a woman does not regret her decision to sleep with the PUA, it leaves open the opportunity for future sex.
Like ONSs, it is important for same night lays to determine the woman’s logistics. Figuring out such information such as whether she came alone or with friends, whether she has to work tomorrow, etc. are important for an SNL to go smoothly. Usually, a woman who is looking to hookup will have better logistics, and women will even ignore poor logistics if they feel attracted enough.
Another important thing to remember for SNLs is to have a strong sexual frame, and also be completely non-judgemental of the woman when it comes to her sexuality. This will help the woman sexually open up to the PUA, and keep from triggering ASD later on.
Captain Jack: Gun to the Head Gaming
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesn’t even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, “Is this the guy?” The other looks at a photograph and says, “He’s not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I’d say it is him.”
One of them says, “Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or we’re going to shoot you in the face.”
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Here’s what I’d do…
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol’ mouth movin’ a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is “How’s it going?”
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after I’ve TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.
Imagine this… you have plans to go bowling tonight. It’s Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: “What’s going on man?”
You: “Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.”
Buddy: “Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit… maybe share our feelings and shit?”
You: “Umm… Well… I always bowl on Tuesdays… kinda my normal thing and uh…”
But, what if Buddy called you up and said, “Dude… These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah, blah…”
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridge’s set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute prior to close.
11. If she doesn’t take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, “It’s just right down the street.” (I’ve used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, “Hey sexy” – just in case this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the face.
13. As she’s driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. “Turn here.” “Go left.” when you get to your place say, “Park here.” I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.
14. “Come in and get some water before you head back.”
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is… while she’s in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like “Wedding Crashers” or, “South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers” because it is sexual in nature and hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, “And… try not to think about me constantly” as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic way.
Captain Jack
FR:My first mini date and cuban woman makeout..bold comments by LA Tripp
well I wanted to post this.
I found easier to game women who are bitchy cause I can overcome with dominance and reframed shit test to qualifiers.
that caused attraction.
So after various texts and running comfort with cocky funny.
I got a meet up.
so we were supposed to meetup days agao and now it was tonight at 10 pm.
all places are closed at 11pm she gets off at 10pm, she asks to shower and I say yes.
I go to the place to meet up
wait there spend money on wine and food and leave at 11pm.
pissed off
then I realized how my mind was telling me, flakes are normal.and whatever dont react.
then I get a call from her I tell her Im leaving.
she gets a bit hesistant not wanting to lose me.
so we met at the plarking lot of the place.
as soon as I saw her I hug her and spank her but and kiss her in the mouth.
I lock in and we talk outside.
Im calibrating her BT and run SNL frames.
PS: I did fuck up on the non judgemental and discrete on two people have ssex is nobodys business. also I forgot to tell her how sex is important in a relationship.
which fucked me up.
but anyways
We talk and she disqualifes me.
I answer and cF her mostly frmae control ala Mickey rourke in nine and half weeks.
we make out again no resistance.then when I tried to timebridge her she doesnt feel comfortable.
I tried running deep comfort nonverbal sexual eye contact, cold reading,and CF all at same time.
she kept laughin and she told me if I was psychic and we kept kissing.
an hour past and I tried to timebridge her and she said it was too late and that we could get together monday night.
I felt like I didnt want to seperate from her, but I did that and pulled back to make her want it more.
I see she is trying to run courtship game and I have to frame control, theres the issue with my PS note.
anyways , we leave I get home and get a text from her.
its her and she says that she wanted to make sure I got home so that she can sleep well, I responded and told her sweet dreams and she told me to dream with her.
Personal NOTES:
Logistics was fucked.this happens not having a place. next time rent a place if you have to to close her on Monday.
