Social proof is name of the game...

why does guys like Gene simmons wherever he goes has women around him?
I am a huge fan of gene simmons the businessman and father and unmarried husband.
his point of view of un-married is amazing and I believe in it.

anyways, I have truly have aside of adam and others who talk this social proof thing.
I do it unconcioulsy and when I talk to a woman her objections or any bullshit I can use as if she is talking some absurdity which society can make her look foolish...this makes her see and react to you like you are source of validation itself..

for that you have to have look. confidence, the way you talk fluent deep smooth not nervous and engaging..well put seem like its natural charm effortless.

certain things with social proof you can use with women, wearing something cool, having a picture with someone celebrity, or status. the way you carry yourself respecting yourself and your taste and pickyness.

this is something im in midst of mastery on my own.
Gene is still the King and please check out his book Sex money and kiss...great read and helped me reshape my own image into my new career business..Im more of gene simmons fan and family jewelz fan than kiss fanatic. eventhough Lick it up is great song.

Being powerful person is being powerful upon yourself to be proactive and self disciplined FIRST...and then LEAD women.

I found myself abit frustrated due to certain circumstances in Life where I am now at stage of buisniness and personal growth and career planning.

If you manage your time to game or seduce women and you empower this skill of dedicating to your task primarily, then you can give that non needy distance woman can then be a maturnal nurture person she biologically is...always assure that it isnt insecure but reasure that it satisfies your masculine and you like it.

that way she is open to be a natural woman...
not to mention the natural woman pattern works within comfort/rapport when she is attention in isolation.stabilazes you as a man and woman relationship.

its a suave way to demonstrate using this tecnique, franco calls it  "female talk".

If you are not familiar with Franco seduction , then check it out. Its real deal in terms of seducing women on your TERMS....no heartbreak , no self destructiveness, definately something that has Changed my Life...

check out the manual of seduction.

Ive read and studied and even gone out with few pua's...naturals..etc...
Franco seems to be most consistent and empowering point of view in seduction and having a sexual lifestyle without showing off.

I consider myself his student and up to this day, still best material.

I dont do pua routines but I might do then unconciously or lead...
my other posts and LRs can help you integrate routines into natural pickup start to end.

HOW to predict how to game efficiently your results when to nightgame Cold approach or online dating.-answer to this SECRET

***this is entertainment purposes only not professional advice any kind so if you get a drd from a random its up to you to wear a condom. where I am there are alot of women with drd. I feel safe and gladfully I dont have that so be careful.***


        After many years of doing this and learning thourhg experiences and being soo better at it I have become very aware and picky and want to upgrade.. as a guy once we get a job we want new things a car or TV or clothes or cologne..etc etc.. once we get our "check" we at times think unconciously

                                      "I need to get a haircut."

 this example is perfect cause more you grow your potential in life success and dating..then you will want to upgrade naturally.

I am experienceing this at the moment and due to soo many exposure to many people and situations and what I want in my life and importantly WHO I VALUE MYSELF AS A GOOD SELF VALIDATED SELF DEPENDANT person, meaning I decide if I am going to pay $25 for a steak at a lousy restaurant or cook at home or enjoy a GOOD meal well worth price....

 you need to experience this first to "GET IT" that being said.

 where I am there are alot of women online ..and out and about.. there are women who wont look at you online but will check you out when you are out and vice versa.

 If you a re looking for a quick one night fast sex exicting and you have time, then my recommendation is to go out ! dont "sarge" or be a weirdo or too logical but know where you are going and what time ... know that late night some places there is chance to take home a random girl..

 Online websites like POFs OKculprits there are alot of fat girls and more you have to invest time to send messages and pursue.. personally I dont have time to invest in fat girls.

 there are other sites for "higher quality women" which I am interested in mainly cause I want to be aligned and congruent who I am and who I identify myself with being high status male by Franco.

so Online may be good practice and you can message thouse free sites around 1am and you might get a response from a girl. due to my busy schedule and financial planning i dont have time to waste in dates and coffee..only If theres is chemistry I will shit test her how she responds. then I will decide.

 thouse days of experimenting without results are far gone where guys have to chase a woman whether its in seattle or portland or miami or new york.

