I know this is a hot contoversial topic but I mind as well say it cause something I wasnt aware of and have time to write it up.
When I got good with women and was getting laid, I wouldnt masturbate at all.
My mind got more of a high , a rush by the process of seduction than even just paying a hooker to sleep with you....WHY?
Cause it isnt a challenge, the seduction process is a challenge which builds tension and rewards you with sex....for good behaviour ;)
I remember when I had 2 fuckups straight I think its was last year a week afer my bday.
I liked this woman from improv, she gave me eye contact and signals and didnt do anything to escalate....then that week I went too aggresive on her, even creepy too sexual needy.
after that failed attemptd I went out to a dive bar by my apt, a university dive bar, 2 am all guys and one girl comes in, kindah drunk and dissapointed w life, I opened and hooked to build comfort bought her a beer but my mistake was not leading properly and sexually srousing her properly nor attracting her...I came off too easy and eager for sex....all my bodylanguage gave that I wanted to fuck and it turned her off and creeped her out.
drunk and upset left as i was constantly surrounded by guys or chodes, Sinn did tell me why they surounded me. my passive value wasnt up like the other guys.
Disappointed w my performance I got even better and warmed up. Im not sure but probably I did go to the strip club before class or i wanted to but didnt get on time type of thing...
I then called a girl up and as I remembered jon taought me hired gun game to get her out of the customer frame, I challenged her alot and used mehow stuff a bit but more sexual tease...basically what a stripper would do to a guy to get his money.
she then should up and her freind wanted to meet me and I was acting cool, not aloof but spiking bt like mehows basic attraction game (remember I was lil mehow back then.lol) and as I sat down she tried to tease me I sat her down and I teased her and my takeaways were just calibrated.....he customer frame was gone and ran nlp pattern after sex. I did have one of the most awesome sex with her, her name was ,LACEY. I also remebered I anchored "Bunny" feeling so everytime I called her she say "OH Bunny!" and her whole mood changed. Interesting.triggered something and did something I wasnt even aware of.
She at times would call me just to hook up but I was soo LSE and not in the right mindset that I came off LOSER.
Couldnt recover from that. young awesome girl, very ambitious, gorgoeus body great fuck not GF material but great girl.
OK So as I was about to look up the magicains choice print out, I saw my brother had porno in his computer.
I do recommend porno and masturbation when you are getting over a breakup. awaken told me to do that , even though I get a feeeling her does that alot anyways.lol
but when you are going through a breakup, I like the ideas of hobbies, keeping your mind busy, playing video games you really like as a child,mine is nba w micheal jordan or glen rice in miami heat so I become them.
plus workout, I cant say that gym and a trainer have been one of the best things to come in my life.Im losing weight and per entopry, Im improving my passive value....which will be easier in other aspects and health.
recomendations are by micheal braoder, and franco's chapter of oneitis and keeping your game healthy and steady.
I leanred never abandone your game, ever. its best thing you have that can create opportunbtiy for you.
once you get good with women, some techniques come as obvious or even too try hard...
you dont even have to masturbate to think about sex, you can get sex and sex is good. the challenge of going out or getting a date and you at the end of the night closing the deal or get her soo into you...for me is satifying that hunger, instead of masturbating.
masturbating isnt good, people say its harmless but Its like weed. too much or its use slows you down and affects your sex drive and hunting mechanism.
like saffrom said once, use your sexuality at the later stage aka when you are fucking her. in bdsm more dominant you are in bed as you calibrate to move forward towards her dark sexual desires more she will be dependent on you to bring thouse emotions to provide her...only you can.
summary:
Pornography is good as educational tool, like showtime light porn with drama behind it, it will show yu how to dramatize your bodylanguage and aggressive escalation for sex, you wont learn that by reading. Alos recomend many nina hartley dvd on sex and arrousing. she has great foreplay techniques thatI have to review, she gives a great presentation about female psycololgy at the beginning of them which can serve you as a frame to set or a pattern to convey you are an insider or secret society of tyler durden talks about.exclusive guy with all access.....also the squirting 101,stepahne has one, tiget tantra which the massage is for when she has LMR and want to arrouse her of course not blantly saying its sexual purposes but with that hidden intention she wont be able to handle the urge and give in to the pleasure of what her body wants.
Pornography is for enternatinment put not for masturbation unless its at a fertility clinic.
Pornography is addicting and creates pyschopathology, which excludes you from society and lead you to social awkwardness if you deopend in masturbating.
Its different for a girl btw.
but if you feel like doing that, then that should push yourself to go out and try to meet a girl and close her or set a date and be proactive instead of a "quick" solution, no pun intended.
if testarone levels are up confidence is up, your mental state should be away from personal day issues if not re read franco chapter on inner state and badboys chapter on negativity.
I beleive badboys stuff is advanced but his opener and bodylanguage taught isnt effective, topos material is upfront start effective and its FAR MORE advanced that what I have ever seen in my life, ofcourse it has to be calibrated and controled.
badboys on wide deep rapport is gold and inner game and goodies I already posted here.
the importance of talking to strangers to warm up
not wanting anything just talking to get social vibe.
keep you warmed up and ready for any opportunity.
oneitis is differne tsubject its like overthinking about something and obsessing over something that doesnt even exists or that isnt realistically going to happen.
ALWAYS BE PROACTIVE in your pickups without being pushy
Magicians choice and equivocation its one of the keys to having the upper hand in leading. DOnt overdo any reading its just for you to know.being calibrated or aware of social interaction, who dominates?
MASTURBATION OR PORNO BECOMES OBSOLETE WHEN YOU ARE FUCKING CHICKS.PERIOD.
as I was modelling sinn: he doesnt look at porn, its important how you use your energy to far more important things.
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