I know some guys are missing character traits.
Example:
Being Proactive:
They are waiting for response or external factors.I know guys can go out number of times a day and appraoch and get rejection and can get numbers, then he stays stuck there waiting for the girl to call them or girl to come up asking them out, or guys give up after the first phone call or first text attempt and they give up.
They end up stagnant.
I personally had this problem for a long time.
as a note, Also it reflects how you handle your life.
Example:
like waiting for a specific person to call you to offer you a job .when you can apply to many and not wait for a negative answer and waste your time waiting when you can have a job now.
Or
Person being a dreamer or "spacey" or unrealistic.
This person can think they want to make alot of money or have high expectations but are not realistic they are waiting for it to come rather than take action and go out there.
Its a non stop thing.Im guilty of this BTW.
So everything to them comes in hope that one day it will happen, or trying to be positive or overly thinking positive but not working specifically how or what to do to get it, just thinking of fooling yourself without actually being proactive or taking action.
so theres something of a mindset or set of action to push yourself or begin a new habit into your lifestyle by being proactive, not waiting but making opportunities for yourself.
I think this can manifest by a guy who lives certain way can change and then applying your program can get results.
That being said a topic that is kindah deep, but this character of being proactive to change your reality.
I think this is the missing link for many guys out there who want to get results.
anything you recommend would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks.
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Saturday, March 12, 2011
Sunday, April 4, 2010
week in sandros life and thoughts nlp comfort , innergame experiment and rants!
Hey guys,
Ive been reading in my spare time.
I looked backed on what things I did to get stupidly crazy results without really thinking what I was doing.
It had to do alot with Swinggcatt's Beliefs section on his CD set.
Beliefs are so important that once ingrained in your brain, all the bodylanguage and subtl stuff comes off natural and congruent.
Like I said before , Congruence in being an attractive guy is part of the attraction switch. Its powerful that you wont even notice shit tests anymore or wont get them in inital stages once you get attraction.
I had that minor relapse of AFC'ish or better said Low self esteem. weight, lifestyle, and unworthiness due to not living how I want, obstacles presented in terms of school which keep me MENTALLY away from reaching my goals..
Like in persuasion books Ive been reading, sometimes to get what you want requieres sacrifice. Like in my training and excersize, I slacked off a bit and it cost me. Im maintaining focus to reach my goal and build passive value.
dealing with my parents is also one of em. A-ROCK!, I remember you gave me awesome advice to get your objective to play a role and play along. Im learning that and keeping my inner game self unaffected and just keeping my eyes set on my goals and whats important to me in my LIFE.
if you guys can input on this , that would be awesome.
NLP STUFF, SS w comfort game: proper way to use and learn them.
As I realized some things of my game coming back, I can really hit nail in a date.My humor and self esteem and vibing is rolling.
Its weird how I after a rejection , is like a spike of rush instead of feeling down....like a challenge or gets me going...is it weird? :)
Mehow wrote in his book on comfort and NLP.
"First know the structure and after success , then integrate advanced accelarators"
I think this is true.
I was reading an old old old pdf, from a old old old student of Ross Jeffries of Speed Seduction.He was his TOP student.
Bishop.
I dont know if you guys have looked into it, Im actually trying to get some of his pdf and material stuff through torrent sites.
but Its been tough.
He actually goes over his successes in written form and how he used Speed Seduction within his game to seduce women.
to me SS, is sugar coating on confort game. and its obvious that in reading this guys game , its like 20% of SS, and he uncoinciously does the rest.
really intersting, if you guys know about him or can get in his torrent of material , hook it up :)
Ross doesnt explain how to use it, he focus on what its composed off and gives a few examples.
Secret is knowing or calibrating when to use it and how modify it to use to relate w the girl to work.
its basically a stck of patterns that comes from her keywords and anchoring positive feelings to you.
in female psycology she will say "I dont know but when Im around him , I feel excited , I cant figure out why I kindah like him"
SANDROSpua Inner game experiment
Ive understood a bit on attraction switches, beliefs and now Im trying to keep my beliefs consistent.
I have an issue, I can feel good today and I can feel apathetic tomorow, my comfort game mimics the girls at deep levels sometimes , to build deep rapport so I tend to pickup on their bad habits.So Im minimizing deep rapport mindgames I use.
but Ive listend to other affirmations CD and hypnotics CD's.
the problem is that when I normally think or talk to myself, I tend to hear my own voice.... NOT those other people.
So I decided to make my own CD, throwing a set of affirmations and stacking it progressively with a hypnotic voice and different levels of voice tone . So when I talk about ALPHA or I increase my voice, and when I talk about feeling comfortable in challengin situations I say it in a relaxed tone of voice.
Im going to make it as generalized and not sorely focused on seduction but part of it will.