If you are a guy making six figures. you by all means create a lifestyle where you want to do what you want.. but if you are starting and still in school and want to improve your dating skills, then by all means take advantage of online dating from facebook to other apps many young girls locally have on their phone and sign up..most are free and improve your communication skills and learn after every interaction to EXPERIENCE CONSISTENCY AND PERSISTANCE to develop intuition... this is like baseball you bat and bat in cage and when time comes to hit the ball when they throw a pitch you have enough warm-up and experience to knock it off the park for a HOME RUN.

like one site mentioned about online dating , women when lonely they will look online... but its  least effort for them and boost of sexual validation and fake confidence in her..

THE MORE SHE INVESTS INTO MEETING A GUY BEING COLD APPROACH AT BAR LOUNGE , IN PERSON ,NIGHT GAME or whatever you want to call it...THE MORE CHANCE INCREASES FOR YOU TO INVEST LESS ENERGY VS ONLINE.

IF SHE IS ONLINE AND LIVES BUSY LIFE YET IT HAS A GENUINE FEEL..THEN ONLINE CAN RESULT SUPERBLY WELL.

there are sites and you can zooxsk messages or tinderize that is ok but its range is 25yr younger range... meaning party girl attraction fun fun fun...and it is doable...

NOTE: I have done online to meetup same day lead to sex in 1hr 
 it and it confuses the girl cause you are giving her an unexpected experience plays with her head which leads to drinking and end of the night sex..but you can double book if she flakes... credit Paul Janka*

is it consistent? maybe if you screen many girls...but it won't hit everytime..if you dont have time and do what works surely then you can play both ways.

 SUMMARY
: 1- Nightgame COLD APPROACH - go for all girls you like and are interested in you, don't go for number close if she isnt investing and you dont feel chemistry from her then move on quickly. theres always use for pua aura like SNLs captain jack used to teach...when things dont go your way on one girl that night it will help for the next one looking at you at the bar..when you hit a point where is one then take her number. i usually stick and dont leave until I leave with her and usually pretty solid and obvious.

 2-Online: you can join in to send as many messages to girls but dont waste your time too much messaging one girl cause that is typical girl that is there for attention.. dont take this personal on yourself its her mental issue of deserveness or lack of maturity in adult relationship dynamics...she will give you shite now she will give you LMR,

 if you looking for GF material then most free sites arent that good, depends on your location check first...

but most where I am are fat and have tattoos are very bitchy and have 4 kids before they are 28yrs old and probably with drd.  If you are going to hit online then select and market yourself selectively  to who you want to buy you.. :)


 -Carlo

Emotions meaning powerful change within yourself FIRST before you can LEAD...lesson from Jim Rohn

