Same day lays will test every part of your skill set, so this is a good time to solidify everything
you've learned.
Last month we learned that escalation is a matter of using a consistent procedure. Figure out
the best steps to take, then take those steps every time. Pulling a girl home the same night is
also a matter of using proper procedures. Learn these procedures and use them consistently,
and you'll always have a decent chance at getting laid.
Course Materials:
• “The Underground Dating Seminar” Part 5
• “Interviews with Naturals: The Pheromone Kid”
• Bonus: Student Success Stories: Ricky Ricardo
Your to-do list:
• Do 30 approaches and file a report.
• Go for the same day lay every time you go out.
Don't settle for phone numbers, really
push yourself for the immediate results.
Use the frameworks from the CDs, "Brad's Ten
Timer Method," and The Pheromone Kid's "Ten Minute Seduction Technique."
This month is filled with very advanced material. Do your best to internalize it, but don't feel pressured to have one night stands if it's not what you want. It's not for everyone, although
understanding how it works is something everyone should know.
Ten Timer mehod taught at a bootcamp
Now that we all have openers and some basic frame control techniques, we were taught a few attraction routines. These were not to be used as openers, but to be used to build attraction once we've already opened. They are: whatever song, 8 girlfriends, cat routine, smart tests, smart hot rich, and blender routine. Brad suggested that we pick two of them and build them into a stack, similar to what I did last night. He also suggested that, in the future, to learn two routines at a time, using them at least ten times each.
Kino (touching) was described. Phase 1 kino: shoulders, elbow, knees if sitting. Phase 2 kino: arm around shoulder, around waist, touch hair, hands, scalp area around neck, face. If you get past phase 2, you should kiss. If the girl is unresponsive, that's a green light. If the girl pulls away, stop and try again later.
Ten timer method, for same night lays: first do three warmup appoaches. Then, out of the next ten, there should be approximately two blowouts, four go-nowhere conversations, and three to four attracted girls. The blowouts are good, they mean you can immediately find a compatible girl. The attracted girls are good, of course. The go-nowhere conversations you want to avoid; you will just be wasting your time. When in a go-nowhere conversation, push harder to force the girls to either blow you out or get really attracted.
Of the girls who are attracted to you, figure out the logistics. They come in three varieties: full travel dependency, in-venue dependency, or floaters. Full travel dependency girls are the designated driver of a group of five, who live two hours away and have to leave tonight. There's basically no way for you to leave with her. In-venue dependency girls arrived by themselves, but are meeting up with a group they know at the venue. This creates a social obligation for them to stay with the group, but at the end of the night, they can leave with you. These girls are second best. Floaters came by themselves and have no social obligations. They can be super social with everyone, such as if they were bartenders on their off night.
Open, attract, figure out logistics. Concentrate your effort on the girl who is most compatible with you and has the highest chance of going home with you that night, take the numbers of the other attracted girls. Consistently applying the ten timer method! It is good knowing that you will usually get about this number of blowouts, so you do not get bummed, since it is to be expected. It also forces you to do ten approaches a night.
Screening girls for logistics: Where'd you guys come in from? You all look drunk except for you, I guess you're the designated driver? Everyone going to your place for a sleepover afterwards, huh? Your mom's probably going to come down and be all awkward, asking who your friends are.
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VARIABLE 1: LOGISTICS
You should be figuring out the logistics for the pull within the first 10-15 minutes of meeting
the woman. Logistical issues include:
End location: Your place or hers? Is your place nearby? Is it OK to bring her there? Does
she live with roommates? Women or men? Does she live with parents? Does she live in a
college dorm? Is there any chance that someone she lives with will judge her as a slut for
having sex with you? If neither place is suitable, will you be trying to have sex with her in
your car? In an alley behind the bar? Figure this stuff out before you get too involved in the
interaction.
Transportation: How will you get to the next place?
Extra venues: It often makes sense to bring a woman to another location before taking her
home sometimes. It reinforces the idea that you two are "together" for the night. The idea is
for the venues to get lower and lower in energy. This allows for increased intimacy and conversation.
Bar/Club--->Lounge--->Diner--->Home
Don't bring her to extra places if it's not necessary, sometimes she's ready to go straight
home. Do have these locations figured out in advance so you have options and you can easily
take the lead.
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