In one of my all-time favorite shows, “How I Met Your Mother,” there’s an absolutely hilarious character named Barney Stinson that is obviously based off a pick-up artist. I’m aware that it’s just a TV show, but many of his observations coincide with mine – namely, his hot-crazy graph; basically, the hotter the girl is, the more willing men are to put up with her crazy.
Unfortunately, I’m here to tell you guys that many, many beautiful and hot women come with a prescription for extra-strength CRAZY.
I’ve dated a Playboy cybermodel, pinup model, fashion runway model, strippers and dancers, cocktail waitresses, shot girls, pageant queens and the gamut of hot crazy messes both high and low.
Former ABCs of Attraction Wing-Girl turned Playboy Model: Claire
I’m also friends with many a beautiful porn star, actress, and even one of our former ABCs of Attraction wing-girls is now Playboy’s Miss October! So I think I can safely say that I have a pretty good sample size to base my, admittedly, subjective observations on.
I’m just listing out these characteristics so that you know what to expect once you actually learn how to successfully attract, approach, seduce and date highly beautiful, attractive women.
Not all of them are hot crazy messes so it’s doubtful that the attractive model you’re dating (or hope to date), has all ten of these traits (and woe be unto you if she does), but here are a few habits that I’ve seen time and time again. REMEMBER: You can’t change a person if she doesn’t want to change and you shouldn’t try. So don’t be Captain Save’a'Ho.
10 Signs You’re Dating a Hot Crazy Mess of a Model
She’s Totally Self-Centered: Now I say this neither to be mean nor to indicate that they are bad people, but as I always say, if you can think from a woman’s perspective, you’ll be better off. Now I want you to imagine growing up as a small child and everyone was nice to you. Everyone bought you gifts, everyone did you favors, everyone was considerate towards you. You were never ever the last person to be picked in sports or projects and everyone wanted to be around you. That’s the life of an incredibly beautiful woman. The reason they’re self-centered is because they’re literally the center of the universe to so many people and have no reason to think otherwise. This, combined with Habit #3, also explain why she’s comes off as a complete flake. Not because she’s being mean or cruel about it (although that could also be the case), or using you (although that too could be the case), but stuff happens and something or someone with a bigger and better date came along and swept her away in a fit of spontaneity, alphaness, high value, and dominance.
She’s A Natural Flirt: They’re highly sociable and socialized. I’ve known these girls that will flirt with not only the most handsome male models but with penniless strangers off the street with equal abandon and opportunity. Whether you’re a tall White guy or a short, fobby Asian man, these girls are completely willing to talk about anything to anyone simply because they don’t know any other way to behave. Approach anxiety is a completely foreign concept in their minds, and they don’t even know what it means from the man’s perspective (which also explains why it’s EASIER talking to more attractive women than unattractive women). Everyone in the world is willing to talk to them and they love to talk right back. If you’re dating her, you might mistakenly think she’s hitting on random men (although she may very well be), but you shouldn’t automatically assume so otherwise you’ll come off as insecure.
She’s Always Late: These girls will be late to their own funerals. Part of it, you might assume, is because they’re selfish and self centered (see Habit #1)… and you would not be completely wrong. However, it’s not always like that – she’s constantly late because everywhere she goes, things are happening around and to her on an hourly basis. People are always doing her favors, talking to her, and her phone is blowing up (see Habit #6). She’s constantly being “accosted” and to her it’s an everyday, normal occurrence. The simple act of walking to the grocery store can become an adventure for them as every step they take, someone’s approaching her or an orbiter is calling her on her phone or a Facebook creeper is stalking her profile. That’s how they live their lives and that’s why women thrive on drama – their lives are never boring, but they’re never punctual, either.
She’s A Schemer: One thing I have seen with beautiful girls is that, even though a ridiculous amount of crap happens to them, somehow things come to fruition. I’ve heard the craziest schemes on how to get rich…and then they do become rich (or at least in the temporary possession of money), albeit not by that particular plan. I have also been party to the most well-orchestrated plan that would rival D-Day and the storming of Normandy, all to be dismissed at the vagaries and whims of these gorgeous tacticians. In other words, they’re always doing something that typically involves the assistance of random strangers, orbiters, acquaintances, friends, lovers, and wannabe lovers that, eventually, in a manner similar to “Ocean’s Eleven,” enough things come together to make something work for them. Hell, I’ve been lost in a non-English speaking country where I didn’t speak the language and simply having a beautiful girlfriend on my arm helped me get an amazing police escort to the city and free luxury hotel stay. It’s as if they lived a charmed life.
She’s Completely Disorganized: This doesn’t end at work or play – from their professional to personal lives, everything is one big, jumbled, hot mess. I cannot count the times I’ve driven in an exotic dancer’s nomadic SUVs where they hold their entirety of their lives to the beautiful model couch-surfing at a friend’s house. Not only do these hot girls not have their crap together, they simply can’t get it together. This may have a lot to do with them being used to everything being done for them; they never learned enough practical life skills to be able to keep things in order.
She’s Attached To Her Phone: These hot girls can’t escape the constant explosions they get from people via calls, texts, Facebook, Twitter…it never ends with them! Girls screen their phone calls – it’s no secret – but it’s because if they don’t, they’d be on the phone ALL DAY LONG. It’s not uncommon for them to go to bed and wake up eight hours later with several new friend requests and followers, numerous texts, and dozens of Facebook notifications (at least half of which are random losers hitting on them). It’s imperative to understand that people are constantly contacting her and wanting to be in contact with her. You cannot hope to socially isolate her; not only is it impossible, you’ll just come off as a possessive, controlling, soon-to-be-ex boyfriend. (One tactic I’ve used before is to simply take out the battery on her phone, that way she just thinks her phone died ergo no interruptus coitus)
She’s Either Loved Or Hated: Their beauty and sexuality elicits immediate polarizing reactions in people. Men will obviously become instantly attracted to them, but it also polarizes guys to become either more aggressive and act upon their natural instincts or too terrified to do anything more than stare. Women will also react in a similar fashion; they’ll either try to be incredibly nice and be the drone bee to her queen bee or they will hate her – both behind her back and to her face. One of the most hilarious bed & breakfast weekend getaways I’ve had with a beautiful girl was where every single old lady hated her; we literally could not get a break because all the old people hated her and they weren’t shy about it either!
Facial Expressions and Non-Verbal Communication are more important than Verbal Game
She’s Physically & Facially Expressive: Maybe it’s all the practice they get from making their “O face,” but these beautiful women know how to communicate without words. They understand the power of their smiles, the way they cock their heads and the smolder in their eyes. They can communicate more with their face and body language than any so-called Pick Up Artist with his canned routines and DHVs. Non-verbal game is more important than verbal game and they know how to work both.
She’s Over-Sexualized: For these beautiful girls, there’s more than one kind of sex. Sometimes they have sex because they want the guy, because they’re simply horny and find something to their standards, or because they want to make sure they can still get cock-on-call. Whatever the reason, sex doesn’t always have the same meaning for them. Beautiful women are typically VERY good in bed because they’ve obviously had a lot of practice (obviously there are exceptions which is always very, very disappointing); sex for them does not have to have the high emotional bonding as they might have with someone else. It doesn’t mean she’s cheating on you (although she could be), it just means beautiful women always have the OPTION to have sex with any guy (although that’s not the point for her, she wants to have sex with “the one guy”).
She’s Her Body’s Worst Enemy: Whether it be food, wine or your sperm, crazy beautiful women know how to throw up to keep their weight down. More than half of women in the United States have some sort of body dysmorphia during their lifetime, where they perceive themselves as fat or are fearful of getting fat. Even though you think they’re beautiful, when they look in the mirror, they see imperfections and flaws galore. Taking action by throwing up, insane dieting and exercise plans or ingesting laxatives, their goddess-like bodies come at a very high personal cost.
To be fair, these beautiful train wrecks are simply a product of their upbringing, but they are just that – gorgeous, yet crazy.
Keeping up with her is no easy task, but it can also be one of the most entertaining and hilarious experiences you’ve ever had.
If you have yet to date one of these kinds of women, I highly recommend getting your game together and trying it out, in the very least to be able to say you’ve dated Playboy model material.
Showing posts with label Saffron. Show all posts
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Thursday, April 28, 2011
Saturday, December 18, 2010
badboy's 2 advices that make you really good....great tips on game and emotional calibration
is the advice of going out and make her night.....I used this when I got LMR and couldnt close , and used BT spiking to make her feel awesome and happy.. I was happy myself, this is awesome advice.
Neediness energy, forget seduction ...... this is important to project. My first sticking points were seeking rapport who SAFFRON detected. I credit him with this, once m,y subcommunicacion became non needy it created the girl to react to me.
also as a bonus.......
talk about her feelings the way she feels.....
this is crucial and he is vague about it but its the pillar of NLP and her stae and controlling her emotions..
you become the harp player, the pied piper to her emotions...
I use only humour and sexual and confusion with some RSD Routines from TIM and RYAN's verbal attraction..
I avoid talking about low or sad things ..maybe for door pattern but for tother stuff I dont, I disagree with TOPO on this..... I do use CJs heartmelters but only 1, also I dont over qualify, CJ uses 1 or 2 , I used one big one and cosmo routine so no need to talk alot..unless its revvelant to her personality and or conversation to deepend her incvesting or talking....conversational skills itself is included qualifiers.
YAD in his infield video doesnt qualify, saffron qualify as chalengeing after comfort and attraction..to get her chasing him....this i used to do alot. best way ...push pull : )
badboy He uses different emotions...I tried but not had success.
Neediness energy, forget seduction ...... this is important to project. My first sticking points were seeking rapport who SAFFRON detected. I credit him with this, once m,y subcommunicacion became non needy it created the girl to react to me.
also as a bonus.......
talk about her feelings the way she feels.....
this is crucial and he is vague about it but its the pillar of NLP and her stae and controlling her emotions..
you become the harp player, the pied piper to her emotions...
I use only humour and sexual and confusion with some RSD Routines from TIM and RYAN's verbal attraction..
I avoid talking about low or sad things ..maybe for door pattern but for tother stuff I dont, I disagree with TOPO on this..... I do use CJs heartmelters but only 1, also I dont over qualify, CJ uses 1 or 2 , I used one big one and cosmo routine so no need to talk alot..unless its revvelant to her personality and or conversation to deepend her incvesting or talking....conversational skills itself is included qualifiers.
YAD in his infield video doesnt qualify, saffron qualify as chalengeing after comfort and attraction..to get her chasing him....this i used to do alot. best way ...push pull : )
badboy He uses different emotions...I tried but not had success.
Friday, December 17, 2010
screening question? I spit fire on a qualification frame to get her attracted NLP
Yo I dont like your pic.
anyways I litedn to Seduction Sceince CDs i had past pdf of Seducion Scince v.1.
I screen women but I qualify or do it non verbally...depends man.
what is your thoughts or interpreation of screening to you?
Like I mentioned you can screen out girls who arent looking for sex, not compatible with....?
or you are screening to see how to seduce her...or even screen her to use qualification or compliance frame of
"I'm prize and who are you my dear?"
I use this , , its ILL son,Im telling you, verbal verbal tight game son ...iI laced it with some NLP in it..potent son..
My private screening question is :
please calibrate when using this: credit Saffron pua nyc*
"you are really sexy and cute"
HER : I know every guy says that to me thats lame
ME:" but I mean other girls are pretty too what is unique about you ...
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (point to self),
want for him to know about you, what makes you importantly unique and sexy about yourself ?"
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (hand on your chest, then remove),
want for him to know about you?......
what is that something he should know about you , that would make you feel sexy about yourself ?"
If she responds you have baited her inot your frame and she assumes as she has responded will assume she is attracted to you...you have to reward and then break on a high point to have her then invest into talking to you more and she will feel attracted.
anyways I litedn to Seduction Sceince CDs i had past pdf of Seducion Scince v.1.
I screen women but I qualify or do it non verbally...depends man.
what is your thoughts or interpreation of screening to you?
Like I mentioned you can screen out girls who arent looking for sex, not compatible with....?
or you are screening to see how to seduce her...or even screen her to use qualification or compliance frame of
"I'm prize and who are you my dear?"
I use this , , its ILL son,Im telling you, verbal verbal tight game son ...iI laced it with some NLP in it..potent son..
My private screening question is :
please calibrate when using this: credit Saffron pua nyc*
"you are really sexy and cute"
HER : I know every guy says that to me thats lame
ME:" but I mean other girls are pretty too what is unique about you ...
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (point to self),
want for him to know about you, what makes you importantly unique and sexy about yourself ?"
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (hand on your chest, then remove),
want for him to know about you?......
what is that something he should know about you , that would make you feel sexy about yourself ?"
If she responds you have baited her inot your frame and she assumes as she has responded will assume she is attracted to you...you have to reward and then break on a high point to have her then invest into talking to you more and she will feel attracted.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
continued arrousal - D-boy told me once and Ecks told me also, others FRanco ,60, sleazy,Gunwitch, bradp, RJ'stuff
ECKS was told by saffron to do this in 2008-
he told me to read love systems routines manual, and stuff by gunwitch. at the same time, i'm trying to not get too bogged down reading all this shit. then i'm just in my head all the time. magic bullets is good stuff though, their phone section helped me out.