Theres nothing more powerful in personal development than being a powerful person within yourself. I was looking for a quote online for my desk and I found Jim Rohn, actually I went to a bank and it had a quote from him, about discipline and goal to achieve results. this is a article that changed me and helped me grow and become better person, I am posting it out of respect to Jim rohn whom I purchased a book and was inspired by his youtube videos. amazing person..rest in peace Jim Rohn. The Four Emotions That Can Lead to Life Change by Jim Rohn Jim Rohn motivational speaker and author Emotions are the most powerful forces inside us. Under the power of emotions, human beings can perform the most heroic (as well as barbaric) acts. To a great degree, civilization itself can be defined as the intelligent channeling of human emotion. Emotions are fuel and the mind is the pilot, which together propel the ship of civilized progress. Which emotions cause people to act? There are four basic ones; each, or a combination of several, can trigger the most incredible activity. The day that you allow these emotions to fuel your desire is the day you'll turn your life around. 1) DISGUST - One does not usually equate the word "disgust" with positive action. And yet properly channeled, disgust can change a person's life. The person who feels disgusted has reached a point of no return. He or she is ready to throw down the gauntlet at life and say, "I've had it!" That's what I said after many humiliating experiences at age 25, I said. "I don't want to live like this anymore. I've had it with being broke. I've had it with being embarrassed, and I've had it with lying." Yes, productive feelings of disgust come when a person says, "Enough is enough." The "guy" has finally had it with mediocrity. He's had it with those awful sick feelings of fear, pain and humiliation. He then decides he is not going to live like this anymore." Look out! This could be the day that turns a life around. Call it what you will, the "I've had it" day, the "never again" day, the "enough's enough" day. Whatever you call it, it's powerful! There is nothing so life-changing as gut-wrenching disgust! 2) DECISION - Most of us need to be pushed to the wall to make decisions. And once we reach this point, we have to deal with the conflicting emotions that come with making them. We have reached a fork in the road. Now this fork can be a two-prong, three-prong, or even a four-prong fork. No wonder that decision-making can create knots in stomachs, keep us awake in the middle of the night, or make us break out in a cold sweat. Making life-changing decisions can be likened to internal civil war. Conflicting armies of emotions, each with its own arsenal of reasons, battle each other for supremacy of our minds. And our resulting decisions, whether bold or timid, well thought out or impulsive, can either set the course of action or blind it. I don't have much advice to give you about decision-making except this: Whatever you do, don't camp at the fork in the road. Decide. It's far better to make a wrong decision than to not make one at all. Each of us must confront our emotional turmoil and sort out our feelings. 3) DESIRE - How does one gain desire? I don't think I can answer this directly because there are many ways. But I do know two things about desire: a. It comes from the inside not the outside. b. It can be triggered by outside forces. Almost anything can trigger desire. It's a matter of timing as much as preparation. It might be a song that tugs at the heart. It might be a memorable sermon. It might be a movie, a conversation with a friend, a confrontation with the enemy, or a bitter experience. Even a book or an article such as this one can trigger the inner mechanism that will make some people say, "I want it now!" Therefore, while searching for your "hot button" of pure, raw desire, welcome into your life each positive experience. Don't erect a wall to protect you from experiencing life. The same wall that keeps out your disappointment also keeps out the sunlight of enriching experiences. So let life touch you. The next touch could be the one that turns your life around. 4) RESOLVE - Resolve says, "I will." These two words are among the most potent in the English language. I WILL. Benjamin Disraeli, the great British statesman, once said, "Nothing can resist a human will that will stake even its existence on the extent of its purpose." In other words, when someone resolves to "do or die," nothing can stop him. The mountain climber says, "I will climb the mountain. They've told me it's too high, it's too far, it's too steep, it's too rocky, it's too difficult. But it's my mountain. I will climb it. You'll soon see me waving from the top or you'll never see me, because unless I reach the peak, I'm not coming back." Who can argue with such resolve? When confronted with such iron-will determination, I can see Time, Fate and Circumstance calling a hasty conference and deciding, "We might as well let him have his dream. He's said he's going to get there or die trying." The best definition for "resolve" I've ever heard came from a schoolgirl in Foster City, California. As is my custom, I was lecturing about success to a group of bright kids at a junior high school. I asked, "Who can tell me what "resolve" means?" Several hands went up, and I did get some pretty good definitions. But the last was the best. A shy girl from the back of the room got up and said with quiet intensity, "I think resolve means promising yourself you will never give up." That's it! That's the best definition I've ever heard: PROMISE YOURSELF YOU'LL NEVER GIVE UP. Think about it! How long should a baby try to learn how to walk? How long would you give the average baby before you say, "That's it, you've had your chance"? You say that's crazy? Of course it is. Any mother would say, "My baby is going to keep trying until he learns how to walk!" No wonder everyone walks. There is a vital lesson in this. Ask yourself, "How long am I going to work to make my dreams come true?" I suggest you answer, "As long as it takes." That's what these four emotions are all about. To Your Success, Jim Rohn

