Monday, June 14, 2010

How to Meet Women During the Day

Learning how to pick up a girl during the day is one of the most worthwhile skills you can develop. You don’t have to schedule time to go out to a party or a night club or a bar. Instead, you can go about your every day life — grocery shopping, riding the bus to work, going to class — and still meet beautiful and attractive women.

There are some key differences with meeting women during the day. In fact, it’s practically polar opposite from meeting women at night. But as with meeting women at night, these skills must be practiced regularly to have any lasting impact on your life.

Women during the day are busy. When you meet a woman at night, you can be pretty sure that she’s most likely not going to go anywhere or start doing something else. But women during the day are running errands, heading to meetings, on their lunch break, etc.

For this reason, they often have legitimate time constraints that must be honored. If she says she’s busy, then she’s busy, don’t take it personally.

The other effect of this is that you must work quickly. It’s best to learn to show direct interest when meeting women during the day.

Another difference is that you’re solely going for phone numbers. You’re not going to get the girl to kiss you in the middle of a mall food court or at the local coffee shop, so just build some rapport and go for her phone number.

Finally, it’s best to look for girls who are by themselves during the day. When you approach women in large groups or with other guys, it comes off as socially awkward and unexpected. You end up spending all of your time convincing her friends that you’re not weird instead of actually getting somewhere with the girl.

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