D-boy told me this :
check out franco's stuff
Aaron Sleazy
Brad P
D-boy said :
Quote:
attraction comfort seduction
This is fine, I do it as well.
I want to propose a few concepts to you that are crucial.. tell me how you apply them, and if you do apply them or what you think of them:
- she should want it more
- you have a life, aside from the community and the girl you want
- the girl is SECONDARY to your priorities
- you feel the same way during a PU with a hot girl, as you would with making a new guy friend... you just let things roll naturally, and don't try to force anything (aka, investing too much)
- you VIBE. I define vibe like this:
vibe is when both of you are equally invested in one another (aka, you both like eachother), but the woman is slightly investing more into you. It could be as simple as, she is investing on your withdrawals.
- escalate on IOIs from women.
Quote:
but I run deep comfort and go sexual
how does a typical PU go for you?
what is the location, how long are you in set, what are you saying, what are they doing that signifies they are interested in you, how do you go sexual, etc?
I suggest you go to www.fastseduction.com and read:
zarathustra_fi archive
Sleazy archive
Brad P. archive
also, I suggest you stop thinking of a pick up in a linear way.. i.e.: attract, comfort, seduce.
think of it as one, with different pathways.
Quote:
and they get buyers remorse or feel they connected ad just a friend.
elaborate on the buyers remorse.
if you are getting the friend thing, you are probably being to nice and are not being a THREAT.
as Franco says, leaders:
imprudent (they do not give a fuck)
can make small rapport with people
do you feel do you that?
imprudence can be many things.. negs, C&F, slapping a girls ass, etc, wearing black nails, etc.
Quote:
before that i was doing just attraction and qualifiacation and chit caht and try to close.
this is what you should do:
structure an opportunity for a woman where you put your cards out on the table allowing her to accept, or decline.
if she declines, move on. do not try to figure out how to make it work.
this will also save you a lot of time.
How do you do this?
I suggest you drop a lot of planning, or gaming and just understand the fundamentals (which I suspect you already do) and apply them.
so, go out, have fun, treat all girls like little children, have minimal expectations, and see where the night goes, etc.
Quote:
I know how to physically escalate i sometimes over do it.
yeah, I've done this to. don't worry about it.
whenever I feel the desire to do too much, I always think:
"WHO WANTS IT MORE?"
if the answer is me, I withdraw to save my cards.
Quote:
"its better to over escalate then not escalate" jeffy rsd
yes, in the proper circumstance.
it is better to stick a hand down a girls pants if she grabs your cock, rather than just hug her or something...
that is the context of his statement.
Quote:
they all lose interest..its like Im finally getting female friends or female aquantences but Im not getting laid or its going nowhere..like an orbiter.
you probably are investing too much.
tell me more about a typical PU for you.
-D-Boy__________________
--------------------------------------------------
Other guys are saying gunwitch as per asian playboy
Sleazy and 60 work plus Franco all are congruent.
I will check out their style, sleazy and 60 and gunwitch.
I will down load RJ sexual arrousal cause he uses SRT
briefly and anchours.....
Would you like to know how to take a woman’s initial “doggy dinner” bowl response-her first twinges of interest and responding… and rapidly accelerate it into panty-melting, legs-wide, begging for it desire? Would you like to be able to cut your seduction time as much as 50%, even if you are already an advanced student, with mastery of my best and most currently advanced stuff, such as the Palo Alto 2002 Hyper-Response Videos!
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This amazing DVD will teach you:
* Word for word languaging to generate hypnotic lust and desire filters through which a woman will view you so you appear incredibly desirable, attractive and sexy through her eyes! (Watch out with this because a woman could very easily fall not just in lust, but in love!)
* Word for word languaging to direct initial feelings into direct erotic energy flows that open her deep level/primitive mating consciousness, evoking the raw, natural woman.(This is a huge advance on the current Dark Sun/ Gemini pattern)
* Word for word language to generate sexual imagery that loops in her mind, rehearsing the behaviors you want her to have, so they appear perfectly natural when it is time to act on them
* How to incorporate unexpected responses and use them to actually add power, direction and finesse to the seduction!
* Perhaps most enjoyable, a word for word scenario you can use within the first 5 minutes of conversation to generate incredible desire, connection and lust; my brand new “Twin Brothers” pattern. Incredible for breaking the ice AND getting the amazingly strong responses you really want and especially valuable and useful for women of much younger age!
* For you fans and users of SRT(Signal Recognition Technology), a way to covertly use SRT, without having to use the elicitation questions, that guarantees a response at least 300% to 500% greater than the question/elicitation method. In fact, I would say this breakthrough constitutes a “war-winning” technology; something to tip the balance with the previously least responsive women and something to make already responsive women massively more responsive. It fits in well with almost any other SS pattern or technique you use to generate the initial response; poems, erotic touch, visualization, anything. Stumbled on it one night during a phone conversation with a young lady who had been giving me a real run for the money, but it really did the trick and has done so since!
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Piece and Peace,
RJ
adavnced comfort game.
Cool....
he told me to read love systems routines manual, and stuff by gunwitch. at the same time, i'm trying to not get too bogged down reading all this shit. then i'm just in my head all the time. magic bullets is good stuff though, their phone section helped me out.
D-boy told me this :
check out franco's stuff
Aaron Sleazy
Brad P
D-boy said :
Quote:
attraction comfort seduction
This is fine, I do it as well.
I want to propose a few concepts to you that are crucial.. tell me how you apply them, and if you do apply them or what you think of them:
- she should want it more
- you have a life, aside from the community and the girl you want
- the girl is SECONDARY to your priorities
- you feel the same way during a PU with a hot girl, as you would with making a new guy friend... you just let things roll naturally, and don't try to force anything (aka, investing too much)
- you VIBE. I define vibe like this:
vibe is when both of you are equally invested in one another (aka, you both like eachother), but the woman is slightly investing more into you. It could be as simple as, she is investing on your withdrawals.
- escalate on IOIs from women.
Quote:
but I run deep comfort and go sexual
how does a typical PU go for you?
what is the location, how long are you in set, what are you saying, what are they doing that signifies they are interested in you, how do you go sexual, etc?
I suggest you go to www.fastseduction.com and read:
zarathustra_fi archive
Sleazy archive
Brad P. archive
also, I suggest you stop thinking of a pick up in a linear way.. i.e.: attract, comfort, seduce.
think of it as one, with different pathways.
Quote:
and they get buyers remorse or feel they connected ad just a friend.
elaborate on the buyers remorse.
if you are getting the friend thing, you are probably being to nice and are not being a THREAT.
as Franco says, leaders:
imprudent (they do not give a fuck)
can make small rapport with people
do you feel do you that?
imprudence can be many things.. negs, C&F, slapping a girls ass, etc, wearing black nails, etc.
Quote:
before that i was doing just attraction and qualifiacation and chit caht and try to close.
this is what you should do:
structure an opportunity for a woman where you put your cards out on the table allowing her to accept, or decline.
if she declines, move on. do not try to figure out how to make it work.
this will also save you a lot of time.
How do you do this?
I suggest you drop a lot of planning, or gaming and just understand the fundamentals (which I suspect you already do) and apply them.
so, go out, have fun, treat all girls like little children, have minimal expectations, and see where the night goes, etc.
Quote:
I know how to physically escalate i sometimes over do it.
yeah, I've done this to. don't worry about it.
whenever I feel the desire to do too much, I always think:
"WHO WANTS IT MORE?"
if the answer is me, I withdraw to save my cards.
Quote:
"its better to over escalate then not escalate" jeffy rsd
yes, in the proper circumstance.
it is better to stick a hand down a girls pants if she grabs your cock, rather than just hug her or something...
that is the context of his statement.
Quote:
they all lose interest..its like Im finally getting female friends or female aquantences but Im not getting laid or its going nowhere..like an orbiter.
you probably are investing too much.
tell me more about a typical PU for you.
-D-Boy__________________
--------------------------------------------------
Other guys are saying gunwitch as per asian playboy
Sleazy and 60 work plus Franco all are congruent.
I will check out their style, sleazy and 60 and gunwitch.
I will down load RJ sexual arrousal cause he uses SRT
briefly and anchours.....
Would you like to know how to take a woman’s initial “doggy dinner” bowl response-her first twinges of interest and responding… and rapidly accelerate it into panty-melting, legs-wide, begging for it desire? Would you like to be able to cut your seduction time as much as 50%, even if you are already an advanced student, with mastery of my best and most currently advanced stuff, such as the Palo Alto 2002 Hyper-Response Videos!
If you are answering yes..if you can imagine walking into any situation and having your biggest problem be the logistics of where you close the deal with that super-hot girl, as opposed to if and how you are going to close her, this brand spanking-new, nearly two hour DVD filmed live at the 2004 London seminar will thrill the hell out of you.
Two Super-Sexy, Female Volunteers Make This Product An Easy To Follow
Easy To Understand, Easy To Apply Product You’ll Want To View Over And Over!
Look; what makes this product so great are not just the very slick, very advanced language applications you learn from me as you watch it, but the two VERY hot, incredibly responsive female volunteers; one a stunning Braizlian brunette and the other a very well built, super-responsive Kenyan beauty.
You can literally watch these woman cumming on stage as I demonstrate mind-blowing application after mind-blowing application of very latest and best Speed Seduction® technology. (What makes it even more interesting is, both of these women were brought to the seminar by men who were watching from the audience the entire time!)
This amazing DVD will teach you:
* Word for word languaging to generate hypnotic lust and desire filters through which a woman will view you so you appear incredibly desirable, attractive and sexy through her eyes! (Watch out with this because a woman could very easily fall not just in lust, but in love!)
* Word for word languaging to direct initial feelings into direct erotic energy flows that open her deep level/primitive mating consciousness, evoking the raw, natural woman.(This is a huge advance on the current Dark Sun/ Gemini pattern)
* Word for word language to generate sexual imagery that loops in her mind, rehearsing the behaviors you want her to have, so they appear perfectly natural when it is time to act on them
* How to incorporate unexpected responses and use them to actually add power, direction and finesse to the seduction!
* Perhaps most enjoyable, a word for word scenario you can use within the first 5 minutes of conversation to generate incredible desire, connection and lust; my brand new “Twin Brothers” pattern. Incredible for breaking the ice AND getting the amazingly strong responses you really want and especially valuable and useful for women of much younger age!
* For you fans and users of SRT(Signal Recognition Technology), a way to covertly use SRT, without having to use the elicitation questions, that guarantees a response at least 300% to 500% greater than the question/elicitation method. In fact, I would say this breakthrough constitutes a “war-winning” technology; something to tip the balance with the previously least responsive women and something to make already responsive women massively more responsive. It fits in well with almost any other SS pattern or technique you use to generate the initial response; poems, erotic touch, visualization, anything. Stumbled on it one night during a phone conversation with a young lady who had been giving me a real run for the money, but it really did the trick and has done so since!
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adavnced comfort game.
Cool....
Thursday, April 15, 2010
before PU game its head game FIRST
Mindset is important, its to get you motivated and concentrated on your work.
social interactions is important as well.
whatever is in your head can make it or break it, in life and with girls.
My friend said "turn shit into fertilizer"
"turn negativity OFF it doesnt take you anywhere"
Plus the concept of the power of engaement and time management and being proactive , closer mentality which is MOVING THINGS FORWARD!!!!!!
GEtting your goals, being active and hungry for success to live comfortably and enjoy life.
its like excersize to get in shape, takes sacrifice dedication to get there.
right tools right knowledge you can,
My trainer said "its all about consistency and persistant" "sticking to what works"
"nutrition is key" Tom vennuto is the BIBLE of INNERGAME
If you use it for pickup its effective, reading ti wont make you skinny but doing excersizes and nutrition how the concept is and applying it to a habit,
right now Im doing AIKIDO DIET.
Almost like atkins
all protein, actually alot of protein intake with suplements
and on days I train I eat carbs example:
one wheat bread, half a cup of oatmeal and half a tuna can size of yam.
NO RICE NO PASTA< NO BEANS< NO RED MEAT, NO FRUITS.
so game IS like a muscle like entropy says...
freakin ENTROPY :)
Guys get too wrapped up in learning game and get weird, gain knowledge and cant approach for shit.
So Im going to relax with the reading.
I remember I look into coaching and reading once I knew and looked up the topic what I was failing..
I went to strip club and stoof there got IOIs seem real but did takeaway,not too easy or eager cute girl.... as soon as I got JK Ellis and Lew Payne's book on Stripper Secrets read first page saw diagram and I actually sat right places!!!:)
So my intuition is correct!!! Im a natural :)
SO I have to stop overeactign and overanalyzing myself, thats keep me back.
the fuck up and learn method as a I go since I know women and have experience rather than read on it and stay stuck.
so like Franco says, limit you mind BOX not put too much information....do more than read.
So BADBOY IS right about weird guys in coomunity and I was one hell of weird guy,
Allycat helped me become normal and contrl myself, I actually modelled myself afer him.
So being normal is better than being weird or scripted
from normal its easy to be cool, not try hard cool.
Topo demonstrates its about subcommunications of how you potray your attractive qualities.
lets not go into too much detail on that.LOL. he over does it.