killing your inner ego dialog..self sabotage we hide from ourselves and others

Ironically, you begin to recognize that the stillness holds all solutions. As you awaken from this hypnotic slumber, your inherently powerful and creative presence is targeted for deactivation by the mind. Since the inner essence of you is complete in and of itself, needing nothing outside itself for a sense of completion, anything added is by the part of the mind that is in a chronic state of needing and wanting: the ego. As was discussed previously, the ego is concerned with selfseeking and upholding its identity. As normal as this may seem in our culture, an enlightened being does not concern himself with his reputation and other people’s opinions (opinions that arise from their egoic minds). By its very nature, the egoic mind structure can never, ever be satisfied for any length of time because it is comprised of a false identity without any foundation. It virtually exists to find myriad ways to enhance itself and to use egoic reflection via others’ compliments and by trying to stand out and become special in order to sustain itself. this is something Golden I found by Lisette Larkins... My friend Laurel told me once when I was worried about something that self sabotage was Your mind EGO wants to kill you...you neeed to fight it, need to fight that self sabotage with action and positivity towards what you know is right for you and what makes you happy.. this EGO wants to keep you stagnant and that EGO isnt who you are.. its trying to kill you." we get overwhelmed with sadness and grief about things and its normal for few days and then we have to regroup and move forward. Anything in Life isnt worth going for isnt EASY ..like my friend who runs a fortune 500 company "if it was easy everybody would be rich". Let this be of motivation to you to avoid ttraps in your head when you need to get something done and want something. at that point with this knowledge that the voice of EGO is become FEARLESS like 50cent in his book.

Re reading 2014 edition of Franco's Seduction Manual part 1

I must say that I need to get a fresh read since Ive been out of this for few weeks. and this is like a muscle...you have to be consistent and persistent in very very efficient way. re reading the manual NEW version is refrshing cause its for midlevel to advance readers. it has real meaning of hope for what guys go through searching for success in this like pulling out of your pocket fell 100s stacked. thats how you feel when you get this..thing woman game thing seduction. Knowing the guy isnt just a pickup artist but someone who has experience with women in a way that keeps a man sane. THATS IMPORTANT. cause I have more value into myself and my Life ..reading this empowers me ... I read the manual before mainly oneitis chapter whcih now revisted new version...and playboy's lifestyle of MLTRS. really I think Franco puts his many years into this and worth the pay and even shoot him an email. so far Im in first 2 chapters again...I like to re read them to confirm in my mind now that I have this high self esteem. something swinggcatt calls "the prize". siwnggcatt is excellent as well and will talk about his stuff waaay back how when I started my mission.

New approach to online game

I will try a new approach to online game to fit my schdule. alot of guys waste too much time on computer and then in some sense really goes nowhere. Guys like blackdragon know there stuff like second nature cause they do everyday. I really trying to implement multi tasking in correct way since I have personal obligations with school work and examinations; health rest and organization I feel new found level of confidence I will dicuss later at another post is to be exploited to the fullest. I have been screening cock teases and really dropping girls I can go fuck but I need to level it up on notch and on my terms. aside of hotter girls but more level headed than freks who are in some ways a boring fuck... I think like CJ said Captain Jack PUA "its better to sacrifice going home with a regular girl to immprove your art to get what you want". I feel in some sense more I dont give a fuck bitch cause Im happy and successful with myself in Life...mentality VS how do I get this girls? oh she likes me,,oh she gave me her number and overthinking it .... Now its about the FLOW.. and her investing... I am sujper surprised Adam Lyons doesnt talk anymore about the GOLD investment theory he used to teach cause his former coaches ahave really taken real piece from it and basterdized the thoery. The pimp thoery does well with this adding real value to adams early work. I am changing my approach cause Im happy and dont want a relationship LTR but want to enjoy women variety comes with it.. I might be more subtle and direct in some ways but Im screening whos in and whos out... I used this before when girls try to act non slutty and get them to show me naughty side ala California pimp Net video girls... (if you get a chance go and buy your subscription and enjoy it.) My new approach is effieciency and screening and setting frame of relationship very subtle... no more breakthrough comfort for now...its alot of work and not fair to women..cause that works so well its hard to get them off from you. New year new approach. like Partition beyonce