I think it can keep me motivated and make it a habit to think that way so that I can act subconciously.... anywyas its like talking to myself since its my own voice, body and mind will reckognize it as Im AFFIRMING IT.
the law of "ACT as IF " will take in effect.
So I got to go bros,
I havent heard from bathroom pull girl , I trying to figure out what I messed up. differentiating SNL game opporutnity VS D2's
sometimes if you let her emotions wither away and she forgets you, she will lose attraction. thats why In part I did SNL but most of my success where D2's and the girls did all the work to meet up. when I persistet to meet up things would stale or come on too try hard or too sexually strong. sometimes thats good thing , game isnt 100% acurate and all girls arent the same in sexual comfort.
Im going to look into it and work on it.
talk laters,
-S
Ive been reading in my spare time.
I looked backed on what things I did to get stupidly crazy results without really thinking what I was doing.
It had to do alot with Swinggcatt's Beliefs section on his CD set.
Beliefs are so important that once ingrained in your brain, all the bodylanguage and subtl stuff comes off natural and congruent.
Like I said before , Congruence in being an attractive guy is part of the attraction switch. Its powerful that you wont even notice shit tests anymore or wont get them in inital stages once you get attraction.
I had that minor relapse of AFC'ish or better said Low self esteem. weight, lifestyle, and unworthiness due to not living how I want, obstacles presented in terms of school which keep me MENTALLY away from reaching my goals..
Like in persuasion books Ive been reading, sometimes to get what you want requieres sacrifice. Like in my training and excersize, I slacked off a bit and it cost me. Im maintaining focus to reach my goal and build passive value.
dealing with my parents is also one of em. A-ROCK!, I remember you gave me awesome advice to get your objective to play a role and play along. Im learning that and keeping my inner game self unaffected and just keeping my eyes set on my goals and whats important to me in my LIFE.
if you guys can input on this , that would be awesome.
NLP STUFF, SS w comfort game: proper way to use and learn them.
As I realized some things of my game coming back, I can really hit nail in a date.My humor and self esteem and vibing is rolling.
Its weird how I after a rejection , is like a spike of rush instead of feeling down....like a challenge or gets me going...is it weird? :)
Mehow wrote in his book on comfort and NLP.
"First know the structure and after success , then integrate advanced accelarators"
I think this is true.
I was reading an old old old pdf, from a old old old student of Ross Jeffries of Speed Seduction.He was his TOP student.
Bishop.
I dont know if you guys have looked into it, Im actually trying to get some of his pdf and material stuff through torrent sites.
but Its been tough.
He actually goes over his successes in written form and how he used Speed Seduction within his game to seduce women.
to me SS, is sugar coating on confort game. and its obvious that in reading this guys game , its like 20% of SS, and he uncoinciously does the rest.
really intersting, if you guys know about him or can get in his torrent of material , hook it up :)
Ross doesnt explain how to use it, he focus on what its composed off and gives a few examples.
Secret is knowing or calibrating when to use it and how modify it to use to relate w the girl to work.
its basically a stck of patterns that comes from her keywords and anchoring positive feelings to you.
in female psycology she will say "I dont know but when Im around him , I feel excited , I cant figure out why I kindah like him"
SANDROSpua Inner game experiment
Ive understood a bit on attraction switches, beliefs and now Im trying to keep my beliefs consistent.
I have an issue, I can feel good today and I can feel apathetic tomorow, my comfort game mimics the girls at deep levels sometimes , to build deep rapport so I tend to pickup on their bad habits.So Im minimizing deep rapport mindgames I use.
but Ive listend to other affirmations CD and hypnotics CD's.
the problem is that when I normally think or talk to myself, I tend to hear my own voice.... NOT those other people.
So I decided to make my own CD, throwing a set of affirmations and stacking it progressively with a hypnotic voice and different levels of voice tone . So when I talk about ALPHA or I increase my voice, and when I talk about feeling comfortable in challengin situations I say it in a relaxed tone of voice.
Im going to make it as generalized and not sorely focused on seduction but part of it will.
I think it can keep me motivated and make it a habit to think that way so that I can act subconciously.... anywyas its like talking to myself since its my own voice, body and mind will reckognize it as Im AFFIRMING IT.
the law of "ACT as IF " will take in effect.
So I got to go bros,
I havent heard from bathroom pull girl , I trying to figure out what I messed up. differentiating SNL game opporutnity VS D2's
sometimes if you let her emotions wither away and she forgets you, she will lose attraction. thats why In part I did SNL but most of my success where D2's and the girls did all the work to meet up. when I persistet to meet up things would stale or come on too try hard or too sexually strong. sometimes thats good thing , game isnt 100% acurate and all girls arent the same in sexual comfort.
Im going to look into it and work on it.
talk laters,
-S
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