esta mas on menos....pero es blanca...dont like her profile and chin...like she's prognathic.
She seems easy than a better looking woman with more demanding of materialistic requierements for her type of dating.
she definately has to be qualfied...
"Hey do you cook? cause I like to be treated well...theres nothing more sexy than a woman that knows how to take care of her man"
then let her talk...
then before you kiss her you tell her
"you are sexy " then depends her response if she tries to be standoffish you then follow up with this
" but thats not the only thing I look for, I mean honestly
what makes you different than any other pretty face her in LA ?"
her response whatever the fuck it is...
you smile and tell her yeah you are definately sexy..but wait are you saying this cause thats really who you are like being yourself or cause you are trying to get me to like you ?"
her response is Im being myself balh blah..
you say "I like your honesty...I value that alot...you know i people in realtionship were more honest with each other it would avoid alot of pain and heartbreak...its about enjoying each other....."
you look at her forcing her to talk... her repsonse "yeah yeah I agree" or her looking at you like a soulmate..then you kiss her.
this is breakthrough comfort qualification stuff mixed with cold read and forced qualification and sexual framing.
"Dont wish it was easier, wish you were BETTER"..-Jim Rohn
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Sunday, September 4, 2011
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
CAJUNs ROUTINE hint hint
by Masterpiece
Just a quick word about Cajun's question routine. I would have e-mailed him personally, but the prick never replies. I just have to say that after this weekend, I'm now 4/4 in F-closing when whipping that bad ass routine out. Out of all the hundreds of routines out there, this one is the only one that is so sick, evil and maniacle? and so effective.
First off this routine should not be exposed on the net.
I'm sure it will be one day, but it will not be me that does so. This is something Cajun gives to his students at bootcamps, so I guess it's worth about $2995.00 to me.
I will say though that it is a routine that gets women to regress back to a time that makes them horny. When done properly, you are able to find out any kinky fucked up desire they have or have already done. They happily give up this information while looking you dead in the eye. I understand most of how and why it is so effective, but there are still some things that I don't quite get. Like why I haven't encountered buyer's remorse yet. Twice I was unable to close on the same night due to logistics. I thought for sure that would be the end of it, due to the fact our relationship was propelled forward with the force of an atomic blast. Instead, the day 2 goes as smooth as fuck and I experience dirty, raunchy, hairpulling sex!
My penis is grateful (insert sqeaky voice here) Thank you
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Originally Posted by Thor
Supposedly Cajun has a comfort routine that has an 80% success rate.
LOL.
Sure. Just like the Black Mirror in the Annihilation Method or the fucking long and confusing Octoberman Sequence.
MARKETING! ------------------------------
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Cajun’s Question Game Routine (Cajun) - The winner of Keys to the VIP shares this top-secret routine. If you can get to Comfort, you can close with this. A student of last year’s Super Conference learned Cajun’s routine and slept with a girl he met on the plane on his way home by using the routine. You can get the same success!
I was invited to attend, at no cost, a Love Systems bootcamp taught by Tenmagnet (Chris Shephard) and Cajun (Derek Cameau) in March 2009. While at the time the methods taught made logical sense, they had little practical effect. Employing the Love Systems method was detrimental to my dating life, not beneficial.
I sent an email to Love Systems, essentially accusing them of selling false promises like $cientology and depending heavily on routines and unnecessary models (M3, etc.) which were not effective in the real world. Tenmagnet's email response (which I now remember I've yet to reply to) essentially denied Love System's dependency on routines or dating models.
As such, I thought I'd share with you Cajun's "Top Secret" Question Game. Seeing as my impression of Love System's use of routines and the model is due to my not "paying attention" (according to Tenmagnet), they won't mind me sharing this unessential, and frankly useless, game.
Don't worry, once the "secret" is out you'll realize Cajun's Question Game is completely unnecessary, and in fact outright stupid. Despite all the online hype from people who have been taught the "secret" claiming massive success using it, I have never needed any special technique or game to progress sexually with a girl. I don't think this is an effective technique, just more mental masturbation by an industry full of it.
Here is, exactly as outlined by Cajun, the Question Game. The script is written using the "PUA" as the first-person including scripted "banter".
The "PUA" starts by giving the Question Game's rules and then onto the questions themselves.
=====
Questions Game Rules:
1) You can't ask the same question twice
2) If you refuse to answer a question, you lose
3) You're allowed one follow-up question
4) I go first
=====
Questions and Follow-up (F/U) Questions:
1) How many men have you been with... romantically?
F/U- When was the last one?
2) What was your longest relationship?
F/U- When did it end?
After she asks her second question:
"If I want to win this game, I gotta start asking the tough questions":
3) When was the last time you masturbated?
F/U- Where was it?
They should try and get revenge with their next question. If they don't try to:
"You will never win the game with questions like that, do you want to ask it?"
If she doesn't change her question, give a flat (emotionless) response.
4) Where is the craziest place you've had sex?
F/U- You gotta tell me that story.
5) What's your favourite position?
"Nice... you and I are going to get along."
F/U- (opt.) What's your sexual fantasy?
6) On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate yourself in the sack?
"Nice... I am (two rankings above hers)."
F/U- (with grin) What about oral?
7) (sit beside) Are you a good kisser? (look at lips)
Any response, kiss her.
Reserve questions:
How many one-night stands have you had?
Who is a celebrity you fantasize about?
=====
If you have read any of the hype surrounding this game spewed by Love Systems sheep, you'd think it was the greatest sexual innovation since oral sex was discovered. Not so. In fact, I think if you seriously think these sorts of games will make you successful with women, you are in need of serious counseling.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On his blog, Cajun describes his "super secret" routine: (http://cajuns....e.blogspot.com/2008/09/super-secret-routine.html)
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Super Secret Routine
So I have this routine that I only ever teach to students who go to my bootcamps and 1on1s. Actually, its not really a routine, more like a game you play in the comfort stage of the interaction. Its really the only thing you need to get through comfort and I like to call it "the greatest routine in the world". It took me 100's of hours in the field to perfect and was the result of me asking myself "How can I ace every date I go on from now on?"
Why is it so great?
- Simply knowing this routine alone will most likely double the amount of women in your life.
- It can be used in the bar, or on a date and can last over 2 hours easily.
- If used on a date it will eliminate any and all awkward silences because of the way its played.
- It creates immense attraction effortlessly.
- If used properly, and in its entirety it leads to intimacy 80% of the time... im not kidding.
Its no wonder that most of my students cite this routine as one of the major highlights of my bootcamps, often claiming down the road that it alone was worth the price of the bootcamp...
He's "super" serious about this nonsense, and tries to market his bootcamps after that bunch of bullshit. It's also worth reading the comments to see how guys respond to these exaggerated claims. A fool and their money are soon parted.
Attraction Forums post (http://www.theattractionforums.com/newbie-discussion-forum/83695-re-cajuns-question-routine.html) regarding Cajun's "secret" routine. More nonsense from gullible marks.
I hope my exposing Cajun's "super secret" Question Game/Routine will save lonely guys a lot of money chasing yet another over-hyped piece of industry nonsense. After all, the chief administrator of the Attraction Forums, miaddict, says in the linked post the only way to learn Cajun's Question Game is:
11-29-2008 08:35 PM -- miaddict
There are only two ways to learn it.
-if you came to the LA Superconference last October...
-if you attend his bootcamps and 1on1s.
Please respect Cajun 's request NOT to share his routine with anyone else without his permission.
Who wants to change their abilities with women and dating FOREVER?
Sorry, but I'm not going to "respect Cajun's request" as it involves ripping off gullible and lonely guys out of thousands of dollars. I guess I'll just have to live with my guilt-riddled conscious.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Super secret routine
So I have this routine that I only ever teach to students who go to my bootcamps and 1on1s. Actually, its not really a routine, more like a game you play in the comfort stage of the interaction. Its really the only thing you need to get through comfort and I like to call it "the greatest routine in the world". It took me 100's of hours in the field to perfect and was the result of me asking myself "How can I ace every date I go on from now on?"
Why is it so great?
- Simply knowing this routine alone will most likely double the amount of women in your life.
- It can be used in the bar, or on a date and can last over 2 hours easily.
- If used on a date it will eliminate any and all awkward silences because of the way its played.
- It creates immense attraction effortlessly.
- If used properly, and in its entirety it leads to intimacy 80% of the time... im not kidding.
Its no wonder that most of my students cite this routine as one of the major highlights of my bootcamps, often claiming down the road that it alone was worth the price of the bootcamp.
So why am I teasing you with all this?
Well, a couple reasons. First of all on October 17th we are having our semi-annual super-conference in LA where I will be presenting this routine publicly for the first time. For those of you who missed the last super conference in Vegas earlier this year its pretty much a who's who of all the major players in the pua scene. Ill be presenting this routine on the main stage for the better part of an hour as well as covering body language in the breakout room, which is essentially a classroom where we do exercises and activities.
Secondly, if you cant make it to LA, me and Tenmagnet will be in Europe before the super conference doing bootcamps in Dublin and Glasgow. These will be our only European bootcamps for quite some time so if you're European and want to learn this insane routine, amongst many other things, this may be your last chance for a while.
Anyways, if you have already learned this routine from me, feel free to leave a comment explaining the success you've had with it.
For those of you who wish to sign up for either the super conference or my bootcamps, go to www.lovesystems.com
Posted by Cajun at 12:21 PM
16 assholes have responded:
JD said...
Continuous role playing? Some sort of cold reading material.
With a vulnerable story thrown into the mix.
Close?
September 6, 2008 11:31 PM
Cajun said...
No, not even close.
September 7, 2008 8:49 AM
bobby rio said...
You're a tease Cajun... a damn Tease lol.
Hopefully i'll see you at the Super Conference!
September 7, 2008 10:44 AM
anon said...
Gimme a break.
September 7, 2008 7:17 PM
pokey said...
I've gotten some serious success using Cajun's advice... this is coming from someone who has done a 1 on 1 with Cajun.
September 7, 2008 8:05 PM
Ana Luisa said...
HEY POKEY SHARE THE ROUTINE!
September 7, 2008 9:09 PM
Ana Luisa said...
AND CAJUN, WAHT DA F***) HOW DO YOU SPECT US TO BELIVE YOU ON THIS ONE IF CANT EVEN FINISH UP WRITIN YOU VEGAS "ADVENTURES" I THINK YOUR JUST BLUFFING!!!
September 7, 2008 9:11 PM
Cajun said...
Vegas articles are already done, I just haven't posted them to piss you off personally.
If you think im bluffing come to the super conference.
September 7, 2008 11:12 PM
Digital said...
cajun love your stuff but i wish you would update the blog more often.. your advice/routines are priceless.. especially for some of us who do not have an opportunity to come to conferences
September 7, 2008 11:24 PM
Javier Villarreal said...
Hahahaha you bastard. Your whole blog is a plug.
But, i'm in LA, so... Let's just see how this pans out.
September 8, 2008 10:37 AM
Joe said...
your a fuckin jackass.... period
thats all i had to say, cajun
September 8, 2008 7:10 PM
Skulder said...
I read somewhere that your performance on 'keys to the vip' is not your style. Your style is minimilistic and hypersexual, you said. Are you ever going to expand on this on your blog?
http://skulder-pua.blogspot.com/
September 9, 2008 12:52 AM
Joe said...
what?!? a routine that can solve all my pickup problems? its a miracle! wait. . .
September 9, 2008 8:47 AM
Fazaa said...
Cajun you ever thought of getting your boys to come over and do some PUA in Dubai? Lots of people with money there would pay for the opportunity and it would give people like me a chance to pay for a 1 on 1!!!
September 11, 2008 10:48 AM
JJ said...
He's pretty much saying "Pay thousands of dollars and I'll tell you"
Guys, please lol
September 13, 2008 1:54 PM
Andrew Cambridge said...
Cajun, great stuff. I always go on You Tube to see VIP over and over again to get inspiration. I wish you and 10 did some more videos. I love them!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
What happens when I use routines
So I had some 1 on 1s the past few days, for those of you who don't know, a 1on1 is like a personal bootcamp with me. Anyways, I always make sure to practice what I preach when it comes to the material I teach guys, normally I never use routines, but when im teaching I always do to show students that they work.
Anyways, in this situation I told my student to use the moustache opener because he told me he was thinking of growing one anyways. Of course I offered to demo the opener so he could see that it worked, thing is, I hate using routines so I always try to improvise stupid things into them to see if I can make fun of the girls and also handicap myself. I spotted 4 cute girls at a table and walked over.
Cajun: Hey what do you guys think about moustaches?
Girl1: They're gross...
Cajun: No I mean on guys though..
Girl1: ...What?
Girl2: ahahaha!
Girl3: Are you growing a moustache?
Cajun: Yeah, me and my friends are, for charity.
Girl4: What charity?
Cajun:.....the Burt Reynolds foundation for testicular cancer.
Girl4: What? Does he even have testicular cancer.
Cajun: (dead serious) No he has something called "cheddar cock"
Girl2: WHAT! hahahahah!
Cajun: Don't laugh, thats just the slang name, its apparently really serious, he might die.
Girl1: What is it?
Cajun: Well...its like these little orange mushrooms grow all over his foreskin.
Girl3: WHAT!?
Cajun: Yeah and apparently they taste like cheddar hence the slang name.
Girl2: (between fits of laughter) How do you know what they taste like!?
Cajun: I don't, he just posted that on his blog.
Girl1: Who did?
Cajun: Burt Reynolds...
Girl 2 is pretty much crying laughing right now, girl 1 (ugly) looks pissed, and the other 2 seem to believe what im saying.
Girl3: How do you get charity for growing a moustache?
Cajun: Well I grow it then donate it.
Girl4: Donate the moustache...
Cajun: (trying as hard as I can to appear dead serious) Yeah, you know guys who get chemotherapy, all their hair falls out, so I grow a moustache for them, donate it, and then they stick it on their lip with some scotch tape or something and then nobody knows they have cancer.
Girl4: You might be the most fucked up person i've ever met.
Girl2: I love him, he's hillarious! Drink with us!
Cajun: I should go make sure my friends are having fun without me, ill be right back...
Hahahah I love doing shit like this. Anyways, girl2 was a singer in a rock band and pretty hot, I ended up getting her number later on. My student still thinks im insane.
Posted by Cajun at 4:28 PM
Just a quick word about Cajun's question routine. I would have e-mailed him personally, but the prick never replies. I just have to say that after this weekend, I'm now 4/4 in F-closing when whipping that bad ass routine out. Out of all the hundreds of routines out there, this one is the only one that is so sick, evil and maniacle? and so effective.
First off this routine should not be exposed on the net.
I'm sure it will be one day, but it will not be me that does so. This is something Cajun gives to his students at bootcamps, so I guess it's worth about $2995.00 to me.
I will say though that it is a routine that gets women to regress back to a time that makes them horny. When done properly, you are able to find out any kinky fucked up desire they have or have already done. They happily give up this information while looking you dead in the eye. I understand most of how and why it is so effective, but there are still some things that I don't quite get. Like why I haven't encountered buyer's remorse yet. Twice I was unable to close on the same night due to logistics. I thought for sure that would be the end of it, due to the fact our relationship was propelled forward with the force of an atomic blast. Instead, the day 2 goes as smooth as fuck and I experience dirty, raunchy, hairpulling sex!
My penis is grateful (insert sqeaky voice here) Thank you
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Originally Posted by Thor
Supposedly Cajun has a comfort routine that has an 80% success rate.
LOL.
Sure. Just like the Black Mirror in the Annihilation Method or the fucking long and confusing Octoberman Sequence.
MARKETING! ------------------------------
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Cajun’s Question Game Routine (Cajun) - The winner of Keys to the VIP shares this top-secret routine. If you can get to Comfort, you can close with this. A student of last year’s Super Conference learned Cajun’s routine and slept with a girl he met on the plane on his way home by using the routine. You can get the same success!
I was invited to attend, at no cost, a Love Systems bootcamp taught by Tenmagnet (Chris Shephard) and Cajun (Derek Cameau) in March 2009. While at the time the methods taught made logical sense, they had little practical effect. Employing the Love Systems method was detrimental to my dating life, not beneficial.
I sent an email to Love Systems, essentially accusing them of selling false promises like $cientology and depending heavily on routines and unnecessary models (M3, etc.) which were not effective in the real world. Tenmagnet's email response (which I now remember I've yet to reply to) essentially denied Love System's dependency on routines or dating models.
As such, I thought I'd share with you Cajun's "Top Secret" Question Game. Seeing as my impression of Love System's use of routines and the model is due to my not "paying attention" (according to Tenmagnet), they won't mind me sharing this unessential, and frankly useless, game.
Don't worry, once the "secret" is out you'll realize Cajun's Question Game is completely unnecessary, and in fact outright stupid. Despite all the online hype from people who have been taught the "secret" claiming massive success using it, I have never needed any special technique or game to progress sexually with a girl. I don't think this is an effective technique, just more mental masturbation by an industry full of it.
Here is, exactly as outlined by Cajun, the Question Game. The script is written using the "PUA" as the first-person including scripted "banter".
The "PUA" starts by giving the Question Game's rules and then onto the questions themselves.
=====
Questions Game Rules:
1) You can't ask the same question twice
2) If you refuse to answer a question, you lose
3) You're allowed one follow-up question
4) I go first
=====
Questions and Follow-up (F/U) Questions:
1) How many men have you been with... romantically?
F/U- When was the last one?
2) What was your longest relationship?
F/U- When did it end?
After she asks her second question:
"If I want to win this game, I gotta start asking the tough questions":
3) When was the last time you masturbated?
F/U- Where was it?
They should try and get revenge with their next question. If they don't try to:
"You will never win the game with questions like that, do you want to ask it?"
If she doesn't change her question, give a flat (emotionless) response.
4) Where is the craziest place you've had sex?
F/U- You gotta tell me that story.
5) What's your favourite position?
"Nice... you and I are going to get along."
F/U- (opt.) What's your sexual fantasy?
6) On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate yourself in the sack?
"Nice... I am (two rankings above hers)."
F/U- (with grin) What about oral?
7) (sit beside) Are you a good kisser? (look at lips)
Any response, kiss her.
Reserve questions:
How many one-night stands have you had?
Who is a celebrity you fantasize about?
=====
If you have read any of the hype surrounding this game spewed by Love Systems sheep, you'd think it was the greatest sexual innovation since oral sex was discovered. Not so. In fact, I think if you seriously think these sorts of games will make you successful with women, you are in need of serious counseling.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
On his blog, Cajun describes his "super secret" routine: (http://cajuns....e.blogspot.com/2008/09/super-secret-routine.html)
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Super Secret Routine
So I have this routine that I only ever teach to students who go to my bootcamps and 1on1s. Actually, its not really a routine, more like a game you play in the comfort stage of the interaction. Its really the only thing you need to get through comfort and I like to call it "the greatest routine in the world". It took me 100's of hours in the field to perfect and was the result of me asking myself "How can I ace every date I go on from now on?"