how tv and watching sports makes you a spectator in life

I have been lately under the weather and that is no excuse 2 still think about tomorrow and responsibilities as a man has to do with every day.whether it's paying the bills or go to work it's definitely what you make of your life. Another thing I want to do is about responsibility with yourselfand that is if you work very hard in life meaning your job your career and planning a certain things that are coming for you in life then you deserve a break or rest sometimes we will work our souls and we there and off with a lot of stress and we as me as a person I'm used to working very hard being focused on the principles of a winnermy mind forced me to rest to rest even though I wanted to go out the force myself to go out of body was fighting against it in some ways it was demanding rest so I decided to rest my mind and my body to regroup myself for fresh ideas and moving forward this avoids getting frustrated and planning strategically because without planning is basically living life without anye real success in mind positivity positivity has nothing to do with action or outcome if you dont have a stage ready to work. meaning we have to start taking a lot of action in our lives in being very proactive if you are watching too much TV and watching too much sports that means that you are being more of a spectator and that isn't good that's not a good habit of house if you want to be someone successful with women you have to start creating your life in a way that you are the most important thing and that you dictate happiness and relaxation advice that way you will be fine the way you were treated and the Wii you will attract other women in yourlife. people give up snd settle for paycheck or easy money..tjats mentality of giving up on yourself. stop being spectator and do something. Get your shit straight fic your room or apt your house your car your hair your teeth your smell..start investing time in yourself then hou will be ready to meet women and attract without hesitation.your high level self worth will ignite your spirit. thats how you wanna be.fight to het there cause it will be rewarding.

REPRINT of Whats #1 in your Life before anything , woman women sex anything is this !!!! thanks badboy

Get Your Priorities Straight ...Today I see lots of guys in the Seduction Community make the same mistake over and over, regarding where their priorities are... Namely, letting pickup take over their life. Guys spend all their time reading forums, downloading more and more material, studying every guru's philosophy and eventually it becomes their whole life. Guys start to look at the world as one big sarge and lose the ability to act like a normal person with friends and other priorities in their life. This is why so many guys you meet in the community are fucking weird. There are plenty of great guys in it, but also a lot of weirdos. Make an effort to be a normal person before being a mPUA... You'll be happier. Pickup should be just one of the hobbies you have. Don't spend more than 2-3 days a week on it and don't spend all your free time trolling the internet for more info... Learn what you need to to so that you are getting results but then just go out and have fun, go to the gym, do some reading, play sports, learn something new... Girls love guys with a genuinely good lifestyle which is why guys who obsess over only pickup are actually hurting their chances with girls. What they are doing is putting women and their need for validation above all other things and the gaping void that forms in their life because of this will be subcommunicated eventually and drive girls away. This is a horrible dynamic to create in your life. Sitting in front of a computer, reading forums and spending hours worrying about what opener to use is the worst lifestyle you can have. Your pursuit of women should be a small facet of your overall well developed lifestyle; not vice-versa. Go out and make some friends. Real friends. Not just community guys. It's stupid if all the people you hang out with are community guys. If you do so, you are limiting yourself from all that life has to offer Starting out, of course take a workshop to get you on the level where you can continue to progress by yourself, then take community guys(wings), and train with them during the 2-3 days a week you dedicate to gaming. Other than that, make sure you have a balanced, interesting, fulfilling life and you will get much better results than if you spend 20 hours a week “studying” pickup. Start doing this today. Enjoy, BadBoy