I follow SAFFRON's walk , thought and competitveness. his bodylanguage has helped me.
"I SAFFRON ,THE SEX GOD" "you can call me MASTER" :)
SAFFRON!!!!
that being said....
anyways here is what I sent CJ,
Thanks for introducing me to sedona method,
I read the book and did excersizes but now is when Im starting to be more aware of the whole concept and
Im trying to use it as a leverage to get me away from emotional cloud and being focus on my goal or even in PU , on just being proactive moving things forward.
In the begining ,I'd get relaxed and control my emotions. and positive thoughts stayed, but I realized later that i was indeed feeling happy but I wasnt proactive.or taking action after it.
I noticed NOW since Ive been under alot of stress trying to apply to finish school.. etc aka problem solving or sticking points
the power Im getting is when I breath like deep breaths and clear my head ,
then I tell myself or talk myself about the feelings or emotions aka RUN sedona method
and feel honest about myself without being low self esteem about it,( you know bro? )
then after that I ask myself "what do I need to do to solve this problem?" or "How do I solve it to make it work for me "
I then drink water or sit down an relax and i start getting ideas on how to improve of angles of problem solving.
in my case , papaerwork or ways to get back into school and finish.
anyways, whated to share if you kindah understand what I mean :)
but now thinking this might help in the area of mindset (innergame) when doing sticking point analysis for pu.
just a thought,
Cool :)
-S-
social interactions is important as well.
whatever is in your head can make it or break it, in life and with girls.
My friend said "turn shit into fertilizer"
"turn negativity OFF it doesnt take you anywhere"
Plus the concept of the power of engaement and time management and being proactive , closer mentality which is MOVING THINGS FORWARD!!!!!!
GEtting your goals, being active and hungry for success to live comfortably and enjoy life.
its like excersize to get in shape, takes sacrifice dedication to get there.
right tools right knowledge you can,
My trainer said "its all about consistency and persistant" "sticking to what works"
"nutrition is key" Tom vennuto is the BIBLE of INNERGAME
If you use it for pickup its effective, reading ti wont make you skinny but doing excersizes and nutrition how the concept is and applying it to a habit,
right now Im doing AIKIDO DIET.
Almost like atkins
all protein, actually alot of protein intake with suplements
and on days I train I eat carbs example:
one wheat bread, half a cup of oatmeal and half a tuna can size of yam.
NO RICE NO PASTA< NO BEANS< NO RED MEAT, NO FRUITS.
so game IS like a muscle like entropy says...
freakin ENTROPY :)
Guys get too wrapped up in learning game and get weird, gain knowledge and cant approach for shit.
So Im going to relax with the reading.
I remember I look into coaching and reading once I knew and looked up the topic what I was failing..
I went to strip club and stoof there got IOIs seem real but did takeaway,not too easy or eager cute girl.... as soon as I got JK Ellis and Lew Payne's book on Stripper Secrets read first page saw diagram and I actually sat right places!!!:)
So my intuition is correct!!! Im a natural :)
SO I have to stop overeactign and overanalyzing myself, thats keep me back.
the fuck up and learn method as a I go since I know women and have experience rather than read on it and stay stuck.
so like Franco says, limit you mind BOX not put too much information....do more than read.
So BADBOY IS right about weird guys in coomunity and I was one hell of weird guy,
Allycat helped me become normal and contrl myself, I actually modelled myself afer him.
So being normal is better than being weird or scripted
from normal its easy to be cool, not try hard cool.
Topo demonstrates its about subcommunications of how you potray your attractive qualities.
lets not go into too much detail on that.LOL. he over does it.
I follow SAFFRON's walk , thought and competitveness. his bodylanguage has helped me.
"I SAFFRON ,THE SEX GOD" "you can call me MASTER" :)
SAFFRON!!!!
that being said....
anyways here is what I sent CJ,
Thanks for introducing me to sedona method,
I read the book and did excersizes but now is when Im starting to be more aware of the whole concept and
Im trying to use it as a leverage to get me away from emotional cloud and being focus on my goal or even in PU , on just being proactive moving things forward.
In the begining ,I'd get relaxed and control my emotions. and positive thoughts stayed, but I realized later that i was indeed feeling happy but I wasnt proactive.or taking action after it.
I noticed NOW since Ive been under alot of stress trying to apply to finish school.. etc aka problem solving or sticking points
the power Im getting is when I breath like deep breaths and clear my head ,
then I tell myself or talk myself about the feelings or emotions aka RUN sedona method
and feel honest about myself without being low self esteem about it,( you know bro? )
then after that I ask myself "what do I need to do to solve this problem?" or "How do I solve it to make it work for me "
I then drink water or sit down an relax and i start getting ideas on how to improve of angles of problem solving.
in my case , papaerwork or ways to get back into school and finish.
anyways, whated to share if you kindah understand what I mean :)
but now thinking this might help in the area of mindset (innergame) when doing sticking point analysis for pu.
just a thought,
Cool :)
-S-
Stop READING part 2 Solid GAME dont stop using what works
I had success in d2's months ago but Im getting overwhelmed with how different it seems to seduce strippers and Im scared to "information overload" with reading since Im getting back into the game after being away for awhile from pu.I dont want to lose what I leanred so far in general, cause trying to get it back has been an uphill battle.
In other words, I have a structure of what works and in the past when I treid learning something new I have experience that as Im going and practicing it and as Im warmed up, then I can add, just to add momentum so I wont get overwhelmed.
SOLID game is my base,like safforn said. SOLID GAME,SOLID GAME.
once you are warmed up and inner state is ready...then to add momentum you can take things to the next level.
You worked hard for it , dont change what works.
Trust me its comon sense and trial tested thing.
all other modifications should be situational adjustments not a replacement .
My trainer told me : keep doing what you are doing dont change...later on we might sped things up but keep progress steady , we might spike a thing s here and there but this nutrition should be you SOLID BASE that we want to keep going.
Saffron said once , that Solid game is always played and used.
FUCK MYSTERY
Solid game should always underline any pickup.
Saffron would see opporunitys com his way to accelerate things but to calibrate he would rely on his solid game.
So STop reading and go out My head is blocked due to information overload.
I think not reading and just doing other stuff that are my prioirities and keep me in social mode. helps me.
If I go out not think game just relax and let it be , then writting it and a day later ala CJ until I get back into momentum or rhythm again.
I know its uphill battle in away but its going to be worth it.
Seriosuly, PU and training for muscle building and getting in shape has a balance.
when you arent in the gym dont over analyze, if you have ideas to push forward then thats good, its a gift and write it down.
if you arent practicing fgoing to the gym then dont overthink it,
it sounds you have too much time on your hands and are looking to get distracted.
DONT!
When you are in the gym, you are Foccused ,saffron said perfect practice makes perfect.
seriosuly reading PUA stuff are like Carbs
I cant overindeulge on carbs
I cant blame people I m asking for help If Im not doing it.
BEST way to get coaching is when you are aware what you are doing and are doing it and feel stuck and cant understand.
At this point now w stripper game, Im being overanalytical with anxiety of the unknown, its normal but I should control it.
its like what adam said about approach anxiety and overload with the spiders to lose fear.
I have to lose fear first and fuck up and then ask help.
Tahts the ONLY WAY COACHING CAN BE EFFECTIVE.
Rest is waste of time and money and end up confussed.
Ive dont it before I know my shit, Ive slept with women, rn perfect game. had 4 lays in a month rotation in new york, thats 1 new girl a week without counting the times Ive had repeated sex with them.
So Its doable, like LES BRWON THE BARRIERS ARE BROKEN,
if they broke it and Ive broken it then it can be broken again.
SEDUCTION IS EASY
Im going to erase my ipod of stuff and go back to basics like ROCKY III and just focus on my beliefs....
Its a lil push I need and I have to fight the desire to want it.
Inside will determine the outside for it to become automatic.
Im realizing Entropy is great coach.
La TRipp is great coach,
Sinn is a great coach, expensive great coach.
CJ is great guy with experience advanced knowledge to go next level.
TOPO has great stuff but its different style or too advanced, I have to be warmed up and give him FR or material to take information from him, once he gets abstract he sounds like vague "be yourslef man" its true but frustrating anoying.
Might ask for hammer for help.lol.
let me wait a couple of days and
literarly unclutter my thoughts and my room.
do the paperwork needed to send it tomorrow, today is clearing up you mind day ....
DONT GIVE UP or GET LAZY!!!!!!!!!
If you have to rest a little do so , but be sparked with energy to be proactive, this is mission
Like the video with tom cruise
This is mission impossible.........
This is not mission difficult, Mr. Hunt, it's mission impossible.
My life is a mission, get it in time like mission impossible ;)
I like being my own guru :)
now I know why i even made my own website and facebook,
Im smartfker
thanks to brain tracy'
In other words, I have a structure of what works and in the past when I treid learning something new I have experience that as Im going and practicing it and as Im warmed up, then I can add, just to add momentum so I wont get overwhelmed.
SOLID game is my base,like safforn said. SOLID GAME,SOLID GAME.
once you are warmed up and inner state is ready...then to add momentum you can take things to the next level.
You worked hard for it , dont change what works.
Trust me its comon sense and trial tested thing.
all other modifications should be situational adjustments not a replacement .
My trainer told me : keep doing what you are doing dont change...later on we might sped things up but keep progress steady , we might spike a thing s here and there but this nutrition should be you SOLID BASE that we want to keep going.
Saffron said once , that Solid game is always played and used.
FUCK MYSTERY
Solid game should always underline any pickup.
Saffron would see opporunitys com his way to accelerate things but to calibrate he would rely on his solid game.
So STop reading and go out My head is blocked due to information overload.
I think not reading and just doing other stuff that are my prioirities and keep me in social mode. helps me.
If I go out not think game just relax and let it be , then writting it and a day later ala CJ until I get back into momentum or rhythm again.
I know its uphill battle in away but its going to be worth it.
Seriosuly, PU and training for muscle building and getting in shape has a balance.
when you arent in the gym dont over analyze, if you have ideas to push forward then thats good, its a gift and write it down.
if you arent practicing fgoing to the gym then dont overthink it,
it sounds you have too much time on your hands and are looking to get distracted.
DONT!
When you are in the gym, you are Foccused ,saffron said perfect practice makes perfect.
seriosuly reading PUA stuff are like Carbs
I cant overindeulge on carbs
I cant blame people I m asking for help If Im not doing it.
BEST way to get coaching is when you are aware what you are doing and are doing it and feel stuck and cant understand.
At this point now w stripper game, Im being overanalytical with anxiety of the unknown, its normal but I should control it.
its like what adam said about approach anxiety and overload with the spiders to lose fear.
I have to lose fear first and fuck up and then ask help.
Tahts the ONLY WAY COACHING CAN BE EFFECTIVE.
Rest is waste of time and money and end up confussed.
Ive dont it before I know my shit, Ive slept with women, rn perfect game. had 4 lays in a month rotation in new york, thats 1 new girl a week without counting the times Ive had repeated sex with them.
So Its doable, like LES BRWON THE BARRIERS ARE BROKEN,
if they broke it and Ive broken it then it can be broken again.
SEDUCTION IS EASY
Im going to erase my ipod of stuff and go back to basics like ROCKY III and just focus on my beliefs....
Its a lil push I need and I have to fight the desire to want it.
Inside will determine the outside for it to become automatic.
Im realizing Entropy is great coach.
La TRipp is great coach,
Sinn is a great coach, expensive great coach.
CJ is great guy with experience advanced knowledge to go next level.
TOPO has great stuff but its different style or too advanced, I have to be warmed up and give him FR or material to take information from him, once he gets abstract he sounds like vague "be yourslef man" its true but frustrating anoying.
Might ask for hammer for help.lol.
let me wait a couple of days and
literarly unclutter my thoughts and my room.
do the paperwork needed to send it tomorrow, today is clearing up you mind day ....
DONT GIVE UP or GET LAZY!!!!!!!!!
If you have to rest a little do so , but be sparked with energy to be proactive, this is mission
Like the video with tom cruise
This is mission impossible.........
This is not mission difficult, Mr. Hunt, it's mission impossible.
My life is a mission, get it in time like mission impossible ;)
I like being my own guru :)
now I know why i even made my own website and facebook,
Im smartfker
thanks to brain tracy'
Monday, February 15, 2010
SAFFRON tribute posts
The 1 Hour Pull
saffron
I went to a meetup.com event tonight at a local bar. As is prone with these events, the attractiveness of girls isn't as high as the ones you'd find at the hot clubs on the weekends. But, the flipside is that the barrier to approach is much lower and the bitch shields are not on full blast. Also, the guys are mostly chodes.
But, sometimes you strike gold when you're least expecting it. When I walked in, I locked eyes with Victoria. She had silky long hair, a smile lingering with dimples, and a svelte body. As is always the case, there was some chode sitting right next to her, trying to talk her ear off, and I could tell by her body language that she was just being nice.
Realizing the energy of the venue, I came in with a very low key opener -- any flashy attraction material would be out of place.
Acting with no apologies, I walked over and said calmly,
"This is my first time here. I'm Saffron. "
"Hi, I'm Vanessa"
"Hi, I'm Chodey McChode."
I go straight into a topical transition about the venue and talk about how I recently just moved into town. She picked up the thread and we soon were talking about how she was from Japan.
