Cali pimps demonstrates how to escalate on girls already intersted in you

2009  rebecca and trish

rebecca comes in and  is attracted look to cali pimp
trish is somewhat more feminine and he runs game on one in a room as he comes out he is purely sexual and physical dominant in an arousal form. she gets on her knees within seconds to suck his cock ,later she joins them in a 3 way cock sucking and cali pimps kicks her face .lol.
eventhough that awkward situation she is till into it.
trish comes back ... great thing this cali pimp material.

sandros FIRST DATE 95% CLOSING RATE Step by STEp

I always did this plan for first date :



first meet up at park and spank her in the ass as you meet up with her, i always show up 5 minutes late to blame her for making me get lost...we chat for a bit and then take her to low lighting wine bar , we drink 2 or 3 glasses of wine or depending on conversation or rhythm of the seduction IF ITS ON.

at times I have ordered an apetizer and thats it, no food no dinner.

I always get a make out in the wine bar and have her talking more and more and have her laughing..i always seed about anything I have at home and how I love to eat desserts as a late night snack...then when its time to pay , I pay and tell her you get dessert :)



then I take her out as we leave and I will lift her up and make her say "whoa!" and then kiss her as she is coming down...



I take a cab, I never walk...depends Ive had girls that in second meet up I never had a date and ended up straight to sex in my place.



I dont tell her where we are going only tell her we are going for dessert as we get off if she asks...



I go to a store,bodega,qwik mart etc etc by my apt, it has Haagen daaz I really dont care the flavor but i already know the girls favorite from an earlier convo by phone or text or that night.



MOST GIRLS WILL LIKE MINT CHOCALATE CHIP from benjerry i dk why but most chicks like that...



I choose strawberry cause its universal.



I MAKE HER BUY IT and MAKE HER PAY, I never pay and I use social pressure to pay...



this is to get her to invest and make her backwards rationalize that she likes me enought to buy me my favorite dessert.



after she pays I walk toward my place and tell her that we will eat dessert and I will kick you out cause I have to get up early next day...and say it with a smile :)



girls at time resist not going up but when I tell them that they go , we either end up making out at elevator and go to sex or kiss and then hold hands to apt..



in apt she gets on my bed takes off her shoes ...and I bring 2 spoons...

one for each and I as i open the ice cream I give her the first in her mouth as Im sexually eye contact and go for the kiss again.



here I can play as I can go back and forth back and forth...usually ends up either not finishing the ice cream and its melting as Im already having sex with her...



there was only one time where I didnt have and cause she was abit scared or whatever but I at the end where I took her to her train station I made her really happy that she say

"you make me feel like a little girl again" like I bring good emotions..and thouse good emotions are addicting, especially when there are alot of women who are bored and want to feel powerful emotions....and she called me next day wanting to see me and basically She withing few minutes at my place poured wine allover my chest and licked it off....then she told me that she wanted me to fuck her in the ass....

thats different form of seduction itself...





I for one am struggling cause girls Im meeting dont really want to connect at that level and Im used to meeting girls who want to connect, so Im trying to see how reckless game can work as I adjust to new miami enviroment.



this is detailed and sorry for the long post but I can asure you that this will get you laid 95% first date.



thanks

how to tease a girl so she throws herself at you by Roosh

Sandros,

Years ago a friend told me that if you slap someone with your bare
hand, you will feel as much pain as the person you slapped. And
it's true because the nerve receptors in your hand cannot tell the
difference if it's doing the slapping or if it's being slapped.
(This is probably why my mom preferred to beat me with a broom.)
Let me explain how this concept applies to game.

I was at a club with a girl I had been on one date with. We hadn't
had sex yet but I definitely wanted to. When I look back in my
dating history at girls that really got me going, I noticed they
were all very good at teasing me.

These girls knew how to restrain themselves and postpone some
pleasure now for more pleasure later. I understood this concept and
was beginning to use it on girls, but I would often give in early
because I was impatient and horny.

I didn't fully understand that the anticipation of intimacy is more
arousing than intimacy itself. Therefore anticipation of a kiss is
more arousing than the kiss itself. You can suck face with someone
for one hour, but after time you will get less from that kiss until
your lips go numb and you don't feel like kissing anymore. In fact
the best way to make a girl horny is to kiss her LESS and build
sexual tension that begs to be relieved in the bedroom.

My date and I already kissed before so there wasn't going to be any
major surprise in this club, but what I would do is get very close
to her lips and barely brush against them with mine without kissing
her, and then pull back. Her head would follow me back, until she
realized I wasn't going to kiss her. She would smile and I would
smile, and we'd take a sip of our drink and dance a little more.

That night I did the pull-back game for almost TWO HOURS without
kissing her once, until I was ready to explode (remember that when
you tease someone, you tease yourself by the same amount). But she
had no idea that I was going through a harder time than she was
because I did my best to put on a relaxed fascade.

Let me sidetrack real quick and mention that this idea works with
emotions too. It's impossible not to feel the emotions you try to
make others feel. If you want a girl to fall in love with you, and
you seduce her successfully, you will also fall in love with her.
Knowing this is incredible because it says that you can feel
whatever emotion you try to create in others.

For example if I want to feel passion, I just have to make someone
else feel it. If I want to feel love, I just have to make someone
else feel love. Unfortunately many people unknowingly use this for
negative emotions such as jealousy, fear, and anger, wondering why
they are can't find someone who makes them feel happy.

Back to the story. I drove my date home and in my bedroom she gave
me absolutely no resistance. She let me do whatever I wanted to do
and for that night her body was mine in any way I desired.

After that incredible night, does it mean I can stop teasing her?
Of course not! No matter how far along the relationship we are,
both of us have to keep the sexual tension tight to keep the good
feelings going. The moment either of us stops putting in work to
induce maximal pleasure is the moment the relationship will become
stale. Because anyone can just keep making out. But not many cannot.

The only way I learned how to tease a girl was by taking notes on
all the girls I was hooking up and having sex with. If what they
did felt really good to me, I figured it would feel good to a girl
as well. Most of what I learned about how to please women and
satisfy them actually comes from girls.

Before you can get to the point where you are teasing and kissing a
girl, you need to know how to build attraction. I used to live in
my own personal hell because there would be a girl I liked but I
had no idea how to build attraction, no idea how to kiss her, and
no idea how to get her in bed. I had the desire, but I didn't have
the knowledge because my toolbox was completely empty. It took me
years to learn that knowledge, and another year to put it down in
writing.

My book Bang is a 60,000 word reference guide that describes
exactly how to have sex with girls you like, starting from the
optimal mindset you need to bang a lot of women. Now you're free to
study other materials in your game journey, but I'm confident that
Bang is all you need to reach your maximum potential. Click below
to order my book today and remember that is comes with a
no-questions-asked money back guarantee...

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Also if you liked this newsletter, please forward it on to a friend. Thanks!

Roosh

Sandros observations- in10nse archives - pimp game ,sexual rapport , and end game

I remembered reading in10nse speed rapport, its kindah weird and too mechanical over explained but its golden...

I recall the audio with j mathews and first minutes of it was pretty solid.

I decided to look it once more....

I happened to look at the archives which is the Masf posts.

As I was reading that and the intro...all unedited and uncensored...

It was clear this guy has solid game and does similar in SS patterns and seduction.

he doesnt have a model for it and follows both SS and MM.
MM or M3 model is a logistical map for me and emotional guide of my game . how dynamic in the stages you must change her emotional responses to get momentum and her backwards rationalizing that she likes you.

Enough'


So why I beleive him?
Cause Swinggcats best friend

Swinggcat to me is the best darn malicious guy there is in terms of dating and seduction.

MAster of Push pull...

I related to his style.

Push pull are elements in closing and microlooping.

So I definately recommend anyone checking him out.

Swinggcatt recommends or mentions...I definately check it out.


What most impressed me as I breifly looked at his stuff was .....

at the time he read pimp game.....




In10nse worte a great book review and shared with everyone....he tried to internalize the concepts.....

I remembered I wanted to interview an actual pimp to model his beleifs with women.

not only can you do that by reading a book made by a pimp, in10nse get in to the book that he tries to share it with his peers.

the guy has a good heart and the drive. I like that alot and relate to him.

i think that affected his strategy of game.....in10nse awesomely worte a forbidden october man sequence which was simplified by JK Ellis even anchors.

in10nse does great job with combining SRT - sexual rapport modelling.

so he is master of comfort and closing---he combines powerful and psycological approach with NLP, persuasion, all combined.

not to be only read but to be used.

ofcourse he asks FRanco for adivce with relationships...

Nice! :)

PS : I remembered adrian wanting to comoone the 2 : SS and MM
in10nse GAME combined both.

