Day Game Model – Part 3

This is part three in my series of day game articles. For part one click here, and for part two click here.

Over the past two articles I’ve broken down my direct day game into a simple model and explained the various steps. Today I’m just going to recap the steps and post a sample conversation that shows the flow of how the set should go.

Direct Opener – “Excuse me, I know this is like totally crazy but I thought you were cute and I wanted to meet you. I’m Doc.”

Transition With a Cold Read – “You know, you really have this west coast vibe.”

Fluff Talk – Make small talk about where she’s from

Qualification Question – “What do you do when you’re not HERE?”

Grounding Story – A comfort story that DHVs you. Should be about what you do and WHY you do it.

Second Qualification Question* – “So like what do you really like to do, like what are you passionate about.”

Number Close – “I gotta get going but you seem cool. We should exchange numbers and maybe we’ll grab a coffee sometime or whatever.”

This is the transcript of a set I recorded like six months ago that I found on my old computer.

PUA: Hey, I know this is random but I thought you were cute and wanted to come meet you. I’m Day Game PUA
Girl: Hi, I’m Girl
PUA: You know, you really have like this West Coast vibe
Girl: Really? Why?
PUA: Just like your style and the way you carry yourself. You don’t seem like you’re from here.
Girl: Yeah I just moved here for school.
PUA: Oh awesome. Where are you from?
Girl: I grew up in New Jersey.
PUA: Well I’m sorry to hear that…
Girl: Hey! New Jersey isn’t bad.
PUA: Yeah, My New Haircut just gives you guys a bad rep. What kind of art do you make? (She had black shit on hands from a grease pencil)
Girl: I mostly paint but how did you know that?
PUA: The grease pencil on your hands. I used to draw a lot.
Girl: Yeah, I’m at Mass Art and since it’s my first year I have to sort of try everything. Are you in school?
PUA: No. I work for a filmmaker.
Girl: Oh, wow, that’s awesome. What do you like do for him?
PUA: Mostly post production stuff. It’s actually really kinda like a dream job because I’ve just always loved movies so much. Like when I was a kid I’d draw pictures and tape them to my TV and make my mom and her girlfriend watch “my movies.”
Girl: That’s cool.
PUA: Yeah. Have you always been into art?
Girl: Pretty much, for as long as I can remember I was painting anywhere I could.
PUA: That’s awesome…
Girl: Yeah…
PUA: You know I actually gotta meet some friends soon but you seem cool. we should exchange numbers and if we like each other on the phone maybe we’ll hangout sometime.
Girl: Sure.

If you look at the flow of the conversation it looks like just a friendly normal conversation but if you really pay attention to it you can see how it’s basically just cycles of qualification and comfort.

I’ll be posting another day game article in a few days.