"I hate Japan. Let me tell you why." -- I didn't disagree for the sake of disagreeing -- I just spoke my mind freely.
I went off, and she started arguing with me in a playful way. I verbally escalated and started talking about other commonalities that we had. We talked about our adventures, our goals, and things we liked to do for fun. We were deep into comfort.
About 30 minutes passed, and I mentioned an extraction excuse -- come check out this great restaurant near me. They serve some great late night food. She agreed and we left the venue.
We went to my house first to drop off her stuff -- this was key, because I knew that she would have to come back after we ate.
We headed out and I built more comfort at the restaurant--we talked about our childhoods, our drunk times, and our past relationships. We bounced backed to my place and went into my room. I looked at her silently, maintaining the silence for 10 seconds, then went in for the makeout.
It was a quick escalation, and then I threw her onto my bed. She started giving me LMR -- so I comforted her by telling her how much I valued her personality, how we were going to hang out tomorrow, and how it was her fault for turning me on so much.
Then I went right back into it. I escalated and clothes started flying off, but as if I was in some kind of terrible romantic comedy, her phone rings and her friend tells her that he's downstairs to pick her up. Apparently, this AFC was her personal driver and she texted him in the restaurant, expecting that she was heading home after the late night snack.
"Sorry. It's not going to happen tonight. You're going to have to wait until next time" she teased me.
"I wait for no one." I replied. "But, I still want to see you tomorrow, because you're a cool chick."
I walked her out and watched her get into the car.
Logistics are key to the SNL. If I had 10 more minutes of game time, the score might have ended up different, but you have to love the game because there are always new challenges to face.
Updated Aug 15 2008 2:59 PM
Posted Aug 15 2008 2:56 PM Internet Outage and Self-Improv
saffron
Updated Jul 9 2008 5:21 AM
Posted Jul 9 2008 5:18 AM Pick Up From the Female View
Saffron
Slightly racist, and mostly reflective of AFCs....just shows you how low the bar is and how you just need to take that small step to differentiate yourself from the norm.
And no, I don't just smile and open my eyes really big. I also say "hey baby, hey baby..."
Updated Jul 5 2008 6:47 PM
Posted Jul 3 2008 3:14 PM One Night Stands
Saffron
On a whim, I wikipedia'd One Night Stands. In the article, I found this snippet very, very interesting:
During sex females get such a strong dose of oxytocin that "when women think they can have sex and walk away just like guys do, they're having to suppress thousands of years of evolution that tells them to cuddle, stay in bed, and look forward to tomorrow. When they get up and walk out, they feel depressed and don't know why."[1] Researchers have found that women's feelings after one night stands are much more negative than men's. Feeling 'used' was the predominent negative emotion they felt the next morning and they also worried about their reputations and felt as if they had let themselves down. Professor Anne Campbell from Durham University said "What the women seemed to object to was not the briefness of the encounter but the fact that the man did not seem to appreciate her. The women thought this lack of gratitude implied that she did this with anybody."[2]
A lot of guys think that once they slept with a woman, their work is all over. For all the PUAs out there who wonder why they can't keep quality women around in their life, I'd take a second and ask yourself how you treat women AFTER sex. I'm a firm believer of the ethos "Leave Them Better Than When You Met Them." How do you do that? By appreciating her for something other than her physical appearance and her sexuality. There's nothing wrong with being direct and forward, but there will be a point in your life where you realize that sexuality is only the minimum requirement -- you are attracted to a woman because you appreciate who she is and what her personality is like.
Now that you appreciate her, the question becomes, how do you best show it? The Mystery Method talks a lot about qualification (a method where you elicit a girl's values and then reward her for having them). For me, it really is about authenticity. I simply show enthusiasm for traits that I cherish. And if she has traits that I don't respect, I will let her know that too. By doing both, you show her that you're not just supplicating and you also show her that you're a man of values. There's something to be said about being honest and straightforward in your interactions with women.
Ultimately, making a girl realize that you appreciate her BEFORE you sleep with her, will make the entire process easier, before and after sex. I view sex as a positive interaction, so if a girl walks away feeling negative about the interaction, I know that I seriously screwed up somewhere.
Updated Jun 30 2008 9:11 AM
Posted Jun 30 2008 9:05 AM Pitfalls of Pickup
Saffron
My good friend Toryn from the Boston Lair wrote one of the best posts I've read in a while and I had to post it here for you guys to read. Tons of value, so pull up some popcorn and plop yourself down and read this. I'll be honest, I've made some of the same mistakes too and struggle with my own ideals and the ideals that are commonly engrained in the community. Toryn is going to put up a blog soon, and I'll be sure to link him on my page, so you guys can get a daily dose of his wisdom.
Anyway, here it goes:
Learning pick-up has had so many positive effects on my life, including realizing new heights in my own self-confidence; understanding how to better interact in high-pressure social situations; and more and more understanding how to own my sexuality and desire around attractive women. And this is only a small bit of what I’ve learned since starting this process. As Groove noted in his Lair talk, this stuff can really change your life for the better if you allow it to do so.
All that being said, the more time I spend in the pick-up community, the more I become convinced that there are potentially serious pitfalls in each stage of learning these skills as well, which can do dangerous harm to your ability to form lasting and valuable relationships with women. The core questions that I've been grappling with recently, and that I try to address in this post, are these:
* Which aspects of learning pick-up are actually diminishing or degrading my ability to form a trusting and mutually-fulfilling relationship with a woman?
* How can I avoid these pitfalls so that I'm constantly moving forward in my social and emotional evolution?
I understand that not everyone will find this e-mail relevant right now. Some guys will be at stages in their emotional development where a lot of the things that I’m talking about below are just not on their radar screen yet. If that’s your case, that’s cool – I’d still recommend that you read on and think for a moment about the points that I’m trying to make here.
Pitfall #1: Objectifying Women
This one seems pretty obvious to me, so I’m not going to waste too much time talking about it. Yes, women are naturally the objects of our sexual desire, and yes, until you approach and get to know a new girl, she’s nothing more than a random attractive stranger. But when an entire community starts referring to people in code words such as HB8_Slut, the “target”, the “obstacle”, etc., you start to lose recognition of the fact that you’re talking about another human being.
Rating girls’ attractiveness on a scale has some value in terms of how you calibrate your approach and initial game material. Referring to girls as the “target” or “obstacle” has some value in terms of understanding the dynamics of a group set, especially when wings are involved. But in my opinion, once you’ve internalized these ideas into your behavior, get these labels out of your head as soon as possible, and save them for Field Reports or other times when you need them to discuss the mechanics of a set you ran. Don’t go through life thinking about every attractive girl you see as an HB# or as your “target.”
It’s been proven over and over again by psychological studies that one of the first steps in dehumanizing someone is to objectify them, to strip them in your mind of the qualities that would make you relate to them as another living, breathing person just like yourself. That girl who you’re interested in? At the end of the day she’s just a girl, with dreams, hopes, fears and ambitions just like you. Lose sight of that, and you lose part of what makes you human.
Pitfall #2: Focusing on “Padding Your Stats”
I went through a phase in the first few weeks after realizing my initial successes getting laid through game, and most guys who I’ve met in the community go through a similar phase. We have this feeling that can only be described as a sense of wonderment at our new powers with women. For those of us who weren’t born naturals, we’ve had years of frustration at screwing up with attractive women because we weren’t self-confident and socially experienced enough. Then pick-up skills give us that power, and we now feel that we’re more in control, that we’re no longer at the mercy of one beautiful girl’s opinion of us. It’s an intoxicating emotion, and for good reason.
You can see this intoxicating feeling reflected in guys’ posts on the forum. The first few Lay Reports that newer guys post up usually have this over-arching aura of “Oh my God, I can’t believe I actually accomplished this!” to them. During this stage when you’re realizing your first few successes, I think this feeling of wonderment is pretty much all positive. You’re rapidly gaining in self-confidence in an area that has plagued you for a while (you wouldn’t be in the community if it hadn’t), and you feel like a new man. All is good in the world.
Pretty soon however, the natural question arises of “What next?” Sure, there are always new skills to calibrate and internalize, new levels of inner game mastery to reach – but a lot of guys remain detached from what their true core goals are with learning all of this stuff. And when they become detached from their true core goals, they naturally fill that void with the goal of “Well, I want to bang as many hot girls as possible” or some variant (“have a threesome,” “fuck Asian twins”).
And so begins the danger of seeking external validation through sex. If you continue to neglect the other areas of your life which aren't together, you start to subconsciously look at getting laid as evidence that you are indeed the high-value, self-confident guy that you tell yourself you are. And when you think you’ve got a girl on the path to bed, but it doesn’t work out? Crash and burn inner game-wise my friends, and it hurts.
But here’s the thing: the guys I know who are truly secure in their own self-confidence and value aren’t overly concerned with whether they have ten women in the rotation at the same time or none. If they meet a girl who they’re attracted to, who they connect with and who they want to start a sexual relationship with, they do it. But if they go through a period where they aren’t meeting women who truly excite them, they don’t start to feel down or inferior because of it.
Again, this issue isn’t necessarily appropriate to every guy in the Lair right now, especially those guys who are younger. It very well may be that your goal at this stage of your life is to bang as many hot girls as possible with zero emotional connection, and that’s fine. It all comes down to whether your true core inner goals and desires and your outer behavior are in synch. Also, it’s good to understand that many guys’ life goals with women evolve over time, so it probably would be worthwhile to check in with yourself every few months to make sure that you’re still living according to your core goals.
Pitfall #3: Closing Yourself off to Emotion
You’ve done a ton of approaches, you’ve slept with some women, and now you’ve met one who you really connect with and who you like hanging out with. But every time that she tries to get you to open up to her emotionally, community dogma kicks back in. “Push-pull…control the frame…showing vulnerability is for chodes…one-itis is for pussies…an ‘alpha’ guy wouldn’t do this…”
A lot of the dogma that is good for breaking you free from your original fears approaching strange women in high-stress social situations can turn out to be crap when you relate it to relationships. Entropy is 1,000% correct when he says that relationships are a component of relating to women that on average the community has ass-backwards, and really doesn’t give nearly enough attention to. You think a girl is amazing? Tell her. She tells you about her deepest hopes and fears in life, and wants you to share yours with her as well? If you care about her, do it. Real men (edit: real PEOPLE) are not scared of their own emotions.
It all relates back to living with integrity and honesty. If you don’t care about a girl, you should be honest with her if she asks you. If you don’t care about her and you tell her that you really do, you’re a pussy. If you do have emotions for her, but you either tell her that you don’t or refuse to show them, you’re also a pussy.
But if you have emotions for a girl and you let yourself express them, that’s when the best moments in life can happen.
Pitfall #4: Making It All about the Sex
This is my new favorite, and it took me a while to identify and diagnose this in myself and in some of my Lair friends. Bear with me on this one, because I can’t seem to find a simple way to explain what I mean here.
You meet a girl, sleep with her, turn her into a regular thing, bond with her and genuinely care about her and her happiness in life, and things are going great. Then after a few months (it usually happens in this timeframe), the girl may come to you emotionally raw explaining that she’s starting to fall in love with you and just can’t do an open relationship any more, and that she wants to commit to you and to try being exclusive with each other.
But instead of committing, you get scared, and you begin thinking of reasons to tell her no. And what I’ve found both in myself and my friends is that more often than not we use the issue of sex as the primary reason to turn down exclusive relationships with really quality women. “I can’t be with just one girl, I want to consistently fuck new girls…she isn’t interested in having threesomes like we used to…I need variety in my sex life.” And on and on.
What I and the rest of guys who think this way are doing however is elevating sex above all of the other areas of compatibility that make good relationships with quality women really great. To an extent we’re ignoring whether the girl truly makes us happy, whether she challenges and excites us intellectually and emotionally, whether sharing with her feels like sharing with an old friend you’ve known forever.
A decision to not get exclusive with a girl based on sexual compatibility isn’t necessarily a bad thing or wrong in isolation. And per my comment above, it’s totally acceptable and understandable if a guy is not in the position in his life at this time where he wants a relationship at all. The problem has the potential to arise over time however, because the decisions you make in life form habits, and if you start consistently thinking about your relationships with women in this light, you could wind up making some very stupid choices.
I don’t mean to downplay sexual compatibility here either – it’s very important. But in my experience, after the first several months of hormone-driven craziness subside, the sexual health of a relationship exists because you and she stay connected on all other emotional and spiritual levels, not in spite of those connections.
The dirty secret that for some reason the community never talks about is that while it is absolutely true that attractive women are abundant, the number of attractive women in life with whom you will also feel a strong emotional, intellectual and spiritual connection as well are very few. Life being what it is, even if you sarge constantly, there will only be so many women who you are as excited about spending Sunday morning with as you were about fucking the previous Saturday night.
If finding a girl who will always be willing to have threesomes with you really is one of your core priorities in life, more power to you. But the girls who will be genuinely cool with this type of behavior are rare. It is the rule rather than the exception for a girl to want you to herself once she’s fallen in love with you. And more to the point, the girls who are cool with threesomes are not necessarily the ones who will satisfy you as well in the many other emotional, spiritual and intellectual areas that make a relationship lasting and great. And in the meantime, if you next all women who don’t fit the “threesome” category, you could very well wind up passing on women who really would have made you happier over the long run – all because you put sex above everything else.
saffron
I went to a meetup.com event tonight at a local bar. As is prone with these events, the attractiveness of girls isn't as high as the ones you'd find at the hot clubs on the weekends. But, the flipside is that the barrier to approach is much lower and the bitch shields are not on full blast. Also, the guys are mostly chodes.