***** Five stars must read, plus REAL WORLD SEDUCTION, PAUL JANKA, FRANCO,TD's Secret SOciety and BT SPIKING posts.Lovedrops' theory on social game.BAD BOY's Ebook.

Top 10 End Game Mistakes

Mojo:
Blake Richards Top 10 End Game Mistakes

First of all, let me tell you what End Game is. All successful seductions have an End Game phase. This is where you have built up the attraction and comfort and you're alone with the woman. So it's at THIS stage that the results of the Seduction are playing out. This is where so many guys screw up… and it's often focused on the least in seduction because to tell you the truth, not many guys get there. There off getting phone numbers - and that's IT. Believe me - the focus of my book, "GAME" is about how to get PAST that point and on to the Seduction.

Ok, now to the top 10 End Game mistakes that most guys make and what you can do to avoid these mistakes:

1) Bad Logistics

One guy I used to know would go out and say, "I'm going to get laid tonight!" And then we'd get to the club and he'd go home to his parents house - no lay. I told him, "Now exactly where are you going to do this? And do you have condoms - ON you, and if a woman were to walk up to you right now and want to have sex with you, would you be ready?" - Hmmm? was his answer.

The point is, if you WANT success, you have to be READY for it. Now, when I want to get laid, I have a framework of how I want it to happen. Sure- it can be spontaneous and I have to have some flexibility built in, but one of the keys to End Game is Isolation and not just that, but logistics ALREADY in place for every Isolation scenario that you could come up with.

For example, I have condoms in my CAR… Now did they come in handy? - Well last WEEK they did when I was out with a chick at a DRIVE IN. Same day close with her…

2) They trigger her automatic responses

Now all chicks have an automatic response for a guy getting physical with them - It's just something that's BUILT IN - through evolution to protect their productive resources. And when you think about it, they HAVE to have this in place because then they would end up a being a HO or be pregnant their whole lives!

So what are the typical triggers? I'll list a couple:
* When a guy gets too sexual too fast
* When a guy stops "talking" and just goes into LUST mode before she does
* When she get the feeling that a guy just wants her for SEX or just sees her as an object
* When a guy goes straight for the crotch -most of the time at least
* When a guy seems too eager to get down her pants
* When a guy seems sneaky and dishonest

You get the point. The key is to go slow, keep talking to her, be suggestive without being overtly sexual, and wait until SHE goes first with being physically sexual.

3) They engage her logical mind

Just imagine this: you're on the couch with a chick, maybe watching a movie or talking, and you start to notice the VIBE as the sexual tension is building. You know that it COULD be GAME ON if you play your cards right… Now what do a lot of guys do? They get all nervous at this point and start talking about GUY stuff… LOGICAL stuff like work, school, analyzing this and that… BIG mistake!

You want her logical mind OFF at this point. Don't say or DO anything that could engage her logical mind. You don't want her solving MATH while you're trying to get her in bed!

The focus should be on the FEELINGS. Get her arousal AMPED UP. Build the sexual tension. In my book, I go into depth on how to build this using a PROPUSION mechanism - and for those of you that don't know what that is, it's a motivational system where you have both PUSH from avoiding pain and PULL from pursuing pleasure.

4) They don't build up the comfort enough

A chick will RARELY get physical with a guy that she's not comfortable with. You need to build up the comfort and rapport before you go into END GAME. When you hear a chick say, "But I hardly know you!" - Then you know you need more comfort building!

In my book I extensively cover MID GAME which focuses on Comfort building and Rapport - so Check it out!

5) They take the first sign of resistance as failure

Now not all chicks will go to bed with you the first time you make your move. Most of the times, chicks need REPEATED attempts where you FLIRT with her comfort zone.

You know, every chick has a comfort zone - a line where things go from being Rated "R" to being rated "X". And if you push that line too much, it may shut her down - so FLIRT with that line. When she offers resistance, PULL BACK. And I'm talking ANY resistance - and I pull WAY back and go back into comfort building (MID GAME).

Then as I approach that line again, I can come that much CLOSER to that line until I have to pull back again. As this may be repeated several times, you get that much closer and closer to her comfort zone line until before she knows it, you're INSIDE her! (I talk about this in my book in the chapter on the Gradient Principle)


6) They follow THEIR OWN automatic responses and don't make the bold move

You know that ONE POINT in the date, where you know it could go one way or the other. And you know that what you do at that point could MAKE or BREAK the seduction? Have you guys been there? I have - too many times, but I've learned something.

Too many times before I would just GO WITH THE FLOW… and to tell you the truth - that's just not conducive to seduction!

How many times have you been over at a chick's house… it's late at night and you can tell that it could be "Game On", and then she tells you, "It's getting late… I should go to bed" and you say, "Ok… well I enjoyed hanging out with you… and I'll talk to you later…"

Then as you hear the door shut you're wondering where you went wrong… you could be in BED with her right NOW!

So how do you get over this? Well first of all, be AWARE of your automatic responses and hers as well. And know that you can use whatever a woman gives you. Like in the example above, what if you were to say… "Go to bed?! But I hardly know you! I'm not that easy… but I could be if you gave me a massage!"

So you see how you need to interrupt the auto-response! And humor works best followed up with a suggestive comment.

7) They don't focus on the moment

At this phase in the Game, a lot of guys are in their own heads and not focusing on the moment. They may be thinking of the last pattern to use or what to say next… but to tell you the truth - at this stage in the game, you need to throw those out and focus on getting her to FEEL in the MOMENT. This is where seduction happens!

And you want to get her associated into the moment as well by getting her to FEEL (including body feelings). The thing about FEELINGS is that they draw a person into the moment. Like when someone is angry for instance - and they can't think about anything else… or when someone feels pain - that's VERY real in the moment. The same goes for feeling pleasure and for feeling AROUSED sexually.

They think that the woman will lead them by the hand

At this stage in the game, even women that seem sexually aggressive will want the MAN to take action first. One chick that I was with said she wanted a guy that was "Confident". I asked her, "So how do you know when a guy is confident?" She said, "When he's able to do with me what I really want him to do without me telling him how to do it."

When you get certain "buying signals" from a woman, you need to close QUICKLY. Now not all buying signals are equal. For example, a suggestive flirtatious smile when you offer to massage her is much different then when she pulls her pants down and bends over! Let your buying signals tell you how quickly to move…

9) They're attached too much to the outcome

One thing that women have radar for is "Neediness". In fact a guy who's willing to walk AWAY from her has more power than she does in the "negotiation".

Instead of focusing on the outcome ("the home run"), focus a little on the process ("how you swing the bat") - but mostly be in the MOMENT.

If a woman does a take away from you and you don't respond… it tells her that YOUR in control and it communicates that YOU have CHOICE. - After all, how many guy would actually decline an offer of sex from an attractive woman? And if she senses that you would - then you've upped your value in her eyes… as well as made yourself a challenge for her!


10) They go too fast and out of her "sequence" without amping up the desire enough

Remember, building desire is about building the sexual tension. Take time to let her get her buying temperature up. Tease her, play hot/cold, FLIRT with her comfort line (the line where things go from being rated R to being rated X) until SHE crosses it.

And go the typical "physical" sequence unless she gives you resistance - in which case you pull back to Mid Game, then as you go back into End Game, you test again at the NEXT higher level.

I call these "Courtship Stages" and I talk way more in depth about them in my book. These are the typical physical steps in a seduction. Now the order doesn't always apply, but for the most part they do. For example, if you go straight from "hand to hand" to "Hand to Genitals", most chicks will resist. So know this natural sequence.

Here's an abbreviated version:

hand to hand => arm to waist => mouth to mouth => hand to head => hand to body => mouth to breast => hand to genitals => genitals to genitals or mouth to genitals

To wrap up, there you have it guys, my top 10 End Game Mistakes and how to overcome them!

Questions, Comments?

Blake Richards
www.social-mastery.com/Game.html

Top 10 End Game Mistakes

Mojo:
Blake Richards Top 10 End Game Mistakes

First of all, let me tell you what End Game is. All successful seductions have an End Game phase. This is where you have built up the attraction and comfort and you're alone with the woman. So it's at THIS stage that the results of the Seduction are playing out. This is where so many guys screw up… and it's often focused on the least in seduction because to tell you the truth, not many guys get there. There off getting phone numbers - and that's IT. Believe me - the focus of my book, "GAME" is about how to get PAST that point and on to the Seduction.

Ok, now to the top 10 End Game mistakes that most guys make and what you can do to avoid these mistakes:

1) Bad Logistics

One guy I used to know would go out and say, "I'm going to get laid tonight!" And then we'd get to the club and he'd go home to his parents house - no lay. I told him, "Now exactly where are you going to do this? And do you have condoms - ON you, and if a woman were to walk up to you right now and want to have sex with you, would you be ready?" - Hmmm? was his answer.