NEXT: SNL frames and talk about sex.also arousal and some dirty talk.
build more sexual tension and let go.
another thing is game other girls.
review sexual arousal in SNL course and BRADP.
plan an action for closing,romantic dinner cheap and place.
be prepared to run some game to purposely make her miss you.
be prepared to lose the set.you much act a bit more dominant.
you lead the sexual escalation.
remember's FRANCO rule.
her history:
Divorced 3 times and has an 18 yr old daughter.
plan for the pull.
hey Tripp,
I had my first mini date and makeout with a miami cuban woman.
I tried to pull her but logistics was fucked.wanted feedback.
we set up a date for 10pm, she text she will be late to take a shower. I end up waiting at a wine bar and at 11pm it closes, I leave.
Her taking a shower ahead of time, even though late, is a good thing.
she calls as Im leaving asking where I was that she was on her way.
I told her I was leaving (calm way), she freaked out (fear of loss), we meet up at parking lot.
minutes later I get there and call her to tell her to get out of the car and stop acting like an FBI agent.
All good so far.
she gets off and we hug and makeout, I spank her and we talk in the parking lot.
Your first time meeting her and you're making out already?
I try to timebridge somewhere else but in miami everything is closes at 10pm
10? Damn. I thought L.A. was early closing at 2am. Things here close at 3am. I can't believe in Miami things close that early. Miami! Wow.
unless its south beach which is 30 minute drive.and she was tired from work didnt want that.I suggested lets go in my truck and have a late night snack of ice cream ben and jerry's store nearby , she gets nervous on the suggestion and I pull back we talk more
You did good here.
,ran CF, deep comfort then more kissing and touching and making out, and run a bunch of cold reads,
I don't know what you did for comfort, but everything else you're listing is building attraction, which is good.
she thinks Im psychic and tells me why I know about her so much...I throw in the mickey rourke line "cause I see myself in you" with a sensual way of telling her. she is dogie bowl dinner look we make out ,I try to bounce her again,she tells me she was married 3 time and has a 18 yr old daughter at home.She tells me she is attracted to me and kisses me and tells me she has to go, we kiss again and we walk away to our cars.
Here's one thing . . . when you're making out, don't be so quick to bounce. Keep making out more and more. Make out until she just starts getting HUNGRY for you, till she starts trying to devour you with her mouth, wanting to rip your clothes off, shoving her hand down your pants and verbally saying she HAS to have you. When you get to that point, it no longer matters where you go. She's gonna fuck you almost anywhere.
she tells me she has 2 jobs and works doing taxes at HR Block and works almost everyday so we set up a date for monday night 8pm.
If she does taxes, that's believable.
I get home and I get a text from her saying to text her to make sure i arrived safe so she can sleep well,
THAT is excellent. She's concerned already. She's thinking about you. She's also thinking about LTR, possibly.
I text her "yes Im fine, sweet dreams babe"
You did good.
she responds "sweetd reams to you too, hope you dream with me"
Nice.
this afternoon to follow up cause I felt it was deep comfort connection when we were with each other.
I test ping her with "Im sure as you woke up this morning, you had a smile in your face ;) "
she didnt respond but Im sure she is busy. Im not sending her anymore texts until she recontacts or make her miss me more.
Good, don't. Nothing wrong with your text this morning to her. The balls in her court to respond now.
im planning monday if I meet up take her to the beach take some wine and make out and talk and I will try to pull her in the truck, also if not I will try to get a room close by ahead of time and have her join me for a bit and suposedly kick her out.
she gets ASD when I try to even timebridge , so I think I might have to plan something more solid pull to close.
she wants sex and was tonguing me down aggressively than I was but her logic kicks in, only way I have managed is like Mysetery said go sexual in the seduction location.
I think she is logically want ting me to court her as Ive been initiating text and her responding mostly, other than that she doesnt intitiate which is rare but its her courtship mentality, so I plan to tell her that" I like a woman who goes with her emotions and takes action...a woman that feels a certain way and knows we trust we each other that she can know how to take care of her man" like a qualfier.
So you haven't qualified her? You haven't given her any of your specifications that she should strive to live up to?
so there it is man.
