Hey I had that overexplaining and I cathc myself over and over doing it.
Today, I was trying to explain w " you have to understand..."
I got cut off by ,y dad as he said
"HEY dont waste your breath or salivia explaining, you are talking to me, Im older and wiser..... you dont have to explain, it is easy...and simple
I go to the point I dont go around the issue trying to understand why,
I just do what I have to do and go for it ...the rest I dont care"
so basically here he is teaching me a lesson.....
dont force other people to understand you , they wont always.
you can express yourself but dont try hard for them to try to get them to understand you or push too hard out of your way to do that- WAYNE DYER mentions that in his wonderful book on pulling your own strings...wher you become victimize by this...
He is right, I shouldnt....
I think Ive pushed myself too much into a one dimensioanl character.
I have to review my goals and review brian tracy's sceince of self confidence.
I have to breathe and meditate, talk to GOD.
be social again, try to get calibrated and not weepy.
I dotn really think I had that problem until now, or until Karrey explained about dont educate people what you are doing.
I taught that to Jorge.
I should leave from PICkup theory again, to regain practice and experience....I think Ive gotten too much info and inventive theories than practice.
and thats bad.
there has to be a balance..
like a diet and food.
Im happy cause my dad corrected me and he is Alpha....he is a sneaky guy and manipulative, I think Im turning into him a bit.
I saw a black guy standing talking to a girl her body language of the girl was more investing towards him.
I rememebr zellly the guy that had a one night stand with asisan girl in nyc.
guy is funny smooth and player at heart or at the club.
PU stuff is cool but overexplaining and getting too techinical SUCKS.
in a way Casey learned to be good with women the right way.
learning from community, sucks ass.
Im happy I will re unite with natural soon.
Im very happy.
when I was with natural I just heard entropy and some topo stack and sinn. swinggcats push pull prizing and sinns breathrough comnfort w SNLs.
attraction can be easily learned at any time.
It knowing when to spike BT
Ryan expalins well and asian playboy.
Adam knows breaking rapport no more than 3 times
entropy calibrates his breaking rapport
so I will post on BT stuff as a collective to review.
I loved 9 and 10 game and alpha male and high end club game and issues in qualification cause he relates to frames.
Mr M and braddock taught me more of awareness stuff I was lacking.
beign genuine not different and assume high value traits.
I want ot learn dance , yoga, and some sport.
I shoudl do improv and toastmasters stuff. Cool.
SUMMARY
Sticking point comes from my inner game , LSE and self dount of insecurity.
SO observing ego and cathcing yourself and especially if someone gives you feedback to calibrate is awesome.
that shit is rare.
thanks Dad :)
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