The point is, if you WANT success, you have to be READY for it. Now, when I want to get laid, I have a framework of how I want it to happen. Sure- it can be spontaneous and I have to have some flexibility built in, but one of the keys to End Game is Isolation and not just that, but logistics ALREADY in place for every Isolation scenario that you could come up with.

For example, I have condoms in my CAR… Now did they come in handy? - Well last WEEK they did when I was out with a chick at a DRIVE IN. Same day close with her…

2) They trigger her automatic responses

Now all chicks have an automatic response for a guy getting physical with them - It's just something that's BUILT IN - through evolution to protect their productive resources. And when you think about it, they HAVE to have this in place because then they would end up a being a HO or be pregnant their whole lives!

So what are the typical triggers? I'll list a couple:
* When a guy gets too sexual too fast
* When a guy stops "talking" and just goes into LUST mode before she does
* When she get the feeling that a guy just wants her for SEX or just sees her as an object
* When a guy goes straight for the crotch -most of the time at least
* When a guy seems too eager to get down her pants
* When a guy seems sneaky and dishonest

You get the point. The key is to go slow, keep talking to her, be suggestive without being overtly sexual, and wait until SHE goes first with being physically sexual.

3) They engage her logical mind

Just imagine this: you're on the couch with a chick, maybe watching a movie or talking, and you start to notice the VIBE as the sexual tension is building. You know that it COULD be GAME ON if you play your cards right… Now what do a lot of guys do? They get all nervous at this point and start talking about GUY stuff… LOGICAL stuff like work, school, analyzing this and that… BIG mistake!

You want her logical mind OFF at this point. Don't say or DO anything that could engage her logical mind. You don't want her solving MATH while you're trying to get her in bed!

The focus should be on the FEELINGS. Get her arousal AMPED UP. Build the sexual tension. In my book, I go into depth on how to build this using a PROPUSION mechanism - and for those of you that don't know what that is, it's a motivational system where you have both PUSH from avoiding pain and PULL from pursuing pleasure.

4) They don't build up the comfort enough

A chick will RARELY get physical with a guy that she's not comfortable with. You need to build up the comfort and rapport before you go into END GAME. When you hear a chick say, "But I hardly know you!" - Then you know you need more comfort building!

In my book I extensively cover MID GAME which focuses on Comfort building and Rapport - so Check it out!

5) They take the first sign of resistance as failure

Now not all chicks will go to bed with you the first time you make your move. Most of the times, chicks need REPEATED attempts where you FLIRT with her comfort zone.

You know, every chick has a comfort zone - a line where things go from being Rated "R" to being rated "X". And if you push that line too much, it may shut her down - so FLIRT with that line. When she offers resistance, PULL BACK. And I'm talking ANY resistance - and I pull WAY back and go back into comfort building (MID GAME).

Then as I approach that line again, I can come that much CLOSER to that line until I have to pull back again. As this may be repeated several times, you get that much closer and closer to her comfort zone line until before she knows it, you're INSIDE her! (I talk about this in my book in the chapter on the Gradient Principle)


6) They follow THEIR OWN automatic responses and don't make the bold move

You know that ONE POINT in the date, where you know it could go one way or the other. And you know that what you do at that point could MAKE or BREAK the seduction? Have you guys been there? I have - too many times, but I've learned something.

Too many times before I would just GO WITH THE FLOW… and to tell you the truth - that's just not conducive to seduction!

How many times have you been over at a chick's house… it's late at night and you can tell that it could be "Game On", and then she tells you, "It's getting late… I should go to bed" and you say, "Ok… well I enjoyed hanging out with you… and I'll talk to you later…"

Then as you hear the door shut you're wondering where you went wrong… you could be in BED with her right NOW!

So how do you get over this? Well first of all, be AWARE of your automatic responses and hers as well. And know that you can use whatever a woman gives you. Like in the example above, what if you were to say… "Go to bed?! But I hardly know you! I'm not that easy… but I could be if you gave me a massage!"

So you see how you need to interrupt the auto-response! And humor works best followed up with a suggestive comment.

7) They don't focus on the moment

At this phase in the Game, a lot of guys are in their own heads and not focusing on the moment. They may be thinking of the last pattern to use or what to say next… but to tell you the truth - at this stage in the game, you need to throw those out and focus on getting her to FEEL in the MOMENT. This is where seduction happens!

And you want to get her associated into the moment as well by getting her to FEEL (including body feelings). The thing about FEELINGS is that they draw a person into the moment. Like when someone is angry for instance - and they can't think about anything else… or when someone feels pain - that's VERY real in the moment. The same goes for feeling pleasure and for feeling AROUSED sexually.

They think that the woman will lead them by the hand

At this stage in the game, even women that seem sexually aggressive will want the MAN to take action first. One chick that I was with said she wanted a guy that was "Confident". I asked her, "So how do you know when a guy is confident?" She said, "When he's able to do with me what I really want him to do without me telling him how to do it."

When you get certain "buying signals" from a woman, you need to close QUICKLY. Now not all buying signals are equal. For example, a suggestive flirtatious smile when you offer to massage her is much different then when she pulls her pants down and bends over! Let your buying signals tell you how quickly to move…

9) They're attached too much to the outcome

One thing that women have radar for is "Neediness". In fact a guy who's willing to walk AWAY from her has more power than she does in the "negotiation".

Instead of focusing on the outcome ("the home run"), focus a little on the process ("how you swing the bat") - but mostly be in the MOMENT.

If a woman does a take away from you and you don't respond… it tells her that YOUR in control and it communicates that YOU have CHOICE. - After all, how many guy would actually decline an offer of sex from an attractive woman? And if she senses that you would - then you've upped your value in her eyes… as well as made yourself a challenge for her!


10) They go too fast and out of her "sequence" without amping up the desire enough

Remember, building desire is about building the sexual tension. Take time to let her get her buying temperature up. Tease her, play hot/cold, FLIRT with her comfort line (the line where things go from being rated R to being rated X) until SHE crosses it.

And go the typical "physical" sequence unless she gives you resistance - in which case you pull back to Mid Game, then as you go back into End Game, you test again at the NEXT higher level.

I call these "Courtship Stages" and I talk way more in depth about them in my book. These are the typical physical steps in a seduction. Now the order doesn't always apply, but for the most part they do. For example, if you go straight from "hand to hand" to "Hand to Genitals", most chicks will resist. So know this natural sequence.

Here's an abbreviated version:

hand to hand => arm to waist => mouth to mouth => hand to head => hand to body => mouth to breast => hand to genitals => genitals to genitals or mouth to genitals

To wrap up, there you have it guys, my top 10 End Game Mistakes and how to overcome them!

Questions, Comments?

Blake Richards
www.social-mastery.com/Game.html

work on voice projection

I remembered the russian said my voice was different.

alley cat has a smooth voice and I imitated Topo's voice...

Sexual rapport modelling seems tight!

I read a little in beginning and has straight forward stuff.

I changed my voice and sound like Sinn.

i have to deepedn the voice and sound more in control , I stopeed the overexplaining thing and now its the voice I have to work on.

That being said... record myself...that being said.

Hammer is a fag!

the emotional - arrousal - compliance to move forward to sex structure

I know badboy talks about it but its farther than that.

like tyler talked about bt spiking , its to be aware of her emotional level first you start off calibrated there and turn up volume slowly.
emotional level social comfort is at her energy and then raise it up a bit, if its at a club or meeting at a date you start off by spiking BT sexually.

so my sturture of game is to elict her emotionally to get her to bait her to respond as per magicians choice and double binds.

you combine yes ladders and change of beliefs

or sexual framing comfort - deep comfort- sexual comfort with ofcourse kino.
her emotions here will be down...you will make her RELAXED.
avoids button pushing.

taking calculated risks.

once youve reached arousal and good solid rapport with qualification then you direct interest and do push pull. use takeaways and mix compliments and accuse her of making you feel horny...

insert CJ's framing of her fault turning you on'.


push pull in terms of not being sure about her and chasing begins.
here the emotions go up and down you keep it up and down.

as you work logisitcs you talk about logical stuff that isnt relevant to the seduction location, you use art of distraction and you BT Spike to make her agree and use socil pressure and double binds to prior knowing therefore you always disqualify before she thinks or smells SLUT radar.

so you keep her push pull , mixing all these emotions and as reward you smile and glare at her eyes and sexual tease like a stripper would do to make her have you pay money.

remember what a girl does to you you do it to a girl back will always work!

you get her to provoke thinking sexual and arousing her that is bt spiking her and not giving it to her up to a point of disengaing her logic that she wants it.


you change subjects yet you still go for physical arousal and take it away.

so emotions here are my guide, you control them and orchestrate the rhythm of the musci played.

you are the director of the movie to create her wildest night ever.

she will love it.

this mindset is gold. made a 2 audio podcast of thisPS: sawyer used to agree with my disqualifiers and minutes later he suggest to do it his way again by leading wihtout using force , ofcourse I caught him doing that and read it off. great closing strategy. he calibrates wiht another topic to think about different thing while her leads me to where he wants of course Im aware and girls will not be if he creates attraction by BT spiking her emotioanlly will kick in her logical.

swingers made me think of threesome game

I m looking into sex game,
I hate ebook or being to logical, yet simple and easy works for me, then leave it up to me to be creative :)

so I saw swinger by nina hartley.

her female psycology comes from experience her vids are better than any stupid e book.