I have to game other girls,
Im stepping back the other woman who has 2 kids and ex husband deal until my game inproves more after I pull to be more consistent.
the 20 year old I will number close next week tuesday but then again valentines day :( cause she has a bf but I dont care, I know Im better than her BF.
I know I can pull her into me cause I have high social value established and my game is gettign better.
With all of these girls, though, you need to make sure you're not destroying a relationship or pulling in a girl and misleading her if you're not wanting an actual relationship. If you're just wanting to hit and quit, don't mislead them into believing you're looking for something long term.
Cool
I found easier to game women who are bitchy cause I can overcome with dominance and reframed shit test to qualifiers.
that caused attraction.
So after various texts and running comfort with cocky funny.
I got a meet up.
so we were supposed to meetup days agao and now it was tonight at 10 pm.
all places are closed at 11pm she gets off at 10pm, she asks to shower and I say yes.
I go to the place to meet up
wait there spend money on wine and food and leave at 11pm.
pissed off
then I realized how my mind was telling me, flakes are normal.and whatever dont react.
then I get a call from her I tell her Im leaving.
she gets a bit hesistant not wanting to lose me.
so we met at the plarking lot of the place.
as soon as I saw her I hug her and spank her but and kiss her in the mouth.
I lock in and we talk outside.
Im calibrating her BT and run SNL frames.
PS: I did fuck up on the non judgemental and discrete on two people have ssex is nobodys business. also I forgot to tell her how sex is important in a relationship.
which fucked me up.
but anyways
We talk and she disqualifes me.
I answer and cF her mostly frmae control ala Mickey rourke in nine and half weeks.
we make out again no resistance.then when I tried to timebridge her she doesnt feel comfortable.
I tried running deep comfort nonverbal sexual eye contact, cold reading,and CF all at same time.
she kept laughin and she told me if I was psychic and we kept kissing.
an hour past and I tried to timebridge her and she said it was too late and that we could get together monday night.
I felt like I didnt want to seperate from her, but I did that and pulled back to make her want it more.
I see she is trying to run courtship game and I have to frame control, theres the issue with my PS note.
anyways , we leave I get home and get a text from her.
its her and she says that she wanted to make sure I got home so that she can sleep well, I responded and told her sweet dreams and she told me to dream with her.
Personal NOTES:
Logistics was fucked.this happens not having a place. next time rent a place if you have to to close her on Monday.
NEXT: SNL frames and talk about sex.also arousal and some dirty talk.
build more sexual tension and let go.
another thing is game other girls.
review sexual arousal in SNL course and BRADP.
plan an action for closing,romantic dinner cheap and place.
be prepared to run some game to purposely make her miss you.
be prepared to lose the set.you much act a bit more dominant.
you lead the sexual escalation.
remember's FRANCO rule.
her history:
Divorced 3 times and has an 18 yr old daughter.
plan for the pull.
hey Tripp,
I had my first mini date and makeout with a miami cuban woman.
I tried to pull her but logistics was fucked.wanted feedback.
we set up a date for 10pm, she text she will be late to take a shower. I end up waiting at a wine bar and at 11pm it closes, I leave.
Her taking a shower ahead of time, even though late, is a good thing.
she calls as Im leaving asking where I was that she was on her way.
I told her I was leaving (calm way), she freaked out (fear of loss), we meet up at parking lot.
minutes later I get there and call her to tell her to get out of the car and stop acting like an FBI agent.
All good so far.
she gets off and we hug and makeout, I spank her and we talk in the parking lot.
Your first time meeting her and you're making out already?
I try to timebridge somewhere else but in miami everything is closes at 10pm
10? Damn. I thought L.A. was early closing at 2am. Things here close at 3am. I can't believe in Miami things close that early. Miami! Wow.
unless its south beach which is 30 minute drive.and she was tired from work didnt want that.I suggested lets go in my truck and have a late night snack of ice cream ben and jerry's store nearby , she gets nervous on the suggestion and I pull back we talk more
You did good here.