Why is it so great?
- Simply knowing this routine alone will most likely double the amount of women in your life.
- It can be used in the bar, or on a date and can last over 2 hours easily.
- If used on a date it will eliminate any and all awkward silences because of the way its played.
- It creates immense attraction effortlessly.
- If used properly, and in its entirety it leads to intimacy 80% of the time... im not kidding.
Its no wonder that most of my students cite this routine as one of the major highlights of my bootcamps, often claiming down the road that it alone was worth the price of the bootcamp...
He's "super" serious about this nonsense, and tries to market his bootcamps after that bunch of bullshit. It's also worth reading the comments to see how guys respond to these exaggerated claims. A fool and their money are soon parted.
Attraction Forums post (http://www.theattractionforums.com/newbie-discussion-forum/83695-re-cajuns-question-routine.html) regarding Cajun's "secret" routine. More nonsense from gullible marks.
I hope my exposing Cajun's "super secret" Question Game/Routine will save lonely guys a lot of money chasing yet another over-hyped piece of industry nonsense. After all, the chief administrator of the Attraction Forums, miaddict, says in the linked post the only way to learn Cajun's Question Game is:
11-29-2008 08:35 PM -- miaddict
There are only two ways to learn it.
-if you came to the LA Superconference last October...
-if you attend his bootcamps and 1on1s.
Please respect Cajun 's request NOT to share his routine with anyone else without his permission.
Who wants to change their abilities with women and dating FOREVER?
Sorry, but I'm not going to "respect Cajun's request" as it involves ripping off gullible and lonely guys out of thousands of dollars. I guess I'll just have to live with my guilt-riddled conscious.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Super secret routine
So I have this routine that I only ever teach to students who go to my bootcamps and 1on1s. Actually, its not really a routine, more like a game you play in the comfort stage of the interaction. Its really the only thing you need to get through comfort and I like to call it "the greatest routine in the world". It took me 100's of hours in the field to perfect and was the result of me asking myself "How can I ace every date I go on from now on?"
Why is it so great?
- Simply knowing this routine alone will most likely double the amount of women in your life.
- It can be used in the bar, or on a date and can last over 2 hours easily.
- If used on a date it will eliminate any and all awkward silences because of the way its played.
- It creates immense attraction effortlessly.
- If used properly, and in its entirety it leads to intimacy 80% of the time... im not kidding.
Its no wonder that most of my students cite this routine as one of the major highlights of my bootcamps, often claiming down the road that it alone was worth the price of the bootcamp.
So why am I teasing you with all this?
Well, a couple reasons. First of all on October 17th we are having our semi-annual super-conference in LA where I will be presenting this routine publicly for the first time. For those of you who missed the last super conference in Vegas earlier this year its pretty much a who's who of all the major players in the pua scene. Ill be presenting this routine on the main stage for the better part of an hour as well as covering body language in the breakout room, which is essentially a classroom where we do exercises and activities.
Secondly, if you cant make it to LA, me and Tenmagnet will be in Europe before the super conference doing bootcamps in Dublin and Glasgow. These will be our only European bootcamps for quite some time so if you're European and want to learn this insane routine, amongst many other things, this may be your last chance for a while.
Anyways, if you have already learned this routine from me, feel free to leave a comment explaining the success you've had with it.
For those of you who wish to sign up for either the super conference or my bootcamps, go to www.lovesystems.com
Posted by Cajun at 12:21 PM
16 assholes have responded:
JD said...
Continuous role playing? Some sort of cold reading material.
With a vulnerable story thrown into the mix.
Close?
September 6, 2008 11:31 PM
Cajun said...
No, not even close.
September 7, 2008 8:49 AM
bobby rio said...
You're a tease Cajun... a damn Tease lol.
Hopefully i'll see you at the Super Conference!
September 7, 2008 10:44 AM
anon said...
Gimme a break.
September 7, 2008 7:17 PM
pokey said...
I've gotten some serious success using Cajun's advice... this is coming from someone who has done a 1 on 1 with Cajun.
September 7, 2008 8:05 PM
Ana Luisa said...
HEY POKEY SHARE THE ROUTINE!
September 7, 2008 9:09 PM
Ana Luisa said...
AND CAJUN, WAHT DA F***) HOW DO YOU SPECT US TO BELIVE YOU ON THIS ONE IF CANT EVEN FINISH UP WRITIN YOU VEGAS "ADVENTURES" I THINK YOUR JUST BLUFFING!!!
September 7, 2008 9:11 PM
Cajun said...
Vegas articles are already done, I just haven't posted them to piss you off personally.
If you think im bluffing come to the super conference.
September 7, 2008 11:12 PM
Digital said...
cajun love your stuff but i wish you would update the blog more often.. your advice/routines are priceless.. especially for some of us who do not have an opportunity to come to conferences
September 7, 2008 11:24 PM
Javier Villarreal said...
Hahahaha you bastard. Your whole blog is a plug.
But, i'm in LA, so... Let's just see how this pans out.
September 8, 2008 10:37 AM
Joe said...
your a fuckin jackass.... period
thats all i had to say, cajun
September 8, 2008 7:10 PM
Skulder said...
I read somewhere that your performance on 'keys to the vip' is not your style. Your style is minimilistic and hypersexual, you said. Are you ever going to expand on this on your blog?
http://skulder-pua.blogspot.com/
September 9, 2008 12:52 AM
Joe said...
what?!? a routine that can solve all my pickup problems? its a miracle! wait. . .
September 9, 2008 8:47 AM
Fazaa said...
Cajun you ever thought of getting your boys to come over and do some PUA in Dubai? Lots of people with money there would pay for the opportunity and it would give people like me a chance to pay for a 1 on 1!!!
September 11, 2008 10:48 AM
JJ said...
He's pretty much saying "Pay thousands of dollars and I'll tell you"
Guys, please lol
September 13, 2008 1:54 PM
Andrew Cambridge said...
Cajun, great stuff. I always go on You Tube to see VIP over and over again to get inspiration. I wish you and 10 did some more videos. I love them!
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
What happens when I use routines
So I had some 1 on 1s the past few days, for those of you who don't know, a 1on1 is like a personal bootcamp with me. Anyways, I always make sure to practice what I preach when it comes to the material I teach guys, normally I never use routines, but when im teaching I always do to show students that they work.
Anyways, in this situation I told my student to use the moustache opener because he told me he was thinking of growing one anyways. Of course I offered to demo the opener so he could see that it worked, thing is, I hate using routines so I always try to improvise stupid things into them to see if I can make fun of the girls and also handicap myself. I spotted 4 cute girls at a table and walked over.
Cajun: Hey what do you guys think about moustaches?
Girl1: They're gross...
Cajun: No I mean on guys though..
Girl1: ...What?
Girl2: ahahaha!
Girl3: Are you growing a moustache?
Cajun: Yeah, me and my friends are, for charity.
Girl4: What charity?
Cajun:.....the Burt Reynolds foundation for testicular cancer.
Girl4: What? Does he even have testicular cancer.
Cajun: (dead serious) No he has something called "cheddar cock"
Girl2: WHAT! hahahahah!
Cajun: Don't laugh, thats just the slang name, its apparently really serious, he might die.
Girl1: What is it?
Cajun: Well...its like these little orange mushrooms grow all over his foreskin.
Girl3: WHAT!?
Cajun: Yeah and apparently they taste like cheddar hence the slang name.
Girl2: (between fits of laughter) How do you know what they taste like!?
Cajun: I don't, he just posted that on his blog.
Girl1: Who did?
Cajun: Burt Reynolds...
Girl 2 is pretty much crying laughing right now, girl 1 (ugly) looks pissed, and the other 2 seem to believe what im saying.
Girl3: How do you get charity for growing a moustache?
Cajun: Well I grow it then donate it.
Girl4: Donate the moustache...
Cajun: (trying as hard as I can to appear dead serious) Yeah, you know guys who get chemotherapy, all their hair falls out, so I grow a moustache for them, donate it, and then they stick it on their lip with some scotch tape or something and then nobody knows they have cancer.
Girl4: You might be the most fucked up person i've ever met.
Girl2: I love him, he's hillarious! Drink with us!
Cajun: I should go make sure my friends are having fun without me, ill be right back...
Hahahah I love doing shit like this. Anyways, girl2 was a singer in a rock band and pretty hot, I ended up getting her number later on. My student still thinks im insane.
Posted by Cajun at 4:28 PM
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Using Framing and Qualifying to Seduce Girls by Mr.M
Using Framing and Qualifying to Seduce Girls
Author: Mr.M
qualification
Many students on bootcamp get completely caught up on opening and attracting girls. While these are crucial steps, understanding qualification and the value of setting a qualifying frame is absolutely crucial to not only successfully getting a woman – but getting better with women generally. All of the most succesful guys I know, whether they’re naturally good – or learnt to be cool on the internet – make liberal use of framing and qualifying.
Why is Qualification So Important / Powerful In Seduction?
Qualification is surprisingly easy to apply but few people actually understand why it is so powerful. On the surface level, qualifying a woman allows her to feel that you like her for deeper reasons (other than her looks). She thus feels validated and more strongly connected to you. However, the effect of qualifying goes far deeper than this.
Almost all seduction technology replicates techniques and mindsets that ‘naturals’ adopt. A ‘natural’ is a man who has the lifestyle, social status, ability and/or characteristics of a sexual selector – i.e. a man who can get beautiful women and is thus pre-selected by women.
If you were this type of man – a sexual selector – then you would naturally qualify women because looks would become a prerequisite. It would take something more than tits and an ass to impress you. Interestingly, if you are in this frame of mind where you are inherently judging the person, then you immediately assume higher value.
Qualifying someone properly is, therefore, a very powerful signaling mechanism that you are a high value sexual selector. It signifies to women that beauty, in your world, is common, and that you expect far more than just looks. Qualifying a woman, if done correctly, challenges her to meet your standards, thus flipping the frame and making you the selector. This is the power of qualification – if applied correctly it should validate them but also get them chasing you because you are the one being sought after that the woman has to prove herself to.
I can’t tell you how many a situation I have been in when a woman has been falling all over herself to qualify to me. It’s a beautiful feeling.
How To Qualify
Try to approach this from a very natural perspective. Ask yourself – what do you want in a woman besides looks? Does this woman meet your standards as a human being? In Magic Bullets, Savoy says, “Figure out what you really want in a woman, and then take this a step further by asking yourself how a woman who possessed those characteristics would present herself. Now, spend your Qualification phase looking for precisely that. For example, among other things, I value intelligence and education. I screen for this in qualification, by asking her about books she has read and movies she has seen.” This is spot on.
I personally ask the following questions in qualification:
‘Cool people are a dying breed. What do you do for fun?’
‘I get the feeling that your job doesn’t completely fulfill you creatively. Do you have a passion outside of work?’
‘My ex used to say that there are two types of people in this world – boring and crazy. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done lately?’ (NB this is sometimes followed by – ‘where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?’)
‘So what do you want to be when you grow up?’
‘What would you say are your 3 best qualities?’
Importantly, do not just IOI directly after the response that they give. I always inquire deeper into the interest/topic/issue. Only when they say something unique, should you actually give an IOI (or reward and relate) – see below for more on this.
Common Mistakes
Don’t simply give IOI’s for anything she says while qualifying. Try and inquire a little bit deeper and get some unique information out. Qualification is a form of connecting to the girl on a more emotional level. For example, is you say, “Are you adventurous?” and she says “Yes”, don’t just stop there! Ask her “So what’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done lately?” When she describes it to you, only then reward and relate. The point is to make her work a little bit for your approval.
Qualification can get boring if you’re not being inquiring. The crux point is this: the attraction phase is based more on wide rapport (i.e. multiple conversational threads, changing topics and transitioning incessantly). The qualification phase is based more on deep rapport (i.e. emotional connection, asking questions, reward and relating).
Don’t forget to sexually escalate during, and after, qualification. What I mean by sexual escalation is moving towards the kiss close and/or establishing sexual interest and/or establishing that you are a sexual threat. It’s fine to escalate during the qualification (in fact you should be doing this) but once you have actually qualified her, you definitely should escalate further. I might make a completely separate post of proper escalation if there is enough interest but for now, you can sexually escalate by any combination of the following: keeping strong eye contact (‘bedroom’ eyes), triangular gazing, lowering your tonality, allow conversation to gravitate towards sexual topics and keeping prolonged or more intimate kino (e.g. touch/hold her hands or touch back of neck if she is talking into her ear).
Author: Mr.M
qualification
Many students on bootcamp get completely caught up on opening and attracting girls. While these are crucial steps, understanding qualification and the value of setting a qualifying frame is absolutely crucial to not only successfully getting a woman – but getting better with women generally. All of the most succesful guys I know, whether they’re naturally good – or learnt to be cool on the internet – make liberal use of framing and qualifying.
Why is Qualification So Important / Powerful In Seduction?
Qualification is surprisingly easy to apply but few people actually understand why it is so powerful. On the surface level, qualifying a woman allows her to feel that you like her for deeper reasons (other than her looks). She thus feels validated and more strongly connected to you. However, the effect of qualifying goes far deeper than this.
Almost all seduction technology replicates techniques and mindsets that ‘naturals’ adopt. A ‘natural’ is a man who has the lifestyle, social status, ability and/or characteristics of a sexual selector – i.e. a man who can get beautiful women and is thus pre-selected by women.
If you were this type of man – a sexual selector – then you would naturally qualify women because looks would become a prerequisite. It would take something more than tits and an ass to impress you. Interestingly, if you are in this frame of mind where you are inherently judging the person, then you immediately assume higher value.
Qualifying someone properly is, therefore, a very powerful signaling mechanism that you are a high value sexual selector. It signifies to women that beauty, in your world, is common, and that you expect far more than just looks. Qualifying a woman, if done correctly, challenges her to meet your standards, thus flipping the frame and making you the selector. This is the power of qualification – if applied correctly it should validate them but also get them chasing you because you are the one being sought after that the woman has to prove herself to.
I can’t tell you how many a situation I have been in when a woman has been falling all over herself to qualify to me. It’s a beautiful feeling.
How To Qualify
Try to approach this from a very natural perspective. Ask yourself – what do you want in a woman besides looks? Does this woman meet your standards as a human being? In Magic Bullets, Savoy says, “Figure out what you really want in a woman, and then take this a step further by asking yourself how a woman who possessed those characteristics would present herself. Now, spend your Qualification phase looking for precisely that. For example, among other things, I value intelligence and education. I screen for this in qualification, by asking her about books she has read and movies she has seen.” This is spot on.
I personally ask the following questions in qualification:
‘Cool people are a dying breed. What do you do for fun?’
‘I get the feeling that your job doesn’t completely fulfill you creatively. Do you have a passion outside of work?’
‘My ex used to say that there are two types of people in this world – boring and crazy. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done lately?’ (NB this is sometimes followed by – ‘where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?’)
‘So what do you want to be when you grow up?’
‘What would you say are your 3 best qualities?’
Importantly, do not just IOI directly after the response that they give. I always inquire deeper into the interest/topic/issue. Only when they say something unique, should you actually give an IOI (or reward and relate) – see below for more on this.
Common Mistakes
Don’t simply give IOI’s for anything she says while qualifying. Try and inquire a little bit deeper and get some unique information out. Qualification is a form of connecting to the girl on a more emotional level. For example, is you say, “Are you adventurous?” and she says “Yes”, don’t just stop there! Ask her “So what’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done lately?” When she describes it to you, only then reward and relate. The point is to make her work a little bit for your approval.
Qualification can get boring if you’re not being inquiring. The crux point is this: the attraction phase is based more on wide rapport (i.e. multiple conversational threads, changing topics and transitioning incessantly). The qualification phase is based more on deep rapport (i.e. emotional connection, asking questions, reward and relating).
Don’t forget to sexually escalate during, and after, qualification. What I mean by sexual escalation is moving towards the kiss close and/or establishing sexual interest and/or establishing that you are a sexual threat. It’s fine to escalate during the qualification (in fact you should be doing this) but once you have actually qualified her, you definitely should escalate further. I might make a completely separate post of proper escalation if there is enough interest but for now, you can sexually escalate by any combination of the following: keeping strong eye contact (‘bedroom’ eyes), triangular gazing, lowering your tonality, allow conversation to gravitate towards sexual topics and keeping prolonged or more intimate kino (e.g. touch/hold her hands or touch back of neck if she is talking into her ear).
“Approaching Women And Starting Conversations – Pre-Framing”
For some men the very thought of approaching women and starting conversations is enough to leave him trembling with fear. And the cause of this fear? Usually, it’s the thought that if you approach women you’ll get rejected, and often in the harshest ways possible.
If I asked you to imagine the worst kind of response from a daytime approach, what would you think of?
“Fuck off!”
“Leave me alone!”
“Go away!”
” ” (complete silence)
I’m guessing these will probably be some of them. Well, I have a confession to make.
I’ve had all of these.
Did it hurt?
You bet.
Am I about to tell you guys that you will get this too at some point and to just bite the bullet and do it anyway?
Actually no.
Because there is a very specific reason why you would get responses like these when approaching women and starting conversations. I learnt the hard way, but now I have this knowledge I can help others avoid some painful rejections.
I’m going to teach you about PRE-FRAMING.
When approaching women and starting conversations, what can often happen, ESPECIALLY if you’re approaching them on the street, is the girl automatically places the “Salesman Frame” over the interaction.
Before we continue lets quickly outline what a “Frame” is. A Frame is the context through which the words in the interaction are filtered – therefore the Frame over the interaction plays a huge part in determining what is ultimately being communicated.
That probably doesn’t make sense, so let me explain with an example.
Your best friend tells you that a certain stranger at a party is a complete liar and always exaggerates everything, and not to believe anything he says. The stranger approaches you and tells you he is a world champion pool player. Do you believe him? No. Because your friend “Pre-Framed” him as a lyer. Now everything he said was being filtered through the frame of a liar, thus changing what was ultimately communicated.
Back to the approach.
If a woman had lived her life in a cocoon before deciding to walk down that street, and you were the first person in her entire life to try and grab her attention in the street, she would stop guaranteed. The problem is that this isn’t the case. She HAS been approached in the street before. And the problem, is that nearly all of these times it’s been someone trying to GET something from her. Salesman, club promoters, charity people, beggers – it’s always been someone approaching to try and take some value.
So you approach, and unless you take counter-measures, she will see you approach, and will automatically place a “Salesman frame” on the impending interaction. Now ANYTHING you say will be filtered through this filter, and she won’t be listening to any of it, because she really doesn’t want to buy anything.
“Sorry I’m busy”
“I’m not interested”
“Leave me alone”
If you’ve ever had this reponse from a girl, then I guarantee you she is only saying this because she has preframed you, and is just assuming you are a salesman of some kind.
