Showing posts with label overexplaining. Show all posts
Showing posts with label overexplaining. Show all posts

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Steve McQueen The REAL guy's guy of cool -Calibration KEY on overexplaining or mansplaining or qualifying yourself

“When I believe in something, I fight like hell for it." -Steve Mcqueen
I suggest looking into Biography of Steve McQueen..He is great example of being your own man and believing in yourself regardless of circumstances.

This Bio graphy is definately best to watch,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-YjYYEaDik

Check on 45min when Chuck Norris talks about Steve.

He gives Chuck advice on overexplaining in less than one minute.

It is excellent and memorable.

look into it.


McQueen had a tough home life. His childhood was far from ideal. He moved a lot as a kid and periodically ran with a pretty rough crowd. He spent some time as a ward of the state. As he got older, McQueen worked as a janitor, a carnie and a lumberjack before ultimately becoming an actor and the star we know and love.

McQueen’s life story, then, is a study in perseverance. He reminds the rest of us how important it is to not get discouraged and to keep your eyes on your goal. It’s as true with women as it is with the rest of life. The key to consistent success in dating is to never let rejection get you down. Whether it’s a bad breakup or the brush-off at a bar, you can’t let it get to you. Keep approaching women and keep working on your game. When in doubt, remember what McQueen says, “When I believe in something, I fight like hell for it.”

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As a kid, Steve McQueen joined the circus. Later in life, he joined the marines. He spent much of his life racing motorcycles, sometimes supporting himself with his winnings. In short, McQueen had a diversity of life experience. It’s part of what made him such an interesting guy.

Another of our top five dating tips from Steve McQueen has to do with developing some life experience of your own. Having many and varied experiences to draw on in conversation or when seeking common ground with a woman will increase your chances of success. What you need to recognize is that a huge amount of your game is based on what you do long before ever introducing yourself. So, the next time a buddy suggests an ill-conceived, spur-of-the-moment trip to Miami, consider all the stories and experiences you’re likely to acquire if you go. It might not be seem like such an impractical idea after all.

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Undeniably, McQueen was a daredevil. As we all know, he had a passion for motorcycle racing, and he was great at it. McQueen’s extensive racing experience also allowed him to perform many of his own stunts in films.

We regular guys also need to be daring if we’re going to have any success with women. Fortune favors the bold, and so do females. You don’t necessarily need to swim with sharks or go skydiving, but you do need to approach women on the street or at the bar in order to have any hope of getting a date with them. Women respond to men who are willing to take a risk. So, approach the hottest girl in the bar. Ask her for her number. Channel your inner McQueen. Be fearless.
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Reputedly, in The Magnificent Seven, Yul Brynner accused McQueen of trying to steal his scenes. Brynner may have been onto something. McQueen was magnetic on camera. It’s part of his magic, and another one of his qualities that we want to imitate in order to improve our chances with women.

Whenever you’re out in public, you should try to steal the scene. But being the center of attention is a tricky thing. You don’t want to come off as an attention whore. Don’t be ostentatious or flashy. Do, however, try to be the best-dressed man in the room. Supplement your style with a great sense of humor and engaging conversation, and before you know it, no one will be able to take their eyes off of you.
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Perhaps, above all else, we love Steve McQueen because he’s so quintessentially male. He was tough, uncompromising and cool. He was a little rough around the edges. There wasn’t an effeminate bone in the man’s body. He was a professional motorcycle driver who played a bounty hunter on TV -- how much more masculine can you get?
McQueen’s charisma should remind us all how attractive traditional masculinity can be. Women respond to guy’s guys. They like their men to be capable, resourceful and confident; even, when necessary, tough. So be like McQueen, and be a man

credit http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-5-dating-tips-from-steve-mcqueen_2.html


Friday, April 23, 2010

My Dad corrected me my overexplaining sticking point

Hey I had that overexplaining and I cathc myself over and over doing it.

Today, I was trying to explain w " you have to understand..."

I got cut off by ,y dad as he said

"HEY dont waste your breath or salivia explaining, you are talking to me, Im older and wiser..... you dont have to explain, it is easy...and simple

I go to the point I dont go around the issue trying to understand why,

I just do what I have to do and go for it ...the rest I dont care"


so basically here he is teaching me a lesson.....

dont force other people to understand you , they wont always.
you can express yourself but dont try hard for them to try to get them to understand you or push too hard out of your way to do that- WAYNE DYER mentions that in his wonderful book on pulling your own strings...wher you become victimize by this...

He is right, I shouldnt....


I think Ive pushed myself too much into a one dimensioanl character.

I have to review my goals and review brian tracy's sceince of self confidence.


I have to breathe and meditate, talk to GOD.

be social again, try to get calibrated and not weepy.

I dotn really think I had that problem until now, or until Karrey explained about dont educate people what you are doing.


I taught that to Jorge.


I should leave from PICkup theory again, to regain practice and experience....I think Ive gotten too much info and inventive theories than practice.

and thats bad.

there has to be a balance..
like a diet and food.


Im happy cause my dad corrected me and he is Alpha....he is a sneaky guy and manipulative, I think Im turning into him a bit.


I saw a black guy standing talking to a girl her body language of the girl was more investing towards him.

I rememebr zellly the guy that had a one night stand with asisan girl in nyc.

guy is funny smooth and player at heart or at the club.

PU stuff is cool but overexplaining and getting too techinical SUCKS.

in a way Casey learned to be good with women the right way.

learning from community, sucks ass.

Im happy I will re unite with natural soon.

Im very happy.

when I was with natural I just heard entropy and some topo stack and sinn. swinggcats push pull prizing and sinns breathrough comnfort w SNLs.

attraction can be easily learned at any time.

It knowing when to spike BT

Ryan expalins well and asian playboy.
Adam knows breaking rapport no more than 3 times
entropy calibrates his breaking rapport

so I will post on BT stuff as a collective to review.


I loved 9 and 10 game and alpha male and high end club game and issues in qualification cause he relates to frames.


Mr M and braddock taught me more of awareness stuff I was lacking.

beign genuine not different and assume high value traits.

I want ot learn dance , yoga, and some sport.

I shoudl do improv and toastmasters stuff. Cool.


SUMMARY

Sticking point comes from my inner game , LSE and self dount of insecurity.

SO observing ego and cathcing yourself and especially if someone gives you feedback to calibrate is awesome.

that shit is rare.

thanks Dad :)