,ran CF, deep comfort then more kissing and touching and making out, and run a bunch of cold reads,
I don't know what you did for comfort, but everything else you're listing is building attraction, which is good.
she thinks Im psychic and tells me why I know about her so much...I throw in the mickey rourke line "cause I see myself in you" with a sensual way of telling her. she is dogie bowl dinner look we make out ,I try to bounce her again,she tells me she was married 3 time and has a 18 yr old daughter at home.She tells me she is attracted to me and kisses me and tells me she has to go, we kiss again and we walk away to our cars.
Here's one thing . . . when you're making out, don't be so quick to bounce. Keep making out more and more. Make out until she just starts getting HUNGRY for you, till she starts trying to devour you with her mouth, wanting to rip your clothes off, shoving her hand down your pants and verbally saying she HAS to have you. When you get to that point, it no longer matters where you go. She's gonna fuck you almost anywhere.
she tells me she has 2 jobs and works doing taxes at HR Block and works almost everyday so we set up a date for monday night 8pm.
If she does taxes, that's believable.
I get home and I get a text from her saying to text her to make sure i arrived safe so she can sleep well,
THAT is excellent. She's concerned already. She's thinking about you. She's also thinking about LTR, possibly.
I text her "yes Im fine, sweet dreams babe"
You did good.
she responds "sweetd reams to you too, hope you dream with me"
Nice.
this afternoon to follow up cause I felt it was deep comfort connection when we were with each other.
I test ping her with "Im sure as you woke up this morning, you had a smile in your face ;) "
she didnt respond but Im sure she is busy. Im not sending her anymore texts until she recontacts or make her miss me more.
Good, don't. Nothing wrong with your text this morning to her. The balls in her court to respond now.
im planning monday if I meet up take her to the beach take some wine and make out and talk and I will try to pull her in the truck, also if not I will try to get a room close by ahead of time and have her join me for a bit and suposedly kick her out.
she gets ASD when I try to even timebridge , so I think I might have to plan something more solid pull to close.
she wants sex and was tonguing me down aggressively than I was but her logic kicks in, only way I have managed is like Mysetery said go sexual in the seduction location.
I think she is logically want ting me to court her as Ive been initiating text and her responding mostly, other than that she doesnt intitiate which is rare but its her courtship mentality, so I plan to tell her that" I like a woman who goes with her emotions and takes action...a woman that feels a certain way and knows we trust we each other that she can know how to take care of her man" like a qualfier.
So you haven't qualified her? You haven't given her any of your specifications that she should strive to live up to?
so there it is man.
I have to game other girls,
Im stepping back the other woman who has 2 kids and ex husband deal until my game inproves more after I pull to be more consistent.
the 20 year old I will number close next week tuesday but then again valentines day :( cause she has a bf but I dont care, I know Im better than her BF.
I know I can pull her into me cause I have high social value established and my game is gettign better.
With all of these girls, though, you need to make sure you're not destroying a relationship or pulling in a girl and misleading her if you're not wanting an actual relationship. If you're just wanting to hit and quit, don't mislead them into believing you're looking for something long term.
Cool
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
MODELING KENI STYLES behaviour subcommunications
This is a guy who I want to model cause I admire his personality and positivty. He handles shit tests and the way he opens himself and how he REFRAMES.
THIS IS A POWERFUL LESSON, reframing to your reality or ignore as CJ would say.
i learned from Jeffy and MARK when shit test in rapport is genuine than shit test in attraction which are handled differently.
I read this and I want to learn from him...the vids he goes with regina Moon are proceless cause he is cool natural dude...no PU no try hard for rapport and his subcommunications are tight.
he complements from place of being spiking BT of making people feel good about themselves...similar to the natural Ali and ADAM LYONS:
read this ...this year Im getting in shape and modeling this guy dealing with women and social circles
People need to stop bragging and boasting about performing in such a putrid business and go out there and get a real job.
brokentwice78
@brokentwice78
Haha! Yeah I know right! It's disgusting that people get paid to do what they fucking love and is so natural and easy.. I mean, why the hell do they think they should have such an easy life!!? Man.. it's disgusting! I mean.. wow sex.. who likes that? LMFAAAAO!! :D
Kenistyles
now this is what i am talkin about! People want to see this, not u hanging around with some white dude.