But, sometimes you strike gold when you're least expecting it. When I walked in, I locked eyes with Victoria. She had silky long hair, a smile lingering with dimples, and a svelte body. As is always the case, there was some chode sitting right next to her, trying to talk her ear off, and I could tell by her body language that she was just being nice.
Realizing the energy of the venue, I came in with a very low key opener -- any flashy attraction material would be out of place.
Acting with no apologies, I walked over and said calmly,
"This is my first time here. I'm Saffron. "
"Hi, I'm Vanessa"
"Hi, I'm Chodey McChode."
I go straight into a topical transition about the venue and talk about how I recently just moved into town. She picked up the thread and we soon were talking about how she was from Japan.
"I hate Japan. Let me tell you why." -- I didn't disagree for the sake of disagreeing -- I just spoke my mind freely.
I went off, and she started arguing with me in a playful way. I verbally escalated and started talking about other commonalities that we had. We talked about our adventures, our goals, and things we liked to do for fun. We were deep into comfort.
About 30 minutes passed, and I mentioned an extraction excuse -- come check out this great restaurant near me. They serve some great late night food. She agreed and we left the venue.
We went to my house first to drop off her stuff -- this was key, because I knew that she would have to come back after we ate.
We headed out and I built more comfort at the restaurant--we talked about our childhoods, our drunk times, and our past relationships. We bounced backed to my place and went into my room. I looked at her silently, maintaining the silence for 10 seconds, then went in for the makeout.
It was a quick escalation, and then I threw her onto my bed. She started giving me LMR -- so I comforted her by telling her how much I valued her personality, how we were going to hang out tomorrow, and how it was her fault for turning me on so much.
Then I went right back into it. I escalated and clothes started flying off, but as if I was in some kind of terrible romantic comedy, her phone rings and her friend tells her that he's downstairs to pick her up. Apparently, this AFC was her personal driver and she texted him in the restaurant, expecting that she was heading home after the late night snack.
"Sorry. It's not going to happen tonight. You're going to have to wait until next time" she teased me.
"I wait for no one." I replied. "But, I still want to see you tomorrow, because you're a cool chick."
I walked her out and watched her get into the car.
Logistics are key to the SNL. If I had 10 more minutes of game time, the score might have ended up different, but you have to love the game because there are always new challenges to face.
Updated Aug 15 2008 2:59 PM
Posted Aug 15 2008 2:56 PM Internet Outage and Self-Improv
saffron
Updated Jul 9 2008 5:21 AM
Posted Jul 9 2008 5:18 AM Pick Up From the Female View
Saffron
Slightly racist, and mostly reflective of AFCs....just shows you how low the bar is and how you just need to take that small step to differentiate yourself from the norm.
And no, I don't just smile and open my eyes really big. I also say "hey baby, hey baby..."
Updated Jul 5 2008 6:47 PM
Posted Jul 3 2008 3:14 PM One Night Stands
Saffron
On a whim, I wikipedia'd One Night Stands. In the article, I found this snippet very, very interesting:
During sex females get such a strong dose of oxytocin that "when women think they can have sex and walk away just like guys do, they're having to suppress thousands of years of evolution that tells them to cuddle, stay in bed, and look forward to tomorrow. When they get up and walk out, they feel depressed and don't know why."[1] Researchers have found that women's feelings after one night stands are much more negative than men's. Feeling 'used' was the predominent negative emotion they felt the next morning and they also worried about their reputations and felt as if they had let themselves down. Professor Anne Campbell from Durham University said "What the women seemed to object to was not the briefness of the encounter but the fact that the man did not seem to appreciate her. The women thought this lack of gratitude implied that she did this with anybody."[2]
A lot of guys think that once they slept with a woman, their work is all over. For all the PUAs out there who wonder why they can't keep quality women around in their life, I'd take a second and ask yourself how you treat women AFTER sex. I'm a firm believer of the ethos "Leave Them Better Than When You Met Them." How do you do that? By appreciating her for something other than her physical appearance and her sexuality. There's nothing wrong with being direct and forward, but there will be a point in your life where you realize that sexuality is only the minimum requirement -- you are attracted to a woman because you appreciate who she is and what her personality is like.
Now that you appreciate her, the question becomes, how do you best show it? The Mystery Method talks a lot about qualification (a method where you elicit a girl's values and then reward her for having them). For me, it really is about authenticity. I simply show enthusiasm for traits that I cherish. And if she has traits that I don't respect, I will let her know that too. By doing both, you show her that you're not just supplicating and you also show her that you're a man of values. There's something to be said about being honest and straightforward in your interactions with women.
Ultimately, making a girl realize that you appreciate her BEFORE you sleep with her, will make the entire process easier, before and after sex. I view sex as a positive interaction, so if a girl walks away feeling negative about the interaction, I know that I seriously screwed up somewhere.
Updated Jun 30 2008 9:11 AM
Posted Jun 30 2008 9:05 AM Pitfalls of Pickup
Saffron
My good friend Toryn from the Boston Lair wrote one of the best posts I've read in a while and I had to post it here for you guys to read. Tons of value, so pull up some popcorn and plop yourself down and read this. I'll be honest, I've made some of the same mistakes too and struggle with my own ideals and the ideals that are commonly engrained in the community. Toryn is going to put up a blog soon, and I'll be sure to link him on my page, so you guys can get a daily dose of his wisdom.
Anyway, here it goes:
Learning pick-up has had so many positive effects on my life, including realizing new heights in my own self-confidence; understanding how to better interact in high-pressure social situations; and more and more understanding how to own my sexuality and desire around attractive women. And this is only a small bit of what I’ve learned since starting this process. As Groove noted in his Lair talk, this stuff can really change your life for the better if you allow it to do so.
All that being said, the more time I spend in the pick-up community, the more I become convinced that there are potentially serious pitfalls in each stage of learning these skills as well, which can do dangerous harm to your ability to form lasting and valuable relationships with women. The core questions that I've been grappling with recently, and that I try to address in this post, are these:
* Which aspects of learning pick-up are actually diminishing or degrading my ability to form a trusting and mutually-fulfilling relationship with a woman?
* How can I avoid these pitfalls so that I'm constantly moving forward in my social and emotional evolution?
I understand that not everyone will find this e-mail relevant right now. Some guys will be at stages in their emotional development where a lot of the things that I’m talking about below are just not on their radar screen yet. If that’s your case, that’s cool – I’d still recommend that you read on and think for a moment about the points that I’m trying to make here.
Pitfall #1: Objectifying Women
This one seems pretty obvious to me, so I’m not going to waste too much time talking about it. Yes, women are naturally the objects of our sexual desire, and yes, until you approach and get to know a new girl, she’s nothing more than a random attractive stranger. But when an entire community starts referring to people in code words such as HB8_Slut, the “target”, the “obstacle”, etc., you start to lose recognition of the fact that you’re talking about another human being.
Rating girls’ attractiveness on a scale has some value in terms of how you calibrate your approach and initial game material. Referring to girls as the “target” or “obstacle” has some value in terms of understanding the dynamics of a group set, especially when wings are involved. But in my opinion, once you’ve internalized these ideas into your behavior, get these labels out of your head as soon as possible, and save them for Field Reports or other times when you need them to discuss the mechanics of a set you ran. Don’t go through life thinking about every attractive girl you see as an HB# or as your “target.”
It’s been proven over and over again by psychological studies that one of the first steps in dehumanizing someone is to objectify them, to strip them in your mind of the qualities that would make you relate to them as another living, breathing person just like yourself. That girl who you’re interested in? At the end of the day she’s just a girl, with dreams, hopes, fears and ambitions just like you. Lose sight of that, and you lose part of what makes you human.
Pitfall #2: Focusing on “Padding Your Stats”
I went through a phase in the first few weeks after realizing my initial successes getting laid through game, and most guys who I’ve met in the community go through a similar phase. We have this feeling that can only be described as a sense of wonderment at our new powers with women. For those of us who weren’t born naturals, we’ve had years of frustration at screwing up with attractive women because we weren’t self-confident and socially experienced enough. Then pick-up skills give us that power, and we now feel that we’re more in control, that we’re no longer at the mercy of one beautiful girl’s opinion of us. It’s an intoxicating emotion, and for good reason.
You can see this intoxicating feeling reflected in guys’ posts on the forum. The first few Lay Reports that newer guys post up usually have this over-arching aura of “Oh my God, I can’t believe I actually accomplished this!” to them. During this stage when you’re realizing your first few successes, I think this feeling of wonderment is pretty much all positive. You’re rapidly gaining in self-confidence in an area that has plagued you for a while (you wouldn’t be in the community if it hadn’t), and you feel like a new man. All is good in the world.
Pretty soon however, the natural question arises of “What next?” Sure, there are always new skills to calibrate and internalize, new levels of inner game mastery to reach – but a lot of guys remain detached from what their true core goals are with learning all of this stuff. And when they become detached from their true core goals, they naturally fill that void with the goal of “Well, I want to bang as many hot girls as possible” or some variant (“have a threesome,” “fuck Asian twins”).
And so begins the danger of seeking external validation through sex. If you continue to neglect the other areas of your life which aren't together, you start to subconsciously look at getting laid as evidence that you are indeed the high-value, self-confident guy that you tell yourself you are. And when you think you’ve got a girl on the path to bed, but it doesn’t work out? Crash and burn inner game-wise my friends, and it hurts.
But here’s the thing: the guys I know who are truly secure in their own self-confidence and value aren’t overly concerned with whether they have ten women in the rotation at the same time or none. If they meet a girl who they’re attracted to, who they connect with and who they want to start a sexual relationship with, they do it. But if they go through a period where they aren’t meeting women who truly excite them, they don’t start to feel down or inferior because of it.
Again, this issue isn’t necessarily appropriate to every guy in the Lair right now, especially those guys who are younger. It very well may be that your goal at this stage of your life is to bang as many hot girls as possible with zero emotional connection, and that’s fine. It all comes down to whether your true core inner goals and desires and your outer behavior are in synch. Also, it’s good to understand that many guys’ life goals with women evolve over time, so it probably would be worthwhile to check in with yourself every few months to make sure that you’re still living according to your core goals.
Pitfall #3: Closing Yourself off to Emotion
You’ve done a ton of approaches, you’ve slept with some women, and now you’ve met one who you really connect with and who you like hanging out with. But every time that she tries to get you to open up to her emotionally, community dogma kicks back in. “Push-pull…control the frame…showing vulnerability is for chodes…one-itis is for pussies…an ‘alpha’ guy wouldn’t do this…”
A lot of the dogma that is good for breaking you free from your original fears approaching strange women in high-stress social situations can turn out to be crap when you relate it to relationships. Entropy is 1,000% correct when he says that relationships are a component of relating to women that on average the community has ass-backwards, and really doesn’t give nearly enough attention to. You think a girl is amazing? Tell her. She tells you about her deepest hopes and fears in life, and wants you to share yours with her as well? If you care about her, do it. Real men (edit: real PEOPLE) are not scared of their own emotions.
It all relates back to living with integrity and honesty. If you don’t care about a girl, you should be honest with her if she asks you. If you don’t care about her and you tell her that you really do, you’re a pussy. If you do have emotions for her, but you either tell her that you don’t or refuse to show them, you’re also a pussy.
But if you have emotions for a girl and you let yourself express them, that’s when the best moments in life can happen.
Pitfall #4: Making It All about the Sex
This is my new favorite, and it took me a while to identify and diagnose this in myself and in some of my Lair friends. Bear with me on this one, because I can’t seem to find a simple way to explain what I mean here.
You meet a girl, sleep with her, turn her into a regular thing, bond with her and genuinely care about her and her happiness in life, and things are going great. Then after a few months (it usually happens in this timeframe), the girl may come to you emotionally raw explaining that she’s starting to fall in love with you and just can’t do an open relationship any more, and that she wants to commit to you and to try being exclusive with each other.
But instead of committing, you get scared, and you begin thinking of reasons to tell her no. And what I’ve found both in myself and my friends is that more often than not we use the issue of sex as the primary reason to turn down exclusive relationships with really quality women. “I can’t be with just one girl, I want to consistently fuck new girls…she isn’t interested in having threesomes like we used to…I need variety in my sex life.” And on and on.
What I and the rest of guys who think this way are doing however is elevating sex above all of the other areas of compatibility that make good relationships with quality women really great. To an extent we’re ignoring whether the girl truly makes us happy, whether she challenges and excites us intellectually and emotionally, whether sharing with her feels like sharing with an old friend you’ve known forever.
A decision to not get exclusive with a girl based on sexual compatibility isn’t necessarily a bad thing or wrong in isolation. And per my comment above, it’s totally acceptable and understandable if a guy is not in the position in his life at this time where he wants a relationship at all. The problem has the potential to arise over time however, because the decisions you make in life form habits, and if you start consistently thinking about your relationships with women in this light, you could wind up making some very stupid choices.