Changes in shift on quality shifting vs gaming #s

once you are aware of things and get away from nerviousness and reframe as adrenaline rush to good feelings of excitement. then you are ready I have now ignored some girls I see contantly...and even the main one. new ones and some I now get texts from random is to improve quality. 2014 is more about I have the skill and now lets improve quality of girls and what Franco calls it "silent killer instinct" for smoother seductions and quicker screenings. when I mean screenings I mean girls Im not compatible with me or have relationship with me. but to get to that you must have balls and self worth with yourself alone. without never ever verbalize. thats secret. girl can come and you can start great convo.. she isnt your type then you can use as social proof and leave it. Ive done that with my friend wing brian pullman from tacoma. Ive opend by instinct and what triggers more attraction is when that isntinct and her reacting to insticnts match then now what you say needs tonned down and your vibe to fuck needs to be relax yet sensual not sexual. so its like a dance together. slow and then lead to end. like gene simmons says different busioness close than woman close..totally oposite

Golden Globes...characters ,actors and social setting observations PART 1 rambles

seriously is everyone there was nervous of each other.. like when you go out to a club or bar.. when you come in notice everyione there is insecure person thats your advantage thats when you are already self validated can go and not care yet be cool and friendly model like bradbley cooper he follow certain persuasuon technique from NLP like anchors. when he is alone his subcoms is noticable different... when he is with a woman he smiles and already tries to laugh to whatever it is she is saying therefore creating good vibe and he touches,.anchours. to all women he does this and comes off charasmatic. thres more like leonardio di caprio but its more of Im alpha and im the best .. which is OK, but remember we live in social society to mingle.. shuts off people , but when leo is in character and not alone he is more lively..when in real person seems closed off and comes off arrgant or insecure of talking to people. theres fine line. you also see women, women hot arent hot.. women get old they try harder. younger women are more value cause they are young. that brings them looks HB 9 and 10 older hot yet smart and good girl self esteem can be HB 9 and 10. both these need men to not praose her but to treat her like she belongs to a man and handle her. like a lady tiger and a tamer.

Mystery Method works but no verbatim.. hint

NEGS NEgs are done non verbal and subtle to reinforce behaviour. DHV neeed to come out more like conveying comonality without try hard now that she mentioned it..blah blah blah

Example of Indirect Neg in comfort for really goodlooking girls

"Was there ever a time where you were self conscious about you body..like before you were fashionable?" delivery in a neutral tone of voice..then wait for her to response long..you nod.. The girl then she goes back and she tells you about high school and or experiences pre sex where she felt she wasnt that pretty.. this is basically comfort without being JERK or asshole..its a QUALIFICATION frame which makes you on top of the prize..vs just being too NEG or JERK.. remember most girls are social high IQ and therefore want a MAN, but without the man being verbally too confrontive asshole unless the girl disrespects or shit tests the guy.. then you can go KANYE and tell the gitl "this is whats reality and not whats going in yout thoughts" basically leading leading the reality... if you can lead her reality then its a matter of time (your responsibility) for this to work or not VS leaving it to luck or waiting for her to invest..cause that doesnt happen in real life unless you already have her invested into you or basically have e;licited sexuality and attraction to have her then want you after you have backed off a little so she doesnt feel too much too soon ofcourse the name of the game is calibration of when to push and when to back off is increments and when to release or back off while being emotionally so unreactive so she is the one emotionally wanting more and feeling the withdrawl of emotionally and physically wanting you to "pet her".. you always reject first kidding around if for whatever reason you reach LMR or ASD.. always not answer and ignore what isnt helping this move forward. remember if she shows up its for her to experience the experience of something magical to happen thats how we make sure that we get structure result from what works (logisitcs)