I actually used her howe to make love to a woman first 10 minutes as a sexual frames alal topo redstack.

seriosuly she knows her stuff.

but her she has great examples how to fell comfortabl and how to escalate her comfort threshold to new things in sex.

for me its awesome cause its like whole new area and being a PUA is more like I can dominate this area too.

guys are stale in terms of just squirting, the excitement comes from the emotions of sex and unexpecteness and making it a movie for her as she were reading a erotic novel.

thats the type of experience you shoul;d be giving to her.

What guy is going to give her that????

very few.

9 1/2 weeks pushes it too much but its a great example, he should have built comfort , remeber in relationships the cycle is comfort and sexualness.
this is to be kept in constant spiking of the whole process.

DONT BE BUTTON PUSHING

but know what to do when time comes and make things happen....

you lead

you take initiative (thanks alley cat)

so as with greeeneys I plan on taking my sexual comfort thresshold to the next level with her....

like MRM says in situations where youve never done it act like youve been there and done it, adapt to the scenario. to avoid feeling insecure and in your head.

act as you go yet TAKE CALCULATED RISKS

thershold comfort to move further, reach levels , higher levels = excitement attraction.

even addiction.

use that analogy and read in10nse article as franco also comments.

swinggcatt might have some stuff but his push pull works well and for closing.

its basically arousing her and you pulliong back arousaing her and you pulling backl to make her confuse and hornty and wanting you to want it bad.

you escalate from there to avoid keeping it stale or you overgaming or buyers remorse.

I see that is difference of rapid closes, seeing when girls are that ready to fuck you lead.


Swingers vid taught me how far Im from being in game.

knowing this dynamic helps me analyze a structure of basis of how emoitons and sex can crete arrousal to a point of intensity.....even addiction of pleasure.

Im going to ask franco on that WWHD?

Sexualizing Your Game: How To’s and Same Night Lay Guidelines

Sexualizing Your Game: How To’s


Posted at May 22, 2007


Ok, early in my PU career a few things happened that required me to focus on SNL’s. One was that my car blew up on my first f-close out of bootcamp.

The second was, even when I had access to a car, I could get girls numbers and even timebridge’s but I could FEEL on the day2’s that there was no sexual energy so they would drag out to day3’s, day4’s. Naturally, I said “Fuck that shit!”

And, put on my scientist hat to design in-field experiments to 1) Get same night sex because I didn’t know when I’d have access to a car or 2) Make Day2’s little more than coming to my place for sex

Then, I read “My Secret Garden” and “Way of the Superior Man” and both of them rocked my world. Those are must reads for every PUA.

So, how do you get sexual in the sarge? There’s a direct way (which Sinn has been using for a few weeks now and I’m sure he’ll post about it) and then there’s an Indirect way which relies on outside framing ideas and presuppositions (from the Milton Model created by Bandler).

Here’s my normal way of doing it:

Opener…
DHV Spike Stories…
BUT, my DHV spike stories contain references to a past girlfriend who was a dancer. The presups are that 1) she’s hot 2) she can have any guy but she wants me and 3) she’s a very sexual person

At this point, if we’re still talking I do “sleepy eyes” ala ijjjjjji and make my movements slow and deliberate with LOTS of eye contact and shoulder and lower back kino.

At the first opportunity (mini-isolation or full) I run my version of Strawberry Fields. I’m not saying she’s a sexual being. It’s the test!

When I give her the results I often whisper them into her ear with my hand on her lowerback. Then, I push her away.

If this goes well I start bouncing between my comfort stack and more sexual presupps. Usually by this time you can start saying more direct sexual talk (“If your friends weren’t here I’d spank you for being such a bad girl.”)

I think of this as an interlacing spiral moving upwards to sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort, Sex. Comfort, Sex. In lock-step.

I try to get “Rings on Fingers” in after one comfort routine. “Rings on Fingers” does 3 things:

1) It tells her she is sexually aggressive when she sees someone she’s attracted to…
2) It tells her your are NOT judgmental
3) It says that BOTH of you are good at keeping secrets

The change in her demeanor is visible. If you’ve ever done it you’ll know what I’m talking about. The best way I can describe it is “She softens and then glows.”

Now, if I haven’t gotten the Same Night Lay Logistics info by this time then I make sure to do it now. (look for “Same Night Lay” guidelines to find out those questions)

Next, I’ll start laying down my Identity Stack which includes my Cosmo Routine I based off of Bandler’s SRT. I’ve shared this in my eCoaching program. It MIGHT be on the Lounge as well.

Statements like “I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now” work well at this point. Kiss tests like going cheek-to-cheek to tell her something can often lead to what appears to be a spontaneous kiss, too.

One way to know if you’re out of lock-step in terms of sexual escalation and comfort is if she says things like, “Don’t you want to know anything about me?” or “I hardly know you.” – throttle back and run some more comfort.

The rest of the logistical info can be found here.

~ Captain Jack ~




Same Night Lay Guidelines


Posted at February 14, 2007 Hola PUAs,

As promised, my insights on SNL’s.

The first major attitude shift is this: Women don’t go to clubs/bars only to listen to music, drink or talk to friends. They can do all of those at home or at a friends house. They go because they want/need sex and they want to be picked up.

Debriefing shows they would have sex the same night more often were the feelings there. Your job, fellow pirate, is to create the feelings, create the opportunity and do so in a manner that seems so natural and easy that it seems like it all just fell into place.

Sinn referred to this when he said, “Captain Jack Method: Hang out till sex happens.”

First I want to tell you that there IS a difference between Same-Night-Lays (SNL) and One Night Stands (ONS).

ONS skips comfort which usually results in buyer’s remorse. For all the 4-5 hours of precious time you invested you get one lay. Even worse, if you mismanage the escalation and trigger asd/lmr that you can’t get through, you’ll get zero lays.

I’ve never had any problems seeing/dating a girl who I laid the same night because I qualify and build comfort.

I’ll take this from the top…

You need to get there early (in Tejas, that means no later than 10:00) because some of your sets will fail the SNL screening statements (more on that later) and you’ll need to close out with a TimeBridge, stay the obligatory 5-10 minutes to solidify and move on.

You should focus on mixed sets. This may seem counter-intuitive but experience has shown me this is true. Here’s why: In all girl sets they often pile into one car. But, in mixed sets you have a greater chance of girls taking their own car and/or meeting the group later.

Do a little thought experiment: How many times have you witnessed a girl walking into the bar alone…she’s looking for someone…she finds them and before you know it she is seated with a 4-5 mixed set.

You open the group in the standard way, do all the normal things you’d do until you hit the “How do you guys know each other?” waypoint. If she’s not there with someone, then isolate (or atleast get mini-isolation.)

Now that you are in isolation it’s time to start with the sexual framing. I use my version of Strawberry fields and “Rings on Fingers” to frame things sexually and I start seeding the TB.

It is supremely important that you don’t convey any “judgmentalism” regarding sex, sexual preferences or lifestyles in any way, shape or form.

You also don’t want to place too much importance on sex by talking about it or calling it a “special thing between two people” or any silly shit like that. The underlying attitude is sex is normal, healthy, fun and about to happen soon.

At the begining of C1 I start to screen for logistics issues…I listen for answers to these questions or ask them outright.

* Who did she ride with. (Best answer is, of course, alone in her car.)
* What time does she need to get up in the morning. (Best answer, later the better.)

(These things just make it easier. The better you get the more willing girls are to ignore things like riding home with guys she just met or getting up early. I know it’s hard to believe but experience proves it true.)

If the vibe is sexual and I feel like there are no obvious excuses for her not to come home with me (have to work early is the main one) I’ll stay around. If not, then I’m looking for a new set. This needs to be run super-tight. I’m talking 20 minutes in you’re making this decision because you need to be solidly in comfort by 12:30 (for venues that close at 2:00). This 1.5 hours is the MAIN (but not only) factor which distinguishes this from ONS (the other being non-sexual qualification and peer befriending.) I call 12:30 to 2:00 “Putting my time in…”

Always TimeBridge, it makes the SNL easier because it lessens asd and lmr.