I don’t mean to downplay sexual compatibility here either – it’s very important. But in my experience, after the first several months of hormone-driven craziness subside, the sexual health of a relationship exists because you and she stay connected on all other emotional and spiritual levels, not in spite of those connections.
The dirty secret that for some reason the community never talks about is that while it is absolutely true that attractive women are abundant, the number of attractive women in life with whom you will also feel a strong emotional, intellectual and spiritual connection as well are very few. Life being what it is, even if you sarge constantly, there will only be so many women who you are as excited about spending Sunday morning with as you were about fucking the previous Saturday night.
If finding a girl who will always be willing to have threesomes with you really is one of your core priorities in life, more power to you. But the girls who will be genuinely cool with this type of behavior are rare. It is the rule rather than the exception for a girl to want you to herself once she’s fallen in love with you. And more to the point, the girls who are cool with threesomes are not necessarily the ones who will satisfy you as well in the many other emotional, spiritual and intellectual areas that make a relationship lasting and great. And in the meantime, if you next all women who don’t fit the “threesome” category, you could very well wind up passing on women who really would have made you happier over the long run – all because you put sex above everything else.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Saffron : DOUBLE SNL LRSNL LR Vegas
Download MP3] : Vegas Bathroom Pull + Stripper Pull w/ Pics!
Saffron, ABCs of Attraction Intern Coach in Training breaks down what is possible in Las Vegas using the ABCs of Attraction.
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He is one of the guys that blew me away when I met him...
he was working with Practical Pickup with Doc Holliday and Entropy
he retired but I communicate with him once in awhile
the advice he would give me after I met with him was just awesome
even till this day..I think he is top 3 PUA's
this is one of the LR that made me want to go to Boston and meet these guys...
Saffron, Doc Holliday and Entropy
I met game girl which I tottally fell for ... anyways
back to this LR which is a classic....
Or read the detailed field report originally written on Saffron's blog below:
Two girls in one night is always a good night. I was in Vegas last week Approach Coaching for ABCs of Attraction. I spent the majority of the night winging for students and pulling girls back to our VIP section. The picture below is a 2-set of the hottest girls in the venue that I had to hand over to the students. Ah, the joys of being an instructor. One of the students ended up making out with one of the girls while the other #closed. I'm proud of my young padawans.
After 1 AM, the Asian Playboy comes over to me and says, "You have 1 hour to pull." I'm always a challenge whore so I ran out of the VIP section and started running my standard dance floor game. At this point of the night, my social proof was through the roof because I led about 10 different groups of HBs back to our table.
I run lazy game, so I opened the closest attractive set near our booth. I use my Dance Floor Direct Opener and its an instant hook. The girl pulls me in. She grinds on me. I start my dance floor escalation routine. I execute a Fatality and a Lower Back Pain. She's going nuts. At this point there is no verbal game, its just physical escalation fractionated with BL takeaways and then my patented head rush kino pull. I enter my Sexual Eye Contact routine, which puts her through the roof.
This girl is ready to go. I pull her back into the VIP section so I can lower her BT. APB taught me that if you raise a girl's BT too much too soon, her entire state collapses during any kind of lull and she enters into buyers' remorse. I refused to let that happen that night. I enter into mini-comfort loops, run my cold read sex routine and stack into my adventurous sex DHVs. I pull my whisper move and enter into a heavy non-needy frame.
She straddles me.
HBBathroom: "Come closer. I'm going to do something crazy to you."
Me: [enters non-verbal Abundance Routine – something I've learned from sarging HB10s]
HBBathroom: [goes crazy] What are you doing? Look AT ME. You can't handle this.
Me: Who said I was going to handle anything?
HBBathroom: You're going to LOVE it. [tries to start kissing me. Licks my neck. Grabs my crotch]
Me: Shut up. Let's go.
I pull her out of the VIP. She pulls me into the bar and buys me a beer (I didn't even ask for one). We down it. I remain reticent. I let her chase. She starts grinding on me hard again. I don't mind it since she has this nice big ass and knows how to work it. I realize that I only have 30 minutes left to complete the 1 hour challenge. I command her to stop and pull her out of the club.
We're in the cab making out. I tell the cab driver my hotel. She sees her hotel in the distance and realizes that she left the club without her friend. She starts freaking out since they're leaving in less than 6 hours to fly back home and tells the driver to reroute to her hotel. FUCK.
We get to her hotel and she pulls me out of the cab. We're making out in the lobby now. She tells me that her phone is dead and she just needs to check if her friend is OK. We find her friend, they do the annoying "I haven't seen you in forever" routine and then her friend decides to try and cockblock me. HAH. I pull out the anti-cockblock shields and run the befriender routine. We're now all in a high energy state and grab a few shots.
CB tells me, "You're not getting laid tonight. Sorry, buddy, but my mom and dad are sleeping upstairs and I'm not going back to your hotel to have a threesome with you, because we're leaving in a couple of hours." (she's pretty drunk at this point).
I whisper into HBBathroom's ear, "This is your last night here. You can either sit here and talk to your friend like you do every night at home, or you can choose to have an amazing experience with me. Ditch your friend." HBbathroom turns to me and checks me for any signs of weakness. None. A couple of minutes later they run into the bathroom for some girl time. She comes out and freaks out. "OMG, I lost my cell phone." The CB starts freaking out and runs off to look for it at the bar.
HBBathroom turns to me and says "sike. I have it right here." Then she pulls me into the women's bathroom, strips my pants off and starts going down on me. At this point I have about 5 minutes left to my 1 hour challenge, so I pick her up, finger bang her, and then strip her naked. I bend her over the toilet and we go at it. Simultaneously, I whip out my iPhone and try to take a few money shots, but alas, there was piss poor lighting.
We wrap up and head back out. She buys me a couple more shots and then we exchange information.
--------- Part 2: Stripper Pull
I got into the cab feeling pretty satisfied. I plowed through some fucked up logistics and got my first ever bathroom pull. But, I wasn't going to rest on my laurels and the night was still young (3:00 AM) so I told the driver to drive me to the after hours club. All the strippers and hired guns go to this club once they get off shift, so I was looking forward to a good night.
I show up at the club solo in a post-sex glow. I could still smell the first girl on me. I look around to see if I could make any automatic wings. Most of the guys are rolling through in groups and they look like the bottle-buying type. I move on into the club and its this cavernous underground bar with four separate rooms. At this point, I'm in a pretty low state, since having sex kills my sarge drive for at least 24 hours.
I tell myself, fuck it, KOP: "keep on plowing." The club is packed with HB9s and HB10s. I can obviously tell that most of the girls are locals and most of them are strippers and hired guns. Girls are walking around in their work outfits, wearing bikinis and cut off shorts and ripped tank tops. Titties everywhere. I befriend a few sets and run indirect game for a while. I don't get blown out, but I'm also not deeply hooking any one set. I realize that I needed to run some HB10/ADD Party Girl game. I scan the bar and find my target – HBStripper.
I run my Balls to the Walls (BTW) Direct Opener and I see her instantly hook. I tease her a little then dominate the frame. I run my standard High Value Dancing routine and pull her on to the dance floor. At this point she breaks out her stripper moves. She pulls me onto a sofa and gives me a lap dance. She then pulls me back onto the dance floor and we become the center of attention. The entire room is looking at us grinding the shit out of each other. I pull out my head rush kino pull and my Sexual EC Routine. She's loving it.
I stop and control myself and reenter my Abundance Routine. She tries to pull me back into her and tries to qualify herself again through dancing. I don't bite. We pull away to the bar and she starts trying to kiss me. I dodge the kisses and pull away. We banter for a little bit and she starts grinding on me again. What an ADD stripper.
Now, what happens next I think, is key to the interaction. I know at this point she physically wants to sleep with me, but she isn't emotionally sure, so she starts testing me. She starts grinding on another guy who's sitting down in front of us. I sit back and watch and then open up a girl next to me. The stripper gets jealous and comes back to cockblock. I reshift my attention on her and then she tells me "I have to go for a second."
I stop and think to myself – if I let her leave, I may not see her again, since we're in the VIP section and its hard to get back in. But, if I don't let her go, I lose my frame and my dominance. So, I shrug and push her off. She leaves. I open up a few other sets and now due to my high social proof, girls are hooking much more easily. I get bored and realize none of the girls are as hot as HBStripper so after a half hour I eject. I find HBStripper near the exit talking to one of her guy friends. He's a rich chode, probably a customer, and has his hands all over her. I walk up to her, turn her around, and start making out with her. The chode just stands there with his dick in his hands.
I pull away first. HBStripper comes up for air and asks "What's that for?" I say, "that's for making me wait. Do it again and I'm going to spank you." (Spank) *credit to BradP.
I lean back against the bar and re-enter my non-needy frame. She starts grinding on me and she shares her drink with me. I'm getting bored and its now getting close to 6 am, so I run my ejection routine. HBStripper stares into my eyes for any incongruence and then gives me verbal LMR.
"Irrelevant." (Credit: Jeffy) "Let's Go."
We get her coat and exit the club. The sun is rising as we're making out in the back seat of the taxi. Déjà vu. We show up at our hotel and there's no LMR, since I already took care of it at the club. She really blew my mind. Well that, and some other parts of my body. Here are assorted pictures from my adventures:
Download the Audio Lay Report with Commentery's by Asian Playboy: http://www.abcofattraction.com/media/audio/saffrondoublelr.mp3
and visit Saffron's personal blog:
Saffron, ABCs of Attraction Intern Coach in Training breaks down what is possible in Las Vegas using the ABCs of Attraction.
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He is one of the guys that blew me away when I met him...
he was working with Practical Pickup with Doc Holliday and Entropy
he retired but I communicate with him once in awhile
the advice he would give me after I met with him was just awesome
even till this day..I think he is top 3 PUA's
this is one of the LR that made me want to go to Boston and meet these guys...
Saffron, Doc Holliday and Entropy
I met game girl which I tottally fell for ... anyways
back to this LR which is a classic....
Or read the detailed field report originally written on Saffron's blog below:
Two girls in one night is always a good night. I was in Vegas last week Approach Coaching for ABCs of Attraction. I spent the majority of the night winging for students and pulling girls back to our VIP section. The picture below is a 2-set of the hottest girls in the venue that I had to hand over to the students. Ah, the joys of being an instructor. One of the students ended up making out with one of the girls while the other #closed. I'm proud of my young padawans.
After 1 AM, the Asian Playboy comes over to me and says, "You have 1 hour to pull." I'm always a challenge whore so I ran out of the VIP section and started running my standard dance floor game. At this point of the night, my social proof was through the roof because I led about 10 different groups of HBs back to our table.
I run lazy game, so I opened the closest attractive set near our booth. I use my Dance Floor Direct Opener and its an instant hook. The girl pulls me in. She grinds on me. I start my dance floor escalation routine. I execute a Fatality and a Lower Back Pain. She's going nuts. At this point there is no verbal game, its just physical escalation fractionated with BL takeaways and then my patented head rush kino pull. I enter my Sexual Eye Contact routine, which puts her through the roof.
This girl is ready to go. I pull her back into the VIP section so I can lower her BT. APB taught me that if you raise a girl's BT too much too soon, her entire state collapses during any kind of lull and she enters into buyers' remorse. I refused to let that happen that night. I enter into mini-comfort loops, run my cold read sex routine and stack into my adventurous sex DHVs. I pull my whisper move and enter into a heavy non-needy frame.
She straddles me.
HBBathroom: "Come closer. I'm going to do something crazy to you."
Me: [enters non-verbal Abundance Routine – something I've learned from sarging HB10s]
HBBathroom: [goes crazy] What are you doing? Look AT ME. You can't handle this.
Me: Who said I was going to handle anything?
HBBathroom: You're going to LOVE it. [tries to start kissing me. Licks my neck. Grabs my crotch]
Me: Shut up. Let's go.
I pull her out of the VIP. She pulls me into the bar and buys me a beer (I didn't even ask for one). We down it. I remain reticent. I let her chase. She starts grinding on me hard again. I don't mind it since she has this nice big ass and knows how to work it. I realize that I only have 30 minutes left to complete the 1 hour challenge. I command her to stop and pull her out of the club.
We're in the cab making out. I tell the cab driver my hotel. She sees her hotel in the distance and realizes that she left the club without her friend. She starts freaking out since they're leaving in less than 6 hours to fly back home and tells the driver to reroute to her hotel. FUCK.
We get to her hotel and she pulls me out of the cab. We're making out in the lobby now. She tells me that her phone is dead and she just needs to check if her friend is OK. We find her friend, they do the annoying "I haven't seen you in forever" routine and then her friend decides to try and cockblock me. HAH. I pull out the anti-cockblock shields and run the befriender routine. We're now all in a high energy state and grab a few shots.
CB tells me, "You're not getting laid tonight. Sorry, buddy, but my mom and dad are sleeping upstairs and I'm not going back to your hotel to have a threesome with you, because we're leaving in a couple of hours." (she's pretty drunk at this point).
I whisper into HBBathroom's ear, "This is your last night here. You can either sit here and talk to your friend like you do every night at home, or you can choose to have an amazing experience with me. Ditch your friend." HBbathroom turns to me and checks me for any signs of weakness. None. A couple of minutes later they run into the bathroom for some girl time. She comes out and freaks out. "OMG, I lost my cell phone." The CB starts freaking out and runs off to look for it at the bar.