DO NOT TAKE THIS TO HEART!
You have nothing to sell – you’re actually approaching to GIVE value, through your fun positive vibe/compliments etc. So clearly there’s a mistake happening.
And in order to prevent this mistake from happening, you need to PRE-FRAME the interaction. This is where you place your own frame on the interaction before she has a chance to, in the form a short, intriguing statement just as you approach.
The statement will replace what you might have been saying to get her attention, for example “Hi there, sorry to bother you”
Replace it with a statement that is very unconventional – something that she might not have heard on the street before. Something that will take her by surprise and make her want to hear what you’re going to say next. Something that a salesman would NEVER say.
Some examples are:
“Oh my god I HAVE to say this to you….”
“Oh my god can I just say something?….”
“Excuse me, this is gonna sound crazy but….”
Get the idea?
A statement like this will Pre-Frame the interaction as anything BUT a salesman. She will be intrigued enough to stop and listen to you. Remember, all the pre-frame does is make her stop. She might just say “yes, what is it?”
But “Yes, what is it?” is a million times better than “Sorry I’m busy”!
Go out there and just remember when you’re approaching women and starting conversations to always start off with the pre-frame before you actually open, and you will find women much more open to talking to you.
Look forward to reading your comments for this article below!
Good luck!
Andy.
If I asked you to imagine the worst kind of response from a daytime approach, what would you think of?
“Fuck off!”
“Leave me alone!”
“Go away!”
” ” (complete silence)
I’m guessing these will probably be some of them. Well, I have a confession to make.
I’ve had all of these.
Did it hurt?
You bet.
Am I about to tell you guys that you will get this too at some point and to just bite the bullet and do it anyway?
Actually no.
Because there is a very specific reason why you would get responses like these when approaching women and starting conversations. I learnt the hard way, but now I have this knowledge I can help others avoid some painful rejections.
I’m going to teach you about PRE-FRAMING.
When approaching women and starting conversations, what can often happen, ESPECIALLY if you’re approaching them on the street, is the girl automatically places the “Salesman Frame” over the interaction.
Before we continue lets quickly outline what a “Frame” is. A Frame is the context through which the words in the interaction are filtered – therefore the Frame over the interaction plays a huge part in determining what is ultimately being communicated.
That probably doesn’t make sense, so let me explain with an example.
Your best friend tells you that a certain stranger at a party is a complete liar and always exaggerates everything, and not to believe anything he says. The stranger approaches you and tells you he is a world champion pool player. Do you believe him? No. Because your friend “Pre-Framed” him as a lyer. Now everything he said was being filtered through the frame of a liar, thus changing what was ultimately communicated.
Back to the approach.
If a woman had lived her life in a cocoon before deciding to walk down that street, and you were the first person in her entire life to try and grab her attention in the street, she would stop guaranteed. The problem is that this isn’t the case. She HAS been approached in the street before. And the problem, is that nearly all of these times it’s been someone trying to GET something from her. Salesman, club promoters, charity people, beggers – it’s always been someone approaching to try and take some value.
So you approach, and unless you take counter-measures, she will see you approach, and will automatically place a “Salesman frame” on the impending interaction. Now ANYTHING you say will be filtered through this filter, and she won’t be listening to any of it, because she really doesn’t want to buy anything.
“Sorry I’m busy”
“I’m not interested”
“Leave me alone”
If you’ve ever had this reponse from a girl, then I guarantee you she is only saying this because she has preframed you, and is just assuming you are a salesman of some kind.
DO NOT TAKE THIS TO HEART!
You have nothing to sell – you’re actually approaching to GIVE value, through your fun positive vibe/compliments etc. So clearly there’s a mistake happening.
And in order to prevent this mistake from happening, you need to PRE-FRAME the interaction. This is where you place your own frame on the interaction before she has a chance to, in the form a short, intriguing statement just as you approach.
The statement will replace what you might have been saying to get her attention, for example “Hi there, sorry to bother you”
Replace it with a statement that is very unconventional – something that she might not have heard on the street before. Something that will take her by surprise and make her want to hear what you’re going to say next. Something that a salesman would NEVER say.
Some examples are:
“Oh my god I HAVE to say this to you….”
“Oh my god can I just say something?….”
“Excuse me, this is gonna sound crazy but….”
Get the idea?
A statement like this will Pre-Frame the interaction as anything BUT a salesman. She will be intrigued enough to stop and listen to you. Remember, all the pre-frame does is make her stop. She might just say “yes, what is it?”
But “Yes, what is it?” is a million times better than “Sorry I’m busy”!
Go out there and just remember when you’re approaching women and starting conversations to always start off with the pre-frame before you actually open, and you will find women much more open to talking to you.
Look forward to reading your comments for this article below!
Good luck!
Andy.
Friday, December 17, 2010
screening question? I spit fire on a qualification frame to get her attracted NLP
Yo I dont like your pic.
anyways I litedn to Seduction Sceince CDs i had past pdf of Seducion Scince v.1.
I screen women but I qualify or do it non verbally...depends man.
what is your thoughts or interpreation of screening to you?
Like I mentioned you can screen out girls who arent looking for sex, not compatible with....?
or you are screening to see how to seduce her...or even screen her to use qualification or compliance frame of
"I'm prize and who are you my dear?"
I use this , , its ILL son,Im telling you, verbal verbal tight game son ...iI laced it with some NLP in it..potent son..
My private screening question is :
please calibrate when using this: credit Saffron pua nyc*
"you are really sexy and cute"
HER : I know every guy says that to me thats lame
ME:" but I mean other girls are pretty too what is unique about you ...
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (point to self),
want for him to know about you, what makes you importantly unique and sexy about yourself ?"
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (hand on your chest, then remove),
want for him to know about you?......
what is that something he should know about you , that would make you feel sexy about yourself ?"
If she responds you have baited her inot your frame and she assumes as she has responded will assume she is attracted to you...you have to reward and then break on a high point to have her then invest into talking to you more and she will feel attracted.
anyways I litedn to Seduction Sceince CDs i had past pdf of Seducion Scince v.1.
I screen women but I qualify or do it non verbally...depends man.
what is your thoughts or interpreation of screening to you?
Like I mentioned you can screen out girls who arent looking for sex, not compatible with....?
or you are screening to see how to seduce her...or even screen her to use qualification or compliance frame of
"I'm prize and who are you my dear?"
I use this , , its ILL son,Im telling you, verbal verbal tight game son ...iI laced it with some NLP in it..potent son..
My private screening question is :
please calibrate when using this: credit Saffron pua nyc*
"you are really sexy and cute"
HER : I know every guy says that to me thats lame
ME:" but I mean other girls are pretty too what is unique about you ...
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (point to self),
want for him to know about you, what makes you importantly unique and sexy about yourself ?"
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (hand on your chest, then remove),
want for him to know about you?......
what is that something he should know about you , that would make you feel sexy about yourself ?"
If she responds you have baited her inot your frame and she assumes as she has responded will assume she is attracted to you...you have to reward and then break on a high point to have her then invest into talking to you more and she will feel attracted.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Text Game by El Topo - Part 1,Part 2 Part 3.1
This is ElTopo's Post on TEXT GAME. this I used before in text and in real life in isolation and in comfort, his talk and dialouge as well in his REDSTACK give a great example of calibration.
Sinn posted this in 2008-2009
This was posted on ET's blog but got largely ignored. I think it's gold. And not just because I'm mentioned in it. As someone who's seen ET's text game in person and the girls responses in real time he's good. He even helped me with some texting stuff in Orlando to get this girl to pick me up from the airport. Serious shit.
Check it...
The Text Game Part one.
This is one long post so I am breaking it down in a few parts.
I will get the rest of the posts up in the next few days.
Texting is something that about a year ago I realized the community didn’t have a lot of solid info on.
Now like all things, there is a lot of info on it, but not a lot of it I found was really useful.
There were some routines to get a response form someone, but none that built beyond that.
There are a lot of dynamics to text game, and I am known for the fairly aggressive style, but I practice a bunch of different forms and have friends who have a lot of different techniques on how to text as well. Hopefully this post will shed some light on that.
I will say that a lot of us actually game with text messaging as a pretty useful tool.
So it is a Tool of Game,
you can take a lot of short cuts with use of Text and IM, and then there are some other things that you can’t really make as effective in it. A good example would be, you can get very sexual with a girl over text in a fairly quickly, but you can’t really show too much of a human side with it either. You can’t penetrate deep 'comfort' emotions in text, you are mainly dealing with surface level emotions, hence the fantasy element.
Not the only way but a way to game.
What inspired this post was a few things.
The First was that someone texted a girl I had dated, “what’s up HOOKER!”. This text was kind of a joke that actually turned into many fruitful experiences, but the thing to point out about texting in such an offensive manner is not to belittle people, but to stimulate a response and have a then door to elicit sexuality.
The Second is that a few email blasts came into my email box saying that they had the Text Message Secrets. Now there is definitely good text material out there, but the series of texts they listed in this email (that was just released last week) was pathetic. I know the guys who wrote it, and they are super PUAs, but it once again opened my eyes to how some of the stuff put out there can be complete bullshit.
And the Third thing I would have to say is that I use text a lot, my friends use text a lot. We all do it a little different, but there is definitely a theoretical formula we follow.
So let’s begin here by saying Game is communication and orchestrating it to follow the direction that you want.
You are Socially Engineering interactions with people.
That includes it all, you can do this in a very Passive way that can be very influential, and you can do it in a Manipulative way. That is up to you. Game has been used and abused like a hooker’s pussy.
So the one thing to realize about any superficial communication is that is can fit a Fantasy World or can be given an Identity or Frame or Linked to a Subpersonality.
What I mean by superficial type of communication is communication that someone’s deeper emotions are not involved.
That includes Communication in any area of Attraction. And the more distanced it is from reality the better.
This way you bypass a lot of comfort and can get to seduction a lot faster than before. This is what Captain Jack did with frames, starting them early and then have him define an out come with less emotional investment. This is what I see when I read Brad P’s LRs (good product by the way), he would make his Attraction Game very Sexual, and made it fun allowing his targets to
So in person, face to face, that is the most ‘real’ you can get with someone. And it is harder to get them to accept a fantasy role in the early stages, or harder for them to accept a subpersonality role. However, the face to face meeting is what our over all goal, it is pretty hard to stick your dick in someone without this happening.
Over the phone, this is somewhat personal but much easier for someone to jump into a subpersonality or live out some extension of themselves. The main point here, is that because there is some detachment from interacting personally people will be more willing to step outside of their identity they convey when in public.
Over Email it can totally be done, but you have got to fish for it. You can’t immediately try and turn someone into a bleeding romantic, a sexually frustrated slut, or whatever your goal is. But you can get there pretty deep, pretty quick. In fact when I first started this was a big tool of mine. Very comfort based, and I still don’t know many people that have met someone for 10 mins and carried out an email conversation with them for a few weeks and then without talking over the phone was able to close them. This I did quite a bit last year consistently.
Over Chat or Text, what this post is about, is a really easy way to get someone to accept some passive role with you and very quickly build that momentum towards sex. The funny thing was that a lot of my friends in the community would not believe me when I would tell them about the texts that I would exchange with people. I would tell them about texts and they thought I was exaggerating. I thought this was a natural thing to do. It always made sense that you can be a totally freak over text.
I thought people did it all the time.
Then I met Levo and Doc Holiday and a few other people in the community that were doing stuff that I was doing. They were also being sexually aggressive in their Texts!
Also one of the books (Social Intelligence, by Daniel Goleman) I have always talked about as having pages and pages full of information relevant towards game mentioned a study about Instant Messenger Game.
If I wasn’t so lazy I would site the page it is on, but the general idea was that there were normal Teen/Young Adults that would have no leanings towards dysfunctional behavior, yet within minutes of Instant Messaging people they went sexual.
I just think that for guys like myself in the Community, we tend to over think how people can normally act. And escalation in Text can be normal. Now mix it with some strategy and you can make it one of your biggest weapons.
But was always doing this sort of thing naturally. I have always been some who could push things too far and recover so I did that in game and I did it in text too.
Although my PUA friends believed me in what I would text wanted to see proof. And they got it eventually.
I was with Sinn and Future in Chicago and we were finishing up workshop.
I started a text exchange with a girl and the value in this was that it was one long exchange. It didn’t happen over days, weeks, months, it went from me having her number sending a text and in an hour or so, she was masturbating (or so she said) while texting me back and forth.
The post is called “the Sexualized Text” I think I put it up in July or August of Last Year.
At this point people would constantly ask me about text, and when I was out they would ask me advice.
I would give it to them and sometimes it would work and other times it wouldn’t.
In fact one thing that Shaft says is that whenever he uses my texts, he gets no response. But what he started to point out was that there was a method to what I was doing.
Also at the time, Sinn and Future with their Break Through Comfort program had started adding a text aspect to it.
They would get girls in a whirlwind of “Hot Cold Texts”. And when we were looking at the consistencies in what we were all doing we were going “Hot Cold”
Now in this I want to breakdown a few different ways to Text.
There is stuff, I do, Sinn does, Captain Jack does, Shaft does, and little things I have picked up from other folks (PUAs and naturals).
There is a lot here, and it really is up to the other guys to breakdown their methods, I am just offering what I notice from observing these guys and how I have been able to replicate it.
Before we get to any sort of “Hot Cold”, we need to establish how we initiate the text.
It is not really an opener, but it contains the same sort of traits as an opener. Your initial text is supposed to stimulate attention back. It is supposed to elicit a response. It is not supposed to gain too much traction, mainly because it really can’t at that point. Like an opener it is just there to open communication.
You also need to realize that one of the best ways to text is text like a girl would. Careful placement of emoticons and capitalization work out well.
So here is the old standard that you can never really go wrong with when initialing text…
“Do you speak text … (name) ☺”
If you want you can be kind of quirky or funny with them, may sound stupid, but they work. Some quirkier ones might be…
“I just totally ate (or any other verb) the craziest thing, and in a really weird way it made me think of YOU! :P”
“I am sending you this text before I forget and tomorrow’s hangover kicks in, TEXT ME BACK WOMAN!”
“Right now I am in the bathroom, wondering if there is ever a beneficial way to write someone’s number on the wall. But it was awesome meeting you last night. :p”
“This is (insert name), text me something cool… ;P "
So now you have opened her up and where do you go from there?
Well what are your goals?
Are you trying to build a relationship with her? Are you trying to lay her as quick as possible? Are you trying to keep her around as a possible fuck buddy?
One thing that I am a big fan of, is that I will treat all the girls I pursue as SNLs. I want to go for the Lay as quick as possible. This is because it cuts out the completely unnecessary comfort that was once thought necessary in the community.
So what I am trying to do in my initial interactions is this-
-I am trying to split her personality. I want text to be a fantasy world with her.
-I want to gain compliance in the rhythm of how I am texting. For instance if I send texts that elicit an emotionally heated response, then I want to be the one cooling it down and turning it sexual.
-I want to get sexual. This is easier than you would think in text. I generally bait for it and it comes to the surface.
-I want them to facilitate a role, weather it is texting me back or performing some task that they are designated to they need to be dong something for me under my definition of them.
- I need to get them in an exchange that they can’t get out of. They emotionally isolate themselves with me through text, thus my interactions with them are a secret.
“Hot Cold”
This is kind of the original consistency we came up with, but it makes sense.
It is pure Attraction Game, and text is really Attraction Game that can be built into so many different realms. to sleep with you.
What this is, is simple. You send a text that carries one nice thing, and one teasing thing. This can go in further extremes, to something totally endearing and another totally repulsive. Like, “Just thinking about you ;)… would you get OUT of my HEAD!”
Why ‘Hot Cold’ works is because it gets a response and you are leading it. If you gain compliance over changing a anyone’s emotions you gain compliance over them. Humans are not logical, drama is a good thing when trying to speed along an interaction with women.
That is how Bait hook Reel Release and Push Pull work and this is push pull at its best. Here are a few examples of initial texts using “Hot Cold” in terms of an Opening Text… they do get better.
As you will see below, I have played around with putting the push before the pull and vise versa. No need to put that much thought in it. I give both examples. I think the lead out with the coldness may work better, but the main thing is that cat-like dynamic we are trying to portray.
“WTF I can’t believe you’re actually going home! I guess the after party will have to be going one without you”
“I am totally thinking about that (some detail about your interaction, like an odd article about their clothing)…You really shouldn’t tempt me creative minds can be trouble.”
“So today I totally ran into your twin! LOL! Except she was a good girl ☺!”
“You’re too much here…so what are up to tomorrow? ;P”
Now what is important here is not the examples specifically, but the nature of the dialogue. The two things at once, the beginnings of Hot Cold. The quicker you can become that guy she texts in her own world rather than that guy she texts that she politely responds to, if at all the better.
Escalating Hot Cold
Now one of the traps of any sort of Hot Cold interaction can be fucked up pretty easily.
It still works like a charm, but it can work like a charm in the wrong directions. So if you are using it to escalate than you need to know what direction you are going in. How it can go wrong is that is can add too much comfort and lead people towards relationships, and using Hot Cold to shape a relationship can be really out of control, cause if you play it how I do than you’ll frame the women to be totally dramatic.
So we want our Hot cold to go sexual and not emotional. To do that we need to start identifying their reactions and roles as sexual, this works out really well in text.
Here is a breakdown-
“Ok so you really think that!? Such a BAD girl…”
So the Cold (negative) part is “Ok so you really think that?” then the Hot (positive) part is “Such a BAD girl…”
Here her compliment is fitting her identity to be a positive one, but positive in a deviant way.
Now Game is something that is not really ‘making’ people do what they don’t want to do. Game is making the right situations come out and leading which way they grow. So we are not saying right off the bat, ‘you are a bad girl’. We are putting a very attractive stereotype out there and seeing if she accepts it. 8 out of 10 times she will.
Remember, we are just trying to help that sort of side come out of her.
So here are some examples of Text Exchanges Escalating Hot Cold-
PUA- “So I was just thinking…WTF did I do last night? Did I randomly text someone I shouldn’t have (don’t you hate that)…you came to mind ;) ”
Target- “LOL! No you’re safe here. No drunk texts.”
(So this is a weak response, but still a response. You want to actually get them invested, but it is your first text so no worries)
PUA- “So either you’re saving me from embarrassment or telling the truth. I like a girl that can keep a secret!”
Target- “I always tell the truth! So now you have got me wondering”
(this is a better response, she addressed both comments but still not too invested)
PUA- “Don’t press too hard WOMAN! Today has been totally crazy, I might SNAP!”
Target- “What? Snap???”