As it gets closer to closing time 1:20-1:30 I start saying things like, “I don’t want the night to end, I’m really enjoying myself.”

If she agrees or says nothing you can say, “Let’s hang out at my place. I have xyz alcoholic drinks and we can watch that show I was telling you about.”

Or, you can say, “I’m kinda hungry.”

You’re saying this to see what kind of reaction you get. She may go ahead and propose eating somewhere. (Though, I’ve stopped doing this almost a year ago because I lost a few “sure” lays as the sexual tension lessened, the tiredness set in and the alcohol (and fun mode) wore off.)

The after hours club is also a good proposal. I’ve used this one quite a few times. It’s perfect because you have to swing past your place to get alcohol before heading out. And, oh by the way, the club doesn’t even open til 3am so we got 45 minutes to burn. Let’s see, how are we gonna kill 45 minutes? I know, we’ll have sex! Ha ha.

But, one of my favorite tactics (if she drove) is to get her to give me a ride home. Then, while in the parking lot you can say “Come in for a bit. You can use the restroom and have some water before you head home.” Then, grab her keys, turn off the car and get out.

(What’s that? Do I hear you worrying about your car? Don’t worry about it dude, you’re going to get laid! Have a friend take you back to your car if need be. Or, better yet, have the girl do it that night.)

Logistics separate the men from the boys (or the mPUAs)

The best mental image I can give you here is “Baby Steps.”

I rarely tell them where/how far away I live. Some of the places I go to are a good 35-40 minutes away. Sinn and I have pulled 2 or 3 times SNL’s from those locations so he can attest to my skill in that area.

Fidelio, KinoMaster, and Tribulus have all witnessed with their own eyes me doing this, multiple times, as well.

The goal is to get her to the seduction location and make it look like it sorta just happened. This is why the “gimme a ride home” and the “after hours venue, oh wait, gotta go home and get alcohol” tactics work so well.

Hopefully, you started a good kino progression early in the sarge. Because once she’s in your place it’s time to amp it up a little bit.

Hot/cold is the order of the day. Make out, pull back, continue with your comfort material. Tease her mercilessly.

Have your LMR skills honed because you’ll almost surely have to use them.

The good news is: If you don’t get the lay, the day2 is almost assuredly going to be her coming straight over to have sex with you and that’s my kinda date.

~ Captain Jack ~

10 way to Pump up Buying Temperature Tactics

10 Buying Temperature Tactics to Create Attraction

http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/In_the_Middle/Tactics/685.html



10 way to Pump up Buying Temperature Tactics ...Mostly popularized by Mystery, it has the advantage of introducing that "Wow" factor. One does run the risk of being the entertainer, but as Mystery has shown...



OK, as us Pick Up Artists (PUAs) should know, Buying Temperature is the woman's emotional receptivity and her level of general attraction to the PUA at a given time.

(Note, that there is slight, but subtle difference between general attraction and sexual attraction. You can have one without the other, though then you run the risk of turning from the really cool, fun guy into the really cool, fun friend.)

Anyways, Buying Temperature Game isn't necessarily the tighest game if that forms the cornerstone of your repoitoire (though it's awesome for pushing for one night stands). Yet for some guys, who fall into the trap of being too comfortable and too serious, without pumping up BT, they come off as boring as opposed to exciting and intriguing to the woman.

So I give you some common BT tactics. Some I use quite a bit and some (like magic) I don't. There are two very common weaknesses of BT Game. One, it isn't solid and the attraction (unless you push for the one night stand) she feels for you tends to rapidly disappear in the morning. Secondly, it can also leave you stuck in the position of being the entertainment monkey. Once you're gone or you're out of tricks, the girls will walk away to find some other source of stimuli be it dancing, alcohol, drugs or hot guys/girls (in other words Buying Temperature and attraction is transferable).

Let's get down to brass tacks:


1.Magic - Mostly popularized by Mystery, it has the advantage of introducing that "Wow" factor. One does run the risk of being the entertainer, but as Mystery has shown time and time again, by being the center of attention you create a situation of social proof and displaying social mastery. I won't say not to use it, but I've seen it work. One example that comes to mind is OCWaterBoy before he became the Direct Master that he is now. He did a magic trick (learned from Mystery) to engage an attractive, very slim girl who he eventually slept with. She KNEW what he was trying to do (ie capture her attention and impress her), but the trick was intriguing enough that she was OK with it.



2.Humor - The is really the most common BT strategy. You know it when you see it, but it also takes a modicum of social mastery as well as comic timing if you aren't a naturally humorous guy. Not easy to teach other than to immerse yourself in social situations and watch naturally funny guys. A few one liners and funny stories can help, it's the old concept of being Cocky and Funny popularized by David DeAngelo. I tend to have a pretty good sense of humor, but I'm not always "on" especially as the night wears on. It's the old concept of "Laughing Her Pants Off."



3.Shocking/Humorous Story - You can stack the deck in your favor if you can convey a story that is shocking, overtly sexual, and/or humorous. These are those tall tales that can captivate an audience, make them laugh, make them gasp, but at times, make them roll their eyes if you don't deliver it effectively. I like to use my own stories from my own life (a little embellished perhaps) though one can see the efficacy of canned stories like the Bad Ass Kid Routine and others. Fuck/Marry/Kill, while not necessarily a story, can work as way to both shock and be humorous while at the same time reframing the interaction in a sexual frame.



4.Dancing - This is one of my common tactics that I like to use to both create attraction as well as qualify her ("Oh, are you good dancer? Or do you just shake your ass like all the other girls?"). Note, I don't APPROACH the girl with Dance Game. I use dancing to isolate, pump up her attraction and adrenaline, and escalate the physical. Disadvantages, of course, is that it requires you to be somewhat decent at dancing. An easy variation of this is to Spin Her as if you're doing a swing dance. A lot of guys do this when they open, but a lot of times it's poorly done.



5.Thumb Wrestling - This is a stupid little game and competition, but one I actually had done to me the other night by the girl. Kind of a role reversal, but it's a fun little game. You can frame it as a challenge and play it up as the thumb war championship. Sidenote, sometimes a girl was ask you to buy her a drink, play a game with her, winner buys. You've changed the frame, introduced kino, and you'll win (if you don't, hang up your title of Pick Up Artist right now). There are a lot of variations to this like Slap Jack and so forth.



6.Fake Fighting - I like to do this a lot as well. Maybe a girl will accidentally bump into me. Instead of saying "Sorry" you can pretend to throw down with the girl. "Wha-wha-what? You wanna throw down? Let's see what you GOT?!" Again, it's silly but it's a fun thing to do and shows that you're really not taking the girl too serious. A variation of this is to Booty Bump Her and be playful about it.



7.Cavemanning - I'll do this if I'm feeling particularly energetic and if she's light. This is simply picking her up in your arms. Maybe throwing her over your shoulder. Piggybacking, etc.


8.Make Her Slap Herself - I've already written about making her slap herself. It's similar in nature to cavemanning in that you're displaying dominance by temporarily taking control of her body.



9.Drink Annilihation - This is actually an AMOG tactic that works just as effectively on girls as guys. Fun, silly and leaves her at your mercy.


10.Intentional Cold Read - Not the cold read that's designed to generate commonalities and understanding (though there is that), but calling a girl from New York "trouble" or a "bad girl" and then turning like you're walking away. Most times, you'll get pulled back in where they'll laugh and qualify themselves. This is where the PowerPuff girl routine came in though you can do a lot with it from the Sexual Predator to any other outrageous cold read that's designed to push her buttons.

All of this, of course, depend upon your delivery, energy level, and a host of other factors that helps you convey humor and playfulness as well as dominating the interaction so she no longer is thinking logically, but simply responding emotionally and on a visceral level.

Also remember that BT Game should be considered within the context of the social setting as well as the girl herself. You don't need to pump up BT at the library for general day game, a decent sense of humor well work just as fine. Club game, however, where you're competing with massive amounts of other stimuli and distractions does require a mastery of BT Game.


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AsianPlayboy:10 Fool Proof Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests




Another solid article from The Asian Playboy. He’s got a lot of great stuff going on. Go visit his new website at The ABCs of Attraction


Understanding & Mastering Sexual Anxiety

“10 Fool Proof Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests!”


Sexual anxiety was- without a doubt- my biggest sticking point that easily held me back for months if not more. It prevented me from escalating whether for a one night stand, bathroom fuck, or going sexual on the date. Talk about frustrating, until I finally clued in that General Attraction is different from Sexual Attraction which required me to modify my early Buying Temperature and C&F Verbal Game tactics.

Quite frankly, in my honest opinion, I rank paralinguistics (ie Non-Verbal Game) as important -if not more so- than Verbal Game. So instead of getting all verbose as in my previous article dealing with Inner Game, let me simple give you ten (10) of my personal favorite and field tested Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests.

