FR: validation seeking woman gave me AA day game

VALIDATION with women

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I usually dont really see these things but today, as I was parking my car a HOT girl dressed really trendy, I mean stright 9 on looks scale.

as I was parking she was at ATM machine and when she was done she was still like standing there and looking around but in a way like to cathc my eye or seek attention , validation. Not attraction.

Why cause I caught her looking as I parked my car and it was a look on her face bodylanguage was like if she wanted to ask me something or wanted something from me.


Thats how I perceived it.
I have that awareness sensitivity thing..anyways

I could have gone and talked to her but it would validate her and give her what she wanted, easily.
as soon as I would open my mouth to appraoch or show interest I sensed as soon as she would get that then it would be game over.

So I can cold appraoch
I know how to turn them into warm appraoches

but this here is different in terms of surprisng the girl and you enmtering in her world.

here she wants validation that she gets guys attention and feeds her energy to feel good of that from the start...therefore she wont feel attracted to you.
Like a cusotmer paying a stripper for a dance,he gives the girl money she gets what she wants.

and by me giving her direct attention she gets the validation that she wants.


Please can you share any thoughts or how you change that when you sense that type of girl...cause I know there is a way of turning it around but I wanted to hear from you guys.


nuff said.
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Today, 12:23 PM #2
Himmler

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Have you considered the possibility that she was abit attracted to you and want you to make the first move, then have you fuck her brains out?

For all you know, you could have missed out on some 9 pussy. You should have said something, whats the worst that could happen? Nothing. If she was validation seeking, she would have got it and thats it, no skin of your back. If there was something more to that, well then you missed out on a chance.

I mean she could have tried stringing you along later, but Im sure you would have been able to spot that and cut the shit right there.
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shadow said:

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I have to agree with Himmler. Furthermore you think way too much. You should have just said hi and went from there.
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LastMan

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Originally Posted by Himmler
For all you know, you could have missed out on some 9 pussy.