PUA- “Crazy stuff with a client of mine. But now it’s your job to make me feel better! But don’t get and crazy ideas I might not be able to handle it! ;)”
Target- “HA! ☺ Just what did you have in mind? I think I could give you a lot that you can’t handle. LOL”
PUA- “Now you’re giving me making me think of all sorts of crazy thoughts… ease up bad girl”
So what is happening here is using a hot cold dynamic to progress on in the exchange. One of the things here is that I am moving more towards a fantasy dynamic with the target and moving it to bring out a sexual subpersonality for them to fulfill.
But notice how the parts where I am saying things like, “don’t press too hard WOMAN! Today has been totally crazy, I might SNAP!”
I capitalize things like WOMAN! To get a bit of a rise out of her, and then I seed her to take on a position where I can give her a role to fulfill.
The next text I send then says, “but now it’s your job to make me feel better!”
This is something we will get into later, but it is something that Sinn does to gain compliance in a role in text to efficiently begin framing them, saves a lot of time in person with them.
The rest is still to come!
TOPO TEXT GAME PART 2
Text Game Part 2
So now we get how to open a text and one popular way to initiate a text dialog.
So let’s describe a few things around that.
I you haven’t read Part 1 of the Text Post go here!
http://the-red-mole.blogspot.com/2008/0 … art-1.html
Also find out more about Subpersonalitites in Shaft’s Post as well, cause I refer to the idea quite a bit.
http://the-red-mole.blogspot.com/2008/0 … ities.html
The reason why Hot Cold works so well, is because it is an element of Push Pull. I would like to do a post on changes made to models of game, but there are a lot of posts I would like to do…getting to it is the real feat! But surely I will get to it!
The reason why Push Pull is such an important part of game it because it is something that pretty much every human and animal is responsive to. It is almost like people can’t help but do it.
Now you can’t say something like ‘Hey, you sweet cunt whore, how’s your day going?’ that may piss some people off (but if you make it work…let me know). But what you want to do with each aspect of Hot Cold/Push Pull is get them to invest a little bit in it.
How we get people to invest is through Qualification, Baiting, Framing, Compliance, Dominance and Logistics.
So those are the things we are going to talk about in terms of text.
And again, I would like to do a post on my teaching method of breaking down your Tools of Game along with How to Implement those Tools, but again it will probably be a few weeks on that. It I could write as fast as I could think then my blog would be a goddamn encyclopedia! Should have taken a typing class!
So the important thing with text to think of is that it is only a small part of game. So your goals in text are to do a few things.
I always like to Bring out-
-A Subpersonality in it, and it is great for that.
-It is a good use of to begin Force Framing
-It is a great Calibration Tool
-Logistically I want to engage someone with some compliance, usually accepting roles or doing small tasks.
-Build Investment emotionally (now it is important to know text probably isn’t the tool to engage serious emotions, but more reactive and surface level ones. You need an orchestration of complete game to have it effect deep rooted emotions)
-And Logistically I want to set up a time to meet, with all those frames and subpersonalities to bring to the table.
So with that in mind, instead of saying, ‘You sweet cunt whore, how is your day going?’
You want to say things that your texts to follow some sort of path that will stimulate reaction to role into another text that will build a frame, to role into another one that will build compliance to your frame, that will role into one that will bait them into a subpersonality and all be fun and exciting to engage in.
You can hook a girl very easily to be that guy that she has a text war with on a daily basis. During debriefing I always ask women when they started to know they were going to sleep with me. If I have worked them through text they will always say something like, ‘I thought you were cool when we met (she might even say a little weird…hahahaha), but I really started to think about you in that way, when I would be at work thinking about what I was going to text you or when you were going to text me’.
So go figure, but it works, and even with text you can see yourself get sucked in with it too! Beware!
Using Bait in Text-
Although this is how to Bait using text, all of the ideas like Push Pull/Hot Cold, Baiting, Qualifying, Framing, Compliance, Dominance, and Logistics all kind fo work together. But in their subcategories I will mainly be highlighting the part which it is titled. In this case Baiting.
So the idea of Bait is a reactive one. It is something that is hardwired; people can’t help but respond to if done correctly.
So let’s start with some examples-
Shortly after the first few texts, maybe the second or third one in…
-‘So I am sitting in a waiting room, and I wonder if the people around me know what I am thinking about’
-‘Guess what I am thinking of right now, I just totally saw your twin and it set me off.’
-‘OMG the craziest thing just happened, I am totally in a weird head space right now’
-‘Even tho you like X , I still think you’re…well maybe not LOL’
-‘I am totally bored, don’t even TEMPT me with those thoughts! ☺’
-‘You have no what I just saw, you would totally LOVE it, in that sort of BAD girl sort of way…LOL!’
Ok so let’s take a look at these. Now some of them are doing a few things here.
The first one-
-‘So I am sitting in a waiting room, and I wonder if the people around me know what I am thinking about’
What you’re doing is trying to bait them into a simple question. One being, ‘where are you?’ or Two being, “What are you thinking about?’
For a while Sinn, Shaft and myself would always ask two questions, or give two things to respond to in our texts to calibrate. We don’t so much anymore, but it is a great tool to use. Now with either answer you can go somewhere.
But the one that shows she is more likely to quickly accept a frame over text is if she answers anything about what you are thinking. Reason why is because if she answers that she is curious about something that leaves a huge door open to.
An office space is pretty mundane, what someone thinks that might offend the ‘norm’ hanging out in the office can be something pretty interesting, well if you’re a PUA.
So if she says ‘Where are you?’ no big deal, you text back something like,
‘Trust me you don’t want to know, but these people are freaks! Totally your crowd ☺’
or
‘The funny thing is that, I am normally really into bizarro things, but I usually need a wing, next time I am bringing you! And you’ll never guess…’
So let’s take a look at a few more breakdowns…
-‘Guess what I am thinking of right now, I just totally saw your twin and it set me off.’
When I took my BC Sinn told me Future and him used the father text of this…’OMG I totally just saw your twin’ to calibrate how quickly a girl would reply. If she replied quick it meant you could begin with likely fruition on your text/phone journey.
So then we added a little more to it. Mainly because we wanted to see what she would reply too and our Bait was then more voiced to lead towards curiosity on what we are thinking. It may hook it may not. So in the first two texts a good thing to point out is asking two questions in the same text.
We will touch on that later.
But our Bait is always leading to a frame or subpersonality, or maybe even something else.
So it is best to get a response about ‘what you were thinking’ but you may get a response on the ‘twin’ part. The main thing is this will get a likely response. And you should probably use this text as a opener as well or the first text in a new exchange with someone you have been texting. It leads very well into some tactical conversations.
Replies to the twin part might be…
‘Yeah I was totally excited at first, but didn’t have that wicked side to here. LOL!’
‘And you should have SEEN the look on her face when I snuck up from behind, butt I think YOU could have handled it! HAHAHA!’
Replies to the thinking part might be…
‘All I got to say is….bad girl! LOL !!!!’
‘I was actually REALLY disturbed! I knew I remembered you…stay HOTT!’
So you get the idea with that. This would go on forever if I were to breakdown all of them, so let’s go to the next Implementation of the Tool…
Qualification in Text-
This is one that you can open a text conversation with, but to really use qualification you want to use it a bit later in the exchange, but it can be fairly impactive within 2 or 3 texts in.
But first let’s talk about Qualification.
So Qualification is a get way to get a lot of things. Lot’s of people go on and on about it and it is something that many discussions can be had about it.
Most of those discussions show its use in gaining investment in the group.
There is a great Audio Program out there that has Sinn and Vision going over Qualification. Most people say it is one of the best Audio Products out there. It is something that has a long history and has evolved quite a bit.
But here are its uses-
-Gain Value and Compliance (throughout your set) towards Value. Build investment essentially, through a ladder of Qualifiers or establish your value, to make her feel the need to invest her Emotions or work up to your Value.
-Calibrate where you are at in set. So it was said many a times by Future in many Seminar rooms (probably many other people too, but I can still hear Future saying it in my head) ‘Qualification is the Gateway to Rapport. This is because is was a good way to know you could enter Comfort and also it was a good way to transition into a Comfort base story. The funny thing is that Qualification is now used in Comfort (little bit of a different twist, but definitely Qualification, and it is the total LMR buster in Seduction. Qualification is thee way to Blast through LMR and is one of the Roots to the KFP.
-And the most neglected use of Qualification is that is defines where you go next in Set!
It is what you need to show which way you are going, and in Text this is important!
What I mean is let’s say you are talking about eating Bats in the Amazon your DHV story (and let me tell you I can go on and on about how misused DHV stories are in the community), and you want to transition out of it.
You can Qualify with,
‘So what is something you have done that made you know what your passions were?’
With that you can then talk about your passions and hers and all that stuff. Good for building bonds and many, many other things.
But let’s say instead you talk about eating Bats in the Amazon and transition out with…
‘So what’s the craziest thing you have ever done?’
No this can go a little more sexual… both can but with this you are using Bait to take the set somewhere into a more racy territory.
Both Qualifiers are good, neither one is better, depends on where you are in the set and where you want to go. And the Qualifier tells you where to go. That to me is a pretty important use to negate. So USE IT!
Some examples of text for qualification might be…
Opening Text with a Qualifier-
-‘So what is your favorite Karaoke song! ’
-‘So wait, you always pick up guys, when they are DRUNK!’
Again opening with a qualifier is pretty weak use of a qualifier, but be creative and fun with it and it will work.
A few Texts in-
Think about if they fall into one of your Baiting texts you can empower it with your Qualifier.
-‘Jezz! You really do have a WILD side don’t you?’
-‘What kind of girl are you…really? I mean you didn’t really put that off when I met you, but go figure! LOL’
-‘So you are really starting to make me wonder, who taught you your text etiquette?’
-‘I am not sure if I really know about you yet… are you one of those girls that doesn’t always play nice…’
So you can see from this that the qualifiers really do have somewhat of a Baiting element to them too. They are also the beginnings to Frames, Compliance and bringing out that subpersonality.
Remember Qualification is a tool to progress on in the right direction!
And that will take us to….
Compliance through Text
Now here will probably be one of the more rich parts of the post, because it will map out how you need to text (the flow of text or the rhythm). Compliance does a few things…
But at its fundamental it brings out repetition in the target working in a certain direction.
Normally I bring up Framing before Compliance, but I will lead with compliance here to better describe Framing later.
Normally compliance is just thought of as getting a girl to do something for you. This alone is super effective. In fact I remember on a Workshop in Hawaii, Tyler Durden spent about 20mins describing to a student what Compliance was, and this opened my eyes to a larger field of it. Also Shaft can talk, and I mean talk about the importance of Compliance in all forms of Game.
But other than getting someone to do tasks, you can build a Qualification ladder with Compliance, you can build frames with Baiting someone by making them Compliant to your interaction with them, you can make someone fulfill a narrative that brings out a Subpersonality through Compliance. Basically you can use Compliance to get someone to follow your lead.
Compliance is the fucking shit, so see it as not just getting someone to fulfill actions, but also to be made to interact with you in a specific way that helps Frame them into your Subpersonality.
My example will be an exchange with breakdown of what I am attempting to do through Text. Here goes….
PUA- ‘You won’t believe what just happened! You should have BEEN HERE!’
Target- ‘?’
PUA- ‘Really that is ALL you can write ‘?’ I thought you spoke text…lol, are you sitting down?’
Target- ‘Yeah, I am at work, WHAT HAPPENED, is that better? ☺’
PUA- ‘This chick just totally went crazy at the store, I thought, I wish (target’s name) was here.’
Target- ‘I don’t know if I would have wanted too, what did she do?’
PUA- ‘Yeah, I am not sure if you would have laughed or joined in…’
Target- ‘That depends what it was she was doing’
PUA- ‘I still am not sure…either you’d be all over it or ur one of those PG 13 girls’
Target- ‘Wouldn’t you like to know?’
PUA- ‘That says it ALL right there! ’
Target- ‘OMG, you are totally crazy… You might not want to know! :p’
PUA- ‘ME totally Crazy! F U!’
Target- ‘YES! And F U too ☺’
PUA- ‘That is sweet, but now you’re are totally making me wonder and now U won’t want to know… ’
Target ‘You couldn’t even imagine’
PUA- ‘Seriously, I have to drive now, so take it easy on me, you wouldn’t want to cause an accident now would you???’
Target- ‘Accident? That might be fun, good thing I am not there! Lol!’
PUA- ‘So now I am totally bored, entertain me… are you at work?’
Target- ‘Yes’
PUA- ‘And what are you doing?’
Target- ‘I am sitting at my desk answering my boss’ emails’
PUA- ‘Woman… really, I though you spoke text…how are you going to make me crash with THAT!’
Target- ‘HA! I thought I was PG 13’
PUA- ‘Ahh, we proved that you only are when you’re at the club, but at work I know what REALLY goes on!’
Target- ‘So dirty?’
PUA- ‘Actually it is one of the worst places that my mind wanders, just think if I was at work, my imagination would be corrupted even MORE by U! ’
Target- ‘You are a trip, I think you’re corrupting me!’
PUA- ‘Good cause later I may need your help, I have a crazy meeting I have to attend ☹…’
Target- ‘HA! We will see…’
PUA- Stop with that ‘we will see’ crap, you’re totally my text BITCH! Lol!’
Target- ‘Ahhh Text BITCH… couldn’t you come up with something else.’
PUA- ‘Yeah but, text me BACK….BITCH! by the way I am almost back and still no crash…’
Target- ‘CRASH BITCH!’
PUA- ‘You’re supposed to make me do that in another way…come on GET TO WORK!’
Target- ‘You’re too much. I can’t handle you…’
PUA- ‘That is what I thought! Lol. No really, what are you doing later, I will need someone to perk me up in a few hours.’
Target- ‘Why are you asking I thought I was your BITCH! Hahaha!’
PUA- ‘Jezz UR having way too much fun, maybe I should give you a whip so you can step it up’
Target- ‘I like whips’
PUA- ‘And I do too, but I don’t use them, I prefer using my hand!’
Target- ‘Now that depends, when and where…’
PUA- ‘Really, I think that you know WHEN and WHERE, unless you’re really more creative than me… and then I don’t want to know’
Target- ‘ That’s right BITCH!’
PUA- ‘Look woman, talk all you want, but I will turn you inside and out’
Target- ‘I am waiting…’
PUA- ‘And be waiting with a wheelchair cause you might need it’
Target- ‘LOL!’
Ok so this is a pretty common exchange.
No what you see in the first part of this, is a lot of baiting toward sex using really fun attitude. Text game is all Attraction being used as a door to open up different parts of her. This particular girl was not biting at first but still going along with it. This always suck, but if she is at least somewhat entertaining your ideas you can still press on very lightly.
You always want her following your lead.
The whole time I am leading the interaction, and the whole time I am reframing her replies to what I want to see them as.
The more I can get her to follow my path of the narrative, the more I make her Compliant.
And the reason why I chose this exchange was because it took her a while to warm up and it was done without any breaks in the text, it all took place over one day.
So now I text saying, ‘BITCH I am bored TEXT BACK!’ and she does.
You can also see the slow escalation of her turning more towards me. Eventually she does but it wasn’t immediate. The thing is that once they walk through enough of your doors (along with it being a fun interaction) they will ultimately continue on.
Compliance is something that can build your whole foundation to game.
For now that is all…
Part 3 will be on Framing, Dominance, Logistics
And it will go over some of my buddies personal theories on Text cause you have heard enough of MINE!!!!
But really they are good. Guys like Shaft, Sinn, Fidelio and Captain Jack all have very unique was to text. Still doing a lot of the same types of things, like Qualifying and Baiting, using Frames and Compliance, but they do it in their own effective and Unique ways. They are for the most part available online, but you have got to give credit where credit is due!
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PART 3
Text Game Part 3.1
Compliance and Framing
This is the 3erd part of Text Game-
There are 3 distinct parts to Part 3 of Text Message Game (Framing and Compliance, Dominance and Logistics). This is the first, and it is more Attraction Based, you can try this stuff RIGHT NOW and it is Easy to get a Rhythm for it.
It is all based on gaining Frames through Compliance.
I would say go out and practice this stuff, cause the Dominance and Logistics parts are VERY different and less playful. That being said, if you can get how to use this technique you will find gaining Dominance and Logistics much easier to accomplish.
It is about a year late…but at this point I could probably write a lot more on Text Game but we will save it for the PDF.
In any case, there is a lot of info out on Text Game now and by all means, mine is not the best…but I will say there is a TON of very disappointing Text Message Game products. In fact that was the reason for the post in the first place.
I got a Mass Email from a Major PU Company that had some “Text Message Secrets” and they sucked. It was the biggest piece of shit I had read.
So in this 3erd Part I want to show that some really in depth concepts with examples that one can do during text.
If you want to see the other 2 parts of this article you can see them
Here-
PART 1 of Text Message Game
PART 2 of Text Message Game
With Text messaging you will find that most people don’t take it to its fullest advantage. I actually would rather Text Message than talk on the phone. I would actually rather IM (Instant Message) than talk on the phone. I might actually rather Text Message than meeting up in person
So this being Part 3, I will have to say this will be a huge Hurdle in terms of Texting Information.
It is still a lot of the same theory, but they go deeper.
Previously we talked about,
Baiting and Opening through Text, Push Pull (or Hot Cold through text), Working in Sexuality through Push Pull, and Compliance.
So what I am going to talk about now are more of those things and also Framing, Dominance, and Logistics.
I am also going to talk about different techniques that other PUAs I know use.
COMPLIANCE and FRAMING
The two of these really go hand in hand. Compliance is HUGE! Text is such a quick thing, people text many times a day. Many people send over 100 a day, and some more than that. Either way, Text is reactive. So it sets up the perfect ground to gain quick Compliance. Then we want to add some Framing to that too.
So let’s start off with telling a story of some Evolutions…
The first Evolution I am going to mention comes from one of my friends…actually a student, someone whose couch I slept on many nights while traveling around and teaching in his area. This guy was always paying attention on how sexual I would get, and how sexual I would talk to women.
He is NOT your normal PUA, he is someone who is an Entrepreneur and doesn’t have time to dress up and go out to clubs all the time, wearing goggles and flashy hats. So his platform for gaming is at his house while he is working.
So he started IMing people on Facebook, Myspace and through the many other venues of Instant Message. When he was multitasking through business ventures he would check some tings online.
One time when I was at his house a girl was there and the house was pristine. She had completely cleaned it, she had been there for a few weeks. He met her online, and he through Instant Messenger.
I talked with her quite a bit. She told me that she never goes to bars, but she will date someone she meets online. This is a little hint for all you Online Gamers, it is like 10 times easier to do online game (if you know some simple tricks), and again this is a field where people don’t have much quality information on.
Women…HOT women, are on all the Dating sites…also with a poor economy and depression at a high, people are bored and want more human connections.
There is a reason why Match.com and the rest of them do better in bad economies. People are bored and people are lonely these days, and at home they let their other sides come out. IM and Text messaging are virtually the same in this respect.