I use them quite often not only to ascertain her Sexual & General Attraction, but also to spike her emotional Buying Temperature as well as Kino Plow into the fun zone of sex!

Sure you’ll feel awkward in the beginning, but there’s the nice side benefit that, by using them as part of your Kino Game and Compliance Testing, they will slowly help you get over your SA and become more comfortable around women and conveying more dominance and sexuality through constant kino and compliance testing.

First, I- with regards to both the what and why- define Compliance Tests as:

1. A method (either verbal and non-) by which you gauge her Attraction (General or Sexual) to you.
2. Providing an OPTION for her to either pass or fail.
3. Encouraging and qualifying the right choice through a reward/punishment stratagem.
4. Establishing and maintaining the leader/masculine/dominance versus the follower/feminine/submissive frame.
5. Testing for, declawing, and/or eliminating “Cat String” attention whore / stripper types.
6. Finally, with regards to the objective of the article, the more you sexually CT her, the more comfortable you become being, encouraging, and expecting sensuality from both you and her.


Secondly, here are some additional guidelines by which you can increase the successful CTs:

1. LEGITIMACY: Verbal CTs should always be phrased with a “legitimate” excuse. Trust me, girls are NOT stupid. They KNOW why you want to get them upstairs. They just need it to pass the “common sense” test when they brag about you to their girlfriends. It doesn’t need to be logical or foolproof, it just needs to SOUND legitimate. For Kino CTs, this is done with unspoken subtlety and confident body language as well as appropriate levels of BT and privacy.
2. SPIKING THE CT: CTs are best off paired with some sort of Attraction Switch DHV or a BT Spike. The more emotional and attracted she is to you, the more willing she is to comply and follow you without asking questions.
3. CT WITH KINO: ALWAYS try and pair a CT with a light KINO touch. Don’t go out of your way and make it weird, but throw in that little extra kino so she’s physically stimulated at the same time.
4. INTIMACY BUBBLE: The closer you are to her- whether she’s attracted or not- the more willing she is to comply. You don’t want to be creepy, but when you’re sharing the same personal space, she is less likely to reject the CT.
5. FASHION: Unless you or her are hardened criminals, a uniformed office gets your attention and demands respect. In other words, dress like a MAN who’s dominant and sure. Baggy, ghetto, or kiddy gear doesn’t garner respect. Power suits or a cohesive fashion sense can show you’re someone to be followed.
6. SMILE: Smiling- like CJ’s “Clown Grin”- is essentially a BT spike. People feel good when they’re presented with a genuine, infectious, and full smile. It’s natural for her to feel comfortable around a friendly, vivacious, and fun loving person.
7. NO FORCE: A lot of newbies carry the concept of “The Illusion of Input” as forcing her to jump through your hoops. Bad PUA! You aren’t supposed to force her to do anything, simply encourage/highlight/present the RIGHT choice.
8. RANDOM POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT: This is for the “Negs Gone Wild” or “I am the Prize” extremists… If she’s basically willing to do everything you want, you need to reward her whether it be with BT Spikes, BL, kino, kisses, sex, or whatever. Don’t be predictable, but do show that you acknowledge her enthusiastic compliance with the SLIGHT hope that she might actually be able to win you over. Constant punishment and/or tests will eventually convince her that you aren’t interested and/or attainable while constant rewards shows that you’re needy. Mix it up.

But enough theory, already!

Here are my fun, personally field tested, Compliance Tests. Some are new. Some are old. Some are purely kino BT spikers. And some are sexual in nature. Field tested, APB-approved!


THE ASIAN PLAYBOY’S TOP TEN KINO/SEXUAL COMPLIANCE TESTS:

1. POINT & CLICK: This one’s REALLY easy even for the novice amongst us. When you’re in set for more than 5 minutes, start thinking where to maneuver and/or sit. Kino her shoulder, smile, point a short distance away (ie a foot or two away from the crowd), and smoothly GLIDE over there. Do maintain eye contact, your smile, and a steady flow of conversation. If she changes her BL and moves with you, it’s a mild sign that you’re on the right track and willing to distance herself from her home base/friends and be mini-isolated with you.
2. KISS & KINO LADDER: The Evolution Phase Shift is probably the most infamous of our PUA Kino Escalation tactics. You can also do the “Kiss me here, kiss me there, now kiss me riiiiight here…” to go from cheek kisses to full on makeout. Whatever the tactic, the kino/kiss ladder starts small and ends up big while maintaining a sexualized conversation.
3. SENSUAL SHAKE & GLIDE: When you’re introduced to her after some time, you’ll more than likely shake hands. Feel free to do so but then HOLD YOUR PALM UPWARDS without releasing her hand, BUT without holding her hand in place. Basically you’re seeing if she’ll maintain the kino and hold hands with you or pull back. If it lasts a while, you can start holding hands, tickle her palm, and/or simply do a caress & glide with your fingers from her palm.
4. GENTLEMAN’S GRACE: Similar to the above except you flourish your hand out and kiss her hand while smiling at her. Yeah, it’s archaic and seemingly “anti-PUA”, but think about it. One, you’ve initiated sexual kino. And two, just GAZE into her face, lift her lips, smile, and observe her reaction. Is she turned on? Attracted? Embarrassed? Freaked out? Remember, you use CTs to figure out where you are in the sarge and then use small CTs to progress to larger ones like isolation, venue changing, and penis insertion.
5. CAVEMANNING: Women love to have their picture taken. They even practice their poses in the mirror and come up photogenic tactics. So the next time you get a picture taken with a girl, PICK HER UP! Hey, I’m 5″6 and slim. Now I won’t pick up a “big boned” girl, but I’ve lifted my fair share of tanorexics, spinners, and flyers. It’s an easy and kino CT that you can pair up with something else.
6. PAPA’S KNEE: I should invent a cool PUA Community name for this one, but it’s essentially a play off of the very simple Hi-5 CT. This is best done at a BT Spike, seated, and semi-isolated. When you Hi-5, casually bring her hand down to your knee, place it there, and let go while still maintaining constant eye contact and conversation. Don’t force her to maintain kino, you’re simply trying to see if she’s physically and sexually compliant towards touching you. If she takes her hand away like a shamefaced monkey then you simply consider it a sign post for you to Game more and Game better. Now, of course, if she starts to slowly move her hand up your thigh…
7. BOOTY BUMP & GRIND: Booty bump her playfully with your ass to her ass. See if she reciprocates. Hell, take her to the dance floor and ascertain her level of “grindability.” In either case, don’t push it, simple see if she responds positively. Of course, it helps to have rhythm.
8. SIT/LAP TEST: Make her sit in your lap or you in hers. You can motion, pat your knee, or verbally convey it. Again, this isn’t necessarily an ESCALATION move though it could turn into one. The primary goal is to see where she’s at on the Sexual Attraction thermometer. Cold means more BT and Game. Hot lap grinding means it’s time to think logistics and extraction. For the more timid amongst you, simply motion for her to sit next to you while you press your thigh against her thigh and knee. Again, judge her reaction if she stays in constant kino with you or not.
9. PROMENADE: An oldie but still a goodie. When you walk with her, simple put out your elbow and see if she holds your elbow. Advanced versions could include both hands, palm squeezing, tickling, booty bumps, etc.
10. TRUST TEST: Another oldie but still a goodie. Advanced tactics include tickling, caressing, palm reading, and sticking out your tongue at her.

Now go out in the field and try them out! And be sure to post up what kind of shenanigans ya’ll got yourselves into!

-The Asian Playboy
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com

P.S. Other excellent references on verbal/sexual CTs include CJ’s “How To” Article and for other non-verbal CTs Sinn’s “Comfort Threshold. Or one of my favorite articles… Sexual Identity: Less Talk, More Sex!


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Sexual Identity: Less Talk. More Sex.

If I might use former student Groove as an example. He already had great material and great look.
But it was figuring out his LOGISTICS and using SEXUALITY as a TECHNIQUE / TACTIC / ROUTINE is what, I 100% believe, has allowed him to triple his lay rate.

Dallas PUA Simple has a great saying,

"TALK TO THE PUSSY, LOOK AT THE FACE."
APB's rule #24 now.

In the ABCs of Attraction that Prophet and I originally pioneered, there is a step, a TOTAL change of energy, and attraction called DIRECT INTEREST.
Like, almost EVERYTHING needs to change about your Game.

In other words, you're BEYOND building attraction.

•How you kino (general kino and sexual kino are totally different)
•Your tonality (again approach tonality vs comfort tonality vs sexual tonality & verbage)
•Your eye gazing
•Your physical presence

•Etc.

You're not working on attracting (except to maintain attraction). You SHOULD be concentrating on Sexual Tension (and ergo Sexual Release).