HBBathroom turns to me and says "sike. I have it right here." Then she pulls me into the women's bathroom, strips my pants off and starts going down on me. At this point I have about 5 minutes left to my 1 hour challenge, so I pick her up, finger bang her, and then strip her naked. I bend her over the toilet and we go at it. Simultaneously, I whip out my iPhone and try to take a few money shots, but alas, there was piss poor lighting.
We wrap up and head back out. She buys me a couple more shots and then we exchange information.
--------- Part 2: Stripper Pull
I got into the cab feeling pretty satisfied. I plowed through some fucked up logistics and got my first ever bathroom pull. But, I wasn't going to rest on my laurels and the night was still young (3:00 AM) so I told the driver to drive me to the after hours club. All the strippers and hired guns go to this club once they get off shift, so I was looking forward to a good night.
I show up at the club solo in a post-sex glow. I could still smell the first girl on me. I look around to see if I could make any automatic wings. Most of the guys are rolling through in groups and they look like the bottle-buying type. I move on into the club and its this cavernous underground bar with four separate rooms. At this point, I'm in a pretty low state, since having sex kills my sarge drive for at least 24 hours.
I tell myself, fuck it, KOP: "keep on plowing." The club is packed with HB9s and HB10s. I can obviously tell that most of the girls are locals and most of them are strippers and hired guns. Girls are walking around in their work outfits, wearing bikinis and cut off shorts and ripped tank tops. Titties everywhere. I befriend a few sets and run indirect game for a while. I don't get blown out, but I'm also not deeply hooking any one set. I realize that I needed to run some HB10/ADD Party Girl game. I scan the bar and find my target – HBStripper.
I run my Balls to the Walls (BTW) Direct Opener and I see her instantly hook. I tease her a little then dominate the frame. I run my standard High Value Dancing routine and pull her on to the dance floor. At this point she breaks out her stripper moves. She pulls me onto a sofa and gives me a lap dance. She then pulls me back onto the dance floor and we become the center of attention. The entire room is looking at us grinding the shit out of each other. I pull out my head rush kino pull and my Sexual EC Routine. She's loving it.
I stop and control myself and reenter my Abundance Routine. She tries to pull me back into her and tries to qualify herself again through dancing. I don't bite. We pull away to the bar and she starts trying to kiss me. I dodge the kisses and pull away. We banter for a little bit and she starts grinding on me again. What an ADD stripper.
Now, what happens next I think, is key to the interaction. I know at this point she physically wants to sleep with me, but she isn't emotionally sure, so she starts testing me. She starts grinding on another guy who's sitting down in front of us. I sit back and watch and then open up a girl next to me. The stripper gets jealous and comes back to cockblock. I reshift my attention on her and then she tells me "I have to go for a second."
I stop and think to myself – if I let her leave, I may not see her again, since we're in the VIP section and its hard to get back in. But, if I don't let her go, I lose my frame and my dominance. So, I shrug and push her off. She leaves. I open up a few other sets and now due to my high social proof, girls are hooking much more easily. I get bored and realize none of the girls are as hot as HBStripper so after a half hour I eject. I find HBStripper near the exit talking to one of her guy friends. He's a rich chode, probably a customer, and has his hands all over her. I walk up to her, turn her around, and start making out with her. The chode just stands there with his dick in his hands.
I pull away first. HBStripper comes up for air and asks "What's that for?" I say, "that's for making me wait. Do it again and I'm going to spank you." (Spank) *credit to BradP.
I lean back against the bar and re-enter my non-needy frame. She starts grinding on me and she shares her drink with me. I'm getting bored and its now getting close to 6 am, so I run my ejection routine. HBStripper stares into my eyes for any incongruence and then gives me verbal LMR.
"Irrelevant." (Credit: Jeffy) "Let's Go."
We get her coat and exit the club. The sun is rising as we're making out in the back seat of the taxi. Déjà vu. We show up at our hotel and there's no LMR, since I already took care of it at the club. She really blew my mind. Well that, and some other parts of my body. Here are assorted pictures from my adventures:
Download the Audio Lay Report with Commentery's by Asian Playboy: http://www.abcofattraction.com/media/audio/saffrondoublelr.mp3
and visit Saffron's personal blog:
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Day Game review infield in nyc - Direct vs Indirect
Hey I like doing daygame alot I get talkative I walk use bodylanguage to know what opener to use ...
First when I started I go out and kick myself for not appraoching and take it hard..
Im very analytical but when infield I just go for it,then it comes to me...
I learned from Doc Holliday early in this before he retired to go direct ....
I had the chance of meeting this guy who goes by AWAKEN ,
he is here in nyc....
His style is more different and somethings I havent had the guts to do he does and gets away with it ...kind of wygant- janka style but more touching. He is SICK that he does subway PU's that I almost piss in my pants when he had a british woman kept moving the convo therefore it was like she was gaming him....shit like that is what makes nyc fabulous.
I started with indirect in daygame got alot of numbers alot of flakes and I use it when they are moving targets or they are near me and I just aks them based on situational...
It depends street,supermarket,etc... you have to think on your feet and sometimes it doesnt go anywhere...
that's the down side
Direct is like Doc describes better but not alot of women react to it.....
Im not sure if its low sexual self esteem when you hit direct on a 6 or 7 HB....
I hit one that from the back was blonde big boobs I went direct and did eyecontact with a light smile
(Ala Saffron, that fucker lol)
She didnt know what the fuck to do I carried the convo and was sweedish but said she was in a hurry and walked away...no number close .
anyways I dont overthink infield so I opened a another one when I saw pizza for a buck frozen section and she was near .
I asked her if they were good she said she didnt know
I told her they look like there good and that accent from jesrsey she said upstate , I said cool :)
Im in residency here so Im not to familiar with the area she asked me where and if I was a nurse
I said "you silly I should hit you with this pizza upside your head goofball"
(playfuly delivered she laughed)
Her: "aha Im taking my lawyer test ,,,"
we kept talking and she walked away....
I re entered and was comfortable and friendly and did the mehow reverse number close since it was ninjaesque....
She said I was funny and I shoould have said that she liked it but I said that you you are fun too...
ALWAYSS GIVE VALUE and REWARD HER FOR COMPLYING
then she said she had a BF I said "thats cool we are just socializing gettin to know each other :)"
she was very attractive..
OK you read this and you will see the pros and cons based on infield you decide what to use.
I use indirect for warmups after my 3rd set I go Direct cause Im in talkative state and it flows easier after the energy power of delivery of DIRECT it becomes a regular convo but we both know its cause Im attracted to her.....
The problem with daygame is TIME CONSTRAINT! I couldnt pull out the nlp "poem of glory"
ala valentines day...LOL!
sandro
First when I started I go out and kick myself for not appraoching and take it hard..
Im very analytical but when infield I just go for it,then it comes to me...
I learned from Doc Holliday early in this before he retired to go direct ....
I had the chance of meeting this guy who goes by AWAKEN ,
he is here in nyc....
His style is more different and somethings I havent had the guts to do he does and gets away with it ...kind of wygant- janka style but more touching. He is SICK that he does subway PU's that I almost piss in my pants when he had a british woman kept moving the convo therefore it was like she was gaming him....shit like that is what makes nyc fabulous.
I started with indirect in daygame got alot of numbers alot of flakes and I use it when they are moving targets or they are near me and I just aks them based on situational...
It depends street,supermarket,etc... you have to think on your feet and sometimes it doesnt go anywhere...
that's the down side
Direct is like Doc describes better but not alot of women react to it.....
Im not sure if its low sexual self esteem when you hit direct on a 6 or 7 HB....
I hit one that from the back was blonde big boobs I went direct and did eyecontact with a light smile
(Ala Saffron, that fucker lol)
She didnt know what the fuck to do I carried the convo and was sweedish but said she was in a hurry and walked away...no number close .
anyways I dont overthink infield so I opened a another one when I saw pizza for a buck frozen section and she was near .
I asked her if they were good she said she didnt know
I told her they look like there good and that accent from jesrsey she said upstate , I said cool :)
Im in residency here so Im not to familiar with the area she asked me where and if I was a nurse
I said "you silly I should hit you with this pizza upside your head goofball"
(playfuly delivered she laughed)
Her: "aha Im taking my lawyer test ,,,"
we kept talking and she walked away....
I re entered and was comfortable and friendly and did the mehow reverse number close since it was ninjaesque....
She said I was funny and I shoould have said that she liked it but I said that you you are fun too...
ALWAYSS GIVE VALUE and REWARD HER FOR COMPLYING
then she said she had a BF I said "thats cool we are just socializing gettin to know each other :)"
she was very attractive..
OK you read this and you will see the pros and cons based on infield you decide what to use.
I use indirect for warmups after my 3rd set I go Direct cause Im in talkative state and it flows easier after the energy power of delivery of DIRECT it becomes a regular convo but we both know its cause Im attracted to her.....
The problem with daygame is TIME CONSTRAINT! I couldnt pull out the nlp "poem of glory"
ala valentines day...LOL!
sandro
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Structure of my Game plan in terms of SNL sticking points
OK, Ive been out practicing,
I kind of suck on dates but thats in the works...
I have prepared my structured for my date or D2's :
which includes sharing a "chick crack pinkberry" near my apt.
I role the idea of male female polarity roles, I feel that solidifys thats it isnt LJBF type of thing.
I want to push myself to limits out of comfort zone in terms of:
-Logistics-ask questions
-Frame Control while in set or prevent losing the set
-Damage control and plowing
Closing was a huge problem...
Im sexual person and known infield as aggresive Im not shy about my sexuality and like to be dominant...its just who I am. I get dirty talked by the girl in the venue...I try to go for the PULL!
but by reviewing notes and talking to my instructors that know me and seen me infield...
I was missing an important piece...
THIS IS WHAT I WOULD DO REGULARLY IN SNL VENUES:
1) frame ladder for a makeout make a male female dynamic to create the moment-
2)I go for a makeout , get it and try to pull after wards ASAP,
3)I would escalate aggressive and physically arouse her IN THE VENUE...
4)I didnt isolate properly, seeded the bounce and couldnt handle damage control or contingencies within 20 minute mark.
5)I would tell her let's get out of here or go xyz place ... she say yes but wouldnt comply to actually go.
6) I would see her surrounde by chodes trying to pull her, and I would get into spectator mode seeing her get pull by a chode, actually I ve seen girls pull drunk guys...
I dont know how you guys have experienced seeing that or it isnt a big deal
but after SNL course I started seeing this happend everytime I go to my SNL venues....
I dont have a wing so I solo sarge...I feel like early version of CJ like how he described how he couldnt get a wing but ...He got Better learning by himself.
Im following that concept....
7)I wouldnt open properly in that scenario where the girl is hittin on guys..I would be scared to come off too eager or needy...
8) I cant talk or keep convo for more than 30 minutes, I get her aroused or I get blown out.
9)Im abit too rough when its pull time, I have to finnese it....like CJ ,Sinn and others do,
to make her feel like she is in control eventhough Im escalating...
Being sexual dominant is something I let my inner man come out, or my sexual aggresor.
Always Be Closing !
RESULT :
I would get LMR up the ass!
Wouldnt want to bounce she knew we were going to have sex she was afriad look like a SLUT...
I freeze out for a while then re initate to bounce...I lose her ..
"buyers remorse" next day ..no date, no response
NEW PLAN:
my next step is teasing the girl, give mixed signals whether she has me or not ...sexually tease her.
-Tease for a kiss then do takeaways.... give her a little and take it away...
I got physical shit test by a girlwhen I went out with Saffron I opened group set and she lost interest because I didnt make out with her she then was gaming bartender...
she was a swedish girl in town for a couple of days.
-once I got her turned on I have to s l o w d o w n..... make her want it.
-know how to manage AMOGs and orbiters....I get AMOG alot due to my weight issues some drunk guy always come in and try to make fun of me in front of the girl...I ignore
-plausible deniability: Review this and read LR's
-qualify more and frame her
-Girl being gamed by chodes- I tried this once when the girl was geting ready to leave with a goodlooking chode and I went direct on her, did kino routine qualified her and she kept askign me who I was where did I come from and if I came regularly... I FUCKIN froze, the guy got jealous and she was by herself I gamed other women to create more attraction jealously plotline and the chode kept chasing throughtout the venue as "the guy hitin on all the girls"...
Other stuff to improve overall:
BE more funny ...
Correct deeper voice and talk slower...
Im going to Philly for 2 days and will go to SNL places there.. : )
Wednesday will work whole day in brooklyn then go to SNL venue afterwards
Thursday school ,gym, dance class, martial arts--maybe set a date from online game or Day game w a personal trainer lady I met : ) ...I need more pics for online game!
or College bar night game..hmmm I havent done that in awhile.
Friday -weekend : PRACTICE !
things do tend to change but we will see....
any suggestions?
sandro
note: I will try to post my 1 st SDL at the same day almost had a SNL , my "mojo" was on point...
SDL I had 2 weeks ago 15 minutes meeting her , texting her calling her right after 2 minutes of talking about meet up for a drink, then takeaway of being busy...eliciting for phone sex and meeting now.