So then next time I went to this guys house, he had told me how he started gaming celebrities online. Here is what interested me….
I thought to myself, “I am a PUA instructor (according to some a “Junior Instructor”), everyone talks about Celebrities and Models and all those other instructors (or maybe I should say, “Senior Instructors”) never really get Celebrities or real Models (Girls you meet on sugardaddy.com don’t count as models, they count as gold diggers). And this guy is gaming all these celebrities and getting them all sexually worked up over Instant Messager?”
So how the fuck did he do it? And YES he closed them…
There isn’t nythign special about his profile, him looking like your typical single guy Entrepreneur in a bad shit standing and smiling. There are some blurbs about how ‘driven’ he is and that is about it. In fact, let’s just say (for honesty’s sake) his pages are boring and a slap in the face to the old DHV.
What he did was he would see them online and send them some Attraction based messages…normally they are not the ones on the site, but when they would be sometimes they would reply. Now here is the thing, don’t get obsessed with spamming out tons of Famous people here, do it like he did, he would ad someone as a friend and he would send them an IM as he did it.
How he got one of them was like this…
He had just friended her on Myspace and saw she was on Facebook too (or vise versa), he IM’d her saying something like, “I just added you on Myspace…hurry up and make me your friend, then we can be friends on both of them”
She responded back, and thus resulted in a very long IM dialogue that went very sexual. She became totally OBSESSED with him and Yes…he closed her.
I have gotta ask his permission, but maybe he will let me post the threads if I take all the personal shit out.
The key to all this is he BAITS for Sexuality and Immediately makes the COMPLIANT in it. This is something I always do with Text and more often then not IT WORKS!
All those same Push Pull techniques I work for sexuality. Sometime I don’t get an open door and other times I do. Either way I will always keep texting.
When making someone COMPLIANT in texting you need to make them COMPLIANT towards a Frame.
So make those Frames-
Sexually Free, Open-minded, Leader, Discreet, and Responsible and you will immediately have an advantage.
There’s a whole bunch that can be said for these, but they are all good healthy stereotypes for a woman, and they will help you bring out that Sexually Free side to her.
Also you want to get these Identities off the table with her early because they are actually things that make a relationship easier. By this I mean that the roles between man and woman need to have a definition…either the Dick owns the Pussy or the Pussy owns the Dick…if neither is determined then you’re going to be in a pile of shit relationship even if you’re not going for a relationship, it will fuck up all over the place. Establish it from the start exactly who is in charge.
So we want to build a Rhythm with our Text conversations where our targets are COMPLIANT in the Frames we are trying to set.
Here is an Example from opening to Gaining Compliance in each Frame-
“Hey it is (name) who just met you, what is a good line to say to the bathroom attendant…I am really hard up… ☺”
In the first Text I always go with some Humor, but some guys don’t…but we will talk about that later when we cover Logistics. Also I leave a little humor towards sexuality.
She responds with something like…
“OMG, you’re so crazy…it was nice meeting you too”
“Hey, it was nice meeting you”
“I think you should walk into the bathroom and ask him for help LOL”
So the First Example she gives you an opening with the “crazy” line you can start seeding with that. ‘Crazy’ turns into sexual really easy.
In the Second Example she give you very little to go off of, but she is texting back so that is good.
In the Third Example she is adds some humor on the dark side of things, here you can really go off on her.
In the Logistics portion we will go over this more, but you don’t want to entertain too much humor with Seduction, because it doesn’t bond it to a part of their personality. You need to Sexualize Them, not dance around it with a jokes. Humor is just a way to get them COMPLIANT in it. It doesn’t make it work it just helps it.
So let’s say she responds to the poorest example, “Hey, it was nice meeting you”
I would say you need to take this and turn it into something you can make work, I would try for a doorway to sexuality again…
“You know what I liked best about you, I can’t say over text…but for now Nice meeting you too”
Here I am trying to Bait into getting her to ask what that is…
Now a funny thing, my beloved Caribbean Queen always says I am a pussy for baiting too much, she always tells me… “all women are dirty perverts and you need to tell them that rather than do all this baiting bullshit”.
Maybe I am not as Alpha as her, but for now, use Bait…it works.
And with this you should get a response something like this…
“What does that mean?”
This is good, you probably will get more than that, but that is the response you’re looking for, a Push Back.
So I would reply to that…
“Well I have a pretty crazy mind sometimes, but you’re pretty open-minded right? Plus you like gossip, in all the right ways of course.”
Here’s what I am doing is I am saying I am pretty crazy minded (can translate to something sexual pretty easily) and I am trying to get her COMPLIANT in being ‘open-minded’ (this always works), then I am putting out there in the 3erd line that she has a gossipy side to her (also can translate to sex if she takes this thread).
So let’s say she responds to one of them, hopefully she will respond to more but we will take the challenge with this one.
“Open-minded, yes…just what do you mean by that?
It would be better if she bit at the other ones, but now you have got her COMPLIANT in one of the Frames. Now you have got to take that and get her COMPLIANT in some of the other Frames.
“I get the feeling you can really piss people off with your first impression, not me cause I think that we are alike in too many ways…I bet you have a twisted sense of humor”
So this is some classic push pull teasing with the “first impressions” thing and then you recover with aligning it to you. At the end you do a force frame or cold read with stating she has a ‘twisted sense of humor’.
This should yield a more favorable response.
She should play to one of the cold reads and go in a more Comfort mode.
“I am not sure what you mean, but I can have that side to me”
If she accepts here, then you’re good. Then you just need to implement the other Frames like listed below this paragraph. But if she doesn’t you will need to Dismiss her a little and pull her back in with something like, “I guess I had you wrong…but I like the attitude.”
Now if she does step through the hoops then go for something more in-depth with her personality.
“Good, I am the type of person that only gets along with certain types of people, I like people who have their shit together…you’re the type that knows how to let it go too”
This sort of text doesn’t seem to elicit a response, but it will. Since she finally accepted the role you have a pretty large window where you can slip some Cold Reads and Frames in (we will talk more of this in the Dominance portion).
She will probably respond taking the compliment. This is another act of COMPLIANCE.
“I know how to have my fun”
The real technique here is when she keeps walking through hoops like this you need to take her answers and turn them towards Frames using the same rhythm and bait. For instance…
“I don’t want to know what your idea of fun is…but mine might actually scare you off, are you trustworthy?”
The above is using Bait and Framing at the same time. In the above there are 3 separate things she can address. You don’t necessarily need to have all those, but for the purpose of giving an example I wrote 3. You could have just said, ‘I don’t want to know what your idea of fun is…’ and she would play back. That is somewhat of a passive approach to hooking her. I say passive cause she can bit of she can avoid it. It is not reactive enough. The second two “Mine might scare you off” and “are you trustworthy” hit two much more reactive parts to a girl or any person really.
If she responds to ‘mine might scare you off’ this means she is most likely competitive sexually. With that you can really work her hard into a Frame. When we get into the Dominance stuff, you can do some real damage.
If she responds to being trustworthy she is hitting 2 Frames. The first being one being Responsible and the other being she can be Discreet.
Here are a couple threads that you can have as ‘canned’ text material that work a ladder up to a Framing Sequence and Gain Compliance. If you can get someone in a Compliant Rhythm then you can pretty much sit on Autopilot, and if you can work Framing in there too then you just need to work Logistics.
Framing and Compliance Sequences
Text Openers (for a Baiting style)
-”You’re not going to believe this, but I just went to the bathroom…wait you’re not religious are you?”
-”This is (Name), I met you tonight and just to let you know I am not that kind of guy, but nice try.”
-”This is you’re new text friend, text me back something bad”
-”I am just had the strangest thing happen with this girl, by the way this is (Name), but don’t judge.”
-”This is (Name), I like you, text me back. (this may seem to simple, but it works)
Baiting to elicit a part of her personality
-”I only get along with creative people, but I am afraid you might be too creative for me” (you can pick any leveraging characteristic)
-”I can’t believe you’re gone, do you always have this effect on men…the leaving too early part I mean.”
-”There is no clean up for you, what kind of a girl are you?”
-”Ok now I am confused, you do what for work again?”
-”You’re trouble, but I mean that in the best possible way”
-”You think too much and I don’t want to know what about”
Frames
-”You get off on teasing people”
-”I think you must be someone who takes things too far sometimes. I like that about you.”
-”You’re almost too crazy for me, it may not have been a good thing getting your number”
-”You like being all dominant to men, I can’t believe I am actually talking to you”
-”If I didn’t understand you, I’d say you need therapy”
-”You are so someone who gets intimidated by people you like, but gets off on intimidating easy targets”
-”I am not sure if you are shy or completely over the top…probably a mix of both”
-”You’re a free thinker that is good, but out of control too”
Making them Compliant in the Frames
-”What is it about you that makes get off on messing with guys”
-”Are you really someone who, thinks that way? Are you someone that most people misinterpret?
-”What makes you like someone? Cause I think the thing that people notice about you, is not what you might think”
-”Do you attract the wrong people sometimes? I bet you can push the right people away”
-”How do you think you make people feel when you first meet them.”
-”Do you think you’re more personality or more appearance”
-”I know you are someone who can be all over the place, but are you someone who is gets what you want”
SEXUALIZED TEXT BONUS by EL TOPO
There are a few warnings and descriptions I am going to have to go through before I post some of this stuff.
Number one- posting this stuff in public is kind of a risk, but the truth is that I have gotten a lot of requests for it and I feel there is something that can be learned of it.
Number two- one of the reasons why this is so important is because the model of it is more complex than just vulgar or lewd. It is communicating on multiple levels with a woman.
Number three- This form of communication pushes it. You can always push your way in verbally, to instigate physically. But mainly one you have got someone to fit in the role ou want them in, it is fairly easy to get them back there.
Despite how over the top all this is the psychology involved in it should not be over looked.
Also the main thing I am working on now is taking my body language to a new level. I am working on reading (calibrating) my own sub communication receptors as well as communicating more with what I am putting off.
Using the right balance of normal social interaction as well as passive social interactions, like giving off body language that might imply sexuality is hugely effective.
Now this doesn’t mean you walk around grabbing yourself, it really is subtler than that. It takes practice. I need a lot more practice at it, but within the PUA community I am quite good at it. I will list some resources with this a little bit later when I have it down comfortably.
So in all of this I am going to post about a text message exchange that I had with a girl I have since closed.
I am very comfortable when I number close a girl that I will close her. I will try and go for the lay that night, but if it doesn’t happen that’s fine.
There may be logistical problems, outside obstacles, or she may not be ready. Either way if I get some rapport and a number I am fine.
Even an email address, I can pull it off.
So far I have closed 8 girls in the past 3 months with only texting or emailing them. I only talked to them on the phone right before we actually met again.
This example in particular is great because the whole text exchange happened in one day.
Here is how and why it works.
This to me is the most important thing.
The reason why this is effective, is because you are creating different roles for a person to communicate through. Here there is a huge fantasy area. But in any social interaction there are multiple things being communicated even when the intent is to only communicate one thing. So in a normal interaction between a PUA and a Target there is your basic Attraction stuff everyone knows about. Attraction is vitally important, but people obsess about it.
It is a part of the puzzle, but not the only part. Attraction can be very passive.
Now in that interaction you can be communicating with what you are saying and obviously doing, but there is much more going on with that.
The difference we see in boot camps where a student gets blown out and no more than 10 seconds later and instructor goes in and can open the set and hold it using the exact same opener, has to do with all that other stuff they are not so obviously doing.
The key is, that everybody has thoughts of sex, hate, love, pain, there is not too much diversity to the range of human emotions.
In fact I think it is something like; happy, mad, sad, hurt, afraid, ashamed… I may be missing one.
So there is always something like that to relate with.
But someone who is good at influencing people can work multiple things at once.
That is how this text works.
It breaks social etiquette, but that is because there is more leeway in the written form. Especially a written form that is so superficial as texting.
But let’s say the PUA is there with his Target.
You have got to maintain that social identity of the target, by maintaining etiquette, but also pulling out those other identities on the target. Ones that might be more comfort bound, and others that might be more sexually bound.
This is really hard stuff to explain in just a blog.
But as I have said before
email me…
el.topo.el@gmail.com
We offer very affordable routine stack consultations, even customized routine stacks, and probably the most common thing is a phone consultation.
Either way there is more to this text thing than just being a pervert, although that helps. And there is more than your routines than making them present a false self to a girl.
What myself Captain Jack, Sinn and Future teach is how to game. And how to game like us.
And we teach you to do it in a way that highlights you!
Text Dialog from a few months ago…
So I am sitting in my Hotel room on Boot Camp and I am bored.
Sinn has always asked me about my odd phone/text methods and I have never recorded what actually took place. I would explain it, but could never really break it down well.
So here I am in Chicago, and a girl who I know from photography texts me. I don’t know her well. Haven’t had anything sexual with her ever. She’s a model and I know her through friends who I have shot.
Last week I closed a girl in Scottsdale with this same type of thing. She flew out from CA to ‘visit her friend’. But the whole time she spent time with me in my hotel room (sorry Captain Jack).
Basically here’s the deal, you are friends with a girl and you play a flirty sexual game with them.
Note how this dialog starts, just friendly. Then I add in a little sex, and she takes it and runs with it.
Once she opens the door I walk in big time.
The whole time I am framing her to be ‘my naughty girl’. No big deal, but I am push it.
The thing with pushing a bit too far, is because if you have rapport, if you have humanized yourself with someone, you can almost always recover.
And then I drop the major sex description.
Then I put her in a role.
Then I make her WORK for that role to add investment to the identity.
And always maintain the frame of her having to play MY game!
The funny thing is that this happened while sitting in my Hotel room, then getting ready to do the field part of the BC, and then during the intense sex part while in the cab with Future and Sinn on the way to the venue.
And then I ended it while at the bar in set.
Kinda funny, but here’s the entire unedited dialog. Just know you can push it!
But be careful, I am very good at this. And this is an extreme example of what I do. So take it easy with your texts, don’t push it too hard, just a little at a time.
AT HOTEL!
HB Model- Hey, when are you coming here
El Topo- Sorry I am laid up in a hospital bed
HB Model- What?!
El Topo- I have mercury poisoning and am stuck in a bed in AZ.
HBM- PERFECT that’s just how I like my men
ET- Don’t tease me I am totally sexually deprived, fuck you.
HBM- I too am Sex deprived. Too bad We’re not closer.
ET- You had to keep going…now I am going to have to think of you as I touch my cock.
HBM- WOW! How’s that for being honest!
ET- Fuck you
HBM- FUCK ME?
ET- Yes! HOOKER…FUCK ME!
HBM- You’d like that. I am sure.
ET- Listen here HOOKER! Shot the fuck up, I am trying to get off!
HBM- Fuck you HOOKER TEXT Back!
ET- I will pound your ass woman! Shut the fuck UP!
HBM- Not into the whole ‘ass’ thing. But don’t make promises you can’t keep.
ET – You god damn HOOKER, don’t make challenges you can’t keep BIATCH
HBM- Don’t use the lord’s name in vain.
ET – Fuck you, I am a demon sex motherfucker, I will send your pussy to HELL
HBM- I am already in HELL. LOL
ET- Hell is nothing in comparison as to what I am going to do to you HOOKER!
HBM- WOW! What are you gonna do?
ET- Shut the fuck UP! You god damn HOOKER. Know your place!
HBM- I’m about to take a shower. So gimme some visuals.
HBM- I SAID VISUALS
ET- I am going to put you on all fours bitch and take you from behind. As I am shoving my fat cock into your tight pussy I am going to spit on your asshole, and prepare it for my cock. But before that I am going to grab the back of your hair and force my cock into your mouth and make you suck yourself off of me.
ET- Then after I am done with your mouth, I am going to throw you on your back and get on top of you. I will throw your legs back and go deep. I am not going to fuck you like those other guys. I am going to drive my cock all the way in till it tears past your cervix into your womb. The ridge of my raging cock will scrape against the wrinkles in your cunt. I will drive my dick around all of it. I will hit all your spots as my cock tastes every bit of your thick juices.
HBM- HOLY SHIT! No One could duet accuse you of being Shy! Christ. You just made me Blush. That never happens. ☺
HBM- Are you coming yet?
GETTING READY TO GO OUT
ET- You never get fucked that way dirty girl, do you.
HBM-You have NO Idea.
ET- I am not done yet, fuck you! It is now your turn to send me visual. You fucking HOOKER.
HBM- Anyways. Lets See If we bring some relief to my little sexually deprived sex demon.
ET- That’s not good enough BITCH, make my dick as wet as your pussy HOOKER!
HBM- Your hand still works right? Your hand can still get hard right?
ET- I have a hard cock and a hand but, that’s not what I told you to do. I want your fucking pussy to make me HARD!
HBM- So you can come! Let’s do it.
ET- Get to work HOOKER. You need to learn to talk dirty, or I’m not going to allow you to finish me off. You wanna make my cock come. You wanna make this cock yours…
HBM- Maybe ☺
ET- Fuck off…you’re awesome babe, but if you’re not gonna play I got to go.
HBM- Well… We’d have to definitely start out with you in my mouth. Slowly. I’d work my Tongue Around your head. Move Slowly towards the shaft. Until your entire Cock is in my mouth.
ET- and…
HBM- I’d repeat. Several times. But you can’t come like that. Not in my mouth. So just before you are about to come I’d remove my panties.
ET- Keep gong bitch, I have to shower soon.
HBM- Get off in the shower? I am getting off right her in my bed with you. Do you want Me to Stop?
ET- keep going, you owe me more…tell me about your little pussy
HBM- It feels so FUCKING GOOD. I’d ride You so hard. Pushing you farther inside me.
My pussy continuing to get wetter and wetter. Making it easier for you to slide in and out of me.
ET- Come on dirty girl, I know you can be naughty with me.
HBM- I’d Tie Your wrists to the bed post. Then I’d tie your ankles to the bed. Then I’d slide my soft Wet pussy Across your lips while reaching back to slowly stroke your cock. And tickle your balls.
Then I’d slowly turn around and gently guide your Cock Into Me From behind. Your chest against my back.
You lips close to my Ear so I can hear what you have to say to Me.
ET- You know I would put you in your place and make you do all sorts of bad girl things. I like to talk dirty, and I like you to be dirty to me.
HBM- How do I feel?
ET- When did you start thinking about me like this. How long have you been imagining my cock.
HBM- Send me a pic of what you’re doing right now.
ET- I can feel your sweat on your thighs as my shaft slides in and you of you. Your wet pussy is dripping down my balls to your asshole, you’re dripping more and more.
My cock is raging, you can feel my purple onion ready to burst inside your pussy. My head is getting fatter and fatter. What are you gonna do to make your cock cum baby?
HBM- I won’t let you come till I’m ready.
ET- Tell me love, tell me how you’re going to do it.
MEETING SINN AND FUTURE
HBM- I want to feel your Tongue Inside Me. That’s my favorite.
