PU stuff is like Carbs....So Im on a DIET

PU stuff is addicting like food...

better yet they are like CARBS.

Im on a diet so when I train I eat little carbs, when I dont train on off days, I dont eat carbs.

PU stuff is like carbs...that lil bit is enough. unless im going to brun it off and do strength training.Too much isnt good, it make me fat and bloated.So Im on a diet.



Affirmation for the day to avoid over reading or overthinking game.





I will post style's post soon about the dark side of PUA community....and this here is really good from jon sinn.



too much carbs get you fat and you get a syndrome of just eating junk food....
PUA Syndrome.

Enjoy


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Hey guys,

It's the middle of the week and I am really
"Working for the weekend" at this point!
Don't really know what it is, but I am
Having soo much trouble focusing
Today!

It's Wednesday, which means another action
and, information packed edition of the Mailbag
where I answer an email question from a reader
just like you!

Today's question comes from Cody who has
encountered a very common problem guys
run into when they join the SUISC.

Let's let him take it away:

Hello, Sinn

I really love your style and insight on
attraction and pickup! I have studied pua
from almost everyone starting with of course
David Deangelo back in 2004 you guys
have helped change my life for the better
and I am forever greatful.

However, I do have a question. Many girls
have told me I "Come on too strong" When
I interact with a girl I feel that almost everything
she says is a test. And usually when a girl "shit tests"
me, I dont back down at all and give her no value
what so ever. I notice I have been creating a lot of
conflict in my interactions only to have the girls either
walk away mad, or tell my friend that im an asshole,
or a jerk. The thing is im really not a jerk. I just dont
take shit from them anymore and I intimidate them too
much and its compromising my game. How do I lighten up?
I dont want to be perceived as a jerk that girls walk away
from anymore. Help! Please

Cody C


Hey Cody,

So I'll put my Date Doctor hat on here,
and my diagnosis is that you have full blown
Pick Up Artist Syndrome. This is what happens
when a guy gets a little too into Pick Up and starts
taking things literally and dogmatically.

Let's look at a few of your direct quotes.

You've been studying for 4 years and are still having this issue...
This tells me you're not thinking outside the box.
If you go out and do the exact same things over
And over again, without getting a better result,
You HAVE to try something else. Even if you're
doing what the gurus tell you to!The fact that you
Haven't even seemed to consider an
alternative to "intimidating" girls, is a
bad sign that you take everything you read as gospel
and you aren't adaptable which is a huge skill when
it comes to meeting girls. If what you're trying
isn't working consistently (50+ times)
try something different.

The second thing you said that was really disturbing,
was that you take EVERYTHING a girl does as a "shit test",
that's just SOCIALLY RETARDED!
Girls are NOT constantly testing you!!
They are real people,and sometimes are curious
about things or are just trying to be nice.
By interpreting everything a woman does as a
test that you have to pass, you're constantly
NEGATIVELY misinterpreting the interaction
and then not backing down over something
that wasn't even a test.

This is majorly socially awkward!

When guys get into the SUISC they have usually
had some bad experience with women and they
are very shy. They could be considered "pussies"
for lack of a better term. They are used to supplicating
and constantly catering to a girl's every whim for a
chance at sex. Then they read all this stuff on the internet
about being an "alpha male" and "shit tests" etc.. and
they swing too far the other way. They refuse to buy girls
drinks, or pay for dates and they think every girl is secretly
trying to screw them out of time, energy and money.
Which is equally unhealthy and also doesn't help you get laid. This is where you are Cody,
and probably quite a few more guys reading this.

The key to getting better at this is to ask yourself
" Is this really a test or could it be something else?"
When in doubt positively interpret the situation as
a compliment and change the subject. Far too much,
is made of the idea that women test men all the time.
It's a really inaccurate and misogynistic relic from
the early days of the SUISC.

Overall you have to move past the mindset that
women are out to give you shit, and start trying
to move these interactions into the idea of the two
of you getting together.

I'd recommend you take some time off from reading
and studying pickup and focus on basic social skills
and making groups of strangers think you're fun to hang
out with.

Best,

JS

PS: If YOU want to get my most highly guarded secrets for getting all the woman you could EVER possibly want into your life, you HAVE to join Sinn's Inner Circle. Try it for FREE for a month by going to www.Sinnsofattraction.com/sic