She needs to WANT your cock. Not your conversation.

ABC (Approach & Attract, Buying Temperature, Comfort & Connect) means you're a GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST.

Guess what though? That just means you know how to talk and make friends. You're cool. Interesting. Funny.

But it DOESN'T make you a good LOVER or SEDUCER. So what does?

Gunwitch Method works.
Direct (both Direct BL and Direct opener [both verbal and non-verbal, both statements vs question openers, natural vs canned]) method works that I had to tackle hardcore for 3 straight months.

The four non-verbal keys that form the acronym SECT as part of Direct Interest does.

Because it goes STRAIGHT to the Pussy.
This is when you pull out your cock and REALLY make your move.
It's one of the biggest sticking points that can stall or even defeat an Intermediate Level PUA.

This was my biggest sticking point for the longest time. I'd get consistent number closes, the occasional make out, hand/blow job, and the fully monty after a year of being in the Game.

I was getting more action after I got in the Game.
But it wasn't at the PUA / Rockstar level. It wasn't me laying waste to an entire female social circle by sleeping with every single one of the girls.

I had to take more steps. REALLY step out of my comfort zone. And THAT took a damn lot of effort, introspection, and work.

But it was PROJECTING sexuality. Sexually DOMINATING and taking control. PIMP talk. Being in control of LOGISTICS ("Your place or your place?", "How about the La Quinta or other hotel?", who's got the car?, where does she live?, who's playing watchdog? etc).

That was tough and a HUGE sticking points that separates the entertainment/social robots/attraction routine guys from actual seducers.

Talking to girls, getting numbers, telling funny/interesting stories, and so forth simply means you're an cool, social, friendly guy. But being in control of SEXUAL VIBING/CONTROL and having a handle on your LOGISTICS, makes the difference between LAID and NOT LAID. And it ain't easy to master without a good role model since you can't learn it from reading.

Remember, there is NO second place in Pick Up.
You don't get a prize. You don't get a medal. You either get the girl.

Or you don't.

If I might use former student Groove as an example. He already had great material and great look. But it was figuring out his LOGISTICS and using SEXUALITY as a TECHNIQUE/TACTIC/ROUTINE is what, I 100% believe, has allowed him to triple his lay rate.

You're not there to talk to girls. You're there to have sex...

Stories, openers, comfort tactics... fine and dandy. But it doesn't make her horny.

But it's things like my Theory on the Different Shapes of a Vagina to Captain Jack's version of Strawberry Fields (FUCKING RAINMAKER man, I love it, and have unabashedly stolen it for myself :-)

Sex, gentlemen, SEX. Remember, you're a SEDUCER. Not an ENTERTAINMENT MONKEY or an EMOTIONAL TAMPON.

SEDUCER.

Take, for example, last night hanging out with a home girl of mine now that I'm back from the Los Angeles bootcamp. I got propositioned by a tall, pretty blonde to SWING with her husband. Not the first time it's happened and it won't be the last time. But what triggered that switch in her? To want to fuck me while her husband watches?

VALUE, but most importantly SEXUAL VALUE in the form of ONLY PASSIVE Game.
I didn't tell a story.

I didn't use any sort of opener. She looked at me and simply KNEW I'm good in bed. Maybe I am.

Maybe I'm not (naw, I am). But I subcommunicated sex.

Passive Value being in the form of:
•Social proof (with women, ie my homegirl that intro'd me to the swinging blonde)
•Body language (absolutely relaxed even when she pressed up against me)

•My look (biker bad boy / professional gigolo)

•My easy going, sexual nature with women (cavemanning, dancing, etc.)

•Being non-needy (even when she went for a kiss and reached for my junk)
•And simply looking like a guy that has GUILT-FREE sex
I freely admit to being a manhore, while my 2.5 and 3 some were great experiences, I won't do the cross swords action (just my own issue) so I demurred the offer. Does this happen all the time? Hell no. But by putting it out there, women will pick it up and some will take you up on it.

After all, are you there to be entertaining? or are you there to offer and receive sex?

To give you more room for thought, here are Greene's seducer archetypes from his book and corresponding PUAs that you might want to learn from or emulate:

1) Natural - Spontaneous, genuine, loud, and aggressive. The prototypical, loud, aggressive frat boy. Geoff and Jeffy (well, Jeffy also throws in some crazy peacocking that would be labeled as Metrosexual/Dandy) are great models.

Probably the most common model that Naturals/wannabe Naturals follow. It's great, but being loud, drunk, and aggressive only gets you so far if you DON'T have a Game Plan (which is the common failing of the supposed "Natural Game" or "No Game, Game").

2) Ideal Lover - Projecting sex, horniness, while being NON-NEEDY. You like pussy. You LOVE pussy. You have no shame. Gunwitch Method and some of Shark/Badboy. My article on the "10 Habits of a Natural" is also an example. SwingCat is a great example as is Camerone Teone (ie The One).

African American Game also falls into this category (the good kind, not the random holla holla, hey girl bullshit). It's a numbers games and you'll get more hardcore rejection, but you're ALSO get some of the FASTEST makeouts and lays. You're offering sex and you're finding someone that wants sex. Easy to out value and out-AMOG, but not once she's past the sexual hook point and decided.

3) Dandy/Metrosexual - Put her off balanced, confused, and have her lower her guard. You're surrounded by women, have a great fashion sense, and make women at ease. Are you gay? or straight? Trust me, I knew tons of gay guys that would "crash" in the same bed with straight women and GET TAIL from her. Friction is friction. This is the archetype for peacockers and (I think) BradP (and a pinch of Rockstar) and commonly the Mystery Crew. TD might also be an example (as well as Charmer).

4) Rake/Badboy - Self obvious. Protect of Loved Ones and Sexual Saftey are both ATTRACTION SWITCHES you can turn on. Yet this persona is at the extreme level. Badboys may cheat and abuse their girls, but the girls feel PROTECTED. Why? Because he'll kick the shit out of anyone that messes with him or her. Badboy and Gunwitch.

5) Charismatic - You draw ATTENTION to yourself and INCREASE desireability by being DETACHED from your target. Stripper, ADD, Attention whore game. This is your classic Indirect methodology and negging/disqualifying. You sweep her into the MAELSTROM of your Charisma, and then take it away. She becomes an emotional addict/junkie. Neil Strauss (ie Style) and Mystery are classic example. Like, with Style, in ONE MINUTE you will learn that he is INCREDIBLY intelligent, charming, and connected. He knows how convey coolness, intelligence, and mystery within MINUTES (if not seconds). And that is why he is one of (if not THE) greatest of all Jedi's.

6) Rockstar - Self obvious. Mystery does this especially now that he's pioneering hot/entourage game. This is also bottle service / VIP game. With my look, I usually fall into Badboy (sometimes, but not often Dandy as well) or Rockstar. I either get the coke whores that want to party/fuck/or do some other insane shit or a band-groupie that wants to believe I'm the next Neptune/Hoobastank. For example, after the Tool concert, I was able to get a free Penthouse at the W (where Ghost Bar) by simply looking like I was in the concert/band or when Justin Timberlake was in Dallas (no effort on his part to pull tail from what I heard). It's the Passive Value of the Social Proof (with women) and Social Proof (with men). Makes life SOOOO much easier but it's one of the hardest things to achieve.

7) CHARMER - This is the GIFT of attention, pleasure, and comfort. These are the guys that, when they talk to a woman, make her feel special, unique, and wanted. Loverboy & Hoobie (H. also falls midway into Natural) from RSD/Scotland might be a good example as well as Grungey (the day time specialist). Deep connections, DDB (Doggey dinner bowl) looks, cold reads, etc. However, like the Natural, this just lands you in the friend zone. You can LAUGH YOUR WAY INTO HER PANTS, but simply being interesting only part of the battle. You've got to INTERACT with a girl, capture her EMOTIONS, and then TURN HER ON (ie get her horny).



So what's the moral of this story? This long ass, exhausted, stream of conscious diatribe at 5AM in the morning?

Figure out your SEXUAL identity. In other words, HOW do you want to TURN ON a girl? Not WHAT the fuck you need to say. Beginner's think What. Average think How. Experts think WHERE.

Nerd is not a sexual identity. And neither is, contrary to popular belief, a PICK UP ARTIST. Seducers get laid. Guys that are good at foreplay. Guys in social circles where they have a rep for being awesome in bed. Guys that girls know are vastly sexually experienced and social proofed and make girls horny. In other words, guys that EXUDE sexuality and experience.

All the bullshit you can find online, ebooks, DVDs, etc. gets you in with a girl only so far.

There's a REASON why they took NaturalJ into ProHo (the Natural who briefly dated Britney Spears and had triple digit lays before he reached 21). Sexual experience and the ability to convey it trump any kind of opener, tactic, story, and technique.