ET- You want me to suck you, I don’t think you’ve sucked me enough yet. First I would have to lick up all of your juices so I can actually feel your lips. Your pussy is so wet and ripe.
HBM- Keep going.
IN CAB WITH SINN AND FUTURE
ET- I am done, I want to cum HOOKER! You want my cock to CUM?
HBM- too much work, Typical. Whatever
ET- Shut the fuck up little girl, you don’t tell me what to do if I want you on your back that’s what you do. If I want you on all fours that’s what you do. I fuck you how I want to fuck you. And you don’t et fucked any better than me whore! Who makes your pussy this wet? Who’s cock can hold out this long with how tight you’re getting?
HBM- Are you gonna come for me?
ET- You have to earn my cum you fucking dirty girl. I dominate your CUNT, I need you to be really dirty for a little while in order to make me cum.
HBM- Fuck ME Easy the HARD!
ET- No you need to be real dirty, baby. You need to clinch up on me. You need to seize on my cock. You need to make my head pulsate bulging bigger and bigger in your pink little hole.
HBM- I’m gonna COME!
ET- I don’t want you to cum yet baby, I want you to come really hard for me , I need to feel your pussy drip all down my balls.
HBM- I will be good I promise, I am gonna come, what are you gonna do to me.
ET- Fuck you take your fucking hands off your pussy.
HBM- I came, I came so hard for you.
ET- What did I say! I am done. I will finish myself off elsewhere. Bye
HBM- No I don’t want to leave you High and Dry!
ET- Then you know what you have to do. You have to do what I say, you’re gonna have to be naughty for me. Real naughty.
HBM- Even better, how do I be your naughty girl?
ET- I just pounded your ass, now you have to pound mine you DIRTY CUNT WHORE! Now you dominate me, you fucking DIRTY BITCH!
HBM- You want me that way… I’d tie your wrists to the bed post. Then I’d tie your ankle to the bed, then I’d slide my soft wet pussy across your lips.
ET- Fuck you whore I already heard that one.
AT VENUE
HBM- How do I be dirty for you, babe?
ET- You’ve got to rack my shit like a nasty fucking WHORE! I want you to get dirty like a nasty nasty girl.
HBM- That’s how you want me?
ET- Can you be that way, or do I need to text someone else.
HBM- I can be, I can be dirty for you.
ET- You need to do things for me I like, you need to do things you don’t normally do for other guys.
HBM- You wanna fuck my ass?
ET- Now you’re getting somewhere, I need you to violate me, and I need to violate you.
HBM- My pussy is still wet do you want me to get my ass wet with my pussy?
ET- Keep talking you’re making my cock rage!
HBM- Yeah is fucking my tight ass making you come! You like me from behind, fucking my ass?
ET- You fucking bitch, fuck my cock with your ass. You’re gonna make me CUM!
HBM- Come for me baby.
ET- Suck your ass off my cock!
HBM- Wat?
ET –You heard me! Suck your ass off my cock you dirty girl!
HBM- Stick it in my mouth, stick it my mouth.
ET- Say it whore, say it. Tell me you want to suck yourself off me! SAY IT, Make me CUM!
IN SET AT BAR
HBM- I want it I want your COME. Take it out of my ass and give me your come.
ET- I just shot my load so hard, baby. I just came so hard.
HBM- Did you come for me?
ET- I need to go babe, I am falling asleep. You wore my ass out.
HBM- But I want you here next to me.
ET- I can’t do that baby, I am tired and need to get some rest.
HBM- But I want to hold you next to me while I fall asleep.
ET- I am sorry babe, that’s not what I am here for.
HBM- Good night , call you tomorrow K ☺
Give this to your psychologist and let me know what they think…
Sinn posted this in 2008-2009
This was posted on ET's blog but got largely ignored. I think it's gold. And not just because I'm mentioned in it. As someone who's seen ET's text game in person and the girls responses in real time he's good. He even helped me with some texting stuff in Orlando to get this girl to pick me up from the airport. Serious shit.
Check it...
The Text Game Part one.
This is one long post so I am breaking it down in a few parts.
I will get the rest of the posts up in the next few days.
Texting is something that about a year ago I realized the community didn’t have a lot of solid info on.
Now like all things, there is a lot of info on it, but not a lot of it I found was really useful.
There were some routines to get a response form someone, but none that built beyond that.
There are a lot of dynamics to text game, and I am known for the fairly aggressive style, but I practice a bunch of different forms and have friends who have a lot of different techniques on how to text as well. Hopefully this post will shed some light on that.
I will say that a lot of us actually game with text messaging as a pretty useful tool.
So it is a Tool of Game,
you can take a lot of short cuts with use of Text and IM, and then there are some other things that you can’t really make as effective in it. A good example would be, you can get very sexual with a girl over text in a fairly quickly, but you can’t really show too much of a human side with it either. You can’t penetrate deep 'comfort' emotions in text, you are mainly dealing with surface level emotions, hence the fantasy element.
Not the only way but a way to game.
What inspired this post was a few things.
The First was that someone texted a girl I had dated, “what’s up HOOKER!”. This text was kind of a joke that actually turned into many fruitful experiences, but the thing to point out about texting in such an offensive manner is not to belittle people, but to stimulate a response and have a then door to elicit sexuality.
The Second is that a few email blasts came into my email box saying that they had the Text Message Secrets. Now there is definitely good text material out there, but the series of texts they listed in this email (that was just released last week) was pathetic. I know the guys who wrote it, and they are super PUAs, but it once again opened my eyes to how some of the stuff put out there can be complete bullshit.
And the Third thing I would have to say is that I use text a lot, my friends use text a lot. We all do it a little different, but there is definitely a theoretical formula we follow.
So let’s begin here by saying Game is communication and orchestrating it to follow the direction that you want.
You are Socially Engineering interactions with people.
That includes it all, you can do this in a very Passive way that can be very influential, and you can do it in a Manipulative way. That is up to you. Game has been used and abused like a hooker’s pussy.
So the one thing to realize about any superficial communication is that is can fit a Fantasy World or can be given an Identity or Frame or Linked to a Subpersonality.
What I mean by superficial type of communication is communication that someone’s deeper emotions are not involved.
That includes Communication in any area of Attraction. And the more distanced it is from reality the better.
This way you bypass a lot of comfort and can get to seduction a lot faster than before. This is what Captain Jack did with frames, starting them early and then have him define an out come with less emotional investment. This is what I see when I read Brad P’s LRs (good product by the way), he would make his Attraction Game very Sexual, and made it fun allowing his targets to
So in person, face to face, that is the most ‘real’ you can get with someone. And it is harder to get them to accept a fantasy role in the early stages, or harder for them to accept a subpersonality role. However, the face to face meeting is what our over all goal, it is pretty hard to stick your dick in someone without this happening.
Over the phone, this is somewhat personal but much easier for someone to jump into a subpersonality or live out some extension of themselves. The main point here, is that because there is some detachment from interacting personally people will be more willing to step outside of their identity they convey when in public.
Over Email it can totally be done, but you have got to fish for it. You can’t immediately try and turn someone into a bleeding romantic, a sexually frustrated slut, or whatever your goal is. But you can get there pretty deep, pretty quick. In fact when I first started this was a big tool of mine. Very comfort based, and I still don’t know many people that have met someone for 10 mins and carried out an email conversation with them for a few weeks and then without talking over the phone was able to close them. This I did quite a bit last year consistently.
Over Chat or Text, what this post is about, is a really easy way to get someone to accept some passive role with you and very quickly build that momentum towards sex. The funny thing was that a lot of my friends in the community would not believe me when I would tell them about the texts that I would exchange with people. I would tell them about texts and they thought I was exaggerating. I thought this was a natural thing to do. It always made sense that you can be a totally freak over text.
I thought people did it all the time.
Then I met Levo and Doc Holiday and a few other people in the community that were doing stuff that I was doing. They were also being sexually aggressive in their Texts!
Also one of the books (Social Intelligence, by Daniel Goleman) I have always talked about as having pages and pages full of information relevant towards game mentioned a study about Instant Messenger Game.
If I wasn’t so lazy I would site the page it is on, but the general idea was that there were normal Teen/Young Adults that would have no leanings towards dysfunctional behavior, yet within minutes of Instant Messaging people they went sexual.
I just think that for guys like myself in the Community, we tend to over think how people can normally act. And escalation in Text can be normal. Now mix it with some strategy and you can make it one of your biggest weapons.
But was always doing this sort of thing naturally. I have always been some who could push things too far and recover so I did that in game and I did it in text too.
Although my PUA friends believed me in what I would text wanted to see proof. And they got it eventually.
I was with Sinn and Future in Chicago and we were finishing up workshop.
I started a text exchange with a girl and the value in this was that it was one long exchange. It didn’t happen over days, weeks, months, it went from me having her number sending a text and in an hour or so, she was masturbating (or so she said) while texting me back and forth.
The post is called “the Sexualized Text” I think I put it up in July or August of Last Year.
At this point people would constantly ask me about text, and when I was out they would ask me advice.
I would give it to them and sometimes it would work and other times it wouldn’t.
In fact one thing that Shaft says is that whenever he uses my texts, he gets no response. But what he started to point out was that there was a method to what I was doing.
Also at the time, Sinn and Future with their Break Through Comfort program had started adding a text aspect to it.
They would get girls in a whirlwind of “Hot Cold Texts”. And when we were looking at the consistencies in what we were all doing we were going “Hot Cold”
Now in this I want to breakdown a few different ways to Text.
There is stuff, I do, Sinn does, Captain Jack does, Shaft does, and little things I have picked up from other folks (PUAs and naturals).
There is a lot here, and it really is up to the other guys to breakdown their methods, I am just offering what I notice from observing these guys and how I have been able to replicate it.
Before we get to any sort of “Hot Cold”, we need to establish how we initiate the text.
It is not really an opener, but it contains the same sort of traits as an opener. Your initial text is supposed to stimulate attention back. It is supposed to elicit a response. It is not supposed to gain too much traction, mainly because it really can’t at that point. Like an opener it is just there to open communication.
You also need to realize that one of the best ways to text is text like a girl would. Careful placement of emoticons and capitalization work out well.
So here is the old standard that you can never really go wrong with when initialing text…
“Do you speak text … (name) ☺”
If you want you can be kind of quirky or funny with them, may sound stupid, but they work. Some quirkier ones might be…
“I just totally ate (or any other verb) the craziest thing, and in a really weird way it made me think of YOU! :P”
“I am sending you this text before I forget and tomorrow’s hangover kicks in, TEXT ME BACK WOMAN!”
“Right now I am in the bathroom, wondering if there is ever a beneficial way to write someone’s number on the wall. But it was awesome meeting you last night. :p”
“This is (insert name), text me something cool… ;P "
So now you have opened her up and where do you go from there?
Well what are your goals?
Are you trying to build a relationship with her? Are you trying to lay her as quick as possible? Are you trying to keep her around as a possible fuck buddy?
One thing that I am a big fan of, is that I will treat all the girls I pursue as SNLs. I want to go for the Lay as quick as possible. This is because it cuts out the completely unnecessary comfort that was once thought necessary in the community.
So what I am trying to do in my initial interactions is this-
-I am trying to split her personality. I want text to be a fantasy world with her.
-I want to gain compliance in the rhythm of how I am texting. For instance if I send texts that elicit an emotionally heated response, then I want to be the one cooling it down and turning it sexual.
-I want to get sexual. This is easier than you would think in text. I generally bait for it and it comes to the surface.
-I want them to facilitate a role, weather it is texting me back or performing some task that they are designated to they need to be dong something for me under my definition of them.
- I need to get them in an exchange that they can’t get out of. They emotionally isolate themselves with me through text, thus my interactions with them are a secret.
“Hot Cold”
This is kind of the original consistency we came up with, but it makes sense.
It is pure Attraction Game, and text is really Attraction Game that can be built into so many different realms. to sleep with you.
What this is, is simple. You send a text that carries one nice thing, and one teasing thing. This can go in further extremes, to something totally endearing and another totally repulsive. Like, “Just thinking about you ;)… would you get OUT of my HEAD!”
Why ‘Hot Cold’ works is because it gets a response and you are leading it. If you gain compliance over changing a anyone’s emotions you gain compliance over them. Humans are not logical, drama is a good thing when trying to speed along an interaction with women.
That is how Bait hook Reel Release and Push Pull work and this is push pull at its best. Here are a few examples of initial texts using “Hot Cold” in terms of an Opening Text… they do get better.
As you will see below, I have played around with putting the push before the pull and vise versa. No need to put that much thought in it. I give both examples. I think the lead out with the coldness may work better, but the main thing is that cat-like dynamic we are trying to portray.
“WTF I can’t believe you’re actually going home! I guess the after party will have to be going one without you”
“I am totally thinking about that (some detail about your interaction, like an odd article about their clothing)…You really shouldn’t tempt me creative minds can be trouble.”
“So today I totally ran into your twin! LOL! Except she was a good girl ☺!”
“You’re too much here…so what are up to tomorrow? ;P”
Now what is important here is not the examples specifically, but the nature of the dialogue. The two things at once, the beginnings of Hot Cold. The quicker you can become that guy she texts in her own world rather than that guy she texts that she politely responds to, if at all the better.
Escalating Hot Cold
Now one of the traps of any sort of Hot Cold interaction can be fucked up pretty easily.
It still works like a charm, but it can work like a charm in the wrong directions. So if you are using it to escalate than you need to know what direction you are going in. How it can go wrong is that is can add too much comfort and lead people towards relationships, and using Hot Cold to shape a relationship can be really out of control, cause if you play it how I do than you’ll frame the women to be totally dramatic.
So we want our Hot cold to go sexual and not emotional. To do that we need to start identifying their reactions and roles as sexual, this works out really well in text.
Here is a breakdown-
“Ok so you really think that!? Such a BAD girl…”
So the Cold (negative) part is “Ok so you really think that?” then the Hot (positive) part is “Such a BAD girl…”
Here her compliment is fitting her identity to be a positive one, but positive in a deviant way.
Now Game is something that is not really ‘making’ people do what they don’t want to do. Game is making the right situations come out and leading which way they grow. So we are not saying right off the bat, ‘you are a bad girl’. We are putting a very attractive stereotype out there and seeing if she accepts it. 8 out of 10 times she will.
Remember, we are just trying to help that sort of side come out of her.
So here are some examples of Text Exchanges Escalating Hot Cold-
PUA- “So I was just thinking…WTF did I do last night? Did I randomly text someone I shouldn’t have (don’t you hate that)…you came to mind ;) ”
Target- “LOL! No you’re safe here. No drunk texts.”
(So this is a weak response, but still a response. You want to actually get them invested, but it is your first text so no worries)
PUA- “So either you’re saving me from embarrassment or telling the truth. I like a girl that can keep a secret!”
Target- “I always tell the truth! So now you have got me wondering”
(this is a better response, she addressed both comments but still not too invested)
PUA- “Don’t press too hard WOMAN! Today has been totally crazy, I might SNAP!”
Target- “What? Snap???”
PUA- “Crazy stuff with a client of mine. But now it’s your job to make me feel better! But don’t get and crazy ideas I might not be able to handle it! ;)”
Target- “HA! ☺ Just what did you have in mind? I think I could give you a lot that you can’t handle. LOL”
PUA- “Now you’re giving me making me think of all sorts of crazy thoughts… ease up bad girl”
So what is happening here is using a hot cold dynamic to progress on in the exchange. One of the things here is that I am moving more towards a fantasy dynamic with the target and moving it to bring out a sexual subpersonality for them to fulfill.
But notice how the parts where I am saying things like, “don’t press too hard WOMAN! Today has been totally crazy, I might SNAP!”
I capitalize things like WOMAN! To get a bit of a rise out of her, and then I seed her to take on a position where I can give her a role to fulfill.
The next text I send then says, “but now it’s your job to make me feel better!”
This is something we will get into later, but it is something that Sinn does to gain compliance in a role in text to efficiently begin framing them, saves a lot of time in person with them.
The rest is still to come!
TOPO TEXT GAME PART 2
Text Game Part 2
So now we get how to open a text and one popular way to initiate a text dialog.
So let’s describe a few things around that.
I you haven’t read Part 1 of the Text Post go here!
http://the-red-mole.blogspot.com/2008/0 … art-1.html
Also find out more about Subpersonalitites in Shaft’s Post as well, cause I refer to the idea quite a bit.
http://the-red-mole.blogspot.com/2008/0 … ities.html
The reason why Hot Cold works so well, is because it is an element of Push Pull. I would like to do a post on changes made to models of game, but there are a lot of posts I would like to do…getting to it is the real feat! But surely I will get to it!
The reason why Push Pull is such an important part of game it because it is something that pretty much every human and animal is responsive to. It is almost like people can’t help but do it.
Now you can’t say something like ‘Hey, you sweet cunt whore, how’s your day going?’ that may piss some people off (but if you make it work…let me know). But what you want to do with each aspect of Hot Cold/Push Pull is get them to invest a little bit in it.
How we get people to invest is through Qualification, Baiting, Framing, Compliance, Dominance and Logistics.
So those are the things we are going to talk about in terms of text.
And again, I would like to do a post on my teaching method of breaking down your Tools of Game along with How to Implement those Tools, but again it will probably be a few weeks on that. It I could write as fast as I could think then my blog would be a goddamn encyclopedia! Should have taken a typing class!
So the important thing with text to think of is that it is only a small part of game. So your goals in text are to do a few things.
I always like to Bring out-
-A Subpersonality in it, and it is great for that.
-It is a good use of to begin Force Framing
-It is a great Calibration Tool
-Logistically I want to engage someone with some compliance, usually accepting roles or doing small tasks.
-Build Investment emotionally (now it is important to know text probably isn’t the tool to engage serious emotions, but more reactive and surface level ones. You need an orchestration of complete game to have it effect deep rooted emotions)
-And Logistically I want to set up a time to meet, with all those frames and subpersonalities to bring to the table.
So with that in mind, instead of saying, ‘You sweet cunt whore, how is your day going?’
You want to say things that your texts to follow some sort of path that will stimulate reaction to role into another text that will build a frame, to role into another one that will build compliance to your frame, that will role into one that will bait them into a subpersonality and all be fun and exciting to engage in.
You can hook a girl very easily to be that guy that she has a text war with on a daily basis. During debriefing I always ask women when they started to know they were going to sleep with me. If I have worked them through text they will always say something like, ‘I thought you were cool when we met (she might even say a little weird…hahahaha), but I really started to think about you in that way, when I would be at work thinking about what I was going to text you or when you were going to text me’.
So go figure, but it works, and even with text you can see yourself get sucked in with it too! Beware!
Using Bait in Text-
Although this is how to Bait using text, all of the ideas like Push Pull/Hot Cold, Baiting, Qualifying, Framing, Compliance, Dominance, and Logistics all kind fo work together. But in their subcategories I will mainly be highlighting the part which it is titled. In this case Baiting.
