Outcome expectation -Approaching women

Many guys suffer from extreme shyness around women. The problem
is this is a quality that women do NOT find attractive.

Furthermore, shyness is the primary reason why they never
approach a woman or make any attempt to even talk to them.

When gone unchecked shyness can completely cripple your chances
with the women.

The good news is this is something that CAN be fixed.

First off, it's important to have a step-by-step system for
approaching and attracting the girls you want. That is
something that can be learned here:

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Next, there are few simple techniques for eliminating your
shyness and become more confident around women:

Tip #1- Remove all desires and expectations
The one reason guys are nervous around women is they place TOO
much emphasis on the outcome of the conversation.

Instead of having fun, shy guys constantly obsess about saying
the right thing or screwing up.

Whenever you talk to a woman, just concentrate on the
conversation.

Be relaxed and have a little fun.

You can easily reduce your shyness by telling yourself that you
don't care about any outcome. It would be great if you got her
number, but it's not the end of the world if you don't.

Bottom line is you're talking to her just to have a little fun.

Tip #2- Have a clear idea of what you want from her

Now you might think I am contradicting myself by telling you to
remove all expectations from the conversation then telling you
to develop a clear idea of what you want.

But I think having a plan of action is a lot different from
removing all desire.
Let me explain...

While you want to avoid worrying too much about the outcome of a
conversation, you should still figure out what type of outcome
you want.
In other words, try to think of what you want to obtain by talking
to her.

Are you trying to have fun?

Do you want her number?

Do want to set up a date or sleep with her.

The more you can what you want, the more at ease you'll feel and
find yourself steering the conversation to your outcomes.

If you don't know how to create a plan of action whenever
talking to women, here's a site that can teach you how to
do this:

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Tip #3- Practice "Going for it"

One easy way to eliminate shyness around women is to practice
as much as possible. In the last tip, I recommended you have
a clear idea of what you want. Now when you know what you
want, you'll find it easier to go for it.

But what if you still feel nervous around women?

Well my best advice is to keep practicing "going for it" with
different women till you can get over your shyness and
nervousness.

Like any other skill, learning how to attract women is
something that must be practiced till you perfect it.

If you take the time to practice your conversation skills
and find out what works in different scenarios, you'll
discover it's easy feel comfortable around women.

And once you feel comfortable, women will start to pick up
on your confident personality.

Over a period of time, you can reduce your shyness by paying
attention to the three tips that I just described.

Ultimately you'll learn how to be confident around women and
learn the things that make you attractive to them.

Now if you want to learn more about how to approach and
attract ANY woman with complete confidence, then I recommend
you take a look at this site:

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Keep on Rocking and Rolling,

Scott Patterson
Chick Magnet 101