cognitive dissonance and needyness and persistance

[QUOTE=TequilaMan;5281]Player;



Our society has NOT taught us how to enjoy sexual relationships, this includes simple healthy relationships, that are fulfilling.[/QUOTE]





Society. OK.Jesse has great articles on harem.Id say the BEST in the WORLD is Jesse.Here is the thing,not everyone can have harem or enjoy relationships.yeah you are right, society rules.

but you have to see past that to get what you want.BY NOT directly exposing you are breaking society rules but being the selected few who know you things work behind the scenes.





[QUOTE=TequilaMan;5281]Yeah, a womans' emotions will confuse a man. I believe the emotions, in a woman, are due to, at how our society tells women about NOT being a slut. [/QUOTE]

If you bring that out she will feel like a slut, she will resist you.I can handle that one on one face to face but over text phone its hard to convey important escalation triggers to overide her logic.

Ive attracted and push pull through text but sometimes the girl may think you are just another guy and she wont comply.

THATS the truth of the GAME.



[QUOTE=TequilaMan;5281]A man NEEDS to be persistent. It's too easy for a woman to ignore a man if he just calls her on the phone uses e-mail and text messages.



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Honestly, I never had to work that hard, I admit I got insulted and even told to

"buy an airplane ticket to see me instead of paying a hooker"

And I had to frame control her with



"look baby , I dont need to pay,sex is readily avaiable here in this city,its not a big of a deal to me...but I rather see for who a person is... I admit I am curious something about you, your personality, but tell me why would I be interested in a girl like you? I mean ,What makes you different and valuable than all other pretty faces out there?"



I know I know, if she ignores I used to move on fast too.

Im experimenting and push myself when sets are half blown.Im good at that stuff.I just been too disapointed by begging for a womans attention in the past so its scary to do that and chase cause sometimes you chase hard and she feels good but rewarding bad behavior. it goes against cognitive dissonance.

you being categorized as provider...



Reinforces the uses of that stupid book THE RULES to get men to chase them.



“When women go wrong, men go right after them.” - MAE WEST







""He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged." Ben Frankiln effect.