So the idea of Bait is a reactive one. It is something that is hardwired; people can’t help but respond to if done correctly.
So let’s start with some examples-
Shortly after the first few texts, maybe the second or third one in…
-‘So I am sitting in a waiting room, and I wonder if the people around me know what I am thinking about’
-‘Guess what I am thinking of right now, I just totally saw your twin and it set me off.’
-‘OMG the craziest thing just happened, I am totally in a weird head space right now’
-‘Even tho you like X , I still think you’re…well maybe not LOL’
-‘I am totally bored, don’t even TEMPT me with those thoughts! ☺’
-‘You have no what I just saw, you would totally LOVE it, in that sort of BAD girl sort of way…LOL!’
Ok so let’s take a look at these. Now some of them are doing a few things here.
The first one-
-‘So I am sitting in a waiting room, and I wonder if the people around me know what I am thinking about’
What you’re doing is trying to bait them into a simple question. One being, ‘where are you?’ or Two being, “What are you thinking about?’
For a while Sinn, Shaft and myself would always ask two questions, or give two things to respond to in our texts to calibrate. We don’t so much anymore, but it is a great tool to use. Now with either answer you can go somewhere.
But the one that shows she is more likely to quickly accept a frame over text is if she answers anything about what you are thinking. Reason why is because if she answers that she is curious about something that leaves a huge door open to.
An office space is pretty mundane, what someone thinks that might offend the ‘norm’ hanging out in the office can be something pretty interesting, well if you’re a PUA.
So if she says ‘Where are you?’ no big deal, you text back something like,
‘Trust me you don’t want to know, but these people are freaks! Totally your crowd ☺’
or
‘The funny thing is that, I am normally really into bizarro things, but I usually need a wing, next time I am bringing you! And you’ll never guess…’
So let’s take a look at a few more breakdowns…
-‘Guess what I am thinking of right now, I just totally saw your twin and it set me off.’
When I took my BC Sinn told me Future and him used the father text of this…’OMG I totally just saw your twin’ to calibrate how quickly a girl would reply. If she replied quick it meant you could begin with likely fruition on your text/phone journey.
So then we added a little more to it. Mainly because we wanted to see what she would reply too and our Bait was then more voiced to lead towards curiosity on what we are thinking. It may hook it may not. So in the first two texts a good thing to point out is asking two questions in the same text.
We will touch on that later.
But our Bait is always leading to a frame or subpersonality, or maybe even something else.
So it is best to get a response about ‘what you were thinking’ but you may get a response on the ‘twin’ part. The main thing is this will get a likely response. And you should probably use this text as a opener as well or the first text in a new exchange with someone you have been texting. It leads very well into some tactical conversations.
Replies to the twin part might be…
‘Yeah I was totally excited at first, but didn’t have that wicked side to here. LOL!’
‘And you should have SEEN the look on her face when I snuck up from behind, butt I think YOU could have handled it! HAHAHA!’
Replies to the thinking part might be…
‘All I got to say is….bad girl! LOL !!!!’
‘I was actually REALLY disturbed! I knew I remembered you…stay HOTT!’
So you get the idea with that. This would go on forever if I were to breakdown all of them, so let’s go to the next Implementation of the Tool…
Qualification in Text-
This is one that you can open a text conversation with, but to really use qualification you want to use it a bit later in the exchange, but it can be fairly impactive within 2 or 3 texts in.
But first let’s talk about Qualification.
So Qualification is a get way to get a lot of things. Lot’s of people go on and on about it and it is something that many discussions can be had about it.
Most of those discussions show its use in gaining investment in the group.
There is a great Audio Program out there that has Sinn and Vision going over Qualification. Most people say it is one of the best Audio Products out there. It is something that has a long history and has evolved quite a bit.
But here are its uses-
-Gain Value and Compliance (throughout your set) towards Value. Build investment essentially, through a ladder of Qualifiers or establish your value, to make her feel the need to invest her Emotions or work up to your Value.
-Calibrate where you are at in set. So it was said many a times by Future in many Seminar rooms (probably many other people too, but I can still hear Future saying it in my head) ‘Qualification is the Gateway to Rapport. This is because is was a good way to know you could enter Comfort and also it was a good way to transition into a Comfort base story. The funny thing is that Qualification is now used in Comfort (little bit of a different twist, but definitely Qualification, and it is the total LMR buster in Seduction. Qualification is thee way to Blast through LMR and is one of the Roots to the KFP.
-And the most neglected use of Qualification is that is defines where you go next in Set!
It is what you need to show which way you are going, and in Text this is important!
What I mean is let’s say you are talking about eating Bats in the Amazon your DHV story (and let me tell you I can go on and on about how misused DHV stories are in the community), and you want to transition out of it.
You can Qualify with,
‘So what is something you have done that made you know what your passions were?’
With that you can then talk about your passions and hers and all that stuff. Good for building bonds and many, many other things.
But let’s say instead you talk about eating Bats in the Amazon and transition out with…
‘So what’s the craziest thing you have ever done?’
No this can go a little more sexual… both can but with this you are using Bait to take the set somewhere into a more racy territory.
Both Qualifiers are good, neither one is better, depends on where you are in the set and where you want to go. And the Qualifier tells you where to go. That to me is a pretty important use to negate. So USE IT!
Some examples of text for qualification might be…
Opening Text with a Qualifier-
-‘So what is your favorite Karaoke song! ’
-‘So wait, you always pick up guys, when they are DRUNK!’
Again opening with a qualifier is pretty weak use of a qualifier, but be creative and fun with it and it will work.
A few Texts in-
Think about if they fall into one of your Baiting texts you can empower it with your Qualifier.
-‘Jezz! You really do have a WILD side don’t you?’
-‘What kind of girl are you…really? I mean you didn’t really put that off when I met you, but go figure! LOL’
-‘So you are really starting to make me wonder, who taught you your text etiquette?’
-‘I am not sure if I really know about you yet… are you one of those girls that doesn’t always play nice…’
So you can see from this that the qualifiers really do have somewhat of a Baiting element to them too. They are also the beginnings to Frames, Compliance and bringing out that subpersonality.
Remember Qualification is a tool to progress on in the right direction!
And that will take us to….
Compliance through Text
Now here will probably be one of the more rich parts of the post, because it will map out how you need to text (the flow of text or the rhythm). Compliance does a few things…
But at its fundamental it brings out repetition in the target working in a certain direction.
Normally I bring up Framing before Compliance, but I will lead with compliance here to better describe Framing later.
Normally compliance is just thought of as getting a girl to do something for you. This alone is super effective. In fact I remember on a Workshop in Hawaii, Tyler Durden spent about 20mins describing to a student what Compliance was, and this opened my eyes to a larger field of it. Also Shaft can talk, and I mean talk about the importance of Compliance in all forms of Game.
But other than getting someone to do tasks, you can build a Qualification ladder with Compliance, you can build frames with Baiting someone by making them Compliant to your interaction with them, you can make someone fulfill a narrative that brings out a Subpersonality through Compliance. Basically you can use Compliance to get someone to follow your lead.
Compliance is the fucking shit, so see it as not just getting someone to fulfill actions, but also to be made to interact with you in a specific way that helps Frame them into your Subpersonality.
My example will be an exchange with breakdown of what I am attempting to do through Text. Here goes….
PUA- ‘You won’t believe what just happened! You should have BEEN HERE!’
Target- ‘?’
PUA- ‘Really that is ALL you can write ‘?’ I thought you spoke text…lol, are you sitting down?’
Target- ‘Yeah, I am at work, WHAT HAPPENED, is that better? ☺’
PUA- ‘This chick just totally went crazy at the store, I thought, I wish (target’s name) was here.’
Target- ‘I don’t know if I would have wanted too, what did she do?’
PUA- ‘Yeah, I am not sure if you would have laughed or joined in…’
Target- ‘That depends what it was she was doing’
PUA- ‘I still am not sure…either you’d be all over it or ur one of those PG 13 girls’
Target- ‘Wouldn’t you like to know?’
PUA- ‘That says it ALL right there! ’
Target- ‘OMG, you are totally crazy… You might not want to know! :p’
PUA- ‘ME totally Crazy! F U!’
Target- ‘YES! And F U too ☺’
PUA- ‘That is sweet, but now you’re are totally making me wonder and now U won’t want to know… ’
Target ‘You couldn’t even imagine’
PUA- ‘Seriously, I have to drive now, so take it easy on me, you wouldn’t want to cause an accident now would you???’
Target- ‘Accident? That might be fun, good thing I am not there! Lol!’
PUA- ‘So now I am totally bored, entertain me… are you at work?’
Target- ‘Yes’
PUA- ‘And what are you doing?’
Target- ‘I am sitting at my desk answering my boss’ emails’
PUA- ‘Woman… really, I though you spoke text…how are you going to make me crash with THAT!’
Target- ‘HA! I thought I was PG 13’
PUA- ‘Ahh, we proved that you only are when you’re at the club, but at work I know what REALLY goes on!’
Target- ‘So dirty?’
PUA- ‘Actually it is one of the worst places that my mind wanders, just think if I was at work, my imagination would be corrupted even MORE by U! ’
Target- ‘You are a trip, I think you’re corrupting me!’
PUA- ‘Good cause later I may need your help, I have a crazy meeting I have to attend ☹…’
Target- ‘HA! We will see…’
PUA- Stop with that ‘we will see’ crap, you’re totally my text BITCH! Lol!’
Target- ‘Ahhh Text BITCH… couldn’t you come up with something else.’
PUA- ‘Yeah but, text me BACK….BITCH! by the way I am almost back and still no crash…’
Target- ‘CRASH BITCH!’
PUA- ‘You’re supposed to make me do that in another way…come on GET TO WORK!’
Target- ‘You’re too much. I can’t handle you…’
PUA- ‘That is what I thought! Lol. No really, what are you doing later, I will need someone to perk me up in a few hours.’
Target- ‘Why are you asking I thought I was your BITCH! Hahaha!’
PUA- ‘Jezz UR having way too much fun, maybe I should give you a whip so you can step it up’
Target- ‘I like whips’
PUA- ‘And I do too, but I don’t use them, I prefer using my hand!’
Target- ‘Now that depends, when and where…’
PUA- ‘Really, I think that you know WHEN and WHERE, unless you’re really more creative than me… and then I don’t want to know’
Target- ‘ That’s right BITCH!’
PUA- ‘Look woman, talk all you want, but I will turn you inside and out’
Target- ‘I am waiting…’
PUA- ‘And be waiting with a wheelchair cause you might need it’
Target- ‘LOL!’
Ok so this is a pretty common exchange.
No what you see in the first part of this, is a lot of baiting toward sex using really fun attitude. Text game is all Attraction being used as a door to open up different parts of her. This particular girl was not biting at first but still going along with it. This always suck, but if she is at least somewhat entertaining your ideas you can still press on very lightly.
You always want her following your lead.
The whole time I am leading the interaction, and the whole time I am reframing her replies to what I want to see them as.
The more I can get her to follow my path of the narrative, the more I make her Compliant.
And the reason why I chose this exchange was because it took her a while to warm up and it was done without any breaks in the text, it all took place over one day.
So now I text saying, ‘BITCH I am bored TEXT BACK!’ and she does.
You can also see the slow escalation of her turning more towards me. Eventually she does but it wasn’t immediate. The thing is that once they walk through enough of your doors (along with it being a fun interaction) they will ultimately continue on.
Compliance is something that can build your whole foundation to game.
For now that is all…
Part 3 will be on Framing, Dominance, Logistics
And it will go over some of my buddies personal theories on Text cause you have heard enough of MINE!!!!
But really they are good. Guys like Shaft, Sinn, Fidelio and Captain Jack all have very unique was to text. Still doing a lot of the same types of things, like Qualifying and Baiting, using Frames and Compliance, but they do it in their own effective and Unique ways. They are for the most part available online, but you have got to give credit where credit is due!
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PART 3
Text Game Part 3.1
Compliance and Framing
This is the 3erd part of Text Game-
There are 3 distinct parts to Part 3 of Text Message Game (Framing and Compliance, Dominance and Logistics). This is the first, and it is more Attraction Based, you can try this stuff RIGHT NOW and it is Easy to get a Rhythm for it.
It is all based on gaining Frames through Compliance.
I would say go out and practice this stuff, cause the Dominance and Logistics parts are VERY different and less playful. That being said, if you can get how to use this technique you will find gaining Dominance and Logistics much easier to accomplish.
It is about a year late…but at this point I could probably write a lot more on Text Game but we will save it for the PDF.
In any case, there is a lot of info out on Text Game now and by all means, mine is not the best…but I will say there is a TON of very disappointing Text Message Game products. In fact that was the reason for the post in the first place.
I got a Mass Email from a Major PU Company that had some “Text Message Secrets” and they sucked. It was the biggest piece of shit I had read.
So in this 3erd Part I want to show that some really in depth concepts with examples that one can do during text.
If you want to see the other 2 parts of this article you can see them
Here-
PART 1 of Text Message Game
PART 2 of Text Message Game
With Text messaging you will find that most people don’t take it to its fullest advantage. I actually would rather Text Message than talk on the phone. I would actually rather IM (Instant Message) than talk on the phone. I might actually rather Text Message than meeting up in person
So this being Part 3, I will have to say this will be a huge Hurdle in terms of Texting Information.
It is still a lot of the same theory, but they go deeper.
Previously we talked about,
Baiting and Opening through Text, Push Pull (or Hot Cold through text), Working in Sexuality through Push Pull, and Compliance.
So what I am going to talk about now are more of those things and also Framing, Dominance, and Logistics.
I am also going to talk about different techniques that other PUAs I know use.
COMPLIANCE and FRAMING
The two of these really go hand in hand. Compliance is HUGE! Text is such a quick thing, people text many times a day. Many people send over 100 a day, and some more than that. Either way, Text is reactive. So it sets up the perfect ground to gain quick Compliance. Then we want to add some Framing to that too.
So let’s start off with telling a story of some Evolutions…
The first Evolution I am going to mention comes from one of my friends…actually a student, someone whose couch I slept on many nights while traveling around and teaching in his area. This guy was always paying attention on how sexual I would get, and how sexual I would talk to women.
He is NOT your normal PUA, he is someone who is an Entrepreneur and doesn’t have time to dress up and go out to clubs all the time, wearing goggles and flashy hats. So his platform for gaming is at his house while he is working.
So he started IMing people on Facebook, Myspace and through the many other venues of Instant Message. When he was multitasking through business ventures he would check some tings online.
One time when I was at his house a girl was there and the house was pristine. She had completely cleaned it, she had been there for a few weeks. He met her online, and he through Instant Messenger.
I talked with her quite a bit. She told me that she never goes to bars, but she will date someone she meets online. This is a little hint for all you Online Gamers, it is like 10 times easier to do online game (if you know some simple tricks), and again this is a field where people don’t have much quality information on.
Women…HOT women, are on all the Dating sites…also with a poor economy and depression at a high, people are bored and want more human connections.
There is a reason why Match.com and the rest of them do better in bad economies. People are bored and people are lonely these days, and at home they let their other sides come out. IM and Text messaging are virtually the same in this respect.
So then next time I went to this guys house, he had told me how he started gaming celebrities online. Here is what interested me….
I thought to myself, “I am a PUA instructor (according to some a “Junior Instructor”), everyone talks about Celebrities and Models and all those other instructors (or maybe I should say, “Senior Instructors”) never really get Celebrities or real Models (Girls you meet on sugardaddy.com don’t count as models, they count as gold diggers). And this guy is gaming all these celebrities and getting them all sexually worked up over Instant Messager?”
So how the fuck did he do it? And YES he closed them…
There isn’t nythign special about his profile, him looking like your typical single guy Entrepreneur in a bad shit standing and smiling. There are some blurbs about how ‘driven’ he is and that is about it. In fact, let’s just say (for honesty’s sake) his pages are boring and a slap in the face to the old DHV.
What he did was he would see them online and send them some Attraction based messages…normally they are not the ones on the site, but when they would be sometimes they would reply. Now here is the thing, don’t get obsessed with spamming out tons of Famous people here, do it like he did, he would ad someone as a friend and he would send them an IM as he did it.
How he got one of them was like this…
He had just friended her on Myspace and saw she was on Facebook too (or vise versa), he IM’d her saying something like, “I just added you on Myspace…hurry up and make me your friend, then we can be friends on both of them”
She responded back, and thus resulted in a very long IM dialogue that went very sexual. She became totally OBSESSED with him and Yes…he closed her.
I have gotta ask his permission, but maybe he will let me post the threads if I take all the personal shit out.
The key to all this is he BAITS for Sexuality and Immediately makes the COMPLIANT in it. This is something I always do with Text and more often then not IT WORKS!
All those same Push Pull techniques I work for sexuality. Sometime I don’t get an open door and other times I do. Either way I will always keep texting.
When making someone COMPLIANT in texting you need to make them COMPLIANT towards a Frame.
So make those Frames-
Sexually Free, Open-minded, Leader, Discreet, and Responsible and you will immediately have an advantage.
There’s a whole bunch that can be said for these, but they are all good healthy stereotypes for a woman, and they will help you bring out that Sexually Free side to her.
Also you want to get these Identities off the table with her early because they are actually things that make a relationship easier. By this I mean that the roles between man and woman need to have a definition…either the Dick owns the Pussy or the Pussy owns the Dick…if neither is determined then you’re going to be in a pile of shit relationship even if you’re not going for a relationship, it will fuck up all over the place. Establish it from the start exactly who is in charge.
So we want to build a Rhythm with our Text conversations where our targets are COMPLIANT in the Frames we are trying to set.
Here is an Example from opening to Gaining Compliance in each Frame-
“Hey it is (name) who just met you, what is a good line to say to the bathroom attendant…I am really hard up… ☺”
In the first Text I always go with some Humor, but some guys don’t…but we will talk about that later when we cover Logistics. Also I leave a little humor towards sexuality.
She responds with something like…
“OMG, you’re so crazy…it was nice meeting you too”
“Hey, it was nice meeting you”
“I think you should walk into the bathroom and ask him for help LOL”
So the First Example she gives you an opening with the “crazy” line you can start seeding with that. ‘Crazy’ turns into sexual really easy.
In the Second Example she give you very little to go off of, but she is texting back so that is good.
In the Third Example she is adds some humor on the dark side of things, here you can really go off on her.
In the Logistics portion we will go over this more, but you don’t want to entertain too much humor with Seduction, because it doesn’t bond it to a part of their personality. You need to Sexualize Them, not dance around it with a jokes. Humor is just a way to get them COMPLIANT in it. It doesn’t make it work it just helps it.