NOTE: Review Reframing by David Barron persuasion course ,
Modeling by Tom venuto...copy paste from twitter account.
twitter GOODS:
KeniStyles
NOTE: KENI HAD HIS EYES CHECKED TODAY AND PEOPLE ARE TWITTERING HIM ABOUT IT.
HE ALSO IS GETTING READY FOR AVN AWARDS
Thanks fam u rock! I already feel better.
@HeadlessMunky Oh yeah, thank u babe for reminding me how happy I was to see things clearly, 6yrs I needed them! I wish they were ready now!
33 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to headlessmunky
.@BluntBrosProd @DaveHellion @DitchPlans @themajormusic @misterchuck719 @NiCo4z3 @Rogue_12 @Gomezinsj @RRgeo Thanks for ur nice tweets peeps!
37 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to DitchPlans
.@KeiranLee Yeah man I remember them commercials bro, fucking stupid here went for a Prada pair too but even in them I don't feel right? Meh!
41 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to KeiranLee
.@MarcoRiveraxxx Yeah and u just went from friend to cunt in one single tweet! Still not laughing..
43 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to MarcoRiveraxxx
.Alright fuck it.. deleted that tweet! I dunno bout them on me yet? Feel like a proper dork! :/
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .
Um peeps thank u all but I didn't have Lasik or any surgery. I just had my eyes tested & retina's scanned, I've been putting it off forever!
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .
@PAYASO_XXX @KaymeKai @MsHendiSun @KenBT @Uconn83 @OKkitten @Ottoshi @Gomezinsj
Thanks peeps, hopefully my eyes dilate back to normal soon!?
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to ottoshi
.@DPiercexxx Pssh!! Alright smart ass, yeah I'm getting my googly Asian slants straightened out LOL!
Go do some cardio and leave me alone! :D
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to dpiercexxx
.Ugh! Ok.. so now $600 later, all I got is blurry eyes and some fucking flimsy Lady Gaga's!! (he meant shades)
about 4 hours ago via Echofon .
And now I'm feeling very proud of myself that after 6 years of denial.. I'm getting my eye sight fixed up! Finally admitting defeat is HARD!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .POW! Been gettin tons of errands done today! Also got my AVN suit bought, fitted & altered. Almost set for some major partying this weekend!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .
@LupeFuentesxxx Hope ur feelin much better today babe? Lots of water & lots of fruit ok? Let me know what's up with guest lists this w/e! Xo
about 13 hours ago via Echofon in reply to lupefuentesxxx
.@KatieKox Yeah and u looked damn good with it too, the truth is u always look gorgeous! I'll see u & Mr @RickBarcode at the weekend babe! :D
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to katiekox
.@Laren Hope u slept well last night?
@LeeEroticArts U gotta be tripping, I ain't time?
@Gomezinsj Haha hate on man, I probably would too! :D
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to LeeEroticArts
.@MizzKissyFace Nah I don't listen to gossip, if its true or it ain't I can't waste time watchin that bullshit. Peeps can run they own lives!
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to MizzKissyFace
.Haha no sweat it's good of u to introduce me to ur peeps bro! Hope ur readers enjoy! :D RT @MOCBlogger Meet Keni Styles http://bit.ly/gVqdRC
about 16 hours ago via Echofon .Rise n grind muhfuggahs!! GRRR!! :D #NowPlaying Over here hustlin' -Birdman & Lil Wayne
about 16 hours ago via Echofon
THIS IS A POWERFUL LESSON, reframing to your reality or ignore as CJ would say.
i learned from Jeffy and MARK when shit test in rapport is genuine than shit test in attraction which are handled differently.
