To Flirt or to "Tease"

to Flirt or to "Tease"
by sandros
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I remember guys would tell me:
"hey man you need to tease her"
"treat her like a little sister and tease her, that will turn her on"

I was like WTF??

I had been married before and had previous GF/Fb whatever you want to call it.
But I was like Why would I tease her and how?

"Tease her, like a little sister, Neg her and make fun of her, She will like you"

Seriously dudes,
After I goten more anti pua than anything is the whole misconcept of "tease" meaning.

I FLIRT, I dont "tease"...verbally that is.

why cause in my own experience, you dont want ot come off weird try hard or asshole. I mean if you like her and hey, she is cool then fine.

but when guys come from the need to "tease" her, in the wrong moment, wrong context...that really messes you up BIG TIME.

So for me Its Flirting , not teasing.

If its on and things are going well then I dont think its necessary to sabotage yourself by "negging" or "teasing her".Comes off insecure.

I say have fun and flirt. If you want to tease, the by all means physically tease her