I'm terrible at explaining and did alot of bodylanguage since I knew she was horny on the phone. I dont talk alot...Its a bit explicit..haha..Doc holliday read it and called me a sick fuck..the things I can do with a dildo.....she contacted me later that she liked it and wanted to see me soon...
This without being needy....
I kind of suck on dates but thats in the works...
I have prepared my structured for my date or D2's :
which includes sharing a "chick crack pinkberry" near my apt.
I role the idea of male female polarity roles, I feel that solidifys thats it isnt LJBF type of thing.
I want to push myself to limits out of comfort zone in terms of:
-Logistics-ask questions
-Frame Control while in set or prevent losing the set
-Damage control and plowing
Closing was a huge problem...
Im sexual person and known infield as aggresive Im not shy about my sexuality and like to be dominant...its just who I am. I get dirty talked by the girl in the venue...I try to go for the PULL!
but by reviewing notes and talking to my instructors that know me and seen me infield...
I was missing an important piece...
THIS IS WHAT I WOULD DO REGULARLY IN SNL VENUES:
1) frame ladder for a makeout make a male female dynamic to create the moment-
2)I go for a makeout , get it and try to pull after wards ASAP,
3)I would escalate aggressive and physically arouse her IN THE VENUE...
4)I didnt isolate properly, seeded the bounce and couldnt handle damage control or contingencies within 20 minute mark.
5)I would tell her let's get out of here or go xyz place ... she say yes but wouldnt comply to actually go.
6) I would see her surrounde by chodes trying to pull her, and I would get into spectator mode seeing her get pull by a chode, actually I ve seen girls pull drunk guys...
I dont know how you guys have experienced seeing that or it isnt a big deal
but after SNL course I started seeing this happend everytime I go to my SNL venues....
I dont have a wing so I solo sarge...I feel like early version of CJ like how he described how he couldnt get a wing but ...He got Better learning by himself.
Im following that concept....
7)I wouldnt open properly in that scenario where the girl is hittin on guys..I would be scared to come off too eager or needy...
8) I cant talk or keep convo for more than 30 minutes, I get her aroused or I get blown out.
9)Im abit too rough when its pull time, I have to finnese it....like CJ ,Sinn and others do,
to make her feel like she is in control eventhough Im escalating...
Being sexual dominant is something I let my inner man come out, or my sexual aggresor.
Always Be Closing !
RESULT :
I would get LMR up the ass!
Wouldnt want to bounce she knew we were going to have sex she was afriad look like a SLUT...
I freeze out for a while then re initate to bounce...I lose her ..
"buyers remorse" next day ..no date, no response
NEW PLAN:
my next step is teasing the girl, give mixed signals whether she has me or not ...sexually tease her.
-Tease for a kiss then do takeaways.... give her a little and take it away...
I got physical shit test by a girlwhen I went out with Saffron I opened group set and she lost interest because I didnt make out with her she then was gaming bartender...
she was a swedish girl in town for a couple of days.
-once I got her turned on I have to s l o w d o w n..... make her want it.
-know how to manage AMOGs and orbiters....I get AMOG alot due to my weight issues some drunk guy always come in and try to make fun of me in front of the girl...I ignore
-plausible deniability: Review this and read LR's
-qualify more and frame her
-Girl being gamed by chodes- I tried this once when the girl was geting ready to leave with a goodlooking chode and I went direct on her, did kino routine qualified her and she kept askign me who I was where did I come from and if I came regularly... I FUCKIN froze, the guy got jealous and she was by herself I gamed other women to create more attraction jealously plotline and the chode kept chasing throughtout the venue as "the guy hitin on all the girls"...
Other stuff to improve overall:
BE more funny ...
Correct deeper voice and talk slower...
Im going to Philly for 2 days and will go to SNL places there.. : )
Wednesday will work whole day in brooklyn then go to SNL venue afterwards
Thursday school ,gym, dance class, martial arts--maybe set a date from online game or Day game w a personal trainer lady I met : ) ...I need more pics for online game!
or College bar night game..hmmm I havent done that in awhile.
Friday -weekend : PRACTICE !
things do tend to change but we will see....
any suggestions?
sandro
note: I will try to post my 1 st SDL at the same day almost had a SNL , my "mojo" was on point...
SDL I had 2 weeks ago 15 minutes meeting her , texting her calling her right after 2 minutes of talking about meet up for a drink, then takeaway of being busy...eliciting for phone sex and meeting now.
I'm terrible at explaining and did alot of bodylanguage since I knew she was horny on the phone. I dont talk alot...Its a bit explicit..haha..Doc holliday read it and called me a sick fuck..the things I can do with a dildo.....she contacted me later that she liked it and wanted to see me soon...
This without being needy....
Monday, January 26, 2009
New Year in Full gear!
I'm happy for 2009, it will be a hell of a ride for sure... and its up to you to make it worth while. Its YOUR responsibility to make yourself happy...here are my goals and stuff I want to do
NO EXCUSES!!!
1)Perfecting the PU skill- Perfect practice makes perfect, I will push myself to limits to get better.Dedicate more time infield than reading.Some of the best PU instructors out there suggest this mindset of learning by being more time infield then coming back to learn by timing it ,reading up and going back out there .Ive been helped by some of the BEST in the world and some I consider them good mentor and friend. Combination of being FUN, Social and Dominant!
I like reading rejection article by Entropy, everytime I come home after shitty night, I feel I'm making progress.
2) GYM and Martial Arts - I'm overweight cat and Ive been in the GYM and I want to take on MMA as a new hobby.As my physical traits looks better identifying with a rough rugged look with sharp suaveness...its sick! Entropy's Post motivated to building my "passive value" game and most importantly my well being.
3)Comedy and Improv- I was shy kid but always made people laugh, one of my patients that works with a famous comedian told me I should give it a shot, so its definitely in this list to develop my natural ability to be funny in the right moments,not taking anything seriously...
Guys like Eltopo and Practical PU instructor Doc Holliday are always in rhythm,the excersize in the bc made me realize the importance of this is magical.
4)Dance class-Luckily Im in school finishing residency so I will definitely going for that. I tried dance floor without skill but Ive steped on girls which have been disappointed and some turned out to be dance instructors.I credit Saffron which is awesome instructor and in many aspects of developing my ALPHA stereotype for seduction ,including his dance game takes his kino to extreme sexuality. His patented hair pull routine which Ive used in front of my wings have made several ladies turn into bad girls ..some guys have literally stand there with disbelief at what I just did ...
5) Voice and bodylanguage- Ive been practicing vocal exercises and its paying off,I plan to join a choir at church or something ,Ive improved my bodylanguage by 70% in the last month Ive been modeling Benicio del toro and George Clooney.Javier Bardem in Vicky Cristina Barcelona.I see myself becoming that guy that women fantasize,rather than the "doormat friendly" guy
I found an excersize at the gym to carry yourself better with the weights at your side forcing your muscles to adjust to that type of walk and posture.
6)Staying Positve and focused- All my life Ive been distracted, Ive half assed everything other than Dentistry. but I want to incorporate dedication to all I do , cause its for me and I DESERVE BETTER, I DESERVE THE BEST! Inner game or whatever you want to call it isnt complicated,guys like
Tim and his MINDSET ,
El Topo (w/ Jtime and Megatron in his recent phone conference went at it nicely)
CJ's Frame of releasing,
Entropy's concept of perception are what I found useful for me.I dont need 15 dvd's to explain that right?
7)Persuasion and leading - something I noticed that I was lacking from my game.
"How To Be An Expert Persuader... In 20 Days Or Less!" -by Micheal Lee
8)Relationship managements-I had a failed marriage,GF that dumped me right after 8 months I met her 3 days after I took a bc and didnt game after that..became a pathetic loser who stayed in his comfort zone... I never lead the relationship.
Paul Janka points out how after sex, power is reversed and man ALWAYS has to lead, when he doesn't...it falls on him.And loses his control and his mind .AVOID AT ALL COST.
I want a GF but Im into meeting more women to know what I want. Ive been lucky that some that I have met have awesome qualities that guys dreamed of.
My favorite is FUN girl that both of us can't get bored being together.
9)Identity and Lifestyle- I have 6 months left to live in nyc before I finish school.
I want to drive my identity and lifestyle to be awesome...Identity as a fun cool dominant man who is responsible with a dynamic lifestyle to keep himself active and aware socially and his surroundings.
I plan to go out more eat different places,hobbies like flying,sky diving and other crazy shit ! know more about the city... the best reference is Mickey Rourke in 9 1/2 weeks knows his surroundings and can talk about it yet he puts off a dominant and sexual worthy man vibe.I 've seen guys like AWAKEN who is someone who his game seems so effortless.
to sum up : Like Sinn says "Always be cooler than the girl"
10) Always try something new and push yourself : Ive learned the importance of doing new shit everyday...I learn faster that way..the pain lasts short time once you become more consistent.I listen to advice and do it.
some of these seem repetitive but for now I plan to master these within 6 months before heading off to Miami ...
I will post here to keep up with myself that way its more of an experience than just a journal....
sandro
NO EXCUSES!!!
1)Perfecting the PU skill- Perfect practice makes perfect, I will push myself to limits to get better.Dedicate more time infield than reading.Some of the best PU instructors out there suggest this mindset of learning by being more time infield then coming back to learn by timing it ,reading up and going back out there .Ive been helped by some of the BEST in the world and some I consider them good mentor and friend. Combination of being FUN, Social and Dominant!
I like reading rejection article by Entropy, everytime I come home after shitty night, I feel I'm making progress.
2) GYM and Martial Arts - I'm overweight cat and Ive been in the GYM and I want to take on MMA as a new hobby.As my physical traits looks better identifying with a rough rugged look with sharp suaveness...its sick! Entropy's Post motivated to building my "passive value" game and most importantly my well being.
3)Comedy and Improv- I was shy kid but always made people laugh, one of my patients that works with a famous comedian told me I should give it a shot, so its definitely in this list to develop my natural ability to be funny in the right moments,not taking anything seriously...
Guys like Eltopo and Practical PU instructor Doc Holliday are always in rhythm,the excersize in the bc made me realize the importance of this is magical.
4)Dance class-Luckily Im in school finishing residency so I will definitely going for that. I tried dance floor without skill but Ive steped on girls which have been disappointed and some turned out to be dance instructors.I credit Saffron which is awesome instructor and in many aspects of developing my ALPHA stereotype for seduction ,including his dance game takes his kino to extreme sexuality. His patented hair pull routine which Ive used in front of my wings have made several ladies turn into bad girls ..some guys have literally stand there with disbelief at what I just did ...
5) Voice and bodylanguage- Ive been practicing vocal exercises and its paying off,I plan to join a choir at church or something ,Ive improved my bodylanguage by 70% in the last month Ive been modeling Benicio del toro and George Clooney.Javier Bardem in Vicky Cristina Barcelona.I see myself becoming that guy that women fantasize,rather than the "doormat friendly" guy
I found an excersize at the gym to carry yourself better with the weights at your side forcing your muscles to adjust to that type of walk and posture.
6)Staying Positve and focused- All my life Ive been distracted, Ive half assed everything other than Dentistry. but I want to incorporate dedication to all I do , cause its for me and I DESERVE BETTER, I DESERVE THE BEST! Inner game or whatever you want to call it isnt complicated,guys like
Tim and his MINDSET ,
El Topo (w/ Jtime and Megatron in his recent phone conference went at it nicely)
CJ's Frame of releasing,
Entropy's concept of perception are what I found useful for me.I dont need 15 dvd's to explain that right?
7)Persuasion and leading - something I noticed that I was lacking from my game.
"How To Be An Expert Persuader... In 20 Days Or Less!" -by Micheal Lee
8)Relationship managements-I had a failed marriage,GF that dumped me right after 8 months I met her 3 days after I took a bc and didnt game after that..became a pathetic loser who stayed in his comfort zone... I never lead the relationship.
Paul Janka points out how after sex, power is reversed and man ALWAYS has to lead, when he doesn't...it falls on him.And loses his control and his mind .AVOID AT ALL COST.
I want a GF but Im into meeting more women to know what I want. Ive been lucky that some that I have met have awesome qualities that guys dreamed of.
My favorite is FUN girl that both of us can't get bored being together.
9)Identity and Lifestyle- I have 6 months left to live in nyc before I finish school.
I want to drive my identity and lifestyle to be awesome...Identity as a fun cool dominant man who is responsible with a dynamic lifestyle to keep himself active and aware socially and his surroundings.
I plan to go out more eat different places,hobbies like flying,sky diving and other crazy shit ! know more about the city... the best reference is Mickey Rourke in 9 1/2 weeks knows his surroundings and can talk about it yet he puts off a dominant and sexual worthy man vibe.I 've seen guys like AWAKEN who is someone who his game seems so effortless.
to sum up : Like Sinn says "Always be cooler than the girl"
10) Always try something new and push yourself : Ive learned the importance of doing new shit everyday...I learn faster that way..the pain lasts short time once you become more consistent.I listen to advice and do it.
some of these seem repetitive but for now I plan to master these within 6 months before heading off to Miami ...
I will post here to keep up with myself that way its more of an experience than just a journal....
sandro
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