I read this and I want to learn from him...the vids he goes with regina Moon are proceless cause he is cool natural dude...no PU no try hard for rapport and his subcommunications are tight.
he complements from place of being spiking BT of making people feel good about themselves...similar to the natural Ali and ADAM LYONS:
read this ...this year Im getting in shape and modeling this guy dealing with women and social circles
People need to stop bragging and boasting about performing in such a putrid business and go out there and get a real job.
brokentwice78
@brokentwice78
Haha! Yeah I know right! It's disgusting that people get paid to do what they fucking love and is so natural and easy.. I mean, why the hell do they think they should have such an easy life!!? Man.. it's disgusting! I mean.. wow sex.. who likes that? LMFAAAAO!! :D
Kenistyles
now this is what i am talkin about! People want to see this, not u hanging around with some white dude.
NOTE: Review Reframing by David Barron persuasion course ,
Modeling by Tom venuto...copy paste from twitter account.
twitter GOODS:
KeniStylesNOTE: KENI HAD HIS EYES CHECKED TODAY AND PEOPLE ARE TWITTERING HIM ABOUT IT.
HE ALSO IS GETTING READY FOR AVN AWARDS
Thanks fam u rock! I already feel better.
@HeadlessMunky Oh yeah, thank u babe for reminding me how happy I was to see things clearly, 6yrs I needed them! I wish they were ready now!
33 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to headlessmunky
.@BluntBrosProd @DaveHellion @DitchPlans @themajormusic @misterchuck719 @NiCo4z3 @Rogue_12 @Gomezinsj @RRgeo Thanks for ur nice tweets peeps!
37 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to DitchPlans
.@KeiranLee Yeah man I remember them commercials bro, fucking stupid here went for a Prada pair too but even in them I don't feel right? Meh!
41 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to KeiranLee
.@MarcoRiveraxxx Yeah and u just went from friend to cunt in one single tweet! Still not laughing..
43 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to MarcoRiveraxxx
.Alright fuck it.. deleted that tweet! I dunno bout them on me yet? Feel like a proper dork! :/
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .
Um peeps thank u all but I didn't have Lasik or any surgery. I just had my eyes tested & retina's scanned, I've been putting it off forever!
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .
@PAYASO_XXX @KaymeKai @MsHendiSun @KenBT @Uconn83 @OKkitten @Ottoshi @Gomezinsj
Thanks peeps, hopefully my eyes dilate back to normal soon!?
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to ottoshi
.@DPiercexxx Pssh!! Alright smart ass, yeah I'm getting my googly Asian slants straightened out LOL!
Go do some cardio and leave me alone! :D
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to dpiercexxx
.Ugh! Ok.. so now $600 later, all I got is blurry eyes and some fucking flimsy Lady Gaga's!! (he meant shades)
about 4 hours ago via Echofon .
And now I'm feeling very proud of myself that after 6 years of denial.. I'm getting my eye sight fixed up! Finally admitting defeat is HARD!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .POW! Been gettin tons of errands done today! Also got my AVN suit bought, fitted & altered. Almost set for some major partying this weekend!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .
@LupeFuentesxxx Hope ur feelin much better today babe? Lots of water & lots of fruit ok? Let me know what's up with guest lists this w/e! Xo
about 13 hours ago via Echofon in reply to lupefuentesxxx
.@KatieKox Yeah and u looked damn good with it too, the truth is u always look gorgeous! I'll see u & Mr @RickBarcode at the weekend babe! :D
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to katiekox
.@Laren Hope u slept well last night?
@LeeEroticArts U gotta be tripping, I ain't time?
@Gomezinsj Haha hate on man, I probably would too! :D
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to LeeEroticArts
.@MizzKissyFace Nah I don't listen to gossip, if its true or it ain't I can't waste time watchin that bullshit. Peeps can run they own lives!