So let’s say she responds to the poorest example, “Hey, it was nice meeting you”
I would say you need to take this and turn it into something you can make work, I would try for a doorway to sexuality again…
“You know what I liked best about you, I can’t say over text…but for now Nice meeting you too”
Here I am trying to Bait into getting her to ask what that is…
Now a funny thing, my beloved Caribbean Queen always says I am a pussy for baiting too much, she always tells me… “all women are dirty perverts and you need to tell them that rather than do all this baiting bullshit”.
Maybe I am not as Alpha as her, but for now, use Bait…it works.
And with this you should get a response something like this…
“What does that mean?”
This is good, you probably will get more than that, but that is the response you’re looking for, a Push Back.
So I would reply to that…
“Well I have a pretty crazy mind sometimes, but you’re pretty open-minded right? Plus you like gossip, in all the right ways of course.”
Here’s what I am doing is I am saying I am pretty crazy minded (can translate to something sexual pretty easily) and I am trying to get her COMPLIANT in being ‘open-minded’ (this always works), then I am putting out there in the 3erd line that she has a gossipy side to her (also can translate to sex if she takes this thread).
So let’s say she responds to one of them, hopefully she will respond to more but we will take the challenge with this one.
“Open-minded, yes…just what do you mean by that?
It would be better if she bit at the other ones, but now you have got her COMPLIANT in one of the Frames. Now you have got to take that and get her COMPLIANT in some of the other Frames.
“I get the feeling you can really piss people off with your first impression, not me cause I think that we are alike in too many ways…I bet you have a twisted sense of humor”
So this is some classic push pull teasing with the “first impressions” thing and then you recover with aligning it to you. At the end you do a force frame or cold read with stating she has a ‘twisted sense of humor’.
This should yield a more favorable response.
She should play to one of the cold reads and go in a more Comfort mode.
“I am not sure what you mean, but I can have that side to me”
If she accepts here, then you’re good. Then you just need to implement the other Frames like listed below this paragraph. But if she doesn’t you will need to Dismiss her a little and pull her back in with something like, “I guess I had you wrong…but I like the attitude.”
Now if she does step through the hoops then go for something more in-depth with her personality.
“Good, I am the type of person that only gets along with certain types of people, I like people who have their shit together…you’re the type that knows how to let it go too”
This sort of text doesn’t seem to elicit a response, but it will. Since she finally accepted the role you have a pretty large window where you can slip some Cold Reads and Frames in (we will talk more of this in the Dominance portion).
She will probably respond taking the compliment. This is another act of COMPLIANCE.
“I know how to have my fun”
The real technique here is when she keeps walking through hoops like this you need to take her answers and turn them towards Frames using the same rhythm and bait. For instance…
“I don’t want to know what your idea of fun is…but mine might actually scare you off, are you trustworthy?”
The above is using Bait and Framing at the same time. In the above there are 3 separate things she can address. You don’t necessarily need to have all those, but for the purpose of giving an example I wrote 3. You could have just said, ‘I don’t want to know what your idea of fun is…’ and she would play back. That is somewhat of a passive approach to hooking her. I say passive cause she can bit of she can avoid it. It is not reactive enough. The second two “Mine might scare you off” and “are you trustworthy” hit two much more reactive parts to a girl or any person really.
If she responds to ‘mine might scare you off’ this means she is most likely competitive sexually. With that you can really work her hard into a Frame. When we get into the Dominance stuff, you can do some real damage.
If she responds to being trustworthy she is hitting 2 Frames. The first being one being Responsible and the other being she can be Discreet.
Here are a couple threads that you can have as ‘canned’ text material that work a ladder up to a Framing Sequence and Gain Compliance. If you can get someone in a Compliant Rhythm then you can pretty much sit on Autopilot, and if you can work Framing in there too then you just need to work Logistics.
Framing and Compliance Sequences
Text Openers (for a Baiting style)
-”You’re not going to believe this, but I just went to the bathroom…wait you’re not religious are you?”
-”This is (Name), I met you tonight and just to let you know I am not that kind of guy, but nice try.”
-”This is you’re new text friend, text me back something bad”
-”I am just had the strangest thing happen with this girl, by the way this is (Name), but don’t judge.”
-”This is (Name), I like you, text me back. (this may seem to simple, but it works)
Baiting to elicit a part of her personality
-”I only get along with creative people, but I am afraid you might be too creative for me” (you can pick any leveraging characteristic)
-”I can’t believe you’re gone, do you always have this effect on men…the leaving too early part I mean.”
-”There is no clean up for you, what kind of a girl are you?”
-”Ok now I am confused, you do what for work again?”
-”You’re trouble, but I mean that in the best possible way”
-”You think too much and I don’t want to know what about”
Frames
-”You get off on teasing people”
-”I think you must be someone who takes things too far sometimes. I like that about you.”
-”You’re almost too crazy for me, it may not have been a good thing getting your number”
-”You like being all dominant to men, I can’t believe I am actually talking to you”
-”If I didn’t understand you, I’d say you need therapy”
-”You are so someone who gets intimidated by people you like, but gets off on intimidating easy targets”
-”I am not sure if you are shy or completely over the top…probably a mix of both”
-”You’re a free thinker that is good, but out of control too”
Making them Compliant in the Frames
-”What is it about you that makes get off on messing with guys”
-”Are you really someone who, thinks that way? Are you someone that most people misinterpret?
-”What makes you like someone? Cause I think the thing that people notice about you, is not what you might think”
-”Do you attract the wrong people sometimes? I bet you can push the right people away”
-”How do you think you make people feel when you first meet them.”
-”Do you think you’re more personality or more appearance”
-”I know you are someone who can be all over the place, but are you someone who is gets what you want”
SEXUALIZED TEXT BONUS by EL TOPO
There are a few warnings and descriptions I am going to have to go through before I post some of this stuff.
Number one- posting this stuff in public is kind of a risk, but the truth is that I have gotten a lot of requests for it and I feel there is something that can be learned of it.
Number two- one of the reasons why this is so important is because the model of it is more complex than just vulgar or lewd. It is communicating on multiple levels with a woman.
Number three- This form of communication pushes it. You can always push your way in verbally, to instigate physically. But mainly one you have got someone to fit in the role ou want them in, it is fairly easy to get them back there.
Despite how over the top all this is the psychology involved in it should not be over looked.
Also the main thing I am working on now is taking my body language to a new level. I am working on reading (calibrating) my own sub communication receptors as well as communicating more with what I am putting off.
Using the right balance of normal social interaction as well as passive social interactions, like giving off body language that might imply sexuality is hugely effective.
Now this doesn’t mean you walk around grabbing yourself, it really is subtler than that. It takes practice. I need a lot more practice at it, but within the PUA community I am quite good at it. I will list some resources with this a little bit later when I have it down comfortably.
So in all of this I am going to post about a text message exchange that I had with a girl I have since closed.
I am very comfortable when I number close a girl that I will close her. I will try and go for the lay that night, but if it doesn’t happen that’s fine.
There may be logistical problems, outside obstacles, or she may not be ready. Either way if I get some rapport and a number I am fine.
Even an email address, I can pull it off.
So far I have closed 8 girls in the past 3 months with only texting or emailing them. I only talked to them on the phone right before we actually met again.
This example in particular is great because the whole text exchange happened in one day.
Here is how and why it works.
This to me is the most important thing.
The reason why this is effective, is because you are creating different roles for a person to communicate through. Here there is a huge fantasy area. But in any social interaction there are multiple things being communicated even when the intent is to only communicate one thing. So in a normal interaction between a PUA and a Target there is your basic Attraction stuff everyone knows about. Attraction is vitally important, but people obsess about it.
It is a part of the puzzle, but not the only part. Attraction can be very passive.
Now in that interaction you can be communicating with what you are saying and obviously doing, but there is much more going on with that.
The difference we see in boot camps where a student gets blown out and no more than 10 seconds later and instructor goes in and can open the set and hold it using the exact same opener, has to do with all that other stuff they are not so obviously doing.
The key is, that everybody has thoughts of sex, hate, love, pain, there is not too much diversity to the range of human emotions.
In fact I think it is something like; happy, mad, sad, hurt, afraid, ashamed… I may be missing one.
So there is always something like that to relate with.
But someone who is good at influencing people can work multiple things at once.
That is how this text works.
It breaks social etiquette, but that is because there is more leeway in the written form. Especially a written form that is so superficial as texting.
But let’s say the PUA is there with his Target.
You have got to maintain that social identity of the target, by maintaining etiquette, but also pulling out those other identities on the target. Ones that might be more comfort bound, and others that might be more sexually bound.
This is really hard stuff to explain in just a blog.
But as I have said before
email me…
el.topo.el@gmail.com
We offer very affordable routine stack consultations, even customized routine stacks, and probably the most common thing is a phone consultation.
Either way there is more to this text thing than just being a pervert, although that helps. And there is more than your routines than making them present a false self to a girl.
What myself Captain Jack, Sinn and Future teach is how to game. And how to game like us.
And we teach you to do it in a way that highlights you!
Text Dialog from a few months ago…
So I am sitting in my Hotel room on Boot Camp and I am bored.
Sinn has always asked me about my odd phone/text methods and I have never recorded what actually took place. I would explain it, but could never really break it down well.
So here I am in Chicago, and a girl who I know from photography texts me. I don’t know her well. Haven’t had anything sexual with her ever. She’s a model and I know her through friends who I have shot.
Last week I closed a girl in Scottsdale with this same type of thing. She flew out from CA to ‘visit her friend’. But the whole time she spent time with me in my hotel room (sorry Captain Jack).
Basically here’s the deal, you are friends with a girl and you play a flirty sexual game with them.
Note how this dialog starts, just friendly. Then I add in a little sex, and she takes it and runs with it.
Once she opens the door I walk in big time.
The whole time I am framing her to be ‘my naughty girl’. No big deal, but I am push it.
The thing with pushing a bit too far, is because if you have rapport, if you have humanized yourself with someone, you can almost always recover.
And then I drop the major sex description.
Then I put her in a role.
Then I make her WORK for that role to add investment to the identity.
And always maintain the frame of her having to play MY game!
The funny thing is that this happened while sitting in my Hotel room, then getting ready to do the field part of the BC, and then during the intense sex part while in the cab with Future and Sinn on the way to the venue.
And then I ended it while at the bar in set.
Kinda funny, but here’s the entire unedited dialog. Just know you can push it!
But be careful, I am very good at this. And this is an extreme example of what I do. So take it easy with your texts, don’t push it too hard, just a little at a time.
AT HOTEL!
HB Model- Hey, when are you coming here
El Topo- Sorry I am laid up in a hospital bed
HB Model- What?!
El Topo- I have mercury poisoning and am stuck in a bed in AZ.
HBM- PERFECT that’s just how I like my men
ET- Don’t tease me I am totally sexually deprived, fuck you.
HBM- I too am Sex deprived. Too bad We’re not closer.
ET- You had to keep going…now I am going to have to think of you as I touch my cock.
HBM- WOW! How’s that for being honest!
ET- Fuck you
HBM- FUCK ME?
ET- Yes! HOOKER…FUCK ME!
HBM- You’d like that. I am sure.
ET- Listen here HOOKER! Shot the fuck up, I am trying to get off!
HBM- Fuck you HOOKER TEXT Back!
ET- I will pound your ass woman! Shut the fuck UP!
HBM- Not into the whole ‘ass’ thing. But don’t make promises you can’t keep.
ET – You god damn HOOKER, don’t make challenges you can’t keep BIATCH
HBM- Don’t use the lord’s name in vain.
ET – Fuck you, I am a demon sex motherfucker, I will send your pussy to HELL
HBM- I am already in HELL. LOL
ET- Hell is nothing in comparison as to what I am going to do to you HOOKER!
HBM- WOW! What are you gonna do?
ET- Shut the fuck UP! You god damn HOOKER. Know your place!
HBM- I’m about to take a shower. So gimme some visuals.
HBM- I SAID VISUALS
ET- I am going to put you on all fours bitch and take you from behind. As I am shoving my fat cock into your tight pussy I am going to spit on your asshole, and prepare it for my cock. But before that I am going to grab the back of your hair and force my cock into your mouth and make you suck yourself off of me.
ET- Then after I am done with your mouth, I am going to throw you on your back and get on top of you. I will throw your legs back and go deep. I am not going to fuck you like those other guys. I am going to drive my cock all the way in till it tears past your cervix into your womb. The ridge of my raging cock will scrape against the wrinkles in your cunt. I will drive my dick around all of it. I will hit all your spots as my cock tastes every bit of your thick juices.
HBM- HOLY SHIT! No One could duet accuse you of being Shy! Christ. You just made me Blush. That never happens. ☺
HBM- Are you coming yet?
GETTING READY TO GO OUT
ET- You never get fucked that way dirty girl, do you.
HBM-You have NO Idea.
ET- I am not done yet, fuck you! It is now your turn to send me visual. You fucking HOOKER.
HBM- Anyways. Lets See If we bring some relief to my little sexually deprived sex demon.
ET- That’s not good enough BITCH, make my dick as wet as your pussy HOOKER!
HBM- Your hand still works right? Your hand can still get hard right?
ET- I have a hard cock and a hand but, that’s not what I told you to do. I want your fucking pussy to make me HARD!
HBM- So you can come! Let’s do it.
ET- Get to work HOOKER. You need to learn to talk dirty, or I’m not going to allow you to finish me off. You wanna make my cock come. You wanna make this cock yours…
HBM- Maybe ☺
ET- Fuck off…you’re awesome babe, but if you’re not gonna play I got to go.
HBM- Well… We’d have to definitely start out with you in my mouth. Slowly. I’d work my Tongue Around your head. Move Slowly towards the shaft. Until your entire Cock is in my mouth.
ET- and…
HBM- I’d repeat. Several times. But you can’t come like that. Not in my mouth. So just before you are about to come I’d remove my panties.
ET- Keep gong bitch, I have to shower soon.
HBM- Get off in the shower? I am getting off right her in my bed with you. Do you want Me to Stop?
ET- keep going, you owe me more…tell me about your little pussy
HBM- It feels so FUCKING GOOD. I’d ride You so hard. Pushing you farther inside me.
My pussy continuing to get wetter and wetter. Making it easier for you to slide in and out of me.
ET- Come on dirty girl, I know you can be naughty with me.
HBM- I’d Tie Your wrists to the bed post. Then I’d tie your ankles to the bed. Then I’d slide my soft Wet pussy Across your lips while reaching back to slowly stroke your cock. And tickle your balls.
Then I’d slowly turn around and gently guide your Cock Into Me From behind. Your chest against my back.
You lips close to my Ear so I can hear what you have to say to Me.
ET- You know I would put you in your place and make you do all sorts of bad girl things. I like to talk dirty, and I like you to be dirty to me.
HBM- How do I feel?
ET- When did you start thinking about me like this. How long have you been imagining my cock.
HBM- Send me a pic of what you’re doing right now.
ET- I can feel your sweat on your thighs as my shaft slides in and you of you. Your wet pussy is dripping down my balls to your asshole, you’re dripping more and more.
My cock is raging, you can feel my purple onion ready to burst inside your pussy. My head is getting fatter and fatter. What are you gonna do to make your cock cum baby?
HBM- I won’t let you come till I’m ready.
ET- Tell me love, tell me how you’re going to do it.
MEETING SINN AND FUTURE
HBM- I want to feel your Tongue Inside Me. That’s my favorite.
ET- You want me to suck you, I don’t think you’ve sucked me enough yet. First I would have to lick up all of your juices so I can actually feel your lips. Your pussy is so wet and ripe.
HBM- Keep going.
IN CAB WITH SINN AND FUTURE
ET- I am done, I want to cum HOOKER! You want my cock to CUM?
HBM- too much work, Typical. Whatever
ET- Shut the fuck up little girl, you don’t tell me what to do if I want you on your back that’s what you do. If I want you on all fours that’s what you do. I fuck you how I want to fuck you. And you don’t et fucked any better than me whore! Who makes your pussy this wet? Who’s cock can hold out this long with how tight you’re getting?
HBM- Are you gonna come for me?
ET- You have to earn my cum you fucking dirty girl. I dominate your CUNT, I need you to be really dirty for a little while in order to make me cum.
HBM- Fuck ME Easy the HARD!
ET- No you need to be real dirty, baby. You need to clinch up on me. You need to seize on my cock. You need to make my head pulsate bulging bigger and bigger in your pink little hole.
HBM- I’m gonna COME!
ET- I don’t want you to cum yet baby, I want you to come really hard for me , I need to feel your pussy drip all down my balls.
HBM- I will be good I promise, I am gonna come, what are you gonna do to me.
ET- Fuck you take your fucking hands off your pussy.
HBM- I came, I came so hard for you.
ET- What did I say! I am done. I will finish myself off elsewhere. Bye
HBM- No I don’t want to leave you High and Dry!
ET- Then you know what you have to do. You have to do what I say, you’re gonna have to be naughty for me. Real naughty.
HBM- Even better, how do I be your naughty girl?
ET- I just pounded your ass, now you have to pound mine you DIRTY CUNT WHORE! Now you dominate me, you fucking DIRTY BITCH!
HBM- You want me that way… I’d tie your wrists to the bed post. Then I’d tie your ankle to the bed, then I’d slide my soft wet pussy across your lips.
ET- Fuck you whore I already heard that one.
AT VENUE
HBM- How do I be dirty for you, babe?
ET- You’ve got to rack my shit like a nasty fucking WHORE! I want you to get dirty like a nasty nasty girl.
HBM- That’s how you want me?
ET- Can you be that way, or do I need to text someone else.
HBM- I can be, I can be dirty for you.
ET- You need to do things for me I like, you need to do things you don’t normally do for other guys.
HBM- You wanna fuck my ass?
ET- Now you’re getting somewhere, I need you to violate me, and I need to violate you.
HBM- My pussy is still wet do you want me to get my ass wet with my pussy?
ET- Keep talking you’re making my cock rage!
HBM- Yeah is fucking my tight ass making you come! You like me from behind, fucking my ass?
ET- You fucking bitch, fuck my cock with your ass. You’re gonna make me CUM!
HBM- Come for me baby.
ET- Suck your ass off my cock!
HBM- Wat?
ET –You heard me! Suck your ass off my cock you dirty girl!
HBM- Stick it in my mouth, stick it my mouth.
ET- Say it whore, say it. Tell me you want to suck yourself off me! SAY IT, Make me CUM!
IN SET AT BAR
HBM- I want it I want your COME. Take it out of my ass and give me your come.
ET- I just shot my load so hard, baby. I just came so hard.
HBM- Did you come for me?
ET- I need to go babe, I am falling asleep. You wore my ass out.
HBM- But I want you here next to me.
ET- I can’t do that baby, I am tired and need to get some rest.
HBM- But I want to hold you next to me while I fall asleep.
ET- I am sorry babe, that’s not what I am here for.
HBM- Good night , call you tomorrow K ☺
Give this to your psychologist and let me know what they think…
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