Pushing for sex, slamming her in the elevator/bathroom to makeout with her, having her rub your cock in the middle of the dance floor... PHONE SEX. Good dance game.

THAT gets you laid.

Conversationalists means you're a great, interesting, friendly guy. Wow. Cool.

Getting her horny. Now THAT's what separates you from the guys that are "back up cock" when she's horny and the guys that are paying for all her shit, being emotional tampoons, and being standard boy friends.

Guys ask me all the time how I get the fast make outs, the couple of bath room lays, the hotel one night stands. And yes, some of it is just being the right place and the right time. But it's like one of Gunwitch's LRs. A girl (after breaking up with her BF) said jokingly she wanted to get laid. Gunwitch took her up on it, cavemanned her to his truck and fucked her.

Once I've figured out her blueprint, what her attraction switches are, AND just as equally important what HER logistics are, it's time to get her moist down in the sweet spot. Most of my lays, I don't even remember what the fuck I said because it's really not that important. What I do remember is turning her on and having my logistical shit down, taking control, cavemanning, and leading/dominating.

Yes, you can fine tune stories. You can make them better until they're ultra tight and field tested. But it's all in the execution and being in control (ie not depending on luck versus having a GAME PLAN) that makes all the difference in the world.

The WHAT, in all honesty, really isn't that important unless you're still at newbie level. How is more important. And even that is less important than being in control of LOGISTICS (where you isolate, where you extract her, where you make out with her, where you fuck her, etc.).

More sex, gentlemen.

Less talk.

closing take you home frame routine pattern

I came up from the apocalypse opener and after comfort it can work I have to field test it.


Its a closing temperature gage to either move forward or not yet.

you insert strawberry routine

I shouldnt take you thome to mom, actually.....eye contact you shouldnt be thinking about going home with me....
I wonder what thoughts are running thruogh you mind right now for you to imagine esensually
what would happen .... ....(well do you want to come home with me?)

yes, cool I have a great set of cool CD's i have show you.briefly but ecause i have to get up early , I have to kick you out.

i get this but you get dessert DEAL ?

no, I have to tell you something, i have a late night cookie habit, theres this great ice cream I love to eat but i cant eat it all (in the cab?)


What kind of person are you????!!!!!

.if we share it will be half the calories

yeah i know, why did i even mention that :) dont get any ideas im not that easy.....

Boring sex DESTROYS relationships -Routine

Gabriel moore said :

As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one.


I used soemthing to this I got it from badboy's youtube video I think but its awesome, it shows female psycology preseleccion.always be subtle:

I try got her to accept about how important sex is for me, the truth about some relationships when its more of the same thing, sex becomes a rouitne and relationship suffers and dies.Sex ,With me is important to keep it excitng and vibrant, makes a relationship spark and __________wild .

sexual escalation defined by sandros

Hey guys I wasnt going to share this since this is a private blog.

I spent alot of time to come up with solutions to my game.

I want to credit some people:

Sinn= the guy is a better coach than a person.very specific and realisitc.suggest to work with him if you are actually going out.SNL's stuff are GOLD exept where he goes direct sexual in set without proper logistics set up he also didnt talk on plausible deniability which I think is STANDARD PUA, CJ uses it on every time. franco talks about this mistake ion which Jon suggests using this infield which can backfire, I rather go with more solid game appraoch, not fool hardedely risking it soo much.

Entropy= he is a great coach but at times vague, like a natural.

Saffron= He tried to explain things to me which at that time I wasnt ready to listen or understand. thats how advanced he was.LRs and audio breakdown changed me.

vin di carlo= dating diablo plus first pages of his sexual tension are thigns I would have written about the subject.

CJ : His LR's are GOLD nuggets hidden, the subcomms and breakdown of them are the formula. his sexual framing in vibing does work.

ADAM Lyons; Adam is really good his ebook or dvd or anything written doesnt have sexual escation game he uses, he gets girl into them and he leads them in a non sexual way once he gets to seduction location he denies anything sexual as he escaltes arousal physical.he does kiss them at PU venue then he pulls back. he brings em home and denies sex just to get them to escalate on him.SNEAKY but it works.GREAT tEACHER but too abstract when he talks or explains.


Swingcatt: his LR are BEST, his book is best seduction book ever next to franco's.
MYSTERY isnt shit compared to him, 2.0 is really awesome.as I noticed how he qualifies em and gets her to chase him ....like saffron learn to do the same.



FRANCO: very analytical at times but the guy dominates all areas of seduction.his MINDSET superseeds within process of seduction.found him after I got good. his books are helpful. I could delete all ebooks and keep his and swinggcats material, entropys, eltopo, sinn, CJ and I would be better off.
he uses screening and controls asd. has a emotional intellligence of the pickup goes in detail to explain SUPER EASY to learn. He is my next go to guy to get awesonely good.


BRAD P aka casey 'rocker" = this guy is a tall thin white guy , nerdish. he dresses like a rockstar and found success teacing and learning more about seduction.

I learned more from his getting physcal and same night seductions CD sets.

I agree with his forbidden truth on reading too much pu is bad for you.


Ozzie (RSD) Transformations:
how his pu lines work to disarm ASD, when you are timebridgeing, he talks about next location as non sexual , "im going here and you cant stay im kicking you out.lol"

"i have to get early tomorrow, dont get any ideas"


Doc holiday: his groundhog day pdf w his LRs in LR book from Sinn , uses deep comfort.I mixed in after wine place, adams line "I get the check and you get dessert"

be congruent like swinggcatt stop at grocery store beofre place and get her to buy it!!!! make her invest ala ADAM LYONS, then shes invested she cant back off....its social pressure and awkward so she has to COMPLY :)

JEFFY: Jeffy when he talks in his vids about his adventures with that girl and how he fights a guy , he pumps her buuying temperature to get her to comply, he gets her emoitonally up before asking her to comply, in a high state as franco mentions women change their mind all the time, so when you pump her buying temperature when its tim e to close you can get her compliance easier, it distracts her from sexual asd or
being logical..... when you are talking try to be funny more you make her laugh and mixed in emoitons, the more she will like being with you, lively.

He talks about push pull too.


Im trying to remmember what I did:

push- pull subtle qualifier ,
magicians choice to calibrate any answer from her,
reverse frames get her to want it more to chase me
RJ's object before she does,
false disqualify with a social pressure ala adam lyons,
underlying frame was to not talk about the obvious or matrix that we were going to have sex.
I talked the opposite while I move forward by arousing her verbally w push pull and physical touching and pulling back by saying "its too much for me " "what are you doing to me, do you have this effect on guys" "stop being cool you are making me like you" "why are you turning me hot" .

mehow's pdf microllop theroy does come in effect in after Comfort phase to get her hooked


Lee Jenkins female orgasm book:
I recently read his book and its really good, he recommends talk ing or cuddling with the girl after sex for 15 minutes, I dont debreif eventhough at frst I did but debreif is more to acceralate what you did right and learn.

I think his advice prevents buyers remorse which I got from Tara after we had hardcore sex.

Nina hartley's how to make love to a woman: first minutes of the dvd she talks about how women are judge sexually, perfect for sexual framing ala CJ. you internalize this as you say it to people and it becomes your belief.

topos structure of kung fupenis is push pull compliance push pull compliance.
just to move forward to your goal.

his redstack stuff has great stories of rapport w sexual framing it undetactable and very ninjaesque.

his qualifiers and negs are really good ive implemented them into my game.

also his voice is deep as he uses levels of it to create emphasis like a hynpitoc likeness.

marie interview is good for an idea how girls want to feel."it just happend" "meant ot be" to withdrawl any responsibility for escalation or slutiness.


so far this is what i can write about and can recall at this point.

LA Tripp helped me with getting back my mojo to seduction.

he explains it diferently and counts on calibration and disqualifies.


I kindah figured out saffrons game.lol

i still ahve to figure out the "giver taker frame" "let make it memeorable special frame" his own SNL frames that work perfect for non local girls.


I did a phone consult for nothern nights on sexual escalation in detail, since at that time the lovesystems guys didnt talk about it.I gave him a masterclass on it, I will to to look for the audio of it.



I forgot KINO is important, i just became more subbtle at kino so dont talk about it ,eurpoean women not need too much kino...ALWAYS CALIBRATE KINO. I follow adams ladder upfornt with bradp sexual arrousal upfornt to creat attraction.

Like Tim said you want to spike emotions all the time, especially in closing mixed in with comedy.

always refram as posistive and no big deal, move forward and ignore anything negative thinking wihtin the pickup, you contrl her and she is there for you to take over the responsibility of escalation to not look as a slut. you keep moving forward subtle NOT PUSHY.EVER!!!!!!

calibrate shit test in comfort from in attraction. reframe always , no cocky funny in comfort.