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to MizzKissyFace
.Haha no sweat it's good of u to introduce me to ur peeps bro! Hope ur readers enjoy! :D RT @MOCBlogger Meet Keni Styles http://bit.ly/gVqdRC
about 16 hours ago via Echofon .Rise n grind muhfuggahs!! GRRR!! :D #NowPlaying Over here hustlin' -Birdman & Lil Wayne
about 16 hours ago via Echofon
Friday, December 17, 2010
Pickup and Isolation by hammer guest article
Pickup and Isolation
Written by Hammer Topics: Dating, Fitness and Nutrition
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So many thoughts to address in this response post. Apologies if they come out jumbled, well not really, if I cared that much I’d proofread.
The other day Entropy put up a post about how as his pick up skills have improved, he’s started to feel isolated in his dating life, because it becomes more and more difficult for him to find a woman who meets his standards. This post apparently caused a stir of comments, but at the time I wasn’t one of them because this is something I had been feeling for a long time, and it seemed pretty obvious to me.
Improvement in Skills -> More Options -> Better Experiences -> Increase in Number of Dealbreakers for Monogamy
Seems pretty simple, right? Well yesterday Entropy put up another post in response to the comments which made me realize how different the two of us are in our thinking on the subject. Entropy, I love you bud, but I’ve got to call you out. While I have no doubt that Entropy is worlds better than me at pickup, it is clear to me that he still has a long way to go in terms of inner game, or as normal people call it, emotional security.
In the response article, Entropy starts out by saying that he needs a girl who fulfills his emotional needs. This speaks to a core problem with his identity. Why do you have emotional needs? El Topo and I have spent hours on the phone talking about this very topic, and never once has emotional needs come up. Granted, him and I have both been through highly traumatic near death experiences and as a result have a unique appreciation for life, but as far as I’m concerned in order to be “dateable,” you need to have your shit together to the point where you are comfortable being independent. Entropy understands this idea from a validation seeking standpoint, but he doesn’t seem to quite be there yet emotionally (Side note, this could very well be as a result of depression due to his diet, I’m not sure how he’s eating, but he said he lost thirty pounds this year, which means he’s been dieting. For most people, this usually means eating some kind of calorie restricted low fat diet, which as we all know by now, leads to neurotransmitter problems in the brain that cause depression).
The next thing worth addressing is this idea of your reality being different from most peoples’ and that making it hard to find people who understand your reality. This makes sense on a superficial level, but the fact is that it is your job to bring people into your reality and help them understand it. When Steve spends all this time talking about Compliance Patterns and how they can be used to get women emotionally invested in your story, he’s doing it because his goal is to as early in the interaction as possible get a woman to understand his world. This quickly sets the framework for a deep emotional connection.
Entropy talks about celebrities like Brad Pitt having a very small number of options due to their status and women just not understanding the world they live in, which is why they all end up monogamous, but this is just one possible interpretation. Another possible interpretation is that in order to get to that level of fame you have to be desperate for that validation. In many cases, it’s to the point where you suck cocks or take it in the ass to get fame. This goes for both the men and the women. Once they attain that fame, the need for validation doesn’t go away. Would certainly explain Brad Pitt trading up from Jennifer Aniston to Angelina Jolie. I’m not saying that’s why he did it, just that it’s a possibility. Not that I pay very close attention, but I don’t really get the impression that their relationship is very happy. I get the impression that she is kind of in control and they resent each other for it. Maybe it’s why she adopts a million kids and he sleeps around?
An “obsession with physical beauty” is not something to be ashamed of. It is genetic. A man should never apologize for what he is attracted to. There’s a difference between wanting the hottest woman out there to impress other men and wanting the hottest women out there because you are attracted to it. For example, I LOVE Lady Gaga. She is so attractive in every way, not going into it now because I think it deserves a post on its own (I’ll make it happen someday, all it takes is a shot). But I don’t think anyone is putting her looks at a 10. Maybe an 8. Gaga may not be your type, but there are going to be certain girls out there who just do it for you, the thing is that they are rare. It’s just a fact of life.
I think the point is that there are other things that you want from another person, but there is a point which you can get to where there is nothing that you NEED. You keep people in your life because you want them there, not because they fill your gaps ala Rocky Balboa.
Written by Hammer Topics: Dating, Fitness and Nutrition
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So many thoughts to address in this response post. Apologies if they come out jumbled, well not really, if I cared that much I’d proofread.
The other day Entropy put up a post about how as his pick up skills have improved, he’s started to feel isolated in his dating life, because it becomes more and more difficult for him to find a woman who meets his standards. This post apparently caused a stir of comments, but at the time I wasn’t one of them because this is something I had been feeling for a long time, and it seemed pretty obvious to me.
Improvement in Skills -> More Options -> Better Experiences -> Increase in Number of Dealbreakers for Monogamy
Seems pretty simple, right? Well yesterday Entropy put up another post in response to the comments which made me realize how different the two of us are in our thinking on the subject. Entropy, I love you bud, but I’ve got to call you out. While I have no doubt that Entropy is worlds better than me at pickup, it is clear to me that he still has a long way to go in terms of inner game, or as normal people call it, emotional security.
In the response article, Entropy starts out by saying that he needs a girl who fulfills his emotional needs. This speaks to a core problem with his identity. Why do you have emotional needs? El Topo and I have spent hours on the phone talking about this very topic, and never once has emotional needs come up. Granted, him and I have both been through highly traumatic near death experiences and as a result have a unique appreciation for life, but as far as I’m concerned in order to be “dateable,” you need to have your shit together to the point where you are comfortable being independent. Entropy understands this idea from a validation seeking standpoint, but he doesn’t seem to quite be there yet emotionally (Side note, this could very well be as a result of depression due to his diet, I’m not sure how he’s eating, but he said he lost thirty pounds this year, which means he’s been dieting. For most people, this usually means eating some kind of calorie restricted low fat diet, which as we all know by now, leads to neurotransmitter problems in the brain that cause depression).
The next thing worth addressing is this idea of your reality being different from most peoples’ and that making it hard to find people who understand your reality. This makes sense on a superficial level, but the fact is that it is your job to bring people into your reality and help them understand it. When Steve spends all this time talking about Compliance Patterns and how they can be used to get women emotionally invested in your story, he’s doing it because his goal is to as early in the interaction as possible get a woman to understand his world. This quickly sets the framework for a deep emotional connection.
Entropy talks about celebrities like Brad Pitt having a very small number of options due to their status and women just not understanding the world they live in, which is why they all end up monogamous, but this is just one possible interpretation. Another possible interpretation is that in order to get to that level of fame you have to be desperate for that validation. In many cases, it’s to the point where you suck cocks or take it in the ass to get fame. This goes for both the men and the women. Once they attain that fame, the need for validation doesn’t go away. Would certainly explain Brad Pitt trading up from Jennifer Aniston to Angelina Jolie. I’m not saying that’s why he did it, just that it’s a possibility. Not that I pay very close attention, but I don’t really get the impression that their relationship is very happy. I get the impression that she is kind of in control and they resent each other for it. Maybe it’s why she adopts a million kids and he sleeps around?
An “obsession with physical beauty” is not something to be ashamed of. It is genetic. A man should never apologize for what he is attracted to. There’s a difference between wanting the hottest woman out there to impress other men and wanting the hottest women out there because you are attracted to it. For example, I LOVE Lady Gaga. She is so attractive in every way, not going into it now because I think it deserves a post on its own (I’ll make it happen someday, all it takes is a shot). But I don’t think anyone is putting her looks at a 10. Maybe an 8. Gaga may not be your type, but there are going to be certain girls out there who just do it for you, the thing is that they are rare. It’s just a fact of life.
I think the point is that there are other things that you want from another person, but there is a point which you can get to where there is nothing that you NEED. You keep people in your life because you want them there, not because they fill your gaps ala Rocky Balboa.
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